Xa sicinga ngomhlaza, sihlala sicinga ngomntu omdala. Kodwa ubusazi na ukuba umhlaza sisifo esingazi budala? Namhlanje ndiza kukuxelela ibali lomntu owathi ngequbuliso, esemncinci, wajongana nomhlaza wamathumbu waza woyisa loo mngeni. Eli asilobali nje, sisifundo esisifundisa lukhulu ngobomi, ngempilo, nangoogqirha.
Umlinganiswa ophambili kweli bali uneminyaka eli-16 ubudala. Ngokuchanekileyo, ufunyaniswa enomhlaza wamathumbu emva kweentsuku ezisi-8 emva kokugqiba iminyaka eli-16 ubudala.
Indlela okwaqala ngayo konke oku
Kwakungowe-1987. Ngenye imini, waphawula ukuba kukho amabala egazi kwimpahla yakhe yangaphantsi. Le yayiyinto engaqhelekanga neyoyikisayo kumntwana ofunda esikolweni. Kamva, ngelixa wayehlamba impahla, nonina wayibona loo nto. Ngaphandle kokulibazisa, unina wamthatha esikolweni waza waya ngqo kugqirha. Ugqirha wabathumela esibhedlele ngoko nangoko ukuze bavavanywe.
Iindaba ezafika emva kokuba iziphumo zovavanyo zibuyile zazimbi kakhulu. Oogqirha baxelele abazali bakhe ukuba nangona ene-radiation kunye ne-chemotherapy, wayengenakuphila emva kweKrisimesi. Oko kwakuza kuthatha iinyanga ezintathu. Kodwa phakathi kwayo yonke loo nto, ngomhla wama-21 kuSeptemba, wenza utyando. Lwaluthatha iiyure ezili-12. Okumangalisayo kukuba, wavuswa ngexesha lotyando! Oogqirha basusa ithumba ekupheleni kwekholoni yakhe. Kodwa okumangalisayo kukuba, iiseli zomhlaza azizange zisasazeke kwezinye iindawo zomzimba wakhe, njengoko babelindele.
Xa iziphumo zovavanyo ezintsha zabuya emva kotyando, iziphumo zazahluke ngokupheleleyo. Oogqirha bathi akadingi nyango lwe-radiation okanye i-chemotherapy kuba umhlaza oseleyo wawunyamalele. Ukususela ngaloo mini, waziwa ngokuba yi-"Miracle Kid."
Ziziphi iimpawu ezilumkisayo zomhlaza wamathumbu amakhulu?
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka siyifunde kweli bali kukungawunaki umqondiso onikwa ngumzimba wethu. Uphawu lokuqala esilubonileyo kweli bali yayiligazi esitulweni. Kukho ezinye iimpawu ezifana nale. Masibone ukuba zithini.
Kubalulekile: Ukuba unenye okanye ngaphezulu kwezi mpawu, akuthethi ukuba unomhlaza. Isenokuba yenye imeko, efana ne-hemorrhoids. Nangona kunjalo, ungaze uyityeshele le mpawu. Bona ugqirha wakho ngokukhawuleza ukuze ufumane ingcebiso.
| Uphawu | Ingcaciso elula |
|---|---|
| Utshintsho kwimikhwa yamathumbu | Urhudo oluhlala luhleli, ukuqhina, okanye ukutshintsha kwendlela ehlala ihleli ngayo indle. |
| Igazi esitulweni | Indle emnyama okanye indle enemigca yegazi (le yayiluphawu oluphambili ebalini). |
| Intlungu yesisu okanye ukungakhululeki | Ukungakhululeki okungapheliyo njengokuqunjelwa, iintlungu zesisu, kunye nokuziva ugcwele. |
| Ukunciphisa umzimba ngaphandle kwesizathu | Ukunciphisa umzimba ngendlela engaqhelekanga ngaphandle kokunciphisa ukutya okanye ukuzilolonga. |
| Ukudinwa rhoqo | Ukudinwa kakhulu kunye nobuthathaka obungapheliyo nokuba uphumle. |
Utyando lweColostomy kunye nobomi obutsha
Ngenxa yokuba umhlaza wawukufutshane ne-rectum, wonakalisa izihlunu kuloo ndawo. Ngenxa yoko, oogqirha kwafuneka benze utyando olubizwa ngokuba yi-colostomy .
Yintoni le colostomy?
Ngamafutshane, oku kuquka ukususa inxalenye yamathumbu amakhulu nokwenza umngxuma owahlukileyo esiswini (esiswini) ukuze isitulo sidlule. Ibhegi ekhethekileyo incamatheliswe kulo mngxuma ukuze kuqokelelwe isitulo. Abantu abaninzi bayoyika xa besiva ngale nto. Bacinga, "Owu, ndingaphila ngolo hlobo?"
Lowo yayingumbuzo omkhulu owawubuzwa yinkwenkwe ekweli bali emva kotyando. "Ngaba ndiya kuze ndimfumane umntu ondithanda ngolu hlobo? Ngaba ndiya kuze ndidibane nomntu ofuna ukuba nabantwana nam?" Ezi yayizizoyikiso ezinkulu engqondweni yakhe.
Ekuhambeni kwexesha, waqonda ukuba abanye abantu bacinga kakhulu ngale meko, kodwa kwabanye ayiyongxaki konke konke. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uphile ubomi obuqhelekileyo nobonwabisayo bentsapho xa unesi sifo . Konke okufunekayo kukuqonda nothando.
Isifundo esikhulu esinokusifunda kweli bali kukuba
Le yingcebiso enikwa ngumntu wonke ngumntu obalisa eli bali.
"Nceda unyamekele umzimba wakho kakuhle. Ungakwenza oko kungekuphela nje ngokutya ukutya okunempilo nokuphepha ukutshaya, kodwa nangokubona ugqirha wakho rhoqo . Ngokuya rhoqo, unethuba lokufumana naziphi na iingxaki kwangethuba, ngaphambi kokuba zibe nkulu."
Kutshanje, emva kweminyaka emininzi, uye waya kubona ugqirha ofanayo owayemtyandile. Ukuze aqinisekise ukuba yonke into ilungile, wenze iimvavanyo ezithile. Iziphumo ziyabonakala. Impilo yakhe intle kakhulu! Akukho nto ifanele ikhathazeke ngayo. Kodwa uyazi ukuba kufuneka aqhubeke nolu vavanyo.
Ukwaxelele ugqirha, "Emva kokuba uthathe umhlala-phantsi, kufuneka ndifumane omnye ugqirha endinokumthemba kwaye ndithembele kuye!"
Ngaphambi kokuba agqibezele eli bali, uthi into efana nale: "Enkosi, Gqirha, ngayo yonke into. Ngokundinika ithuba lokonwabela ubomi. Awusoze wazi ukuba ndikutyala malini."
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Mamela umzimba wakho: Ungaze ungazihoyi iimpawu ezingaqhelekanga ezifana negazi elisesitulweni sakho, iintlungu zesisu, okanye ukwehla kobunzima ngendlela engachazekiyo.
- Funa ingcebiso kagqirha ngoko nangoko: Ukuba unamathandabuzo malunga naluphi na uphawu, bonana nogqirha wakho ngoko nangoko, endaweni yokukhangela kwi-intanethi. Ukufunyanwa kwangoko kwenza unyango lube lula kakhulu.
- Ukuhlolwa rhoqo kwempilo: Nokuba awunazo naziphi na iingxaki zempilo, kubalulekile ukuba uhlolwe rhoqo ngokwezonyango njengoko ukhula. Lutyalo-mali olwenzayo kuwe.
- Musa ukuphelelwa lithemba ngobomi: Imeko efana nomhlaza okanye i-colostomy ayisosiphelo sobomi. Ngonyango olufanelekileyo kunye nengqondo eqinileyo, ungaphila ubomi obuqhelekileyo nobonwabisayo.
- Ugqirha othembekileyo: Ukuba nogqirha onokuthetha naye ngokukhululekileyo nokumthemba yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo oza kuba nazo kuhambo lwakho lwempilo.
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