Ðe nènye amesi bua eɖokui ŋu ko hedaa ame bubuwo ɖe anyia? Ðe esia ate ŋu anye Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)a?

Ame mawo siwo bua wo ɖokui ŋu deŋgɔ ŋutɔ eye womebua ame bubuwo ƒe seselelãmewo ŋu o la le mí katã si. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ate ŋu asesẽ ŋutɔ be woawɔ nu kple ame siawo. Wosusuna be yewole xexeame tame eye ame bubu ɖesiaɖe bɔbɔ ɖe anyi wu yewo. Ðe esia ate ŋu anye susumedɔ vavãa? Ẽ, woyɔnɛ be Narcissistic Personality Disorder, alo `(Narcissistic Personality Disorder - NPD)`. Mina míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu tsitotsito vie egbea.

Nukae nye amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si nye narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)?

Kpuie ko la, amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si nye narcissistic personality disorder nye susumedɔléle. Ekpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe ale si nèkpɔa ɖokuiwò kple wò kple ame bubuwo dome ƒomedodo dzi. Didi si nu metsina o le amesi ŋu NPD le me be yeawɔ dɔ ɖe ame bubuwo dzi eye yease le ye ɖokui me be yele vevie. Didi sia ate ŋu asẽ ale gbegbe be ate ŋu ahe nuwɔna siwo agblẽ nu le wò kple amesiwo dome nèle ŋu vɛ.

Ŋkɔ "narcissistic" tso Helatɔwo ƒe glimeme adela Narcissus gbɔ. Le ŋutinyaa nu la, eya ŋutɔ ƒe tugbedzedze dzɔa dzi na Narcissus ale gbegbe be mete ŋu dzudzɔ ŋkuléle ɖe eya ŋutɔ ƒe keklẽ si le tsita aɖe me ŋu o. Mlɔeba la, wogblɔna be eku esime wònɔ ŋku lém ɖe eya ŋutɔ ƒe ŋugbledede ŋu.

Ke hã, togbɔ be ame geɖe do ƒome kple nya "Nazitɔnyenye" ​​kple dzedzeme hã la, menye wò dzedzeme ɖeɖeko ŋue NPD ku ɖo o. Ate ŋu aku ɖe nu bubu siwo le asiwò hã ŋu, abe wò nunya, nuƒoƒo ƒe ŋutete, aɖaŋudɔwɔwɔ ƒe ŋutete, kamedefefe ƒe ŋutete, kesinɔnuwo, ŋusẽ, kple dzidzedzekpɔkpɔ ene .

Aleke gbegbee nɔnɔme sia bɔe?

Eŋutinunyalawo meka ɖe alesi tututu NPD bɔe dzi o. Numekukuwo ɖee fia be Amerikatɔwo ƒe 0.5% va ɖo 5% ate ŋu axɔ dɔlélea. Wogblɔ hã be amesiwo ŋu dɔlélea le ƒe 50% va ɖo 75% nye ŋutsuwo .

Gake ame geɖe ɣlaa woƒe ɖokuitɔdidi ƒe dzixɔsewo kple nuwɔnawo. Woyɔa esia ɣeaɖewoɣi be "ameɖokuiŋudzedze le adzame." Eyata esesẽ ŋutɔ be woabu akɔnta nyuie le ame neni ŋutɔŋutɔ si ŋu NPD le ŋu.

Nukawoe nye amenyenye ƒe kuxi si nye ɖokuitɔdidi ƒe dzesiwo?

NPD ƒe dzesiwo katã do ƒome kple wò tamesusuwo, seselelãmewo, kple nuwɔnawo . Amerika Tagbɔdɔlélawo ƒe Habɔbɔ ƒe Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, tata atɔ̃lia ƒe nuŋɔŋlɔwo me toto (DSM-5-TRTM) yɔ dzidzenu enyi siwo woatsɔ akpɔ dɔléle sia gbɔe. Dzesi siwo dze le dzidzenu siawo te ate ŋu adze na ame bubuwo ale:

1. Ame ɖokui ŋu bubu fũu akpa kple dada ƒe amesinɔnɔ:

• Wobua woƒe ŋutetewo wògbɔa eme, alo ɖoa taɖodzinu siwo gbɔ akpa be womate ŋu aɖo gbeɖe o.
• Wogblɔa nu suetɔ kekeake siwo wowɔ gɔ̃ hã wògbɔa eme, eye wogblɔa nusiwo wowɔ wògbɔa eme.

2. Drɔ̃ekuku ɣesiaɣi be nu siawo nasu ye si alo yeadi:

• Dzidzedzekpᴐkpᴐ
• Ŋusẽ
• Aɖaŋudede
• Dze tugbe
• Lɔ̃
• Ame ŋutɔ ƒe dzi dze eme.

3. Dzixɔse si nye be ame aɖe de ŋgɔ wu ame bubuwo:

• Mesusu be ame tɔxɛ aɖe ŋutɔe menye eye mele etɔxɛ.
• Woxɔe se be ele be yewoade ha kple ame siwo "viɖe le" wo ŋu abe yewo ene ko.

4. Ehiã be ame bubuwo nakpɔ ŋudzedze ɖe eŋu ahakafui ɣesiaɣi:

• Bubudede ame ɖokui ŋu gblẽna ŋutɔ.
• Wokea ɖi wo ɖokui ɣesiaɣi, wobua fɔ wo ɖokui, eye wosena le wo ɖokui me be yewole ƒuƒlu.
• Metsia dzi ɣesiaɣi ɖe nusi ame bubuwo abu tso ŋunye ŋu.
• Èwɔa nu vovovowo be nàxɔ kafukafu tso ame bubuwo gbɔ. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, le esi teƒe be nàgblɔ nya aɖe abe, "Nyemebi ɖe esia me o" ene la, àte ŋu agblɔ be, "Oo, ao, èbi ɖe eme ŋutɔŋutɔ."

5. Nɔnɔme si nye be ele be nusianu nanye yewoƒe mɔ eye be wodze na nuwɔwɔ ɖe wo ŋu etɔxɛe:

• Wobua woawo ŋutɔ ƒe asixɔxɔ ŋu akpa.
• Wokpɔa mɔ be woawɔ nu ɖe ​​wo ŋu etɔxɛe si mebɔ o.
• Wodoa dziku ne ame bubuwo meɖoa to wo alo doa dzidzɔ na wo o. Bu eŋu abe agbagbadzedze be yeaɖo fli aɖe ƒe ŋgɔgbe eye nàkpɔ mɔ be amesiame natsɔ yewo aɖo nɔƒe gbãtɔ ene.

6. Tetekpɔ be yeazã ame bubuwo hena ye ŋutɔ yeƒe viɖe:

• Le nyanya me alo le manyamanya me la, wozãa ame bubuwo.
• Ame siwo wosusu be wonyo na yewo ɖokui kple ɖoƒe koe woléna ɖe asi abe xɔlɔ̃wo kple kadodowo ene.
• Woɖonɛ koŋ zãa ame bubuwo tsɔ ɖoa ​​woawo ŋutɔ ƒe ɖokuitɔdidi ƒe taɖodzinuwo gbɔ.

7. Veveseseɖeamenu ƒe anyimanɔmanɔ:

• Wogblɔa nya siwo vea ame bubuwo.
• Wokpɔa ame bubuwo ƒe seselelãmewo, nuhiahiãwo, kple nudidiwo be wonye gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ.
• Dɔmenyonyo kple ɖetsɔleme si ame bubuwo ɖena fiana wò la meɖoa eteƒe na wò nenema ke o. Bu eŋu kpɔ, ne xɔ̃wòa le kuxi gã aɖe me tom la, èƒoa adegbe le wò aʋadziɖuɖuwo dometɔ ɖeka ŋu le esi teƒe be nàɖo to woƒe vevesese, aleae wòle.

8. Ŋuʋaʋã enuenu:

• Meʋãa ŋu ne ame bubuwo kpɔ dzidzedze, vevietɔ ne wokɔ wum.
• Mesusu be ame bubuwo ʋãa ŋum.
• Wobua ame bubuwo ƒe ŋutetewo kple dzidzedzekpɔkpɔwo nu tsɛe hedaa wo ɖe anyi.

9. Dada, dada ƒe nuwɔna:

• Wowɔa nu abe ɖe wometsɔ ɖeke le eme na ame bubuwo o eye wole ameŋkumenu ɖem fia ene.
• Nuwɔwɔ amemabumabutɔe kple bubumademade ame ŋu.
• Woƒoa nu na ame bubuwo le ɖokuibɔbɔ kple fewuɖunya me.

Tsɔ kpe ɖe dzidzenu vevi enyi siawo ŋu la, amesiwo ŋu NPD le ate ŋu aɖe nuwɔna bubu vovovowo afia. Le kpɔɖeŋu me:

• Vɔvɔ̃ be woaɖe gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ afia, agbagbadzedze be woaƒo asa nɛ.
• Wonɔa adzɔge tso ame bubuwo gbɔ le esi wosena le wo ɖokui me be yewogbɔdzɔ ta.
• Agbagbadzedze be woawɔ nusianu bliboe (`(Perfectionism)`) (si ate ŋu anyo alo manyo o, kple vɔvɔ̃ be yeado kpo nu).
• Ðeklemiɖeɖe, gbegbe, kple kpododonu nye nusi dzi womate ŋu ado dzi le o. Wotsɔa nu suetɔ kekeake gɔ̃ hã dea dzime.
• Gbegbe alo kpododonu ate ŋu ana ame nalé blanui vevie .
• Ne wose le wo ɖokui me be woɖe ɖeklemi yewo alo wogbe yewo la, wowɔa nu ɖe ​​wo ŋu kple dziku sesẽ (`(dziku)`) .
• Wowɔa aʋatso ɖokuibɔbɔ be yewoatsɔ aɣla yewoƒe seselelãmewo ahakpɔ yewo ŋutɔ yewoƒe gãnyenye ta.
• Woƒoa asa na nɔnɔme siwo me woate ŋu ado kpo nu le, eye mɔnukpɔkpɔ gã aɖe li be ema nadzɔ. Esia ate ŋu aɖo seɖoƒe na woƒe dzidzedzekpɔkpɔwo.

Nu vevitɔe nye be esi dzesi siawo dometɔ ɖeka alo eve le ame aɖe ŋu ta la, mefia be NPD le eŋu o. Ðɔkta bibi koe ate ŋu akpɔ dɔlélea nyuie.

Nukawoe hea NPD vɛ?

Esi wònye be NPD nye susumedɔ ta la, eŋutinunyalawo mate ŋu agblɔ nusita tututu wòdzɔna o. Togbɔ be wokpɔ tɔtrɔ aɖewo siwo menya kpɔna dzea sii bɔbɔe o le amesiwo ŋu NPD le ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe wɔwɔme ŋu hã la, womenya haɖe nenye be tɔtrɔ mawo hea NPD vɛ loo alo nenye be NPD ye hea tɔtrɔ mawo vɛ o.

Nu vevi geɖewo li siwo wokpɔ fifia siwo kpena ɖe NPD ƒe ŋgɔyiyi ŋu:

• Domenyiŋusẽfianu: Anɔ eme be dzilawo alo ƒometɔ kplikplikpli siwo ŋu dɔlélea le la anɔ amesiwo ŋu NPD le. Esia fia be domenyiŋusẽfianu ƒe ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi aɖe ate ŋu anɔ ƒomewo me.
• Kpɔkpɔ Kple Wo Srɔ̃: Tso ɖeviwo ƒe ɖevime ke la, woléa ŋku ɖe nusiwo wokpɔna ŋu hesrɔ̃a wo, vevietɔ wo dzilawo kple wo dzikpɔlawo ƒe nuwɔna, eye nɔnɔme mawo ate ŋu ava zu NPD.
• Ðevimenɔɣi ƒe nuteƒekpɔkpɔ gbegblẽwo: Ðevimenɔɣi ƒe nuveviwɔame, gbegbe, ɖekematsɔleme, kple kpekpeɖeŋumanɔamesi ate ŋu ana ameɖokuiŋudzedze ƒe nɔnɔmewo natu.
• Vihehe ƒe atsyã: Nunono fũu akpa, ametakpɔkpɔ fũ akpa, kple nudede nusianu me (helikɔpta dzihehe) ate ŋu ana ɖeviwo nakpɔ mɔ be ame bubuwo nalé ŋku ɖe wo ŋu nenema ke eye woabia tso wo si ne wole tsitsim. Esia ate ŋu axe mɔ na ɖeviwo hã be woagasrɔ̃ alesi woaɖu woƒe seselelãmewo dzi ahaɖɔ wo ɖo o. Emegbe ne nu si dim wole mesu wo si o la, esesẽna na wo be woaɖu woƒe seselelãmewo dzi.
• Dekɔnu: Numekukuwo ɖee fia be dekɔnu si me nètsi le hã ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe afɔku si le mewò be nàxɔ NPD dzi. Edze abe afɔku gã aɖe le dekɔnu siwo dea asixɔxɔ ame ɖekaɖekawo kple ame ŋutɔ ƒe ɖokuisinɔnɔ ŋu me ene. Ame siwo tsi le dekɔnu siwo dea asixɔxɔ ƒuƒoƒo kple ɖekawɔwɔ ŋu me la mexɔa NPD o.

Nukawoe nye kuxi siwo ate ŋu ado tso NPD me?

Ebɔ ŋutɔ be NPD nɔa anyi ɖekae kple susumedɔléle kple nɔnɔme bubuwo. Kuxi siwo bɔ wu dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• Seselelãme ƒe kuxiwo alo susu ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie: Anɔ bɔbɔe be amesiwo ŋu NPD le la tsia dzimaɖi kple blanuiléle. Bipolar disorder hã bɔ ɖe amesiwo ŋu NPD le dome.
• Amenyenye ƒe kuxi bubuwo:Kpɔɖeŋu aɖewoe nye amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si le liƒo dzi (BPD) kple amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si tsi tre ɖe hadomenuwɔnawo ŋu (ASPD).
• Body dysmorphic disorder (`(Body dysmorphic disorder)`): Ame siwo ŋu NPD le hã ateŋu akpɔ nɔnɔme sia (si woyɔna hã be ``body dysmorphia``). Esia ate ŋu atso seselelãme gbegblẽ siwo le wo si ɖe woƒe ŋutilã kple dzedzeme ŋu gbɔ.
• Atikewo zazã ƒe dɔlélewo (SUDs): Ne nu ŋutɔŋutɔ meva yi abe alesi wokpɔ mɔe ene o la, amesiwo ŋu NPD le ate ŋu atrɔ ɖe aha alo atike vɔ̃ɖiwo zazã ŋu. Atike siwo doa ŋusẽ ame abe cocaine ene bɔ vevietɔ, elabena woawoe nye amesiwo ŋu NPD le vevie la ƒomevi.
• Ameɖokuiwuwu: Ame siwo ŋu NPD le ate ŋu alé blanui vevie eye mɔkpɔkpɔbuɖeame nanɔ wo me ne wodo go kuxiwo, kpododonuwo, kple gbegbe. Esiawo ate ŋu anye ameɖokuiwuwu siwo ŋu wowɔ ɖoɖo ɖo wu "kpekpeɖeŋuyɔyɔ" kpata. Eyata amesiwo ŋu NPD le la le afɔku gã aɖe me be woawu wo ɖokui. Esia nye nya vevi aɖe ŋutɔ.

Aleke wokpɔa amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si nye narcissistic personality disorder?

Lãmesẽdɔwɔla, si zi geɖe la, tagbɔdɔdala alo susuŋutinunyala, dea dzesi NPD. Woaƒo nu kpli wò eye woabia nya wò tso wò agbenɔnɔ kple wò ƒomedodo kple ame bubuwo (vevietɔ ƒometɔwo, xɔlɔ̃wo, kple wò lɔlɔ̃tɔwo) ŋu. Woate ŋu abia nyawo hã atsɔ aɖe nɔnɔme bubu siwo ate ŋu ahe dzesi mawo tɔgbe vɛ la ɖa.

Ele be nàɖo dzidzenu enyi siwo le Amerika Tagbɔdɔlélawo ƒe Habɔbɔ (DSM-5-TRTM) ƒe mɔfiamegbalẽa me dometɔ atɔ̃ ya teti gbɔ hafi woakpɔe be NPD le ŋuwò. Fifia la, dodokpɔ tɔxɛ aɖeke meli si woawɔ le dodokpɔxɔ me alo nɔnɔmetatawo ɖeɖe ƒe dodokpɔ aɖeke si ate ŋu ade dzesi NPD o.

Nukawoe nye NPD ƒe atikewo?

NPD ƒe atike vevitɔe nye susumedɔdada ƒomevi aɖe.

Atike siwo wozãna wu na NPD dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Nuwɔna ƒe atikewɔwɔ si me woɖea nyawo le (DBT) .
• Sidzedze ƒe nuwɔna ƒe atikewɔwɔ (`(Sidzedze ƒe nuwɔna ƒe atikewɔwɔ - CBT)`)
• Metacognitive atikewɔwɔ (`(Metacognitive dɔdamɔnu)`) .
• Ƒuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ (`(Ƒuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ)`)
• Srɔ̃tɔwo alo ƒomea ƒe atikewɔwɔ

Esi wònye be atikewɔwɔmɔnu geɖe li ta la, wò susumedɔdalae nye ame nyuitɔ si agblɔ mɔnu vovovo siawo ŋu nya geɖe na wò. Àte ŋu abia nya ɖesiaɖe si le asiwò ku ɖe alesi mɔnu siawo wɔa dɔe kple mɔnu si sɔ na wò ŋu.

Atike si wozãna na NPD

Fifia la, atike aɖeke meli si ada NPD tẽ o. Gake woate ŋu azã atikewo atsɔ ada dɔléle bubu siwo ate ŋu ado ƒome kplii, abe dzimaɖitsitsi kple blanuiléle ene ƒe dzesiwo. Atike siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Blanuilélenutsitikewo
• Atike siwo tsia dzimaɖitsitsi nu (`(Atike siwo tsia dzimaɖitsitsi nu / dzimaɖitsitsinutsitikewo)`)
• Atike siwo tsia tagbɔdɔléle nu
• Atike siwo tsia ʋuʋudedi nu - Togbɔ be esiawo koŋ daa asrãdɔ hã la, atike aɖewo, abe lamotrigine ene, ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu wòana seselelãme nali ke.

Ne NPD le ŋunye la, nukae wòle be makpɔ mɔ na?

Ðewohĩ ame siwo ŋu NPD le la menya nu tso eŋu o. Ðewohĩ ame aɖewo menyae o ƒe geɖe alo ƒe bla nanewo gɔ̃ hã. Zi geɖe la, nudzɔdzɔ alo nɔnɔme aɖe si tea ɖeɖi ame ŋu nana dzesiawo dzea egɔme bliboe. Nudzɔdzɔ alo nɔnɔme mawo ƒe kpɔɖeŋu aɖewoe nye esi:

• Tɔtrɔ gbegblẽ ɖedzesiwo: Nuwo abe ɖiɖiɖeme, dɔ ƒe gege le ame si, gaxɔmenɔnɔ.
• Ame ŋutɔ ƒe kuxiwo: ƒomedodo ƒe gbagbã, srɔ̃gbegbe.
• Agbemekuxi bubuwo: Dɔléle alo tɔtrɔ siwo dona tso tsitsi me, vevietɔ esiwo gblẽa nu le ŋutete si le ame si be wòanɔ agbe le eɖokui si ŋu, alo ame vevi aɖe ƒe ku.
• Nya Mamlɛawo: Ne woƒe lɔlɔ̃tɔwo biae alo te tɔ ɖe edzi ko hafi amesiwo ŋu NPD le ate ŋu adi kpekpeɖeŋu.

Nukae nye mɔkpɔkpɔ na NPD ƒe ɖoƒe?

Mɔkpɔkpɔ na NPD, si fia be ŋutete si le ame si be wòahaya, nɔ te ɖe nu geɖe dzi. Esiawo dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Wò dzesiwo: NPD ƒe dzesi aɖewo ate ŋu ana màlɔ̃ be yeadi kpekpeɖeŋu alo adi atike o. Ðewohĩ ame siwo medi be yewoadze abe ɖe wogbɔdzɔ ene o, vevietɔ amesiwo medi be woabu yewo be yewogbɔdzɔ o la, mate ŋu alé ŋku ɖe alesi woxɔa dɔléleae ŋu o.
• Alesi wò NPD nu sẽe: Ne eva nu sẽ la, ate ŋu agblẽ nu le wò agbenɔnɔ ŋu vevie. Zi geɖe la, amesiwo ŋu NPD sesẽ le la wɔa adã, wowɔa dzre, eye womesea veve ɖe ame bubuwo ƒe seselelãmewo kple nuhiahiãwo nu boo o. Azɔ hã, womebiaa kpekpeɖeŋu alo dia atike o.
• Nɔnɔme bubu siwo le ŋuwò: Kuxi bubuwo ate ŋu ado go amesiwo ŋu NPD le ne nɔnɔme bubuwo le wo ŋu. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, dzimaɖitsitsi, blanuiléle, amenyenye ƒe kuxi bubuwo (vevietɔ amenyenye ƒe kuxi si tsi tre ɖe hadomenuwɔnawo ŋu), kple atike muamewo zazã ƒe kuxiwo ate ŋu ana NPD nagado gã ɖe edzi.

Esi wònye be nu geɖe kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe esia dzi ta la, ame nyuitɔ si nàbia tso wò nɔnɔmea ƒe mɔkpɔkpɔ ŋue nye wò susumedɔdala. Woate ŋu ana nyatakaka bubuwo wò tso nu si nàkpɔ mɔ na kple nu si nàte ŋu awɔ atsɔ akpe ɖe ŋuwòe ŋu.

Ðe woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe NPD nu alo ɖe afɔku si le eŋu be wòaxɔ ame dzi akpɔtɔa?

NPD dzɔna le susu siwo gɔme eŋutinunyalawo mese bliboe o ta. Ate ŋu aƒu du le ƒomewo hã me. Le susu siawo evea siaa ta la, wò ŋutɔ alo viwòa màte ŋu axe mɔ na eƒe tsitsi o.

Ke hã, ale si nèhea viwòwoe, si fia ale si nètrɔa asi le wò vihehe ƒe atsyã ŋu wòsɔna ɖe nɔnɔme vovovowo nu.Mɔ aɖewo li siwo dzi nàto aɖe afɔku si le viwòa si be wòaxɔ esia dzi akpɔtɔ. Viwò ƒe ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdala ate ŋu afia nu wò tso esia ŋu, alo akafu ɖeviwo ƒe susuŋutinunyala.

Aleke mawɔ akpɔ ɖokuinye dzi (ne NPD le ŋunye)?

Ne NPD le ŋuwò la, ate ŋu asesẽ na wò be nàlɔ̃ ɖe dɔléle si wokpɔ le ŋuwò dzi. Le dɔléle sia ƒe dzesiwo ta la, àte ŋu ase le ɖokuiwò me be dɔléle aɖe le ye ŋu eye yeadi be yeaƒo asa nɛ. Gake ele vevie be nàse egɔme be atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu ana wò agbenɔnɔ kple wò kple ame bubuwo dome ƒomedodo nanyo ɖe edzi . Ate ŋu ana wòanɔ bɔbɔe na wò be nàtu ƒomedodowo ɖo ahalé wo me ɖe asi, eye nàkpɔ dzidzedze le ɖokuiwò si alo le dɔa me.

Nu vevi siwo nàte ŋu awɔ dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Kpɔ wò susumedɔdala abe alesi wokafui ene. Anɔ bɔbɔe be amesiwo ŋu NPD le la dzudzɔa atikewɔwɔ. Esia ate ŋu ahe kuxi geɖe vɛ na wò le ɣeyiɣi didi aɖe megbe.
• No wò atikewo abe alesi wogblɔe ene. Esia akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàkpɔ wò seselelãmewo kple NPD ƒe dzesiwo gbɔ ahaɖɔ wo ɖo.
• Ƒo asa na atike vɔ̃ɖiwo alo aha sesẽ zazã. Togbɔ be woate ŋu ana nàse le ɖokuiwò me be yeƒe lãme sẽ hena ɣeyiɣi aɖe hã la, woate ŋu agblẽ nuwo ɖe edzi le ɣeyiɣi didi aɖe megbe. Ne èno atike la, aha sesẽ alo atike bubuwo ate ŋu ana atikewo nawɔ ɖeka kple wo nɔewo si me afɔku le.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be makpɔ nye ɖɔkta, alo ɣekaɣie wòle be madi atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo?

Ele be nàkpɔ wò ɖɔkta abe alesi wogblɔe ene. Woawɔ ɖoɖo ɖe atikewɔwɔ kple sasrãkpɔ siwo akplɔe ɖo ŋu. Ele be nàkpɔ wò ɖɔkta ne ède dzesi tɔtrɔ aɖewo le wò dzesiwo ŋu alo ne ède dzesii be tɔtrɔ aɖe va le wò atikewo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ me.

Ɣekaɣie wòle be mayi kɔdzi alo xɔ si me wowɔa dɔ kpata le?

Ne susu le ŋuwò be yeawɔ nuvevi ye ɖokui, yeawu ye ɖokui, alo yeawɔ nuvevi ame bubuwo , ele be yeayi xɔ si me wokpɔa dɔnɔwo gbɔ kpata le enumake, aƒo ka na 1990 (Sri Lanka ƒe dɔnɔdzikpɔƒe), alo agblɔe na ame aɖe si dzi nèka ɖo eye nàdi atikewɔla ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo enumake. Susu siawo nye nu vevi ŋutɔ, eyata mègadze agbagba be ye ɖeka yeakpɔ wo gbɔ o.

Ðe ɖokuitɔdidi ƒomevi vovovowo lia?

DSM-5-TRTM (DSM-5 ƒe tɔtrɔ yeyetɔ) meƒo nu tso ɖokuitɔdidi alo NPD ƒomevi vovovoawo ŋu o. Gake ɣeaɖewoɣi la, eŋutinunyalawo nɔa te ɖe nɔnɔme alo nuwɔna dzi dea ameɖokuiŋudzedze ɖe hatsotsowo me.

Nusiwo wozãna na esia dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Grandiose (mɔkpɔkpɔ na ŋudzedzekpɔkpɔ kple dzesidede) tsɔtsɔ sɔ kple amesiwo ŋu woate ŋu awɔ nuvevii (ehiã be woada asi ɖe wo dzi be woalé bubudede wo ɖokui ŋu me ɖe asi eye wovɔ̃na be yewomada asi ɖe ye dzi o).
• Gaglãgbe (`(Gbegɔme)`) tsɔ wu adzame (`(Adzame)`).
• Harmless (`(Benign)`) versus malicious (`(malignant)`) (amesiwo di be yewoawɔ nuvevi ame bubuwo alo azã wo).

Esiawo menye hatsotso siwo wowɔ le se nu o, gakeTagbɔdɔléle ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàse wò nɔnɔmea gɔme. Ne èsusu be dzesi siawo ku ɖe ye ŋu la, àte ŋu abia dɔnyala aɖe hã tso eŋu.

Ðe mate ŋu awɔ dodokpɔ aɖe akpɔe ɖa be ɖokuitɔdidi ƒe nɔnɔmewo le asinye hã?

Ðɔktawo ate ŋu azã nyabiase gbalẽvi vovovo siwo wotsɔ doa dɔlélewo kpɔna tsɔ kpena ɖe ame ŋu be woakpɔ NPD. Togbɔ be ate ŋu adzro wò be nàwɔ dodokpɔ le Internet dzi akpɔe ɖa be exɔe hã la, ele be nàɖo ŋku edzi be menye dɔléle si wokpɔ le se nue wònye o . Ele be nàkpɔ dɔwɔla bibi si wona hehee godoo be nàka ɖe edzi be dɔlélea le ŋuwò.

Nukae mawɔ ne mesusu be NPD le ame aɖe si melɔ̃na ŋu?

Ðewohĩ amesiwo ŋu NPD le mate ŋu ade dzesi woawo ŋutɔ ƒe dzesiwo o. Zi geɖe la, ƒometɔwo, xɔlɔ̃wo, kple ame veviwoe nyea ame gbãtɔ siwo susuna be NPD le ame aɖe ŋu. Ne èsusu be NPD le ame aɖe si nèlɔ̃ la ŋu la, ele be nusiawo nanɔ susu me na wò:

• Màte ŋu atrɔ ame aɖe si ŋu NPD le o. Woawo koe ate ŋu atrɔ woƒe nuwɔna. Ne dzi ɖe le ƒowò be wò lɔlɔ̃tɔa medi be yeatrɔ o hã la, ɖo ŋku edzi be menye wò vodadae o. Àte ŋu ade dzi ƒo na wo be woadi atike, gake ele be woalɔ̃ faa awɔe hafi esia nakpɔ dzidzedze.
• Nɔ anyi kpoo eye mègabu nuwo be wonye ame ŋutɔ tɔ o. Ame siwo ŋu NPD le, vevietɔ ne wodo dziku la, ate ŋu adze agbagba be yewoado dziku na wò eye woawɔ nu ɖe ​​ŋuwò. Mègabui be enye ame ŋutɔ tɔ o, eye mègawɔ nu abe alesi wowɔa nui ene o.
• Ðo liƒo siwo le lãmesẽ me. Zi geɖe la, amesiwo ŋu NPD le dzea agbagba be yewoakpɔ nusi yewodi to ame bubuwo dzi, eɖanye le nyanya me alo le manyamanya me o. Ne NPD le wò lɔlɔ̃tɔa ŋu la, liƒo nyuiwo ɖoɖo ate ŋu anye nu vevi aɖe. Na nu si nèlɔ̃ be yeawɔ kple nusi mèlɔ̃na o la me nakɔ, eye nàlé liƒo mawo me ɖe asi. Ate ŋu asesẽ, gake asiɖeɖe le woƒe didiwo ŋu makpe ɖe ŋuwò o (eye ate ŋu ana nuwo nagagblẽ ɖe edzi gɔ̃ hã).
• Takpɔ ɖokuiwò ta. Ame siwo ŋu NPD le ateŋu adze agbagba be yewoagblẽ wò liƒowo me eye yewoaɖu dziwò to ``gaslighting'' (si fia be, tɔtrɔ nane si wò alo woawo gblɔ alo wɔ be nàdze abe tagbɔsesẽtɔ ene). Ne èse le ɖokuiwò me be ehiã be woana kakaɖedzi ye le etsɔme le nya si nègblɔ alo nusi nèwɔ ŋu la, ke ŋlɔe ɖi. Woate ŋu azu ameŋugblẽnyawo alo ameŋugblẽnyawo hã le woƒe dziku me. Kpɔ nyuie be nàkpɔ wò ŋutɔ wò lãmesẽ kple nyonyo ta.
• Bu wò ŋutɔ wò susu ƒe lãmesẽ hã ŋu. Ele be mi amesiwo ƒe lɔlɔ̃tɔ aɖe si ŋu NPD le la nabu susumedɔléle ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola aɖe yiyi ŋu . Esia ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàwɔ dɔ tso wò ŋutɔ wò seselelãmewo kple kuxi siwo ƒo xlã NPD ŋu, eye nàdzra ɖo nyuie wu be nàkpɔ ŋusẽ si nɔnɔme sia akpɔ ɖe wò lɔlɔ̃tɔ dzi gbɔ.
• Mègaŋe aɖaba ƒu nuxlɔ̃amedzesiwo dzi o.Ame siwo ŋu NPD le la le afɔku me wu be woawu wo ɖokui. Ne èsusu be wò lɔlɔ̃tɔ aɖe si ŋu NPD le le hehem ɖe megbe le hadome alo le nu gblẽm le wo ɖokui ŋu bum la, ƒo nu kpli wo tẽ. Ne èsusu be wole afɔku me enumake la, ƒo ka na 911 enumake, alo nàdi atikewɔlawo ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu enumake.

Mlɔeba la, nu siwo dzi wòle be woaɖo ŋkui

Narcissistic personality disorder menye amenyenye ƒe vodada alo vodada o. Enye susumedɔléle. Ne nɔnɔme sia le ŋuwò la, nanewo li nàte ŋu awɔ atsɔ akpe ɖe ɖokuiwò ŋu ahado ŋusẽ wò ƒomedodo kple ame bubuwo le mɔ nyuitɔ nu. Ate ŋu asesẽ be nàlɔ̃ ɖe nɔnɔme sia dzi ahakpɔ egbɔ, gake ate ŋu agblẽ nu le miaƒe ƒomedodowo ŋu vevie eye wòagblẽ miaƒe agbenɔnɔ me. Eyata, mègaŋe aɖaba ƒu edzi alo si le nu ŋutɔŋutɔ nu o.

Ne NPD le ame aɖe si nènya ŋu la, esia sɔsrɔ̃ ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàlé be na ɖokuiwò eye nàdze agbagba akpe ɖe wo ŋu. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, nu nyuitɔ si nàte ŋu awɔe nye be nàɖo liƒowo eye màdo kplamatse woƒe nuwɔna madzemadzee o. Ðo ŋku edzi be màte ŋu azi ame aɖe si ŋu NPD le dzi be wòatrɔ o. Ele be woalɔ̃ faa awɔe.

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