Ðe nèƒoa nu kabakaba wu alesi nèsusui hãa? Ðewohĩ esia nye tɔtɔ!

Ðe nèkpɔnɛ ɣeaɖewoɣi be yeƒe nyawo dona kabakaba wu alesi nèsusuia? Alo ɖe wòsesẽna na wò be amewo nase nya si gblɔm nèle la gɔmea? Ðewohĩ xɔ̃wòwo kple ƒometɔwo gblɔa nyawo abe, "Ƒo nu blewu" alo "Gblɔ nya ma ake" ene zi geɖe. Ne esia bɔ ɖe ŋuwò la, ekema nyati sia si ŋu míele nu ƒom tsoe egbea la anɔ vevie na wò ŋutɔ. Na míakpɔ nusi ate ŋu anye nusi gbɔ esia tso ɖa.

Nukae nye tɔtɔ sia? Mina míase egɔme bɔbɔe.

Nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi ƒomevi aɖe si gblẽa nu le nuƒoƒo ƒe zɔzɔme ŋu . Le atikewɔwɔ gome la, enye Gbeɖiɖi ƒe Dɔléle. Eɖi kukɔkpakpa, gake eto vovo vie. Zi geɖe la, amesi ƒe nya me mekɔ o ƒoa nu kabakaba ŋutɔ . Edze abe nyawo tsaka ɖekae eye wole sisim le sisi si yia edzi me ene. Ne wole nu ƒom sesĩe alea la, wogblẽa nyawo ƒe akpa aɖewo, si nye nyagbewo, ɖi ɣeaɖewoɣi, alo nya eve alo etɔ̃ ate ŋu ado abe ɖe wobla ɖe wo nɔewo ŋu ene.

Tsɔe be èle nuƒo aɖe ƒom eye kasia nàtɔ ɖe eƒe titina le teƒe aɖe si mehiã o. Esia ate ŋu adze nusi tɔtɔa nyasela la ŋutɔ. Wosena le wo ɖokui me be wò nuƒoƒo gbã ɖe "kakɛwo" me eye wòdo tso afi aɖeke o.

Kuxi bubu si le esia ŋue nye be togbɔ be nuƒola la se le eɖokui me be nya si gblɔm yele la me kɔ hã la, nyaselawo mate ŋu ase egɔme o . Womate ŋu ase nya si gblɔm nèle la gɔme ŋutɔŋutɔ o. Eyata àte ŋu abia nuwo abe "Gblɔe ake" kple "Lala aɖabaƒoƒo ɖeka" ene ɣesiaɣi. Esia ate ŋu ado dziku na ame ŋutɔŋutɔ, alo?

Aleke gbegbee woyɔa nɔnɔme sia be nuwo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbee?

Atikeŋutinunyalawo bu akɔnta be ɖevi siwo xɔ ƒe siwo de suku la dometɔ 1.1% va ɖo 1.2% ate ŋu axɔ dɔléle sia. Azɔ hã, amesiwo ƒoa nu tsia tre ɖe wo nɔewo ŋu ƒe akpa etɔ̃lia lɔƒo hã ɖea nuwo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbe vaseɖe afi aɖe fiana.

Nɔnɔme sia bɔ ɖe ŋutsuviwo me wu nyɔnuviwo . Zi geɖe la, ɖɔktawo kpɔa dɔlélea le eƒe ƒe 8 xɔxɔ lɔƒo, elabena ɣemaɣie ɖevi ƒe nuƒoƒo va sesẽna ale gbegbe be wòte ŋu ɖea dzesi siwo fia be eƒe nuƒoƒo ƒuƒlu.

Nukawoe nye nuwo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbe ƒe dzesiwo? Mina míakpɔe ɖa pɛpɛpɛ.

Nu vevi aɖe si ɖe dzesi le ɣlidodo ŋue nye nuƒoƒo kabakaba ŋutɔ kple `nya siwo yɔa nu` siwo mehiã o abe "um..." "ah..." ene zazã ɣesiaɣi. Le nyateƒe me la, mí katã míezãa nya ɖeka alo eve mawo tɔgbe ne míele nu ƒom. Enye nusi sɔ. Gake le amesi ŋu ɣlidodo le gome la, esia nye nusi dzɔna ɣesiaɣi. Ema na wòsesẽna na ame bubuwo ŋutɔ be woase nya si gblɔm wole la gɔme.

Dzesi siwo bɔ ɖe nutete ŋu dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• Nuƒoƒo kabakaba ŋutɔ: Dzesi vevitɔe nye nuƒoƒo kabakaba ale gbegbe be ame bubuwo mate ŋu ase nya si gblɔm nèle gɔme o. Wò nuƒoƒo ƒe tsɔtsɔme ate ŋu adze abe ɖe mele ɖoɖo nu o ene, "etɔ eye wòtɔ" na amesiwo le to ɖom.
• Nyawo kple nyagbe kakɛwo mimi alo wo tsɔtsɔ kpe ɖe wo nɔewo ŋu:Ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo ƒe akpa aɖewo ɖeɖeɖa tso nya didiwo me (e.g. "Kamikation" ɖe "Kadodo" teƒe) alo nya geɖewo kaƒoƒo ɖekae kple akpa aɖewo ɖeɖe ɖa (e.g. "Mayannona" ɖe "Medi be mayi" teƒe).
• Tɔtɔ ɖe teƒe siwo mèle mɔ kpɔm na o le nyagbe aɖe titina: Àte ŋu adzudzɔ nuƒoƒo le nyagbea ƒe teƒe siwo mèle mɔ kpɔm na o. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, "Medi be mayi aɖakpɔ sinima [tɔ vie]."
• `Filler words` zazã enuenu: Nyawo abe "um," "ah," "you know," kple bubuawo zazã enuenu gblẽa dzeɖoɖoa ƒe zɔzɔ nyuie me.
• "Maze patterns" le nuƒoƒo me: Ne èti kpo tso nyati ɖeka dzi yi bubu dzi esime nèle nu ƒom la, esesẽna na nyasela be wòase nya si gblɔm nèle gɔme le ɖoɖo nu. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, "Medi be mawu esia nu — nyemedi be mabia nya o. Nye nyatakaka tsi megbe zi mamlɛtɔ. Ne nyemetsɔe ɖo ɖe game dzi o la, maɖo kuxi me." Àte ŋu agblɔ nya ɖeka ma ke zi gbɔ zi geɖe.
• Nya si wogblɔna le titina tɔtrɔ: Le kpɔɖeŋu me, "Medi be... Ðe mate ŋu... anɔ ŋdɔ me kpli wòa?"

Tsɔ kpe ɖe esia ŋu la, dzesi bubuwo ate ŋu anɔ eŋu:

• Asiŋɔŋlɔ si menya agbalẽ o.
• Esesẽna be susu nanɔ nu ŋu.
• Afɔwo ƒe ʋuʋu fũ alo asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi ne wole nu ƒom.
• Nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxi siwo medo ƒome kple nunya o ƒe amesinɔnɔ.
• Womele ŋku lém ɖe wo nɔewo ŋu ne wole dze ɖom o.
• Ame bubuwo ƒe nya me tsotso esime wole nu ƒom, le nya me tom, alo womele woƒe ɣeyiɣi lalam le dzeɖoɖo me o.

Nukawoe hea nuwo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbe vɛ?

Le nyateƒe me la, atikeŋutinunyalawo menya nusi tututu hea clathrin vɛ haɖe o . Gake ebɔ ɖe amesiwo ŋu nɔnɔme aɖewo le me wu. Nɔnɔme mawo dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Tomeŋutinunya ƒe Dɔléle
• Susu ƒe Dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie/Dɔwɔwɔ fũu akpa ƒe Dɔléle (ADHD) .
• Autism Spectrum Dɔléle
• Nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxiwo
• Tourette ƒe Dɔléle

Numekuku aɖewo ɖee fia be manyamanya ate ŋu aƒu du le ƒomewo me, si fia be ate ŋu anye domenyiŋusẽfianu . Gake numekuku bubuwo hiã be woatsɔ aɖo kpe esia dzi.

Nukawoe nye kuxi siwo ate ŋu ado tso nuwo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbe me?

Ne mète ŋu ɖoa dze nyuie kple ame bubuwo o, si fia be womese nya si gblɔm nèle gɔme o la, ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ gã aɖe ɖe wò susu ƒe lãmesẽ dzi . Ðevi siwo ŋu xɔmenuwo ƒe vɔvɔ̃ le ate ŋu akpe ŋu, woake ɖi le woawo ŋutɔ ƒe nunya ŋu, eye woaɖe wo ɖokui ɖa tso ɖevi bubuwo gbɔ. Woate ŋu asrɔ̃ nuƒoƒo ʋɛ aɖewo hã le vɔvɔ̃ be woase yewo gɔme bubui ta.

Esia tae dɔlélea didi kple edada le vevie ŋutɔ ɖo . Ne ète ŋu gblɔa wò susuwo kple kakaɖedzi eye eme kɔ la, ekpɔa ŋusẽ nyui ɖe wò agbenɔnɔ ƒe akpa sia akpa kloe dzi.

Aleke Wowɔa Dzea Dzesidede Nuwo Ƒe Tɔtɔ?

Nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe dɔléleŋutinunyala ate ŋu anya clunking ne eɖo to wò nuƒoƒo eye wòkpɔ egbɔ be nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi bubu aɖeke meli o.

Ne èdo go kple wò atikewɔla la, woabia wò dzesiwo kple wò lãmesẽ ŋutinya. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, enyanya nenye be nɔnɔme bubu aɖe si do ƒome kplii, abe ADHD alo nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ ene, kpe ɖe wò manyamanya ŋu nye dɔlélea didi ƒe akpa vevi aɖe. Woabia wò nyuie tso manyamanya ƒe dzesiwo ŋu. Esia abia be nàdzro nu me vie kple wò atikewɔla. Esia ate ŋu alɔ:

• Dzeɖoɖo si sɔ me nɔnɔ.
• Nane xexlẽ sesĩe.
• Ŋutinya alo ŋkuɖodzinya aɖe gbɔgblɔ.
• Nuxexlẽ, nuŋɔŋlɔ, alo nunya dodokpɔwo wɔwɔ.

Ne viwòa le dzesiwo ɖem fia be evɔ̃na na xɔmenuwo la, ate ŋu ahiã be ƒuƒoƒo aɖe nakpe ɖe ŋuwò nànya dɔlélea. Ðewohĩ ahiã hã be nuƒoƒoŋutinunyala naxɔ nyatakaka tso ɖevia ƒe nufialawo alo sukua ƒe aɖaŋuɖolawo gbɔ. Woate ŋu akpe ɖe ɖevia ŋu wòanya ne gbegbɔgblɔ, nusɔsrɔ̃, alo hadome kadodo ƒe kuxi bubu aɖe le ɖevia ŋu tsɔ kpe ɖe xɔmenuwo ƒe vɔvɔ̃ ŋu. Kuxiawo katã didi nyuie le vevie hafi woate ŋu akpɔ atike nyuitɔ.

Aleke woawɔ akpɔ nuwo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbe gbɔe?

Nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàɖe wò nuƒoƒo ƒe manyamanya dzi akpɔtɔ. Le atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɣeyiɣiwo me la, wò nuƒoƒoŋutinunyala akpe ɖe ŋuwò nànya alesi nèƒoa nu le mɔ gbegblẽ nu. Ekema àte ŋu adze agbagba le nyanya me be yeaƒo nu wòakɔ wu. Woate ŋu alé wò ɖe video dzi gɔ̃ hã eye woana nàse nu siwo ame bubuwo sena hekpɔna ne èle nu ƒom la gɔme.

Le wò nuƒoƒo ƒe nɔnɔmewo nu la, nuƒoƒoŋutinunyala ate ŋu afia nu siwo le abe:

• Alesi nàwɔ aɖu wò gbɔgbɔ dzi: Ekema àte ŋu aƒo nu le dzɔdzɔme nu.
• Alesi woatɔ te ŋutinyaa le ɣeyiɣi kple teƒe nyuitɔ: Ekema ŋutinyaa azɔ nyuie wu.
• Alesi woate gbe ɖe nyagbewo dzi: Esia ana nyawo kple nyagbewo ƒe akpawo nagatɔtɔ o.
• Alesi nàɖo wò ŋutinya ɖe ɖoɖo si me susu le nu si gɔme wò nyaselawo ate ŋu ase.
• Alesi woawɔ aɖo dze nyuie wu to dzesi siwo menye nyagbɔgblɔ o abe ŋkuléle ɖe ame ŋu ene zazã me.
• Alesi nàgblɔ wò nuhiahiãwo na ame bubuwo (le kpɔɖeŋu me, kpekpeɖeŋu biabia evɔ màti kpo age ɖe eme ne èle kuxi aɖe me tom le nyagbe aɖe wuwu me o).

Aɖaŋuɖoɖo alo atikewɔwɔ hã ate ŋu anye atikewɔwɔ ƒe akpa vevi aɖe. Ðewohĩ ahiã be nàkpe ɖe ŋuwò nàɖu nuteɖeamedzi si le nuƒoƒo sɔsrɔ̃ me kuviawɔwɔ manɔmee la dzi. Ne viwòa le ɣli dom la, ƒomea ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàdo ŋusẽ kadodomɔnu siwo wòsrɔ̃na le nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ me.

Nukpɔsusu ka ƒomevie wòle be wòanɔ mía si ku ɖe nɔnɔme sia ŋu?

Togbɔ be atike bɔbɔe aɖeke meli si sɔ na amesiame o hã la, nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò alo viwòa ŋu nàkpɔ nɔnɔmea gbɔ eye wòana nuƒoƒo nase egɔme nyuie wu . Gake ɖoɖo sia bia dzigbɔɖi kple ɖokuitsɔtsɔna geɖe . Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ɣeaɖewoɣi (vevietɔ le nuteɖeamedziɣiwo) àte ŋu ase le ɖokuiwò me be yeagaƒo nu. Ne èyi edzi le nusiwo nèsrɔ̃ le nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ me srɔ̃m la, akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàƒo nu nyuie wu le nɔnɔme ɖesiaɖe me.

Ðe woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe tɔtɔ nua?

Màte ŋu adzudzɔ ɣlidodo o . Gake nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàkpɔ nɔnɔmea gbɔ, si ana nànye amesi ka ɖe eɖokui dzi wu eye wòanye dzeɖola si wɔa dɔ nyuie wu.

Aleke mawɔ akpɔ tɔtɔ gbɔe? Aleke mate ŋu akpe ɖe vinyea ŋu?

Ne viwòa le tsatsam la, nu ʋɛ aɖewo li nàte ŋu awɔ atsɔ akpe ɖe eŋu:

• Do ŋusẽ nusiwo nèsrɔ̃ tso nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ me: Lé ŋku ɖe nusiwo srɔ̃m viwòa le le atikewɔwɔ me ŋu ɣesiaɣi. Bia woƒe nuƒoƒoŋutinunyala be aleke nàte ŋu ado alɔ nuwɔna mawo le aƒeme hã.
• Gbɔ dzi ɖi: Ne míele aɖaŋu ɖom na ame aɖe si le tsatsam la, ɖewohĩ míanɔ du dzi be míaɖɔ wo ɖo. Gake nu nyuitɔ kekeakee nye be nàna ɣeyiɣi wo be woawu woƒe susuwo nu.
• Wɔ nunɔamesi siwo le suku ŋudɔ: Ðewohĩ viwòa adze na kpekpeɖeŋu kple kpekpeɖeŋu bubu le suku si ate ŋu akpe ɖe eŋu wòakpɔ dzidzedze.
• Wɔ ɖeka kple kpekpeɖeŋunahawo: Bia viwò ƒe nuƒoƒoŋutinunyala tso mɔ siwo dzi nàto aɖo kadodo me kple ɖevi siwo ƒe nuwɔna mewɔa dɔ nyuie o dzila bubuwo ŋu. Miate ŋu akpe ɖe mia nɔewo ŋu eye miaƒe susu nanɔ viwòa ƒe nuhiahiãwo ŋu nyuie wu.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be makpɔ ɖɔkta?

Ne wò alo viwòa le dzesiwo le fu ɖem na wò be nànɔ xɔ me la, ke yi ɖɔkta alo nuƒoƒoŋutinunyala gbɔ. Kuxi gãtɔwo dometɔ ɖekae nye dzesi siawo kpɔkpɔ le ɖokuiwò me . Ne ame bubuwo le biabiam tso asiwò ɣesiaɣi be "ɖe blewu" alo "gbugbɔ gblɔe" la, ate ŋu aɖe vi na wò ne èƒo nu kple nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe dɔléleŋutinunyala (SLP).

Ðe Nuwo Ƒe Tɔtɔ Nye Ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe Nu?

Togbɔ be claritin nye gbegbɔgblɔ nyuie ƒe dɔléle hã la, numekuku aɖewo ɖee fia be ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ siwo do ƒome kple ahɔhɔ̃ hã kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe edzi . Le kpɔɖeŋu me, numekuku aɖe si lé ŋku ɖe amesiwo ŋu claritin le ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ŋu la kpɔe be nusiwo mesɔ o le basal ganglia kple prefrontal cortex me.

Gake nuƒoƒo kple gbegbɔgblɔ ŋuti dɔdalawo gale nu srɔ̃m tso nusiwo katã kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi siawo dzi.

Mlɔeba la, nuka dzie wòle be míaɖo ŋkui! (Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme)

Nuwo tsɔtsɔ sɔ kple wo nɔewo ate ŋu ana wòasesẽ na wò alo viwò be nàwɔ nu veviwo gɔ̃ hã, abe nyatakakawo nana ame bubuwo kple ale si nàse nu gɔme na ɖokuiwò ene. Ate ŋu ana ŋu nakpe ame eye wòalé fu ame ɖokui hã. Gake nuwo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbe meku ɖe ame ƒe nunya alo nuƒoƒo ƒe ŋutete ŋu kura o. Nuƒoƒo nyuie ƒe kuxi sia ƒomevi le ame geɖe siwo kpɔ dzidzedze, siwo dome amesiwo tsɔa woawo ŋutɔ ƒe gbe kpɔa woƒe agbemenuhiahiãwoe hã le. Nu vevitɔe nye be nàsrɔ̃ alesi nàwɔ akpɔ edzi. Afi siae dɔwɔwɔ kple Nuƒoƒo kple Gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe Dɔléleŋutinunyala ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàkpɔ wò ŋutɔ wò atsyã kple kakaɖedzi le. Eya ta, mègavɔ̃ o, mègakpe ŋu o, eye nàxɔ kpekpeɖeŋu si nèhiã.

` Tɔtɔ, nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxiwo, nuƒoƒo kabakaba, nyawo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbe, nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ, nuƒoƒo nyuie ƒe kuxi, nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ