Sesẽna le Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe Gbɔdɔdɔ Gbɔ (Anorgasmia): Mina Míaƒo Nu Tso Eŋu! | Nirogi Lanka ƒe agbalẽ

Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, nyabiase aɖewo nɔa mí katã si siwo gbɔgblɔ na ame aɖeke sesẽna na mí, togbɔ be wotea míaƒe susu dzi hã. Dzitsitsi ɖe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzidzemekpɔkpɔ ŋu—vevietɔ, alesi wòsesẽna be woaɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ—nye nyati mawo dometɔ ɖeka. Le nyateƒe me la, enye nya si bɔ ŋutɔ, ke hã ate ŋu anye ŋukpe vie be woaƒo nu tso eŋu. Eyata, mina míaɖo dze faa, xɔlɔ̃wɔwɔtɔe egbea tso nɔnɔme si woyɔna be ‘Anorgasmia’ ŋu.

Nukae nye Anorgasmia?

Ne míagblɔe bɔbɔe la, anorgasmia nye kuxi si nɔa anyi ɖaa be nàɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ, ne gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro nyɔ wò eye wòʋã wò gɔ̃ hã. Elɔ nɔnɔme siwo me nèɖoa eƒe taƒoƒo me hã ɖe eme, gake wòsena le ɖokuiwò me be yegbɔdzɔ alo medzɔna enuenu abe alesi nèdi ene o. Wobua esia be enye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie ƒomevi aɖe . Ame sia ame, eɖanye ŋutsu alo nyɔnue wònye o, ate ŋu ato nɔnɔme sia me. Woyɔnae ɣeaɖewoɣi be "orgasmic dysfunction," ate ŋu ahe susu me nuteɖeamedzi gã aɖe vɛ, dziɖeleameƒo, eye ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe wò ŋutɔ wò ƒomedodowo gɔ̃ hã dzi. Le Nirogi Lanka la, míedi be nànya be esia nye lãmesẽnyawo gbɔ kpɔkpɔ si dzi woate ŋu aɖu.

Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro sesẽe nye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe vivisese ƒe kɔkɔƒe le nyɔnyrɔ̃ megbe—ŋutilã ƒe teteɖeanyi ƒe asiɖeɖe le ame ŋu si zi geɖe la, lãmekawo ƒe tete le lɔlɔ̃nu faa me kpena ɖe eŋu. Alesi gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro sesẽna kple ɣeyiɣi didi si wòxɔna la toa vovo tso ame ɖeka gbɔ yi bubu gbɔ. Ðewohĩ abia be woaʋã wo ɖedzesi aɖe hafi aɖo woƒe taƒoƒo gbɔ, gake bubuwo ya abia be woaʋã wo boo o.

Ne anorgasmia le ŋuwò la, ɖewohĩ àse le ɖokuiwò me kokoko be didi kple dzidzɔ le ŋuwò, gake ŋutetemanɔamesi be nàɖo eƒe kɔkɔƒe ate ŋu aɖe fu na wò. Ele vevie be nàbia wò lãmesẽdɔwɔla be nàde dzesi nusi gbɔ wòtso eye nàdzro atikewɔmɔnu siwo sɔ me.

Alesi Anorgasmia Kpɔa Ŋusẽ Ðe Nyɔnuwo Ŋui

Le nyɔnuwo gome la, woyɔa anorgasmia ɣeaɖewoɣi be "nyɔnuwo ƒe orgasmic disorder." Zi geɖe la, womae ɖe hatsotso ene me:

• Anorgasmia gbãtɔ (le wò agbemeŋkekewo katã me): Mèkpɔ orgasm kpɔ le wò agbe me kpɔ o.
• Anorgasmia evelia (si woxɔ): Ète ŋu ɖoa gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ tsã, gake mègate ŋu ɖoa gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ o. Wokpɔa esia zi geɖe le dzinukpɔkpɔ gome.
• Nɔnɔmewo ƒe anorgasmia: Nɔnɔme aɖewo koŋ me koe nàte ŋu aɖo orgasm gbɔ, abe le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbegbegblẽnɔnɔ me ene.
• Anorgasmia si bɔ: Togbɔ be gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro le ŋuwò hã la, màte ŋu aɖo orgasmi gbɔ le nɔnɔme aɖeke me o.

Togbɔ be kuxia ate ŋu adzi ɖe edzi ne ame tsi hã la, ate ŋu agblẽ nu le nyɔnuwo ŋu le woƒe agbe ƒe akpa ɖesiaɖe. Nyatakakawo ɖee fia be nyɔnu siwo ade 15% mekpɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro aɖeke kpɔ o .

Alesi Anorgasmia Kpɔa Ŋusẽ Ðe Ŋutsuwo Ŋui

Le ŋutsuwo gome la, wobua nɔnɔme sia zi geɖe be enye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie ƒomevi aɖe si woyɔna be "tsinyenye si tsi megbe" alo "tsinyenye si woxe mɔ na." Esia ate ŋu ana ame natsi dzimaɖi eye wòaƒo asa na gbɔdɔdɔ. Ƒomevi vevi evee li:

• Anorgasmia gbãtɔ: Mèkpɔ orgasm alo tsinyenye kpɔ o.
• Anorgasmia evelia: Nɔnɔme tɔxɛ aɖewo koŋ me koe nète ŋu ɖoa gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ alo tsia tsi.

Tsinyenye nye nuwɔna sesẽ aɖe si me lãmetsiŋusẽwo , lãmekawo , ŋutinuwo le, kple wò susu ƒe nɔnɔme. Tɔtɔ ɖesiaɖe si ado mo ɖa le kɔsɔkɔsɔ sia me ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe wò ŋutete be nàɖo eƒe taƒoƒo dzi. Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, atikewɔwɔ me nɔnɔme aɖewo siwo gbɔ wòtso ate ŋu ahe kuxi siawo vɛ.

Amekae Ŋu Wògblẽa Nu Le Wu?

Anorgasmia ate ŋu adze ame sia ame dzi. Gake woka nya ta le eŋu zi geɖe le nyɔnuwo dome, vevietɔ le dzinukpɔkpɔ megbe .

Nukae Nye Anorgasmia ƒe Dzesiwo?

Dzesi vevitɔe nye ŋutete si mele ame si be wòaɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe sesẽƒe o. Nu bubu siwo hã ɖenɛ fianae nye be wòaxɔ ɣeyiɣi didi akpa hafi aɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ (gbɔgbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro si tsi megbe) alo be yease le ye ɖokui me be yeƒe dzi medze eme o togbɔ be wodo ŋusẽ ye le ŋutilã me hã.

Nukae Hea Anorgasmia vɛ?

Ate ŋu atso ŋutilã , susu , seselelãme , alo atikewɔwɔ me nu vovovowo gbɔ be wòasesẽ be woaɖo taƒoƒoa gbɔ. Zi geɖe la, nu siawo ƒe ƒuƒoƒoe wònye tsɔ wu be wòanye nya ɖeka ko, si ate ŋu ana ɣeaɖewoɣi be nusi gbɔ wòtso la nyanya nasesẽ. Ele be nàdzro nusiwo ŋu nètsi dzi ɖo siawo me kple wò ɖɔkta be woawɔ dodokpɔ si sɔ na wò.

Atikewɔwɔ Kple Ŋutilã me Nusiwo Gbɔ Wòtso

• Ƒe: Vevietɔ na nyɔnu siwo le dzinukpɔkpɔ nu tsom.
• Lãmesẽ Nɔnɔme Siwo Le Eme: Abe Ʋukawo ƒe Dɔléle (MS) ene .
• Atikewo: Vevietɔ esiwo le Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitor (SSRI) ƒe hatsotso me.
• Amekoko Ŋutinya: Amekoko ɖesiaɖe si wowɔ va yi si ku ɖe vidzidɔ alo vidzidzi ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ŋu.
• Kuxi siwo dona tso eme: Nusiwo dona tso kansa alo keklẽŋusẽdɔdamɔnu me .
• Akɔta ƒe Nyawo: Akɔta ƒe anyigba ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie alo abixɔxɔ le akɔta ƒe nuto me hã le eme.
• Nɔnɔme Siwo Nye Numame: Ŋuɖoɖo ɖe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ƒe mɔnu tɔxɛ aɖewo ŋu fũ akpa, si ate ŋu ana wòasesẽ be woato mɔ bubuwo dzi aɖo eƒe taƒoƒo gbɔ.
• Lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe Masɔmasɔ: Lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe nɔnɔme vovovowo .
• Dɔléle Siwo Wodzina: Ŋutilã me masɔmasɔ siwo dona tso vidzidzi me ku ɖe nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ alo ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu ŋu.

Susuŋutinunya Kple Seselelãme ƒe Nuwɔnawo

• Blanuiléle, nuteɖeamedzi, alo dzimaɖitsitsi.
• Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nuveviwɔame alo ŋlɔmiwɔwɔ ƒe ŋutinya.
• Dekɔnuwo alo mawusubɔsubɔ ƒe ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedziwo.
• Seselelãme siwo nye be woxe mɔ ɖe nuwò alo esesẽna be nàɖe wò susu agblɔ to ƒomedodo kplikplikpli me.
• Bubudede ame ɖokui ŋu si mebɔ o.
• Ƒomedodo me dzitsitsiwo , abe kakaɖeamedzi ƒe anyimanɔmanɔ alo seselelãme ƒe adzɔge tso srɔ̃wò gbɔ ene.

Ðe testosterone si bɔbɔ ɖe anyi ate ŋu ana ame nazu anorgasmia?

Ẽ, le ŋutsuwo gome la, testosterone ƒe agbɔsɔsɔ si bɔbɔ ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe wò ŋutete be nàɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ dzi. Zi geɖe la, esia do ƒome kple nu bubu siwo ŋu wotsi dzi ɖo abe tsitretsitsi ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie enealo tsinyenye si tsi megbe. Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, lãmetsiŋusẽ bubuwo abe prolactin ene ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ dzi le ame ɖekaɖeka siwo ƒe vidzinu le ŋu.

Ðe SSRI-tikewo hea anorgasmia vɛa?

Ẽ, SSRI (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) geɖe —siwo woŋlɔna zi geɖe na blanuiléle alo dzimaɖitsitsi —ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe wò gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ dzi. Ne èle atike mawo zãm fifia la, ƒo nu tso wò dzesiwo ŋu na wò ɖɔkta eye nàdzro atike siwo nàte ŋu azã ɖe eteƒe me. SSRI aɖewo mehea anorgasmia vɛ boo o, eye blanuilélenutsitike ƒomevi bubuwo li siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò wu.

Atike bubu siwo ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro dzi

Le SSRI-tikewo godo la, atike bubuwo hã ate ŋu ado kplamatse wò ŋutete be nàɖo eƒe taƒoƒo. Kpɔɖeŋu aɖewoe nye:

• Blanuilélenutsitike siwo wozãna zi etɔ̃ (TCAs) .
• Monoamine oxidase mɔxexeɖedɔlékuiwo (MAOIs) .
• Atike siwo tsia tagbɔdɔléle nu
• Nusiwo nana seselelãme nɔa anyi (na alɔ̃madɔmadɔ) .

Ʋusɔgbɔdɔtike aɖewo hã ate ŋu ana ŋutsu ƒe tsitretsitsi ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie nadzɔ . Gakpe ɖe eŋu la, wonya be atike aɖewo siwo wua ʋumenugbagbeviɣidɔ kple esiwo ɖea ʋu ƒe sisi ɖa hã hea gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nugbegblẽ le ame ŋu nenema ke vɛ.

Aleke wowɔa dea dzesi Anorgasmia?

Zi geɖe la, wò ɖɔkta ate ŋu anya anorgasmia to wò dzesiwo kple gbɔdɔdɔ ŋutinya me dzodzro me. Dzeɖoɖo sia kpena ɖe ame ŋu be nàke ɖe nusiwo ate ŋu agblẽ nu le wò gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ ŋu. Woate ŋu aɖo aɖaŋu hã be woawɔ ultrasound scan alo ʋudodokpɔ atsɔ akpɔ lãmetsiŋusẽ alo atikewɔwɔ ƒe nɔnɔmewo ɖa. Ne ètsi dzi ɖe ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu ƒe seselelãme ŋu la, wò ɖɔkta ate ŋu aɖo aɖaŋu na wò be nàwɔ dodokpɔ tɔxɛwo na ema hã.

Ne wonya de dzesi nusi gbɔ wòtso ko la, atikewɔmɔnu vovovowo li. Wò ɖɔkta ate ŋu aɖo wò ɖe nyɔnuwo ƒe dɔléleŋutinunyala alo tsinyegoeŋutinunyala gbɔ —siwo nye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽkuxiwo ŋuti nunyala bibiwo—be wòakpe ɖe ŋuwò nàwɔ atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖo si sɔ na wò le Nirogi Lanka.

Aleke wodaa Anorgasmiae?

Atikewɔwɔ nɔ te ɖe nusi gbɔ wòtso dzi bliboe. Mɔnu ɖeka aɖeke meli si sɔ na amesiame o , eye wò beléle ate ŋu abia be nàzã mɔnu vovovowo. Atike siwo bɔ na anorgasmia dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Asitɔtrɔ le atike siwo wozãna fifia ŋu.
• Lãmesẽnya siwo le ete gbɔ kpɔkpɔ.
• Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ƒe mɔnu yeyewo sɔsrɔ̃.
• Aɖaŋuɖoɖo alo susumedɔdada be woatsɔ akpɔ ƒomedodo me nyawo, susu ƒe lãmesẽ, alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe fuɖename siwo va yi gbɔ .
• Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe atikewɔwɔ be woatsɔ akpɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe mɔxenuwo alo mɔxenu siwo xea mɔ na eƒe taƒoƒo gbɔ.
• Lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe atikewɔwɔ be ʋu ƒe sisi kple seselelãme nanyo ɖe edzi.
• Nu yeyewo dodo ɖe ŋgɔ: Abe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe mɔnu vovovowo, gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe fefenuwo , alo nyatakakadzraɖoƒe siwo nyɔa gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ɖe ame me ene.

Ɣeyiɣi didi kae wòxɔna hafi wòhayana tso Anorgasmia me?

Ɣeyiɣi si woatsɔ ahaya la toa vovo le nusi gbɔ wòtso nu. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne èle gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe atikewɔwɔ alo srɔ̃tɔwo ƒe aɖaŋu ɖom na wò la, ate ŋu axɔ ɣleti geɖe hafi nàɖo wò taɖodzinuwo gbɔ. Ne atikewo gbɔe wòtso la, ate ŋu axɔ ɣeyiɣi aɖe hafi wò dɔwɔɖoɖoa natrɔ le tɔtrɔ aɖe megbe (ɣeaɖewoɣi kwasiɖa geɖe). Gake nya nyuiae nye be ne atikewɔlawo kpe asi ɖe ame akpa gãtɔ ŋu wòsɔ la, wote ŋu gaɖoa gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ƒe ŋutete me.

Ðe woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe Anorgasmia nua?

Togbɔ be womate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe anorgasmia nu ɣesiaɣi o hã la, nusiwo gbɔ wòtsona be orgasmia ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie sia gbɔ kpɔkpɔ nyuie ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò ŋutɔ be nàɖu edzi. Aɖaŋuɖoɖo siawo siwo wogblɔna le mɔ gbadza nu ate ŋu aɖe vi:

• Ne atikewɔwɔ me nɔnɔme aɖewo le ŋuwò la, wɔ ɖe atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖo si wò ɖɔkta gblɔ na wò dzi pɛpɛpɛ.
• Ðo dze kple wò zɔhɛ gaglãa le anukwareɖiɖi me tso wò gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbenɔnɔ ŋu.
• Di dɔwɔla bibiwo ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu ne èle avu wɔm kple seselelãme alo susu me dzimaɖitsitsiwo.
• Lé kamedede ƒe ɖoɖo si mewɔa tɔtrɔ o kple nuɖuɖu si da sɔ si naa lãmesẽ me ɖe asi.

Enye nusi sɔ kura be ŋu nakpe wò, atsi dzimaɖi, alo dzi naɖe le ƒowò ne èle nɔnɔme sia me tom. Ne èse le ɖokuiwò me alea la, taflatse gblɔ seselelãme siawo na wò ɖɔkta. Woate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàse egɔme be esia menye nusi mebɔ o alo susu si tae ŋu nakpe wò ɖo o. Gakpe ɖe eŋu la, woate ŋu afia mɔ wò ayi eŋutinunyala bibiwo alo dɔwɔnu siwo si nuteƒekpɔkpɔ le le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie kple nusiwo do ƒome kplii dada me gbɔ.

Ke ne wokpɔe be Anorgasmia le ŋunye ɖe?

Anorgasmia ate ŋu anye nuteƒekpɔkpɔ si ɖea fu na ame eye wòtena ɖe ame dzi. Ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe wò kple srɔ̃wò kplikplikpli dzi eye wòakpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe bubudede ɖokuiwò ŋu. Gake taflatse miɖo ŋku edzi be anɔ eme godoo be woakpɔ nya sia gbɔ ne atikewɔlawo ƒe mɔfiame nyui alo nudede eme manɔmee. Wò ɖɔkta ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò le anorgasmia dzi ɖuɖu me, si akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàgakpɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbe si me dzidzeme kple lãmesẽ le.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be makpɔ ɖɔkta?

Ne nane tsi dzi na wò le wò ŋutete be nàɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ la, ƒo nu kple wò ɖɔkta. Woakpe ɖe ŋuwò nànya nusiwo gbɔ kuxi siawo tso eye woawɔ dɔ kpli wò be nàkpɔ egbɔkpɔnu nyui aɖe. Gblɔ wò gbɔdɔdɔ kple atikewɔwɔ ŋutinya, kpakple nusiwo le tɔtrɔm le miaƒe ƒomedodoa me la faa keŋkeŋ eye nàɖi anukware . Mègavɔ̃ alo ŋu nakpe wò be yeadi atike o;nya la ƒe ke gbɔ ɖoɖoe nye mɔ nyuitɔ kekeake si dzi woato agbugbɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbe si me dzidzɔ le eye dzidzeme le la axɔ.

Agbagbadzedze be woaɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ ate ŋu aɖe dzi le ame ƒo ŋutɔ, gake menye wò ɖeka koe o —ame ɖekaɖeka geɖe dia atike na gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie. Susu aɖeke meli si tae ŋu nakpe mí ɖo o. Wò ɖɔkta ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nànya nusita nèle kuxi siawo me tom eye nàdzro egbɔkpɔnu siwo ate ŋu anɔ asiwò me. Esia ate ŋu abia be nàƒo nu kple aɖaŋuɖola alo gbɔdɔdɔ ŋuti nunyala, alo ɖewohĩ nàtrɔ asi le atike siwo nèzãna fifia ŋu. Ne èwɔ atike nyuitɔ la, àte ŋu ase vivi na gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbe nyui nɔnɔ ƒe ŋutilã kple susu me viɖewo katã evɔ màtsi dzimaɖi be yeaɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ o.

Nu Vevi Mamlɛawo Siwo Wotsɔna Yia Nu

Míele mɔ kpɔm be nyatakaka sia si tso Nirogi Lanka gbɔ na nèse anorgasmia gɔme nyuie wu. Nu vevitɔ si dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui enye be menye kuxi aɖe koe nye esia na wò o. Ŋukpe ɖesiaɖe ɖeɖeɖa kple nuƒoƒo kple ɖɔkta nye afɔɖeɖe gbãtɔ vevitɔ. Ɖo ŋku edzi:

• Anorgasmia nye dɔléle si woate ŋu ada. Ne wonya de dzesi nusi gbɔ wòtso ko la, ame akpa gãtɔ kpɔa dzidzedze ne wowɔ atike na wo nyuie.
• Ŋutilã kple susu siaa ate ŋu awɔ akpa aɖe. Eyata ele vevie be nàɖo wò ɖɔkta ƒe biabiawo ŋu le anukwareɖiɖi blibo me.
• Dzeɖoɖo faa kple wò zɔhɛ le vevie ŋutɔ na miaƒe ƒomedodoa. Nya la gbɔ kpɔkpɔ ɖekae ate ŋu aɖe agbaa dzi akpɔtɔ ŋutɔ.
• Mègakpe fu le ɖoɖoezizi me gbeɖe o. Do asi ɖa be woakpe ɖe ŋuwò, elabena dɔnyala bibiwo li siwo le klalo be yewoado alɔ wò.

Wò gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ nye wò nyonyo bliboa ƒe akpa vevi aɖe. Tsɔe ɖo nɔƒe gbãtɔ, eye mègahe ɖe megbe gbeɖe le kpekpeɖeŋu didi ne èhiãe o!

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