Ðe ameŋugblẽnyawo alo kuɖiɖi aɖewo le wò nuƒoƒo mea? Mina míasrɔ̃ nu tso gbegbɔgblɔ nyuie ƒe kuxiwo ŋu!

Ðe nètsia dzi ɖe nyawo ŋu ɣeaɖewoɣi ne èle nu ƒoma? Alo ɖe nèsena le ɖokuiwò me be yemate ŋu ase nya si dim nèle be yeagblɔ sesĩe la gɔme o, eye wòdze abe wò nyawo tɔtɔ enea? Ðewohĩ esesẽna na viwò be wòadze nya aɖe gɔme ne ele nu ƒom, alo ède dzesii be egblɔa nya ɖeka ƒe akpa aɖewo zi geɖe. Menye nusiwo dzɔna le vome koe esiawo nye o, woyɔa wo be gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe kuxiwo. Mina míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu tsitotsito vie egbea, elabena ate ŋu anɔ vevie ŋutɔ na wò kple wò lɔlɔ̃tɔwo be nànya esia.

Nukae Nye Gbeɖiɖi ƒe Dɔléle?

Kpuie ko la, nyagbɔgblɔ nyuie nye mɔ si dzi nyawo tona bɔbɔe ne èle nu ƒom. Abe alesi tsi ƒe tɔsisi aɖe sina nyuie eye wòkɔna ene la, ne míele nu ƒom la, míegblɔna be míeƒoa nu nyuie ne nyawo le sisim nyuie, evɔ míetsia anyi o, eye míenɔa sisim atraɖii. Gbeɖiɖi ƒe kuxi nye ne wotɔ te sisi sia si le bɔbɔe ɣesiaɣi ne èle nu ƒom.

Ne ame aɖe si ŋu dɔléle sia le le nu ƒom la, nu siwo gbɔna ate ŋu adzɔ:

• Wotɔa te enuenu ne wole nu ƒom.
• Gbeɖiɖi aɖewo hea ɣeyiɣi didi wu alesi wòhiã .
• Zi geɖe la, wogbugbɔa gbeɖiɖiwo, ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo, alo nyawo gblɔna .
• Nuƒoƒo ƒe duƒuƒu alo eƒe tsɔtsɔme va zua nusi mebɔ o .

Le nyateƒe me la, kuxi siawo siwo woyɔna be gbegbɔgblɔ nyuie ƒe kuxiwo bɔ ŋutɔ. Gake esi menye amesiamee ka nya ta tso wo ŋu o ta la, esesẽna na numekulawo be woanya amesiwo tututu ŋu dɔléle siawo le.

Zi geɖe la, dɔléle siawo dzea egɔme tso ɖevime . Esia ate ŋu ahe kuxiwo vɛ le xɔlɔ̃dzedze, agbalẽnyalawo, kple susu ƒe lãmesẽ gɔ̃ hã me ɣeaɖewoɣi. Gake nya nyuiae nye be ne wowɔ atike na wò nyuie la , àte ŋu asrɔ̃ alesi nàɖu dzesi siawo dzi.

Nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi siawo ƒomevi vevi eve li:

Woate ŋu ama nuƒoƒo nyuie ƒe kuxiwo ɖe hatsotso vevi eve me:

1. Kuku : Esia nye ne èdze agbagba be yeagblɔ ŋɔŋlɔdzesi alo nya aɖe, gake medo le wò nu me o. Ewɔna nam abe ɖe nusi nèle agbagba dzem be yeagblɔ la tsi anyi ene.

2. Tɔtɔ : Le nɔnɔme sia me la, àte ŋu aƒo nu kabakaba ŋutɔ. Ne èle nu ƒom alea la, woate ŋu atsɔ nyawo aƒo ƒu alo atso nyawo ƒe akpa aɖewo.

Kukuɖenuŋu bɔ wu manyamanya. Ele vevie be míaɖo ŋku edzi be ame aɖewo ate ŋu ato nɔnɔme evea siaa me le ɣeyiɣi ɖeka me.

Nukae nye nɔnɔme sia ƒe dzesiwo?

Nɔnɔme vovovowoe le kukɔkpakpa kple nuƒoƒo ƒuƒlu siaa ŋu si gblẽa nuƒoƒo ƒe sisi nyuie. Mina míalé ŋku ɖe wo ŋu ɖe vovo.

Kuku ƒe Dzesiwo

Ne kukɔkpakpa ƒe nɔnɔme aɖe le ŋuwò la, nu siawo tɔgbe ate ŋu adzɔ:

• Ne èle agbagba dzem be yeadze nyagbe aɖe gɔme la, ele be nàzi ɖoɖoe hena ɣeyiɣi aɖe evɔ màwɔ gbeɖiɖi gbãtɔ o.Edzɔna. Bu alesi wòanye ŋukpee nenye be nusia dzɔ esime wòhiã kpata be nàgblɔ nya aɖe ŋu kpɔ.
• Wohea gbeɖiɖi aɖewo doa goe didi wu alesi wòhiã . Le kpɔɖeŋu me, "Nusi mekpɔe nye...".
• Wogbugbɔa ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo alo nyawo gblɔna . Le kpɔɖeŋu me, "Na po-po-po-gbalẽ mam" alo "Ameka-amekae nɔ nu ƒom?"

Nɔnɔme Siwo Le Tsitretsitsi Ŋu

Ne nɔnɔme aɖe le ŋuwò si woyɔna be ``Cluttering'' la, nusiwo le abe esia ene ateŋu adzɔ:

• Nya eve tsɔtsɔ ƒo ƒui kple wo gbɔgblɔ abe nya ɖeka ene . Le kpɔɖeŋu me, gbɔgblɔ be "televisoff" tsɔ wu be "tsi television la."
• Nuƒoƒo ƒe ablaɖeɖe alo eƒe tsɔtsɔme ate ŋu aƒu du ŋutɔ, mawɔe edziedzi o, alo wòanɔ ʋuʋum . Ate ŋu asesẽ na nyasela hã be wòase egɔme.
• Ne wole nu ƒom la, wozãa nya geɖe siwo mehiã o abe "um," "ah," "ale," kple "ènya."
• Gbea ƒe gbeɖiɖi tɔtrɔ kpata le nyagbe aɖe titina. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, nyabiase eve gbɔgblɔ ɖe wo nɔewo yome, abe "Medi be mayi, ɖe mate ŋu ayi?"
• Àte ŋu akpɔ "maze patterns" le ŋutinyaa me. Eyae nye be nànɔ tsatsam anɔ tsatsam be nàɖo nya la gbɔ, nàtsaka nuwo. Le kpɔɖeŋu me: "Ehiã be mayi aɖaƒle awu... Mado go le Dzoɖagbe, eye naneke mele asinye mado o... Mele nu ƒlem be maxɔ nane ado na ŋkeke sia."
• Nuƒoƒo kple ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo alo nya siwo woɖe ɖa . Le kpɔɖeŋu me, le esi teƒe be nàgblɔ be "dzɔgbenyuietɔe" la, nàɖee kpuie wòazu "wasakata".
• Dzeɖoɖoa nu tsotso le vome le nyagbe aɖe titina. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, "Èdi be... yeava kpɔ sinima la?"

Le nɔnɔme siawo ta la, àte ŋu awɔ nu aɖewo atsɔ aɣla wò nuƒoƒo ƒe mɔxenu. Le kpɔɖeŋu me:

• Ƒo asa na nya aɖewo siwo nèsusu be wotɔtɔa ame alo tɔtɔa ame.
• Wodzea agbagba be yewoahe ame bubuwo ƒe susu to kɔdzidede, ŋɔti me kɔklɔ, alo ʋuʋu le dzeɖoɖoa me me.
• Woƒe ɖoɖoezizi, ŋkuʋuʋu, alo ta ʋuʋu .
• Wowɔa nu abe ɖe woŋlɔ nya si gblɔ ge yewole be ene.
• Ƒo asa na nuƒoƒo ƒe mɔnukpɔkpɔwo .

Nu siawo ate ŋu ahe susu me nuteɖeamedzi geɖe vɛ na wò. Eya ta ele vevie ŋutɔ be nànya esia eye nàxɔ kpekpeɖeŋu ne ehiã.

Nukatae esia dzɔna ɖo? Nukawoe nye afɔku siwo le eme?

Le nyateƒe me la, dzɔdzɔmeŋutinunyalawo menya nusi tututu hea nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi siawo vɛ haɖe o . Gake eŋutinunyalawo de dzesi afɔku aɖewo siwo nana nɔnɔme siawo xɔxɔ ƒe afɔkua dzina ɖe edzi . Afɔku nye nane si dzia nɔnɔme aɖe xɔxɔ ƒe mɔnukpɔkpɔ ɖe edzi.

Afɔku mawo dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• Ne nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi aɖe le ame aɖe si le wò ƒome si me nètso me la , ate ŋu anye domenyiŋusẽfianu.
• Na wòNe tsitsi ƒe megbetsitsi alo nusɔsrɔ̃ ƒe kuxi aɖe li.
• Ne ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔléle abe `ADHD` (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) alo `Autism Spectrum Disorder` ene le ŋuwò.
• Ne ŋutsue nènye (nɔnɔme sia bɔ ɖe ŋutsuviwo me vie wu nyɔnuviwo).

Gake menye amesiame si ŋu nusiawo le lae axɔ nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi o. Ne èsusu be nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi aɖe ate ŋu anɔ ye alo viwòa ŋu la, yi ɖɔkta gbɔ enumake . Ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò.

Aleke nèwɔ de dzesi esia?

Zi geɖe la, ɖɔktawo te ŋu dea dzesi nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi siawo to ŋkuléle ɖe woƒe dzesiwo ŋu me. Woate ŋu abia nyawo abe:

• "Ðe nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi le ame aɖe ŋu le wò ƒomea mea?"
• "Aleke nuƒoƒo ƒe mɔxenu sia kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe wò gbesiagbegbenɔnɔ dzii?"
• "Kuxi tɔxɛ kawo gbɔe wòle be nàkpɔ?"
• "Aleke wò ŋutɔ wò nuteƒekpɔkpɔ nɔ?"

Wò ɖɔkta ate ŋu aɖo wò ɖe Nuƒoƒo Kple Gbegbɔgblɔ Ŋuti Dɔléleŋutinunyala (SLP) hã gbɔ . SLP-wo nye nuƒoƒo, gbegbɔgblɔ, kple kadodo ƒe kuxiwo gbɔ kpɔkpɔ ŋuti nunyala bibiwo. Woate ŋu ade vovototo gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe kuxiwo kple nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi bubuwo dome. Emegbe woate ŋu awɔ atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɖoɖo si sɔ na wò .

Ne wosusu be dɔléle sia le viwòa ŋu la, SLP ate ŋu aƒo nu kple ɖevia ƒe nufialawo kple ƒomea me tɔ bubuwo hã. Esia ate ŋu akpe ɖe wo ŋu woakpɔe ɖa be ŋusẽ aɖe le ɖevia ƒe nusɔsrɔ̃, hadomekadodowo, alo susu ƒe lãmesẽ (abe dzimaɖitsitsi ene) dzi. Woate ŋu akafu nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ hã be wòakpe ɖe ɖevia ŋu wòakpɔ seselelãme sesẽ siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxia ŋu gbɔ.

Aleke wowɔa atike nɛ?

Ðɔktawo daa nuƒoƒo nyuie ƒe kuxi siawo to nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ me . Dɔdamɔnu sia bia be woasrɔ̃ nuƒoƒo eye woato mɔnu vovovo siwo woate ŋu azã le dzeɖoɖo me vɛ.

Nuƒoƒo nyuie ƒe kuxiwo dada ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò le nuwo abe:

• Dzra wò gbɔgbɔ dzi be nàdo alɔ wò nuƒoƒo .
• Zã dzɔdzɔmetɔtrɔwo ne èle nu ƒom, si kpena ɖe ŋuwò nèyia nya alo nyagbe aɖe ƒe akpa si kplɔe ɖo dzi.
• Ðe nuwɔna bubu siwo do ƒome kple dɔléle sia, abe kɔdzi kple ŋkuʋuʋu ene dzi kpɔtɔ .
• Ðe nuteɖeamedzi kple seselelãme gbegblẽ siwo do ƒome kple nuƒoƒo dzi kpɔtɔ .
• Ðe blewu eye nàlé fɔ ɖe gbeɖiɖi ɖekaɖekawo, gbeɖiɖi ƒe gbeɖiɖiwo, kple nyawo ŋu .
• Ƒo nu nyuie wu eye wòanɔ bɔbɔe wu .
• Gblɔ alesi nèhiã ame bubuwo be woakpe ɖe ŋuwò nàɖo dze nyuie wu (le kpɔɖeŋu me, bia tso wo si be woana ɣeyiɣi wò be nàwu nyagbewo nu).
• GawuZã nyagbe kpui siwo me kɔ.

Ðo ŋku edzi be nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ nye nuwɔna si bia dzigbɔɖi kple ɖokuitsɔtsɔna. Ðewohĩ axɔ ɣeyiɣi aɖe hafi nàkpɔ emetsonuwo, gake mègana ta o!

Ðe woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe nɔnɔme sia nua?

Esi womenya nusi tututu gbɔ nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi siawo tsona o ta la, mɔ aɖeke meli si dzi woato axe mɔ ɖe wo nu keŋkeŋ o . Gake abe alesi míegblɔe va yi ene la, atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu awɔ akpa gã aɖe le wò nuƒoƒo ƒe sisi nyuie wu me.

Nukae adzɔ ne nɔnɔme sia le ŋunye?

Gbeɖiɖi nyuie ƒe kuxiwo gblẽa nu le amesiame ŋu le mɔ vovovowo nu. Dzesiawo ate ŋu atso esiwo mesẽ o dzi va ɖo esiwo nu sẽ dzi . Nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàɖu nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi ɖesiaɖe dzi, si me kukɔ alo nuƒoƒo ƒe nuwɔna hã le.

Ɣeaɖewoɣi, vevietɔ le nuteɖeamedzi sesẽɣiwo , dzesiawo ate ŋu agadze ake. Eyata ele vevie ŋutɔ be woayi edzi anɔ aɖaŋu siwo wosrɔ̃ le nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ me la srɔ̃m.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be nàdi atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo?

Ne nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi aɖe le ŋuwò si le ŋusẽ kpɔm ɖe wò kakaɖedzi alo gbesiagbegbenɔnɔ dzi la , ƒo nu kple wò ɖɔkta. Ate ŋu aƒo nu tso wò ŋutɔ wò taɖodzinuwo ŋu na wò eye wòakpe ɖe ŋuwò nànya afi si nàdze egɔme tsoe.

Ne èsusu be nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi aɖe le viwòa ŋu la, ƒo nu kple viwòa ƒe ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdala . Ate ŋu anya ne viwòa ƒe nuƒoƒo sɔ ɖe eƒe ƒexɔxɔ nu eye ate ŋu aɖo wò ɖe SLP be woawɔ atike nɛ.

Nya kawoe wòle be nàbia ɖɔktaa?

Ne nuƒoƒo nyuie ƒe kuxi aɖe le ŋuwò alo viwòa ŋu la, nya aɖewo siwo nàte ŋu abia wò ɖɔktae nye esi:

• "Gbeɖiɖi ƒe kuxi ka ƒomevie le ŋunye?"
• "Nu kawoe ate ŋu ana nye dzesiwo nagagblẽ ɖe edzi?"
• "Atikewɔwɔ ka ƒomevie nèkafu?"
• "Nukae mate ŋu akpɔ mɔ na le nye nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ƒe ɣeyiɣiwo me?"
• "Ðe nunɔamesiwo alo kpekpeɖeŋunaha aɖewo li siwo gbɔ mate ŋu axɔ kpekpeɖeŋu tsoa?"

Mègavɔ̃ be yeabia nya siawo o. Zi alesi nènya nu tso wò nɔnɔmea ŋu la, zi nenemae wòanɔ bɔbɔe be nàkpɔ egbɔe.

Aleke míawɔ akpe ɖe ame sia tɔgbi ŋu?

Ne nuƒoƒo nyuie ƒe kuxi aɖe le ame aɖe si nènya ŋu la, mɔ siwo dzi nàto ado alɔe dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• Dɔmenyonyo kple dzigbɔɖi . Na ɣeyiɣi wo be woawu nyagbewo kple susuwo nu. Mègadrɔ̃ ʋɔnu wo alo aɖu fewu le wo ŋu o.
• Di dɔwɔnu siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò . Le kpɔɖeŋu me, dukɔa ƒe sukuwo wɔa dɔ tɔxɛwo na ɖevi siwo ƒe nuƒoƒo me gblẽ.
• Kpe asi ɖe kpekpeɖeŋunahawo didi ŋu , eɖanye le ame ŋutɔ gbɔ alo to Internet dzi o. Esi gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe kuxiwo bɔ ta la, ƒuƒoƒo aɖewo li siwo kpena ɖe ame siwo ƒoa nu, amesiwo nuƒoƒo mesesẽna na o, kple woƒe ame veviwo ŋu.

Nu vevitɔe nye be nàna amea nase le eɖokui me be menye yewo ɖeɖe koe o. Wò dzigbɔɖi kple nugɔmesese ado ŋusẽ wo ŋutɔ.

Ate ŋu asesẽ ŋutɔŋutɔ ne nya aɖe le ta me na wò gake màte ŋu agblɔe le nyagbewo me o. Ne èdi vevie be yeawɔ ɖeka kple dzeɖoɖoa hã la, esia ate ŋu ana nàtsi dzodzodzoe eye vɔvɔ̃ naɖo ŋuwò. Nuteɖeamedzi sia ƒomevi ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ gã aɖe ɖe wò susu kple seselelãme ƒe lãmesẽ dzi. Gake nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu le nɔnɔme sia me. Ne èsusu be nuƒoƒo ƒe kuxi aɖe ate ŋu anɔ ye alo viwòa ŋu la, kpɔ egbɔ be yegblɔe na yeƒe ɖɔkta. Woafia mɔ wò le nusi nàwɔ emegbe ŋu.

Eyata, mina míaɖo ŋku nu vevitɔ kekeake siwo wòle be míatsɔ ayi aƒemee tso ŋutinya sia me dzi na mía ɖokui? (Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme)

• Gbeɖiɖi nyuie ƒe kuxiwo nye dɔléle siwo doa kplamatse nuƒoƒo ƒe sisi nyuie. Kukuɖenuŋu kple nuwo tsɔtsɔ ƒu gbee nye ƒomevi vevitɔ eveawo.
• Esiawo ate ŋu adze egɔme tso ɖevime eye woate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe gbesiagbegbenɔnɔ, nusɔsrɔ̃, kple susu ƒe lãmesẽ dzi.
• Togbɔ be womenya nusi tututu gbɔ wòtso o hã la, domenyiŋusẽfianu, tsitsi ƒe megbetsitsi, kple ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔléle aɖewo ate ŋu anye afɔku.
• Nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔe nye atikewɔwɔmɔnu vevitɔ. Ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu be nuƒoƒo ƒe ŋutete nanyo ɖe edzi eye wòakpɔ kuxiwo gbɔ.
• Ne dzesi siawo dometɔ aɖe le ŋuwò alo viwòa ŋu la, mègahe ɖe megbe le atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo didi me o . Ne wokpɔe kaba eye wodae la, ate ŋu ana tɔtrɔ gã aɖe nava.
• Ele vevie ŋutɔ be woawɔ nu ɖe ​​amesi ŋu dɔléle sia le ŋu le dzigbɔɖi, dɔmenyonyo, kple nugɔmesese me .

Mele mɔ kpɔm be nyatakaka sia akpe ɖe ŋuwò. Ðo ŋku edzi be menye wò ɖeka koe o, eye mɔ aɖewo li siwo dzi nàto axɔ kpekpeɖeŋu!

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