Nukae nye ŋutsu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ? Mina míaƒo nu tso eŋu bɔbɔe!

Ðewohĩ èse nya ‘Intersex’ alo mèse o. Kpuie ko la, efia be ame ƒe vidzidziŋutete alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nɔnɔmewo mesɔ ɖe ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ƒe hatsotso siwo bɔ la nu nyuie o. Esia adze abe nyati sesẽ aɖe ene, gake mègatsi dzi o , míamae ɖe nya bɔbɔe siwo gɔme nàte ŋu ase me.

Nuka tututue nye ŋutsu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ?

Bu eŋu kpɔ, zi geɖe la, mí katã míesusuna be nyɔnuvi alo ŋutsuvi ye wodzi mí. Gake le vidzinu vovovowo dome gbɔdɔdɔ gome la, ame ƒe ŋutilã ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nɔnɔmewo, si nye vidzidzi ŋutinuwo, domenyiŋusẽfianu, lãmetsiŋusẽ, kple bubuawo, mele ŋutsu kple nyɔnu ƒe mama sia si me kɔ la me o. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, nɔnɔme siawo te ŋu dzena le vidzidzi me. Gake le ame aɖewo gome la, woate ŋu adze le woƒe sɔhɛmenɔɣi alo emegbe gɔ̃ hã, eye ɣeaɖewoɣi le woƒe tsitsime gɔ̃ hã. Nusi wɔ nuku enye be, ɣeaɖewoɣi la, màte ŋu akpɔ naneke tso gota o. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, amekoko alo nɔnɔmetatawo dodokpɔ ƒomevi aɖe me koe nèva nya nu tso esia ŋu.

Ðe esia nye dɔlélea? Alo dɔléle aɖee?

Ame geɖe susuna be esia nye dɔléle alo nɔnɔme aɖe ƒomevi. Gake le nyateƒe me la, Intersex menye dɔléle, dɔléle, alo "nɔnɔme" ƒomevi aɖeke si mesɔ o. Tsã la, woyɔnɛ be ‘Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe Tsitsi ƒe Dɔléle’ (DSD), si gɔmee nye ‘gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe tsitsi ƒe kuxi’. Àte ŋu akpɔe kokoko be woyɔe nenema le teƒe aɖewo. Gake fifia ɖɔktawo kple amesiwo nya nu tso nya sia ŋu gblɔ be Intersex menye ‘dɔléle’ ma tɔgbe o, ke boŋ enye tɔtrɔ si dzɔna le dzɔdzɔme nu le amegbetɔ ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ me . Eyata Intersex nɔnɔme aɖe ƒe amesinɔnɔ mefia be ehiã be woawɔ atike tɔxɛ aɖeke na wò o.

Ŋutilã ƒe akpa kawoe ŋutsu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nɔnɔmewo ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖo?

Nɔnɔme sia ate ŋu agblẽ nu le wò ŋutilã ƒe akpa vovovowo ŋu, vevietɔ:

• Vidzinuwo: Eyae nye ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe akpa siwo le gota.
• Chromosomes: Nu suesuesue siwo le míaƒe lãmenugbagbeviwo katã me siwo me míaƒe domenyiŋusẽfianu ŋuti nyatakakawo le.
• Lãmetsiŋusẽ: Abe atikewo ƒe dɔla siwo kpɔa dɔ vovovowo dzi le ŋutilãa me ene.
• Vidzidzi ƒe ɖoɖo: Ŋutinu siwo kpɔa gome le vidzidzi me ƒe ɖoɖo.
• Gonads: Esiawoe nye nyɔnuwo ƒe azigolowo alo ŋutsuwo ƒe vidzidɔ.

Aleke gbegbee vidzinu vovovowo dome gbɔdɔdɔ bɔe?

Ðewohĩ àsusu be esia nye nusi mebɔ o, nusi ƒã hafi nèkpɔna. Gake menye nenemae o. Le United States la, wobu akɔnta be ame ɖeka le ame 100 ɖesiaɖe me ƒe vidzinu to vovo ƒe nɔnɔmewo le esi. Le xexeame godoo la, ame siwo ade 2% ƒe vidzinu to vovo ƒe nɔnɔmewo le wo si.Wogblɔ be vidzinu vovovowo dome nɔnɔmewo li. Eyata, esia mebɔ abe alesi míesusui ene o, alo?

Nukae hea esia vɛ?

Nu ɖeka aɖeke meli si gbɔ vidzinu vovovowo gbɔ dɔdɔ tsona si ŋu kakaɖedzi le o. Ema fia be esesẽ be míagblɔ nusita tututu nusia dzɔna. Gake dzɔdzɔmeŋutinunyalawo kple ɖɔktawo xɔe se be nu geɖe li siwo ate ŋu ahe esia vɛ.

Woate ŋu atso vidzinu dome nɔnɔme aɖewo tso dzidzime yi dzidzime (siwo ƒe domenyinyi tso domenyiŋusẽfianu me). Bu eŋu kpɔ, nɔnɔme aɖewo le míaƒe ƒomewo me (abe kɔkɔme, ŋutigbalẽ ƒe amadede ene) toa domenyiŋusẽfianuwo dzi, aleae wòle. Gake esia sesẽ vie wu.

Ɣebubuɣiwo la, ate ŋu atso lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe tɔtrɔ le fugboe ƒe tsitsi me, si nye vidzĩ ƒe tsitsi ƒe gɔmedzedze le vidzidɔ me gbɔ . Ate ŋu anye tɔtrɔ le vidadaa ƒe dzɔdzɔme lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe agbɔsɔsɔ ŋu, alo ate ŋu anye lãmetsiŋusẽ siwo wowɔ tso gotagome atike aɖe me ƒe ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi.

Kpeɖe eŋu la:

• Tɔtrɔ siwo vaa domenyiŋusẽfianu (receptor gene) si do ƒome kple lãmetsi si nye androgen me: Androgen nye lãmetsi si kpena ɖe ŋutsu ƒe nɔnɔmewo ƒe tsitsi ŋu koŋ. Be lãmetsi sia nate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ŋutilãa ƒe lãmenugbagbeviwo dzi la, ele be ‘nuxɔla’ si sɔ kplii nanɔ lãmenugbagbevi mawo si. Ne tɔtrɔ aɖe va le domenyiŋusẽfianu si wɔa xɔla sia me, togbɔ be androgen lãmetsiŋusẽa le eme hã la, ŋutilãa mate ŋu azãe nyuie o.
• Nuto Y domenyiŋusẽfianu (SRY) si dea dzesi gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe akpa aɖe si bu alo esi mesɔ o: SRY domenyiŋusẽfianu, si le Y domenyiŋusẽfianu dzi zi geɖe lae na ŋutsu ƒe nɔnɔmewo va dona. Ne kuxi aɖe le domenyiŋusẽfianu sia ŋu la, woate ŋu atrɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe tsitsi.
• Domenyiŋusẽ ƒe nɔnɔme bubu siwo ate ŋu ana lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe agbɔsɔsɔ si mesɔ o si gblẽa nu le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe ŋutinuwo ƒe tsitsi ŋu: Domenyiŋusẽfianu bubuwo ate ŋu anye lãmetsiŋusẽ siwo hiã na gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe tsitsi ƒe anyimanɔmanɔ, alo lãmetsi aɖewo ƒe dzidziɖedzi fũ akpa.

Aleke ŋutsu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nɔnɔme ɖea eɖokui fiana le nye ŋutilã me?

Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ nye nɔnɔme tɔxɛ aɖe si ɖea eɖokui fiana le mɔ vovovowo nu na ame ɖesiaɖe. Abe alesi wòle le míaƒe asibidɛwo gome ene la, amesiame ƒe nuteƒekpɔkpɔ le vidzinu vovovowo gbɔ dɔdɔ ŋu to vovo. Dzɔdzɔmeŋutinunyalawo gblɔ be mɔ vovovo siwo ade 40 ye li siwo dzi nɔnɔme siawo ate ŋu ato adze. Eyata manya wɔ be woama wo ɖe hatsotsowo me ɖe nu ɖeka me o: ‘Esiae nye nusi ŋutsu kple nyɔnu dome gbɔdɔdɔ fia.’

Gake mina míaƒo nu tso dzesi siwo bɔ wu dometɔ aɖewo ŋu:

• Dzɔdzɔmeŋusẽŋununya ƒe Vovototo: Dzɔdzɔmeŋusẽŋununya le mí katã si le míaƒe ŋutilã ƒe lãmenugbagbeviwo me. Esiawoe tsɔa míaƒe domenyiŋusẽfianu ŋuti nyatakakawo. Zi geɖe la, XX domenyiŋusẽfianuwo nɔa nyɔnu ŋu eye XY domenyiŋusẽfianuwo nɔa ŋutsu ŋu. Esia ate ŋu ato vovo na amesi ƒe vidzinu to vovo.
• Le kpɔɖeŋu me, XXY domenyiŋusẽfianu ƒe ɖoɖo (Klinefelter syndrome) ate ŋu anɔ ame aɖewo si .
• X domenyiŋusẽfianu ɖeka koe le bubuwo si (XO - Turner ƒe dɔléle).(Esia hã gblẽa nu le amesiwo wobu be wonye nyɔnuwo hã ŋu, gake ate ŋu aɖe vidzinu vovovowo ƒe nɔnɔmewo hã afia).
• Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, XX domenyiŋusẽfianu ate ŋu anɔ lãmenugbagbevi aɖewo si le ŋutilãa me eye XY domenyiŋusẽfianu ate ŋu anɔ lãmenugbagbevi bubuwo si. Woyɔa esia be ‘mosaicism’ .
• Dzɔdzɔmeŋusẽ ƒe ƒuƒoƒo ƒomevi bubu geɖewo ate ŋu anɔ anyi abe esia ene. Dzɔdzɔmeŋusẽ ƒe tɔtrɔ siawo ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ŋutilãa ƒe lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe agbɔsɔsɔ kple gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe ŋutinuwo ƒe tsitsi dzi.
• Vidzinuwo ƒe gotagome kple ememe ƒe nɔnɔme siwo tsaka:
• Ame aɖewo siwo ƒe vidzinu to vovo ate ŋu adze nyɔnuwo le gota, gake ŋutsu ƒe vidzidziŋusẽ, abe vidzidɔ ene, ya le ememe. Alo, ŋutsu ƒe vidzinuwo ate ŋu anɔ wo ŋu le gota, gake nyɔnu ƒe vidzidziŋusẽ, abe azigolo alo vidzidɔ ene, nanɔ wo me le eme.
• Le bubuwo me la, azigolo ƒe lãkusi kple azigolo ƒe lãkusi siaa ate ŋu anɔ anyi, ɖewohĩ woaƒo ƒu awɔ ‘azigolowo’ .
• Vidzinu siwo le gota ate ŋu anye esiwo me mekɔ o , ke menye ŋutsu alo nyɔnu bliboe o. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, vidzidɔ si lolo wu esi sɔ alo vidzidɔ si le sue wu esi sɔ ate ŋu anɔ anyi. Alo, afisi nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔa ƒe ʋuʋu le ate ŋu ato vovo.
• Le vovototo siawo ta la, ate ŋu asesẽ ɣeaɖewoɣi be woanya enumake ne wodzi vidzĩ be, ‘Nyɔnuvie?’

Ðe vidzinu vovovowo dome nɔnɔ kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe nye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro dzia?

Nya sia nye nya si ame geɖe biana. Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ meku ɖe wò gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ŋu o. Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nɔnɔme mekpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe edzi nenye be ame siwo ƒe vidzinu to vovo na wo tɔ (dzɔdzɔe), ŋutsu siwo dɔna kple ŋutsuwo/nyɔnu siwo lɔ̃a wo nɔewo, vidzinu eve, gbɔdɔdɔ manɔsenu, alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro bubu aɖe le asiwò la ƒe nu lé dzi na wò o. Vidzinu vovovowo me tɔ ate ŋu anye amesiame si si gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ɖesiaɖe le.

Ðe ŋutsu kple nyɔnu ƒe vidzinu to vovo na ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzroa?

" Ao, menye nenema kura o. Nya 'hermaphrodite' mele amegbetɔwo me ŋutɔŋutɔ le nugbagbeŋutinunya me o. Enye nya xoxo aɖe ŋutɔ, si mesɔ o. Efia be ame aɖe nye ŋutsu bliboe eye wònye nyɔnu bliboe le ɣeyiɣi ɖeka me. Ema manya wɔ le nugbagbeŋutinunya me o. Le nyateƒe me la, ame geɖe siwo le vidzinu vovovowo dome habɔbɔa me kpɔe be nya ma nye bubumademade ame ŋu ŋutɔ, edoa dziku na ame, eye wòdoa ŋukpe ame. Eyata nya siwo sɔ la nye Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ kple ‘vidzinu dome nyenye’."

Ðe wòhiã be woawɔ dɔ na ame siwo ƒe vidzinu to vovo na wo nɔewo alo woawɔ atike na woa?

"Ne vidzinu kple nyɔnu domee nènye la, zi geɖe la, mehiã be woawɔ dɔ aɖeke na wò o."– Zi alesi wòlɔ̃e ko. Gake tsã la, wowɔa dɔ na ɖevi siwo wodzi kple vidzinu ƒe nɔnɔmewo be woana woƒe vidzinuwo nasɔ kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu si wode asi na wo le wo dzidzi me, alo be woaɖe vidzidziŋusẽ (abe vidzidɔ ƒe lãkusi ene) siwo mesɔ o la ɖa. Zi geɖe la, wowɔa dɔ siawo hafi ɖevia xɔ ƒe 2 gɔ̃ hã. Ɣemaɣi la, ɖɔktawo kple dzilawo susui be enyo na ɖevia ƒe etsɔme.

Gake nyitsɔ laa la, vidzinu vovovowo ƒe nutoa me tɔwo kple ʋiʋlilawo le nu ƒom tsi tre ɖe amekoko siawo ŋu. Wogblɔna be womehiã o elabena woate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ɖevi ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le etsɔme, vidzidzi, kple susu ƒe lãmesẽ dzi. Woʋlia nya be ele be dzilawo naɖe mɔ na ɖeviwo be woatso nya me le woƒe ŋutilã ŋu, siwo dometɔ aɖewoe nye nenye be woawɔ dɔ na wo kple atikewɔwɔ si ƒomevi wodi, vaseɖe esime woatsi ate ŋu ase egɔme .

Dukɔwo dome atikewɔha geɖe, abe Amerikatɔwo ƒe Ƒome Atikewɔlawo ƒe Habɔbɔ ene, da asi ɖe gome si le ŋutsu siwo ƒe vidzinu to vovo na wo nɔewo si be woatso nya me le woawo ŋutɔ ƒe ŋutilã ŋu la dzi. Esia fia be woalala vaseɖe esime woatsi hafi alɔ̃ ɖe edzi si ŋu wonya nu tsoe . Eyae nye be woaɖe mɔ na amea be wòase eƒe nɔnɔmea, amekokoa ƒe viɖe kple vɔ̃ gɔme bliboe, eye wòawɔ eya ŋutɔ ƒe nyametsotso le eŋu.

Afɔku kawoe le vidzinu vovovowo ƒe amekoko me?

"Afɔku aɖewo ate ŋu anɔ amekoko siawo tɔgbe, vevietɔ esiwo wowɔna le woƒe ɖevime, ate ŋu ahe afɔku aɖewo vɛ. Wo dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe seselelãme kple dɔwɔwɔ dzi ɖeɖe kpɔtɔ: Amekoko ate ŋu agblẽ nu le lãmekawo ŋu.
• Vidzidzimakpɔmakpɔ: Le vidzidzi ƒe lãkusiwo ɖeɖeɖa alo woƒe gbegblẽ ta.
• Abi: Ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ŋutilã kple susu siaa dzi.
• Aɖuɖɔtoe ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie alo aɖuɖɔtoe sesẽ.
• Aɖuɖɔtoe me dɔléle (UTIs) ƒe dzɔdzɔ enuenu.
• Susu me ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedziwo: Dzimaɖitsitsi kple dziku si ame mete ŋu wɔa nyametsotso le eya ŋutɔ ƒe ŋutilã ŋu o hena vɛ.

Esia tae, negbe ɖe atikewɔwɔ ŋuti susu kpata aɖe li ko hafi ame geɖe le gbɔgblɔm fifia be woahe amekoko mawo ɖe megbe vaseɖe esime amea natsi ate ŋu ase egɔme.

Ðe lãmesẽkuxi bubuwo li siwo do ƒome kple ŋutsu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nɔnɔmea?

"Zi geɖe la, amesiwo ƒe vidzinu to vovo na wo nɔewo le lãmesẽ me keŋkeŋ. Ke hã, ƒã ŋutɔ la, lãmesẽkuxi bubu geɖewo li siwo ate ŋu ado ƒome kple vidzinu vovovowo ƒe nɔnɔmea:

• Ƒu ƒe kuxiwo, abe ƒumeŋuɖui kple ƒumeŋuɖui ene – esiawo ateŋu atso lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe masɔmasɔ aɖewo gbɔ.
• Afɔku sue aɖe li be woaxɔ kansa ƒomevi aɖewo (vevietɔ ne lãkusi ƒe lãkusi si metsi nyuie le ŋutilãa me o).
• Nɔnɔme aɖewo siwo do ƒome kple lãmetsiŋusẽ, le kpɔɖeŋu me ‘Congenital adrenal hyperplasia’ alo ‘Androgen insensitivity syndrome’.
• Aɖuɖɔtoe ƒe ʋuʋu le ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu ƒe akpa si mesɔ o (Hypospadias) alo tsinyegoe ƒe ʋuʋu aɖeke mele eme o.
• Klinefelter syndrome - Nɔnɔme si tso ŋutsuwo ƒe X domenyiŋusẽfianu si sɔ gbɔ wu gbɔ.
• Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser ƒe dɔléle - Vidzidɔ kple vidzidɔ metsina abe alesi wokpɔ mɔe ene o.
• Swyer syndrome - gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãkusiwo ƒe tsitsi ƒe kpododonu.

"Gake ɖo ŋku edzi be menye dɔléle siawo katãe dzea vidzinu vovovowo dzi tɔwo katã dzi o. Esiawo mebɔ kura o. Eye, ne nɔnɔme siawo li la, woate ŋu ada wo."

Aleke mawɔ anya nenye be menye ŋutsu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ?

"Ne wodzi wò kple vovototo gã aɖe le wò vidzinuwo me la, ɖewohĩ mànya be vidzinu vovovowoe nènye o. Ðewohĩ mànyae gbeɖe le wò agbe me o. Ke hã, ɣeaɖewoɣi le wò agbe me emegbe la, àte ŋu ato nusiwo le abe:

• Ƒewuimenɔɣi si medzɔ le ɣeyiɣi si wokpɔ mɔ na me o. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, nyɔnuvi si medze eƒe dzinukpɔkpɔ gɔme le ɣeyiɣi si wokpɔ mɔ na o, alo ŋutsuvi si medze dzesiwo abe gbe si le goglom alo ɖa ƒe tsitsi ene o.
• Le sɔhɛmenɔɣi la, tɔtrɔ siwo mewɔ ɖeka kple wò gbɔdɔdɔ si woŋlɔ ŋkɔ na o la dzɔna. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, no ƒe tsitsi le ŋutsuvi me, alo gbe ƒe gogloƒe le nyɔnuvi me, alo ŋutilã ƒe fu ƒe tsitsi fũ akpa.
• Fufɔfɔ sesẽ (vidzidzimakpɔmakpɔ). Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ne wole agbagba dzem be yewoadzi vi ko hafi amewo va kpɔnɛ be yewonye ŋutsu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ.

"Ne èto nane si le abe esia ene me la, nu nyuitɔ si nàwɔe nye be nàkpɔ ɖɔkta eye nàxɔ aɖaŋuɖoɖo. Woate ŋu awɔ dodokpɔ siwo hiã eye woana nàse esia gɔme nyuie."

Ðe vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe vidzidzi dzia?

"Ne vidzinu vovovowoe nènye la, ne àte ŋu adzi vi la nɔ te ɖe nu geɖe dzi. Enɔ te ɖe wò vidzinu ƒe nɔnɔme tɔxɛ, wò vidzidzi ƒe tsitsi, kple bubuawo dzi. Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu aɖewo ate ŋu adzi vi le dzɔdzɔme nu. Le ame bubuwo gome la, ate ŋu asesẽ."

Gake vidzinu ɖeka tɔgbe tɔwo dometɔ geɖe te ŋu kplɔa ƒomewo hehea viwo.Esia ate ŋu abia be woazã Mɔ̃ɖaŋununya si Kpena Ðe Vidzidzi Ŋu (ART). Esia ate ŋu alɔ mɔnuwo abe vidzidzi le vitro (IVF), azi siwo wotsɔ na, ​​tsinyenye alo fugboe siwo wotsɔ na zazã, alo fufɔfɔ ƒe mɔ̃/fufɔfɔ teƒe zazã ɖe eme.

Nu vevitɔe nye be, ne èdi be yeaxɔ vi nyi la, ke nàƒo nu tso eŋu na ɖɔkta ahanya tiatia siwo le asiwò.

Nu vevitɔ kekeake: kpekpeɖeŋu kple nugɔmesese

"Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ, vevietɔ ne èsrɔ̃ nu tso eŋu zi gbãtɔ, ate ŋu anye nyabiase geɖe. Àte ŋu ase le ɖokuiwò me be vɔvɔ̃ le ye ŋu, atsi dzimaɖi, alo yetsi akogo. Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ate ŋu ase le wo ɖokui me be yewomebɔbɔ ɖe anyi le yewoƒe dzedzeme ta alo asesẽ na wo be yewoawɔ ɖeka kple yewo hatiwo. Kadodo kple ame bubu siwo se kuxi siawo gɔme ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò ŋutɔ."

Enyo ŋutɔ be nàse le ɖokuiwò me be ame aɖe le ye si si sea nu gɔme na wò heɖoa to wò. Eyata, ƒo nu kple wò ɖɔkta eye nànya nu tso kpekpeɖeŋunahawo kple dɔwɔnu bubu siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe amewo abe wò ene ŋu. Àte ŋu akpɔ nyatakakawo kple kpekpeɖeŋunahawo hã le Internet dzi.

"Ðo ŋku edzi be menye wò ɖeka koe o. Ame geɖe li siwo se nɔnɔme sia gɔme eye woate ŋu ado alɔ wò. Ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàƒo nu kple ame aɖe si dzi nèka ɖo tso wò seselelãmewo ŋu."

Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme

"Enyo ekema, nu vevi aɖewo siwo dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui tso nusiwo ŋu míeƒo nu tsoe me lae nye esi:

• Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ menye dɔléle o. Enye amegbetɔ ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe tɔtrɔ le dzɔdzɔme nu.
• Nɔnɔme sia ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe nuwo abe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe ŋutinuwo, domenyiŋusẽfianu, kple lãmetsiŋusẽwo ene dzi.
• Vidzinu ƒe nɔnɔmewo ate ŋu adze le wo dzidzi me, le woƒe ƒewuiwo me, alo emegbe. Ðewohĩ womate ŋu akpɔ wo le gotagome xexeame o.
• Mègazã nya 'hermaphrodite' o. Enye nu gbegblẽ eye wòdoa dziku na ame. Nya si sɔ enye Intersex.
• Nyaʋiʋli geɖe le amekoko na ɖevi siwo ƒe vidzinu to vovo ŋu. Nukpɔsusu sẽŋu aɖe li be negbe ɖe atikewɔwɔ ŋuti susu kpata aɖe li ko hafi la, anyo wu be nàlala vaseɖe esime ɖevia natsi hafi alɔ̃ ɖe edzi le nyatakaka nu .
• Ame geɖe siwo ƒe vidzinu to vovo la nɔa agbe le lãmesẽ me, eye wokpɔa dzidzɔ, eye wote ŋu dzia ƒomewo hehea viwo.
• " Ne nyabiase aɖewo le asiwò ku ɖe esia ŋu la, mègayi edzi wò ɖeka o. Ƒo nu kple ɖɔkta si dzi nèka ɖo, aɖaŋuɖola, alo vidzinu vovovowo dome kpekpeɖeŋunaha. Ne èhiã kpekpeɖeŋu la, mègavɔ̃ be yeabiae o."

` Vidzinu dome ƒomedodo, gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe tsitsi, vidzidzi ƒe lãmesẽ, domenyiŋusẽfianu, lãmetsiŋusẽ, ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye, DSD