Momma yɛnhwɛ sɛnea wobɛma wo ba a wadi mfe 4-5 no nkitahodi ho nimdeɛ atu mpɔn.

Yɛn mmofra nkumaa a yɛne wɔn bɛkasa, kyerɛ sɛ, yɛne wɔn sesa wɔn adwene no yɛ biribi a ɛma yenya anigye kɛse ne abotɔyam kɛse sɛ awofo, ɛnte saa? Nokwarem no, mmofra sua nneɛma pii fi saa da biara da nkɔmmɔ a wɔne yɛn ne wiase a atwa wɔn ho ahyia no bɔ yi mu, fi osuahu ahorow a wɔanya mu. Wɔ mfe anan kosi anum ntam, kyerɛ sɛ, sɛ wɔanyinyin kakra a, mmofra pii fi ase kɔ mmofra a wonnya nkɔɔ sukuu anaa mmofra sukuu adesua. Enti ɛhɔ no, wɔn kasa ho nimdeɛ, kyerɛ sɛ, ɔkwan a wɔfa so di nkitaho no, bɛyɛ nea ɛho hia yiye sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ a wɔne afoforo a wɔwɔ adesuakuw no mu bɛyɛ adwuma na wɔasua nneɛma foforo.

Ɔkwan bɛn so na mmofra a wɔadi mfe 4-5 kasa?

So wunim sɛ bere a mmofra kasa ho nimdeɛ kɔ anim nkakrankakra no, ɔkwan a wɔfa so kasa no nso nya nkɔso fɛfɛɛfɛ. Sɛ yɛbɛka no pɛpɛɛpɛ a, ebedu mfe anan anaa anum a, wobetumi ate akwankyerɛ a ɛte sɛ nea ɛyɛ den kakra ma mmofra nkumaa mpo, te sɛ "hyɛ wo mpaboa na fa wo bag bra" ase na wɔadi ho dwuma wɔ ɔkwan koro no ara so. Ɛnyɛ ɛno nko, na mmom wobetumi de anigye kɛse aka biribiara a wɔayɛ, wɔaka, ne nea wɔahu da mũ no nyinaa nso akyerɛ wo. Susuw anigye a wunya bere a wofi sukuu ba fie na wɔka sɛ, "Maame, ɔkyerɛkyerɛfo no maa me nsoromma pii nnɛ!"!

Wɔ saa mfe yi mu no, wɔn ankasa tumi susuw nsɛm nketenkete ho. Ebia ntease nni saa nsɛm no mu kɛse, nanso ɛyɛ wiase ahorow a wobetumi ayɛ ho mfonini wɔ wɔn adwene mu. Afei nso, wɔn ho akokwaw sɛ wotie asɛm bi a woka kyerɛ wɔn na wɔsan ka no wɔ wɔn ankasa nsɛm mu. Sɛ yɛtaa bisa sɛ, "Dɛn na ɛba akyi, ɔba?" wɔ asɛm bi mu no, wobetumi nso aka sɛ, "Afei ɔheneba no bae..."

Nsɛmfua ne kasamu ahorow no te dɛn?

Saa bere yi, wofi ase de nsɛmfua anan anaa nea ɛboro saa di dwuma wɔ wɔn kasamu mu. Sɛ nhwɛso no, "Papa, mepɛ saa agode no." Wɔn nsɛmfua, anaa nsɛmfua dodow a wonim no kɔ so nya nkɔanim. Wɔfa nsɛmfua foforo a woka no ntɛmntɛm paa.

Mpɛn pii no, ɛsɛ sɛ yetumi te nea abofra ka wɔ saa mfe yi mu no ase yiye . Nanso, ɛtɔ mmere bi a, nneɛma nketenkete betumi aba. Ɛne sɛ, wobetumi ahu mfomso ahorow bi a ɛba wɔ nkɔso mu. Sɛ nhwɛso no, ebia wɔremmɔ nkyerɛwde bi yiye, na wɔbɛte nnyigyei te sɛ ‘த’ sen sɛ wɔbɛte nkyerɛwde ‘ஸ’ (lisping). Afei nso, mmofra binom, titiriw mmarimaa, betumi akasa kakra wɔ saa bere yi mu. Saa nneɛma yi mu dodow no ara befi hɔ ankasa bere a bere kɔ so no . Nanso sɛ ɛhaw wo ankasa a, ɛbɛyɛ papa sɛ wo ne oduruyɛfo bɛkasa afa ho.

Dɛn na metumi ayɛ na ama me ba no nkɔmmɔbɔ ho nimdeɛ atu mpɔn?

Nneɛma pii wɔ hɔ a wubetumi ayɛ de aboa wo ba ma wanya kasa ho nimdeɛ. Nokwarem no, wo ne wɔn kyerɛkyerɛfo a odi kan. Nneɛma a ɛnyɛ den te sɛ nhoma a wɔkenkan, nnwom a wɔbom to, nsɛmfua a wɔde bedi agoru, nsɛm a ɛnyɛ den a wobebisa wɔn, ne wɔn a wɔbɛkasa daa no betumi aboa wɔn kɛse ma wɔatrɛw wɔn nsɛmfua mu na wɔanya atie ho nimdeɛ mu. Akwan foforo a wubetumi afa so aboa ni:

• Ka da no mu nsɛm a esisii ho asɛm: Sɛ wo ba fi preschool ba fie, anaasɛ sɛ ofi agodie mu ba fie a, bisa wɔn nneɛma te sɛ, "Dɛn na esii nnɛ, ɔbabarima/ɔbabea?", "Hena na ɔbɛyɛɛ w'adamfo paa nnɛ?", "Nneɛma foforo bɛn na wusuae nnɛ?" Fa boasetɔ ne anigye tie nea wɔka. Ka wo da no ho nsɛm nketenkete kyerɛ wɔn. Sɛ nhwɛso no, "Ɛnnɛ, maame yɛɛ wo aduan a w'ani gye ho paa." Eyi bɛboa wɔn ma wɔate sɛnea ɛsom bo sɛ wɔbɛka wɔn suahu ne wɔn nkate akyerɛ afoforo, ne sɛnea ɛyɛ ade a ɛfata no ase.

• Tie nea wo ba no ka no yiye: Eyi ho hia paa. Bere biara a ɛbɛyɛ yiye no, sɛ wo ba no ba bɛka biribi akyerɛ wo a, gyae nea woreyɛ no, hwɛ no, na tie nea ɔreka no yiye. Eyi bɛma wahu sɛ woretie no na nea ɔka no som bo ma wo. Eyi bɛma wapɛ sɛ ɔka pii kyerɛ wo na ɔka pii kyerɛ wo.

• Ka nhoma a mobom kenkan ho asɛm: Sɛ mokenkan nhoma bi wie a, bisa nsɛm te sɛ, "Hena ne nipa a w'ani gye ho paa wɔ asɛm no mu?", "Dɛn na wususuw sɛ ɛbɛba akyi?", "Dɛn na yesua fii saa asɛm yi mu?" Ka mfonini ahorow a ɛwɔ asɛm no mu ho asɛm. Ka nneɛma te sɛ, "Hwɛ eyi, bunny no yɛ fɛ dɛn?", "Kɔla bɛn na saa nhwiren no yɛ?" Eyi bɛboa wɔn ma wɔate asɛm no ase yiye, asua nsɛmfua foforo, na wɔanya wɔn nsusuwii ho nimdeɛ.

• Ka TV so dwumadi, video, ne agodie a mobom hwɛ ho asɛm: Sɛ wo ne wo ba rehwɛ cartoon anaa video a ɛkyerɛkyerɛ wɔ TV so a, ka nea ɛrekɔ so ho asɛm. Bisa nneɛma te sɛ, "Dɛn na ɔreyɛ?" na "Wo nso wobɛpɛ sɛ woyɛ saa?" Afei nso, sɛ woredi agoru, sɛ nhwɛso no, bere a woretow bɔɔl a, ka ho asɛm sɛ, "Hena na ɛyɛ mprempren?" na "Dɛn na yɛreyɛ mprempren?" Eyi boa wɔn ma wosua sɛnea wɔde nea wohu ne nea wɔyɛ no bɛka nsɛm mu, na wɔaka no wɔ ɔkwan a afoforo betumi ate ase so.

• Ma akenkan nneɛma te sɛ nhoma ne nsɛmma nhoma kɔ so wɔ baabi a ɛnyɛ den sɛ mmofra betumi anya: Fa nhomakorabea anaa adaka fɛfɛ bi si hɔ a wobetumi akɔfa na wɔadannan mu. Paw nhoma ahorow a mfonini akɛse a ɛyɛ kɔla ahorow wom a wɔn ani gye ho. Saa kwan no so no, wɔbɛte nka sɛ wɔbɛfa nhoma na wɔakenkan bere biara a wɔpɛ. Eyi yɛ ɔkwan pa a wɔfa so de akenkan ho dɔ dua obi fi mmofraase.

• Boa wo ba no ma ɔnyɛ album te sɛ "Me ne me" anaa "Eyi ne yɛn abusua": Yɛ album fɛfɛ denam abusua mufo mfonini, mmoa ne agode mfonini a wo ba no ani gye ho, akyɛde nketewa a wanya, ne mfonini ahorow a watwe a wode bɛbata ho no so. Wo ne no nkasa fa mfonini biara ho. Nsɛmmisa te sɛ "Hena ne oyi?", "Wokae baabi a yɛkɔɔ saa da no?", "Bere bɛn na wotwee eyi?" ma no hokwan pa ma ɔkae nneɛma dedaw a ɔkae na ɔka ho asɛm. Eyi bɛma ne nkae ne tumi a ɔde bɛka nsɛm a atwam nnidiso nnidiso atu mpɔn.

Susuw ho hwɛ, eyi nyinaa a wobɛyɛ no te sɛ afifide ketewaa bi a wogugu so nsu na wohwɛ no. Ɛyɛ saa nsa nketewa a ɛboa yi na ɛma ne nkɔmmɔbɔ no yɛ frɔmfrɔm fɛfɛɛfɛ.

Bere bɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ mekɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn?

Mpɛn pii no, ebia nneɛma nketenkete ho haw yɛn a ntease biara nnim. Nanso, sɛ wowɔ adwenem naayɛ, ehu, anaa dadwen bi wɔ wo ba no kasa ho nimdeɛ anaa nea ɔreka no mu da hɔ ho a, ɛbɛyɛ papa sɛ wo ne oduruyɛfo bɛkasa afa ho. Ɛtɔ da bi a, ebia ɛnyɛ asɛm kɛse, nanso sɛ wuhu ho asɛm a, ebetumi aboa wo ma wo ho atɔ wo.

Mpɛn pii no, mfe dodow bi wɔ hɔ a abofra betumi de ayɛ nneɛma bi bere a ɔrenyin no. Yɛfrɛ eyinom nkɔso mu nsɛntitiriw. Nsɛntitiriw a ɛte saa ara wɔ hɔ bere a ɛfa ɔkasa ho no.

Edu bɛyɛ mfe 4 a, ɛsɛ sɛ mmofra dodow no ara tumi yɛ saa nneɛma yi:

• Ka kasamu a nsɛmfua anan anaa nea ɛboro saa wom. Sɛ nhwɛso no, "Maame, ɔkɔm de me na mepɛ aburow," anaa "Papa, yebetumi akɔ agoru?"
• Tia nsɛmfua ne nsɛmfua a efi dwom anaa asɛm bi mu. Ɛsɛ sɛ otumi ka dwom tiawa anaa nkyekyem bi a efi mmofra nnwom a woto mu.
• Anyɛ yiye koraa no, ka ade biako a esii awiabere ho asɛm. Sɛ nhwɛso no, "Mehwee ase bere a na meredi agoru nnɛ," anaa "Ɔkyerɛkyerɛfo no kaa asɛm fɛfɛ bi kyerɛɛ me nnɛ."

Edu bɛyɛ mfe 5 a, ɛsɛ sɛ mmofra dodow no ara tumi yɛ saa nneɛma yi:

• Ka asɛm tiawa bi a anyɛ yiye koraa no nsɛm abien a esisii ka ho. Sɛ nhwɛso no, "Mesɔree anɔpa yi. Afei mehohoroo me sẽ," anaa "Akokoaa no kɔɔ abɔnten so. Afei metraa swing no so."
• Bua nsɛmmisa a ɛnyɛ den a ɛfa nhoma anaa asɛm bi ho, te sɛ "Kɔla bɛn na na ɔkraman no wɔ asɛm no mu?" na "Ɛhe na ɔhemmaa no kɔɔ?"
• Anyɛ yiye koraa no, nya nsakrae abiɛsa anaa anan akyi ne akyi. Eyi kyerɛ sɛ, sɛ wubisa biribi a, wubua, na ebia wobebisa wo asɛm bi. Wɔn ani gye ho kɛse sɛ wɔbɛtoa nkɔmmɔbɔ no so sen sɛ wɔde asɛmfua biako bɛma mmuae kɛkɛ.
• Tutumi de nsɛmfua a ɛnyɛ den di dwuma na wohu. S nhw so no, wotumi hu nsmfua a nne nne te s ‘bat-cat’, te s ‘cat - table’, ‘house - door’, na wotumi hu.

Mmara biara nni hɔ a ɛkyerɛ sɛ saa nneɛma yi nyinaa bɛto abofra biara wɔ ɔkwan koro so anaa bere koro mu. Mmofra binom yɛ saa nneɛma yi ntɛmntɛm kakra, na ebinom nso gye bere kakra. Ɛno yɛ ade a ɛfata. Nanso, sɛ wususuw sɛ wo ba no aka akyi wɔ saa nneɛma yi pii mu, anaasɛ ɛyɛ den ma wo anaa afoforo sɛ wɔbɛte nea ɔreka no ase pefee a, ɛnde ɛho hia sɛ wo ne oduruyɛfo kasa fa ho.

Afei nso, sɛ wususuw sɛ wo ba no wɔ aso mu haw , sɛ nhwɛso no, sɛ worekasa a wanhwɛ n’akyi, sɛ wɔma TV no yɛ den dodo, anaasɛ biribi foforo bi wɔ wo ba no ho a ɛne nneɛma yi mu biara nni abusuabɔ na ɛrehaw wo a, akyinnye biara nni ho sɛ kɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn.

Kae sɛ, sɛ w’adwene mu yɛ wo naa, ketewaa bi mpo a, nyansa wom sɛ wobɛkɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn. Ɛbɛbrɛ w’adesoa no ase kɛkɛ.

Awiei koraa no, nneɛma kakraa bi a ɛsɛ sɛ wokae

Enti, wɔ saa akwantuo a ɛbɛma wo ba a wadi mfeɛ nnan anaa anum kasa anya nkɔsoɔ yi mu no, wo dɔ, wo boasetɔ, ne nkuranhyɛ ne nkɔsoɔ kɛseɛ a ɔbɛnya. Wo ne no di agoru, wo ne no serew, wo ne no nkasa, tie nea ɔka no yiye. Kamfo no bere a ɔka asɛmfua foforo, hyehyɛ asɛm ketewaa bi, na ɔka no.

Ɛnyɛ mmofra nyinaa na wɔyɛ pɛ, na ɛsono sɛnea wosua ade. Enti mfa wo ba ntoto mmofra afoforo ho. Saa a wobɛyɛ no bɛma wo ho ayɛ wo yaw kɛkɛ, na ɛrenyɛ papa mma wo ba no. Ma wonnya nkɔso wɔ wɔn ankasa ahoɔhare so, wɔ wɔn ankasa kwan so.

Sɛ wowɔ ɔhaw anaa adwenem naayɛ bi a, ntwentwɛn wo nan ase da sɛ wobɛhwehwɛ aduruyɛ mu afotu. Ɛyɛ w’asɛyɛde.

Wubetumi de nsɛm ama wo ba kumaa no wiase ayɛ fɛ, na woaboa no ma wɔada nneɛma apem adi wɔ wɔn adwene mu! Yɛma wo akwaaba wɔ saa asɛm no ho!

` Mmofra kasa, kasa mu nkɔso, mmofra a wɔadi mfe 4-5, mmofra a wonnya nkɔɔ sukuu, awofo ho afotu, nkitahodi ho nimdeɛ, mmofra nkɔso