So wo ba kumaa no te nka sɛ wɔnnɔ wo? Ebetumi ayɛ Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)!

Maame ne Paapa, so moahu anaa woate mmofra nkumaa bi a wɔnkyerɛ ɔdɔ anaa ɔdɔ biara nkyerɛ wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn, wɔn ankasa awofo mpo pɛn? Ɛte sɛ nea wɔn nkutoo na wɔwɔ wɔn ankasa wiase. Eyi yɛ tebea a ɛyɛ awerɛhow paa, na aduruyɛ mu nkyerɛkyerɛmu wɔ ho. Ɛnnɛ yɛreka tebea a ɛte saa biako ho asɛm, a wɔfrɛ no `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD).'

Dɛn ne `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Sɛ yɛbɛka no tiawa a, `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` yɛ tebea a abofra kumaa ntumi ne wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn te sɛ wɔn maame ne wɔn papa nnya nkate mu abusuabɔ pa. Nea enti titiriw a ɛte saa ne sɛ abofra no annya nkate fam ɔdɔ ne ahobammɔ a ɛfata wɔ ne mmofraase, anaasɛ wobuu wɔn ani guu no so anaa wɔyɛɛ no ​​ayayade. Mmofra a wɔwɔ `RAD` no yɛ den sɛ wobedi wɔn nkate so. Ɛsan yɛ den ma wɔn kɛse sɛ wɔne afoforo benya abusuabɔ a emu yɛ den. Nea ɛyɛ nwonwa no, ɛtɔ mmere bi a ɛwom sɛ wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn no wɔ ɔdɔ ne ayamye kɛse de, nanso ebia mmofra yi renbɛn wɔn mpo, na ɛbɛyɛ te sɛ nea ehu aka wɔn.

Hena na ɛda adi sɛ obenya `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Saa tebea yi taa ba mmofra nkumaa a wobu wɔn ani gu wɔn so anaa wɔyɛ wɔn ayayade wɔ honam fam anaa nkate fam no mu. Nanso, ebetumi aka mmofra a wɔanyinyin nso. Mmofra a asiane kɛse wom sɛ wobenya RAD ne:

• Wɔn a wɔhwɛ abofra pii: Fa no sɛ wɔatu abofra bi afi fie a wɔhwɛ mmofra mu akɔ foforo mu, anaasɛ wɔatu afi abusua a wɔhwɛ mmofra mu akɔ foforo mu, na ontumi ne obiara nnya abusuabɔ a ɛtra hɔ daa.
• Tetew a wɔtetew wɔn ho wɔ wɔn ho a wɔde bata wɔn ho akyi: Bere a abofra no ne nea ɔhwɛ wɔn titiriw no anya nkate fam abusuabɔ pa akyi no, ɛsɛ sɛ wɔtetew wɔn ho fi wɔn ho.
• Adehwere a ɛyɛ hu wɔ mmofraase: Sɛ abofra bi hu nneɛma akɛse pii anaa akwanside ahorow pii wɔ ne mmofraase a ontumi nnyina ano a.
• Awofo a wɔmmɔ mmɔden sɛ wɔbɛbɛn wɔn ba wɔ nkate fam: Awofo anaa wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn no binom mmɔ mmɔden biara sɛ wɔbɛbɛn wɔn ba wɔ nkate fam.
• Asoɛe: Sɛ ɛsɛ sɛ wunya bere wɔ beae te sɛ nyisaa atrae, a awofo dɔ nnim.

Ɛtɔ mmere bi a, awofo a wɔagye abofra no, a wonnim abofra no kan asetra ho nsɛm pii no betumi ayɛ den ama wɔn sɛ wɔne nea wɔde aka abusua no foforo no bɛbɔ. Titiriw sɛ abofra no wɔ nkate mu a entumi nnyina pintinn bi a. Sɛ woyɛ ɔwofo foforo, wo ba no reda `RAD` ho sɛnkyerɛnne adi, anaasɛ ɛyɛ den ma wo sɛ wo ne wo ba no bɛbɔ a, hwɛ hu sɛ wo ne wo ba no duruyɛfo bɛkasa na woakɔhwɛ eyi.

`Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` abu so dɛn?

Nokwarem no, ɛyɛ den sɛ yɛbɛka sɛnea eyi abu so ankasa, efisɛ wɔmmɔ nsɛm pii ho amanneɛ. Nanso, wobu akontaa sɛ mmofra 1% kosi 2% betumi anya RAD. Mmofra a woyi wɔn fi wɔn afie mu na wɔde wɔn kɔ mmeae afoforo te sɛ nyisaa atrae no taa nya RAD. Ɛyɛ den ma mmofra yi mu bɛyɛ fã sɛ wɔne afoforo benya abusuabɔ bere a bere kɔ so no.

Dɛn ne `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ho sɛnkyerɛnne?

RAD ho sɛnkyerɛnne betumi ayɛ soronko wɔ abofra biara mu, nanso sɛnkyerɛnne ahorow a wɔtaa hu wɔ nkokoaa ne mmofra nkumaa mu no bi ne:

• Nkate pa a wɔnkyerɛ: Sɛ wɔne afoforo wɔ a, wɔnna nkate pa te sɛ awerɛkyekye, ɔdɔ, ne anigye adi.
• Kwati a wobɛfa aniwa a wobɛka ne honam fam: Wompɛ sɛ wobɛhwɛ obi ani anaa wode wo nsa bɛka no.
• Ehu ne abufuw a wɔda no adi: Bere nyinaa bo a wo bo fuw, osu, na wodi awerɛhow.
• Mmɔden a wɔbɔ sɛ wobedi wɔn so: Wɔbɔ mmɔden sɛ wobedi nneɛma a atwa wɔn ho ahyia so. Eyi ma wobu mmara no so.

Nsonsonoe bɛn na ɛwɔ `Inhibited Reactive Attachment Disorder` ne `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)` ntam?

Tebea foforo a ɛfa `Inhibited Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ho ne `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED).` Nanso nsonsonoe wɔ abien no ntam. Ma yɛnhwɛ nea wɔyɛ.

`RAD` (Wɔabara) .

Mmofra a wɔwɔ `RAD` no nim nea ɛrekɔ so wɔ wɔn ho, nanso wɔnyɛ ho biribi wɔ nkate fam. Wɔnkyerɛ ɔdɔ anaa wɔnhwehwɛ mfi wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn anaa afoforo hɔ. Wɔpɛ sɛ wɔyɛ wɔn nkutoo. Su ahorow no bi ne:

• Wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn a wɔbɛkwati.
• Tew a wobɛtwe wo ho afi asetra mu tebea horow ho.
• Ɔko tia nneɛma a ɛma awerɛkyekye (e.g., cuddling).

`DSED` (Disinhibited - bue ma abɔnten, nanso enni anohyeto) .

Mmofra a wɔwɔ `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)` betumi ne ahɔho ayɛ adamfofa su dodo. Ebia wobedi wɔn akyi mpo a wɔremmisa wɔn awofo. Mpɛn pii no, mmofra yi yɛ wɔn ade nkumaa sen wɔn mfe na ebia wɔbɛhwehwɛ ɔdɔ afi afoforo hɔ wɔ ɔkwan a ahobammɔ nnim so. Nsɛnkyerɛnne no ne:

• Nkitahodi a wɔpaw biara nni hɔ (te sɛ nea ɛte wɔ obiara ho no).
• Hwehwɛ a wɔbɛhwehwɛ sɛ obiara de n’adwene besi so.
• Sɛ obi yɛ n’ade wɔ ɔkwan a ɛmfata ne mfe a wadi so.
• Ɔnte asetra mu ahye ase.

Sɛ nhwɛso no, abofra a ɔwɔ `RAD` betumi atwe ne ho afi afoforo ho wɔ apontow bi ase na ɔno nkutoo atra baabi a ɛhɔ yɛ toro. Nanso abofra a ɔwɔ `DSED` bɛforo akɔ obiara a onnim no nkyɛn akɔkasa, ebia mpo ɔbɛforo wɔn kɔn so. Wɔn baanu nyinaa wɔ nsɛm a ɛfa abatade ho a ɛfata, nanso ɔkwan a wɔfa so da wɔn adwene adi no yɛ soronko.

Dɛn ne nneɛma a ɛde `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ba?

Biribiara pɔtee biara nni hɔ a enti mmofra a wɔwɔ RAD nya saa tebea yi.Nhwehwɛmu ahorow kyerɛ sɛ nneɛma pii nti na ebia abofra rentumi ne wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn no nnya abusuabɔ:

• Ayayade anaa anibiannaso: Abofra no te nka sɛ wɔagyaw no hɔ na ɔno nkutoo na ɔwɔ hɔ. Sɛ nhwɛso no, sɛ awofo no taa ko na wɔanhwɛ sɛnea abofra no te a, abofra no nnya ɔdɔ ne ɔdɔ a ohia no.
• Aduan a wonnya nni: Bere a abofra nnya aduan ne anonne a ɛfata, a ɛyɛ ahiade titiriw.
• Ahobammɔ ho nsɛm: Sɛ abofra no te nka sɛ osuro sɛ wɔwɔ asiane mu a.
• Ahotew a wonni: Abofra no tra mpaboa a ɛyɛ nsu mu nnɔnhwerew pii, sɛ obiara ansesa a.
• Nsakrae a ɛtaa ba wɔn a wɔhwɛ mmofra mu: Ebia abofra no nnim onii a ɛsɛ sɛ ɔde ne ho to no so.
• Ɔhwɛ a ɛnkɔ so daa: Sɛ wodi abofra ahiade ho dwuma bere ne bere mu nkutoo a, titiriw sɛ abofra no nnim bere a ɛsɛ sɛ ɔhwɛ kwan fi ɔdɔ ne awerɛkyekye fi wɔn a wɔhwɛ no hɔ no hɔ a.

Mmofra nkumaa nya abusuabɔ a ɛfata bere a wodi wɔn ahiade atitiriw ho dwuma bere nyinaa na wɔyɛ no daa no . Eyi ma abofra no ne wɔn a wɔhwɛ no nya ahotoso. Sɛ wɔantumi adi abofra bi honam ne nkate fam ahiade ho dwuma yiye a, ɛwɔ asiane mu sɛ obenya `RAD`.

Ɔkwan bɛn so na wohu `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ na woahu RAD no, wo ba no duruyɛfo bebisa wo wo ba no aduruyɛ ho abakɔsɛm ne sɛnkyerɛnne ahorow a wo ba no reda no adi no ho asɛm. Nea ɛbɛyɛ na oduruyɛfo no ate wo ba no yare no ho sɛnkyerɛnne ase yiye no, obetumi abisa nsɛm te sɛ eyinom:

• So wɔayɛ wo ba ayayade anaa wɔabu wɔn ani agu so pɛn?
• Bere bɛn na wudii kan huu saa sɛnkyerɛnne ahorow yi?
• Nneɛma bɛn na wudii kan hyɛɛ no ​​nsow?
• Wo ne wo ba no ntam abusuabɔ te dɛn?
• W’asetra tebea te dɛn?
• So ahwɛfo afoforo bi wɔ hɔ a wɔde wɔn ho hyɛ abofra no mu?

Sɛ wo duruyɛfo susuw sɛ wowɔ RAD a, ɛda adi sɛ ɔde wo ne wo ba bɛkɔ mmofra oduruyɛfo, adwene ne nneyɛe ho ɔbenfo, ne adwenemyare ho oduruyɛfo nkyɛn ma waboa ma wɔahu wo ba no tebea na wakamfo ayaresa ahorow a ebetumi aboa.

So ebetumi aba sɛ wobɛfrafra `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ne `Autism Spectrum Disorder`?

Ansa na ɔbɛka sɛ abofra bi wɔ `RAD` no, oduruyɛfo no bɛyɛ nhwehwɛmu de ayi nneɛma afoforo a ɛde ba no afi hɔ, titiriw tebea horow te sɛ `Autism Spectrum Disorder`. `Autism Spectrum Disorder` yɛ nkɔsoɔ tebea a ɛka obi suban ne ne nkitahodi. Sɛ yɛhwɛ a, ebetumi anya sɛnkyerɛnne a ɛte sɛ `RAD`. Nsonsonoeɛ a ɛho hia paa ne sɛ ayayadeɛ anaa anibiannasoɔ nyɛ adeɛ a ɛde `Autism Spectrum Disorder` ba, nanso ɛbɛtumi aka `RAD` a wɔhunu.

Ɔkwan bɛn so na wɔsa `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Ade titiriw a wɔde wɔn adwene si so wɔ RAD ayaresa mu ne sɛ ɛbɛma nkate fam abusuabɔ a ɛfata aba mmofra ne wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn no ntam.ne/anaasɛ sɛ wɔbɛsan de abusuabɔ a ɛyɛ hu na emu yɛ den aba. Saa ayaresa ahorow yi hyɛ abofra no den wɔ nkate fam, na ɛno nso boa abofra no ma ɔne afoforo nya abusuabɔ pa. Mmofra ne wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn nyinaa nya ayaresa nhyehyɛe ahorow yi so mfaso. Ebia ayaresa no bi ne:

• Adwene ne Nkate Ho Ayaresa/Afotu: Adwene mu akwahosan ho ɔfotufo ne abofra no ne awofo yɛ adwuma de boa wɔn ma wonya nkate mu nimdeɛ a ɛfata na wɔtew nneyɛe a ɔhaw wom a ɛmma abusuabɔ nkɔ so no so.
• Abusua Ayaresa: Eyi hwehwɛ sɛ wɔn a wɔhwɛ mmofra titiriw ne abofra no bom yɛ adwuma de boa ma wonya akwan pa a wɔfa so di nkitaho.
• Asetra mu Nimdeɛ a Wɔde Wɔn Ho Hyehyɛ Mu: Saa ayaresa yi kyerɛkyerɛ abofra no sɛnea ɔne mmofra afoforo a wɔn mfe yɛ pɛ bɛyɛ wɔn ade sɛnea ɛfata wɔ asetra mu tebea horow a ɛfata mu. Awofo nso de wɔn ho hyɛ eyi mu, na wɔboa abofra no ma ɔde saa nimdeɛ a wasua yi di dwuma wɔ ayaresa akyi.
• Nhomasua Titiriw: Sɛ abofra bi hia a, sukuu nhyehyɛe ahorow betumi aboa mmofra ma wɔasua ahokokwaw a wohia na ama wɔadi yiye wɔ adesua ne asetra mu.
• Awofo Ho Ahokokwaw Adesua: Wɔ saa nhyiam ahorow yi mu no, awofo betumi asua akwan a etu mpɔn kɛse a wɔbɛfa so adi wɔn ba no nneyɛe a emu yɛ den ho dwuma.

So nsɛnnennen afoforo wɔ hɔ a ebetumi abata `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ho?

Yiw, mmofra a wɔwɔ `RAD` no wɔ asiane kɛse mu sɛ wobenya nsɛnnennen ahorow wɔ wɔn mmofraase ne wɔn mmerantebere ne mmabaabere mu esiane honam fam, nkate fam, ne asetra mu anibiannaso ne ayayade nti. Ebia nsɛnnennen yi bi ne:

• Nkɔso mu nsɛntitiriw a ɛkyɛ ne nipadua mu nyin a ɛso tew.
• Nkate mu haw ahorow, sɛ nhwɛso no, adwenemhaw, dadwen, adwenemhaw a ɛba wɔ ahodwiriw akyi (PTSD), ne abufuw ano aduru ho haw ahorow.
• Adidi mu haw ahorow.
• Nnubɔne a wɔde di dwuma ho haw ahorow.
• Ɔhaw ahorow a ɛwɔ sukuu mu (adesua ne/anaasɛ suban ho haw).
• Ɔhaw ahorow a ɛwɔ abusuabɔ mu (ne atipɛnfo, mpanyimfo, afei ahokafo).
• Suban ahorow a asiane wom, sɛ nhwɛso no, nna mu dwumadi a wɔde wɔn ho hyɛ mu wɔ wɔn mmofraase anaasɛ wɔtaa yɛ.

Ɛrenkyɛ na me ba no anya abusuabɔ pa wɔ ayaresa akyi?

Sɛ wɔansa mmofra a wɔwɔ RAD no yare a, wobetumi anya yare no ho sɛnkyerɛnne akosi wɔn mpanyin afe so. Ebetumi aka sɛnea wɔyɛ adwuma wɔ ɔmanfo mu. Ayaresa yɛ adeyɛ a ɛkyɛ a ɛma abofra no boa no wɔ nkate fam. Ebia ɛho behia mpo wɔ nkwa nna nyinaa mu. Bere biara nni hɔ a wɔahyɛ ato hɔ a ɛkyerɛ bere a wo ba no benya abusuabɔ pa. Nanso, ayaresa a wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn boa no ma wonya nea eye sen biara.

Ɔkwan bɛn so na wobetumi asiw `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ano?

Ɔkwan pa a wɔbɛfa so asiw RAD ano ne sɛ wɔbɛboa mmofra ma wɔne wɔn awofo ne/anaasɛ wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn titiriw afoforo anya abusuabɔ pa. Abusuabɔ pa ba bere a wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn no yɛ nea edidi so yi:

• Abusua mu abusuabɔ a wɔbɛhyɛ ho nkuran denam abusuabɔ a egyina pintinn na ahobammɔ wom so.
• Mmofra a wɔbɛma wɔate nka sɛ wɔdɔ wɔn na wogye wɔn tom.
• Mmofra a wɔbɛboa wɔn wɔ wɔn nkɔso mmere ahorow mu.
• Di abofra no ahiade atitiriw ho dwuma bere nyinaa.

Mɛyɛ dɛn aboa me ba ma wanya abusuabɔ pa?

Sɛ́ obi a ɔhwɛ wo ba no, wubetumi aboa wo ba ma wanya abusuabɔ a ɛfata denam:

• Ahye a wɔde besi hɔ: Tebea a ɛkɔ so daa ye ma mmofra nyinaa. Enti, ahye a yɛde besi hɔ no ho hia paa. Bere a mmofra de anohyeto ahorow a ntease wom ne nteɛso a ɛfata, a ɛnyɛ honam fam de, te nea wɔhwɛ kwan fi wɔn hɔ ne nea ɛbɛba sɛ wobu mmara no so ase. Eyi ma mmofra suro so tew na ɛhyɛ wɔn nkuran ma wɔyɛ wɔn ade sɛnea ɛfata.
• Ma wo ho nyɛ komm bere a wo ba no nyɛ ade bɔne no: Sɛ wo ba no nyɛ n’ade bɔne a, yɛ komm; sɛ wo bo fuw a, nyɛ w’ade. Teɛ wo ba no so sɛnea mmara a woadi kan ahyɛ na wo ba no nim no. Sɛ wo ba no bo dwo na wasiesie ne ho ama abusuabɔ pa a, da ɔdɔ ne ayamye adi. Eyi ma wo ba hu sɛ wowɔ hɔ ma wɔn, wɔ mmere a emu yɛ den mpo mu.
• Da ɔdɔ ne adwene a ɛkɔ so daa adi: Gye bere ne wo ba nkutoo. Wo ne no nkasa, to dwom kyerɛ no, wo ne no nni agoru. Kura no, fa atuu, anaa yɛ nneɛma foforo a ɛkyerɛ ɔdɔ ne ɔdɔ a efi obi a ɔhwɛ no hɔ. Nanso, kae sɛ ebia mmofra binom mmue wɔn ani mma ɔdɔ a ɛte sɛɛ nsen afoforo. Ɔdɔ ne ɔdɔ a wɔde sie no nyɛ asotwe a wogye tom da.

Sɛ mewɔ abofra a ɔwɔ `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` a, dɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ mehwɛ kwan?

Mmofra pii a wonya RAD ayaresa no ne wɔn a wɔhwɛ wɔn titiriw ne nnipa afoforo a wɔwɔ wɔn asetra mu nya abusuabɔ a ɛyɛ den na ɛyɛ papa. Mmofra a wonnya ayaresa no wɔ asiane mu sɛ wobenya nkate mu haw ahorow a ɛkɔ so. Nea eye ne sɛ, ɛnka akyi dodo da sɛ wobɛhwehwɛ ayaresa ama nkɔso ne adwenemyare ahorow, a RAD ka ho. Ɛho hia sɛ yɛkae nneɛma yi:

• Mmofra pii a wɔfa wɔn fi nyisaa atrae no bɔ asetra a ahoɔden wom yiye na wɔayɛ nsakrae yiye. Ɛnyɛ abofra biara a wɔagye no ayɛ ne ba na onya `RAD`.
• Mmofra a wɔanya adwenemhaw a emu yɛ den bere bi a atwam no betumi anya asiane afoforo a ɛbɛma wɔanya adwenemyare ne nneyɛe mu nsɛnnennen. Sɛ nhwɛso no, nnubɔne anaa nsa a wɔde di dwuma bere a wɔyem, anaasɛ abusua abakɔsɛm a wɔwɔ nkate mu haw ahorow betumi ama wɔanya RAD.

`Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` adi bere tenten ahe?

Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) yɛ tebea a ɛba obi nkwa nna nyinaa mu. Nanso, ayaresa ne mmoa betumi aboa abofra ma wanya abusuabɔ pa wɔ n’asetra nyinaa mu, na ebetumi ama ne nkate ne asetra mu yiyedi atu mpɔn.

Bere bɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ mekɔ oduruyɛfo nkyɛn?

Sɛ wohu sɛ ɛyɛ den ma wo ba sɛ ɔbɛnya abusuabɔ a ɛfata, anaasɛ wohu `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ho sɛnkyerɛnne biara wɔ wo ba no mu a, kɔ wo ba no duruyɛfoɔ nkyɛn ntɛm ara ma wɔnyɛ nhwehwɛmu anaa wɔde no kɔ oduruyɛfoɔ titire nkyɛn. Sɛ wohu mmofra a wɔwɔ saa tebea yi ntɛm na wɔsa wɔn yare a, ebetumi aboa wɔn ma wɔanya nea eye.

Nsɛm bɛn na ɛsɛ sɛ mibisa me duruyɛfo?

• So ɛsɛ sɛ mede me ba no kɔ afotufo nkyɛn?
• Dɛn na ɛrema me ba no reda `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ho sɛnkyerɛnne adi?
• So wubetumi de me akɔma oduruyɛfo titiriw anaa kuw bi a wɔboa wɔn a wɔne mmofra ne mmusua a wɔwɔ saa yare yi yɛ adwuma?
• So me ba no yare no ho sɛnkyerɛnne bɛsakra bere a ɔrenyin no? So nneɛma bi wɔ hɔ a ɛsɛ sɛ mehwɛ so titiriw?

Ɛho hia sɛ wo ne wo ba nya abusuabɔ na wo ne no di wɔ ɔkwan a ɛbɛma wate nka sɛ wɔdɔ no so. Sɛ wo ba no ne wo anaa wɔn hwɛfo titiriw no nnya nkate fam abusuabɔ a ɛyɛ ahotɔ a, kɔ wo hwɛfo titiriw nkyɛn. Sɛ wohwehwɛ afotu anaa ayaresa a, ɛnkyerɛ sɛ woyɛ ɔwofo bɔne. Mmom no, ebue kwan ma wo ne wo ba nya abusuabɔ a emu yɛ den, apɔwmuden, ne nkwa nna nyinaa.

Nneɛma a ɛho hia sen biara a ɛsɛ sɛ wokae (Take-Home Message) .

Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) nyɛ biribi a ɛsɛ sɛ yɛma yɛn abam bu. Sɛ wohu mmofra ntɛm, wɔsa wɔn yare yiye, na wonya tebea a ɔdɔ wom na egyina pintinn a, wobetumi atra ase anigye ne apɔwmuden. Kae:

• Ɛsono abofra biara: Ɛnyɛ abofra biara na ɔyɛ n’ade wɔ ayaresa ho wɔ ɔkwan koro so. Nya abotare na nya ntease.
• Ɛnyɛ wo nko ara: Awofo afoforo wɔ hɔ a wɔrefa tebea horow a ɛte saa mu. Nya mmoa fi nnuruyɛfo, afotufo, ne mmoa akuw hɔ.
• Ɔdɔ ne ahotɔ: Ade a eye sen biara a wubetumi de ama abofra ne ɔdɔ a enni nnyinaso ne tebea a egyina pintinn na ahobammɔ wom.
• Mmoa a efi adwumayɛfo hɔ: Sɛ w’adwene mu yɛ wo naa a, nfɛre anaasɛ nsuro sɛ wobɛhwehwɛ aduruyɛ mu afotu. Ɛno ne mmoa kɛse a wubetumi de ama wo ba no.

Yɛn nyinaa wɔ asɛdeɛ sɛ yɛbɛma yɛn mma mmofraberɛ a ahotɔ ne ɔdɔ wom. Momma yɛn nyinaa nyɛ adwuma bom mfa nyɛ saa!

` Reactive Attachment Disorder, RAD, abofra adwene mu akwahosan, nkate mu abatade, awofo ne abofra ntam abusuabɔ, mmofra ayayade, anibiannaso, mmofra nkɔso