So ɛyɛ den sɛ wubedi abofra so nkonim? Momma yɛnka Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) ho asɛm .

Ɛwom mpo sɛ wodɔ wo ba paa de, nanso ɛtɔ mmere bi a wususuw ho sɛ ebia wo ba no bɛsan de saa ɔdɔ ne ɔdɔ no ama wo anaa? Sɛ worekɔyɛ no atuu a, so wo ba twe ne ho? So wote nka sɛ ɛyɛ den ma wo sɛ wobɛte nea ɛrekɔ so wɔ n’adwene mu no ase? Ɛbɛyɛ sɛ wote awerɛhow ne dadwen nka esiane nneɛma a ɛte sɛɛ nti. Ɛyɛ osuahu a emu yɛ den yiye ankasa. Ɛnnɛ yɛreka tebea a ɛte saa ho asɛm. Yɛfrɛ eyi Reactive Attachment Disorder, anaa (RAD) tiawa. Eyi yɛ ɔhaw a ɛfa nkate mu abusuabɔ a ɛda abofra ne onipa a ɔhwɛ no titiriw (ɛna, agya anaa ɔhwɛfo) ntam no ho. Momma yɛnka eyi ho asɛm nkɔ akyiri.

Sɛ yɛbɛka no tiawa a, dɛn ne Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)?

Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) yɛ tebea a abofra nnya nkate mu abusuabɔ pa ne wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn titiriw (yɛfrɛ wɔn `ahwɛfo`). Mpɛn pii no, nea ɛde eyi ba titiriw ne mmofraase, wɔ nkokoaabere mu, bere a wobu ani gu abofra no so wɔ nkate fam anaasɛ wɔyɛ no ayayade wɔ ɔkwan bi so no.

Ɛyɛ den ma mmofra a wɔwɔ saa tebea yi sɛ wɔbɛhyehyɛ wɔn nkate horow na wɔadi ho dwuma . Wɔpere nso sɛ wɔne afoforo benya abusuabɔ a ntease wom na emu dɔ. Mmofra a wɔwɔ RAD ntaa nhwehwɛ awerɛkyekye anaasɛ wɔnda awerɛkyekye ho sɛnkyerɛnne adi. Ɛtɔ mmere bi a, ɛmfa ho sɛnea wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn no da ɔdɔ ne ayamye adi no, yebetumi ahu sɛ abofra no suro wɔn anaasɛ ne ho yeraw no.

Hena na tebea yi ka no kɛse?

Wɔtaa hu saa tebea yi wɔ mmofra a wɔabu wɔn ani agu wɔn so anaa wɔayɛ wɔn ayayade wɔ honam fam anaa nkate fam no mu. Nanso, ɛtɔ mmere bi a mmofra a wɔanyinyin nso betumi anya RAD. Abofra bi wɔ asiane kɛse mu sɛ obenya RAD sɛ:

• Nsakrae a wɔtaa yɛ wɔ ɔhwɛ mu: Susuw eyi ho: Wɔde mmofra binom gu tebea horow a wɔhwɛ mmofra a wɔagye wɔn atom mu. Sɛ wɔsakra mmeae bere nyinaa a, abofra no nnya hokwan ne onipa koro no ara nnya abusuabɔ a ɛtra hɔ daa.
• Tetetew a wɔbɛtew wɔn ho afi wɔn a wɔhwɛ abofra titiriw no ho: Sɛ abofra bi ne n’awofo anya nkate fam abusuabɔ pa, na afei ɛsɛ sɛ wɔtetew wɔn ho fi wɔn ho esiane biribi nti a, ebetumi ayɛ abofra no ahodwiriw kɛse.
• Nneɛma a ɛyɛ hu a wɔhwere wɔ mmofraase: Nsɛm a ɛyɛ hu pii te sɛ owu anaa adehwere kɛse a wubehyia wɔ n’asetra mfiase.
• Wɔn a wɔhwɛ abofra no a wɔnnbɛn wɔn ho wɔ nkate fam: Awofo anaa wɔn a wɔhwɛ abofra no binom mmɔ mmɔden sɛ wɔbɛbɛn abofra no wɔ nkate fam. Wɔnkyerɛ anigye sɛ wɔbɛte abofra no nkate ase anaasɛ wɔbɛkyekye ne werɛ.
• Asoɛe mu ntetee:Ebia mmofra a wɔrenyin wɔ ahyehyɛde ahorow te sɛ nyisaa atrae mu no rennya ɔhwɛfo biako a ɔwɔ ɔdɔ adwene.

Dɛn ne RAD ho sɛnkyerɛnne a ɛtaa ba?

Ebia abofra biara bɛda sɛnkyerɛnne soronko adi. Nanso, sɛnkyerɛnne ahorow bi wɔ hɔ a ɛtaa ba a wotumi hu wɔ nkokoaa ne mmofra nkumaa mu. Momma yɛnte eyinom ase yiye.

Nsonsonoe bɛn na ɛda RAD ne DSED ntam?

Tebea foforo bi wɔ hɔ a ɛne RAD wɔ abusuabɔ, nanso ɛsono no kakra. Wɔfrɛ no Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED). Ɛho hia sɛ yɛte nsonsonoe a ɛda abien no ntam no ase.

Dɛn na ɛde RAD tebea yi ba?

Biribiara nni hɔ a enti ɛyɛ nokware a enti ɛte saa. Nhwehwɛmu ahorow kyerɛ sɛ nneɛma pii nti na ebia abofra ne wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn no rennya abusuabɔ. Wɔn titiriw ne:

• Ayayade anaa anibiannaso: Abofra no te nka sɛ wɔagyaw no hɔ na ɔno nkutoo na ɔwɔ hɔ.
• Ahiade atitiriw a wonnya nni ho dwuma:Sɛ abofra nnya asetra mu ahiade atitiriw te sɛ aduan, ahotew, ne ahobammɔ a, onnya wiase no mu ahotoso.
• Ahobammɔ ho suro: Abofra no te nka bere nyinaa sɛ osuro sɛ wakɔ asiane mu.
• Ahotew a wonni: Nneɛma te sɛ abofra a ɔbɛtra mpaboa a ɛyɛ nsu mu nnɔnhwerew pii no betumi ama wate nka sɛ ne ho nyɛ no dɛ na wobu ani gu ne so.
• Ɔhwɛ a ɛnkɔ so daa: Ɛtɔ mmere bi pɛ na wodi abofra no ahiade ho dwuma. Abofra no hwere awerɛhyem biara sɛ ebia wɔbɛkyekye ne werɛ anaasɛ wɔbɛma no nea wohia.

Ɔkwan bɛn so na oduruyɛfo hu saa tebea yi?

Sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ na woahu RAD no, wo duruyɛfo bebisa wo wo ba no aduruyɛ ho abakɔsɛm ne ne sɛnkyerɛnne ahorow ho asɛm. Oduruyɛfo no betumi abisa nsɛm te sɛ:

• So wɔayɛ wo ba no ayayade anaa wɔabu ani agu so ɔkwan biara so?
• Bere bɛn na wudii kan huu saa sɛnkyerɛnne ahorow yi?
• Ɔkwan bɛn so na wo ne wo ba no ne mo ho mo ho di yiye?
• W’abusua asetra te sɛn ?
• So ahwɛfo afoforo wɔ hɔ a wɔne abofra no redi?

Sɛ oduruyɛfo no susuw sɛ RAD na egyina saa nsɛm yi so a, wobetumi de abofra no akɔma mmofra oduruyɛfo , adwene ne nneyɛe ho ɔbenfo, anaa adwenemyare ho oduruyɛfo ma wahu sɛnea ɔwɔ no yiye na wakamfo ayaresa a ɛfata akyerɛ no.

So wobetumi ayɛ RAD ne Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) no basabasa?

Yiw, ɛtɔ mmere bi a, tebea abien yi ho sɛnkyerɛnne betumi ayɛ pɛ wɔ anim. Enti, ansa na oduruyɛfo bi bɛka sɛ abofra bi wɔ RAD no, wɔbɛyɛ nhwehwɛmu ahwɛ sɛ tebea foforo biara nni hɔ, te sɛ Autism Spectrum Disorder ( ASD ) . Nsonsonoe titiriw ne sɛ ASD yɛ nkɔso tebea. Ɛnyɛ ayayade anaa anibiannaso na ɛde ba. Bere a RAD ne abofra bi mfiase osuahu ahorow wɔ abusuabɔ tẽẽ.

Dɛn ne ayaresa ahorow a wɔde sa RAD?

Botae titiriw a ɛwɔ RAD ayaresa mu ne sɛ ebesiesie abusuabɔ a ehu anaa emu yɛ den a ɛda abofra no ne nea ɔhwɛ no ntam no na ama nkate fam abusuabɔ pa aba. Saa ayaresa ahorow yi so ba abofra no ne nea ɔhwɛ no no nyinaa so mfaso.

Ɔkwan bɛn so na me, sɛ́ obi a ɔhwɛ me ba no, atumi aboa me ba?

Nea ɛka ayaresa ho no, sɛ́ obi a ɔhwɛ wo ba no, wubetumi ayɛ nneɛma pii na ama wo ne wo ba anya abusuabɔ pa.

1. Fa ahye a emu da hɔ si hɔ

Tebea a ɛkɔ so daa no so wɔ mfaso kɛse ma mmofra nyinaa. Enti, ahye a yɛde besi hɔ no ho hia paa. Bere a mmofra de anohyeto ahorow a ntease wom ne akwan a ɛfata a ɛnyɛ honam fam de nteɛso , nim nea wɔhwɛ kwan fi wɔn hɔ ne nea ɛbɛba sɛ wobu mmara no so a. Eyi ma mmofra suro so tew na ɛkanyan wɔn ma wɔyɛ wɔn ade sɛnea ɛfata.

2. Sɛ wo ba no nyɛ n’ade wɔ ɔkwan a ɛnteɛ so mpo a, wokɔ so yɛ komm.

Sɛ wo ba no nyɛ n’ade wɔ ɔkwan a ɛnteɛ so a, yɛ komm. Mma w’ade bere a wo bo afuw no. Teɛ wo ba no so sɛnea mmara a wo ne wo ba adi kan asusuw ho no te. Sɛ wo ba no bo dwo na wayɛ krado sɛ ɔbɛka wo ho bio ara pɛ a, kyerɛ ɔdɔ ne ɔhwɛ kyerɛ no. Eyi ma wo ba hu sɛ wowɔ hɔ ma no wɔ mmere a emu yɛ den mpo mu.

3. Ma ɔdɔ ne adwene pii

Gye bere ne wo ba no nkutoo. Wo ne no nkasa, to nnwom, wo ne no nni agoru. Yɛ no atuu, kura no mu. Nanso kae sɛ mmofra binom ani nnye honam fam nkitahodi a ɛte sɛɛ ho kɛse. Mfa ɔdɔ ne ɔdɔ a wobɛkae no nni dwuma sɛ asotwe bi da.

Bere bɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ mekɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn?

Sɛ wuhu sɛ ɛyɛ den ma wo ba sɛ obenya abusuabɔ a ɛfata , anaasɛ sɛ wo ba no wɔ RAD ho sɛnkyerɛnne a wɔaka ho asɛm wɔ asɛm yi mu no bi a, kɔ wo ba no oduruyɛfo nkyɛn ntɛm ara kɔhwehwɛ afotu. Dodow a wohu tebea yi ntɛm na wɔsa no, dodow no ara na hokwan a ɛwɔ hɔ sɛ wo ba no befi mu aba no yɛ kɛse.

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