Ðe nèsena le ɖokuiwò me ɣeaɖewoɣi be ale si nèbua tame hesea nuwo gɔmee la to vovo vie tso ame bubuwo gbɔa? Alo ɖe nède dzesii be viwòa srɔ̃a nu, eƒe nuwɔna, kple hadede to vovo na ɖevi bubuwo tɔa? Egbea míele nu ƒom tso ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe tɔtrɔ siawo ƒomevi ŋu. Ŋkɔ tɔxɛ aɖe li na esia: ‘Neurodivergent’. Esia menye dɔléle o, gake ele vevie ŋutɔ be míanɔ ŋudzɔ ɖe esia ŋu.
Nuka tututue nye ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototodedeameme?
Kpuie ko la, "Neurodivergent" fia be le vovototo siwo le ame aɖe ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ me ta la, esrɔ̃a nu, sea egɔme, eye wòkpɔa xexeame le mɔ bubu nu wu ame bubu akpa gãtɔ. Esia fia be ŋusẽ kple kuxi tɔxɛ aɖewo ate ŋu anɔ ame siawo si siwo mele ame bubuwo si o.
Esia menye atikewɔwɔ me nya o. Enye nya si wozãna tsɔ ƒoa nu tso amegbetɔ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe vovototo ŋu, evɔ womezãa nya "si sɔ" kple "si mesɔ o." Elabena ame aɖeke mate ŋu ana gɔmesese ɖeka pɛ hã le alesi wòle be amegbetɔ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ nawɔ dɔe “le dzɔdzɔme nu” ŋu o.
Emegbe, woyɔa amesiwo menye ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototo o be "Neurotypical." Eyae nye amesiwo si vovototo tɔxɛ aɖeke mele si kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe woƒe ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ dzi o, eye wodina be yewoabu tame abe ame akpa gãtɔ ene le hadomegbenɔnɔ me.
Aleke nya sia va dzɔe?
Nya "neurodivergent" tso nya "neurodiversity" me. Australiatɔ hadomenunyala Judy Singer ye zã nya sia zi gbãtɔ le ƒe 1998 me. Efia be amesiame ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ tsina hewɔa dɔ le eya ŋutɔ ƒe mɔ tɔxɛ nu.
Bu eŋu abe míaƒe asibidɛwo ene. Ahɔhɔ̃ to vovo na venɔvi siwo ɖi wo nɔewo gɔ̃ hã. Eyata, manya wɔ be woagblɔ nusi tututu "ahɔhɔ̃ si sɔ" nye o.
Nukpɔsusu si nye ahɔhɔ̃meka vovovowo fia be vovototo si le ahɔhɔ̃a ƒe dɔwɔwɔ me menye dɔléle alo nusi gblẽ o, ke boŋ enye dzɔdzɔmenu vovovo siwo nye ameƒomea ƒe akpa aɖe.
Ðe esia nye nuwɔametɔnyenyea?
Nu vevi si gɔme wòle be míase le afisiae nye be ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototodedeameme mefia ɣesiaɣi be woazu nuwɔametɔ o. Gake ame aɖewo siwo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo to vovo ate ŋu ato kuxi vovovowo me le ɖoɖo siwo le míaƒe hadomegbenɔnɔ, suku, kple dɔwɔƒe ta. Esia le alea elabena wowɔ ɖoɖo mawo be woasɔ na "Neurotypical" ame akpa gãtɔ.
Bu kpɔɖeŋu eve siawo ŋu kpɔ.
1. Dɔbiagbalẽvi:Esesẽna na Neurodivergent ame aɖewo be woade ha kple amewo. Eyata ɖewohĩ womawɔ dɔ nyuie le dɔbiagbalẽvi me o. Gake ne dodokpɔ aɖe le dɔwɔƒea si tsɔ dzidzea woƒe ŋutetewo tsɔ wu be woabia gbee la, ame ma axɔ dɔa bɔbɔe. Ne wonya xɔ dɔa ko la, woate ŋu ava zu akɔntanyala nyuitɔ kekeake gɔ̃ hã le dɔwɔƒea le woƒe ŋkuléle ɖe nu ŋu tsitotsito nukutɔe kple ŋutete si le wo si be woaɖo ŋku nu suesuesuewo dzi ta.
2. Nuto si me toɣliɖeɖe le: Ame aɖewo mete ŋu nɔa te ɖe toɣliɖeɖe sesẽwo nu o. Eyata ɔfis si me amewo sɔ gbɔ ɖo nye vevesese ŋutɔŋutɔ na wo. Gake ne èna toɖoɖomɔ̃ nyui aɖe ame ma si tea toɣliɖeɖe ɖa la, ate ŋu alé fɔ ɖe woƒe dɔa ŋu keŋkeŋ eye wòazu dɔwɔla nyuitɔ kekeake le ƒuƒoƒoa me.
Le kpɔɖeŋu siawo evea siaa me la, kpekpeɖeŋu kple dzeƒe si wona wo kpe ɖe wo ŋu woɖu woƒe kuxiwo dzi. Esia le abe atrakpui tutu na ame aɖe si zãa bunɔkeke ene. Efia be woalɔ̃ ɖe woƒe vovototowo dzi eye woana dɔwɔnu siwo wohiã be woakpɔ dzidzedze la wo.
Nɔnɔme kawoe wokpɔna zi geɖe le amesiwo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ to vovo dome?
Zi geɖe la, nusiwo gbɔna dometɔ ɖeka alo esi wu nenema nɔa amesiwo gblɔna be ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototodedeameme le wo si: Gake nenɔ susu me na wò be menye atikewɔwɔ ƒe dzidzenue esia nye o, eyata amesiwo ŋu dɔléle siwo mesɔ ɖe xexlẽdzesi sia me o le, alo menye amesiame si ŋu dɔléle siawo le o, ate ŋu ade dzesii be ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ to vovo.
| Nᴐnᴐme | Ŋgɔdonya kpui aɖe |
|---|---|
| Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) ƒe Dɔléle . | Tɔtrɔ siwo va le hadomekadodowo, dzeɖoɖo, kple nuwɔna me. |
| Susu ƒe Dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie ƒe Dɔléle (ADHD) . | Esesẽna be woalé ŋku ɖe nu ŋu, nuwɔwɔ fũu akpa, kple nuwɔwɔ kpata. |
| Nuxexlẽ ƒe kuxi | Ŋɔŋlɔdzesiwo xexlẽ kple wo nyanya sesẽ. |
| Dyscalculia ƒe dɔléle | Akɔntabubu kple dɔ siwo ku ɖe xexlẽdzesiwo ŋu ƒe sesẽ. |
| Dispraxia ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie | Ŋutilã ƒe ʋuʋu ƒe ɖoɖowɔwɔ ɖe ɖoɖo nu sesẽ. |
| Tourette ƒe Dɔléle | Gbeɖiɖi alo ʋuʋu si dzi womate ŋu aɖu o (tics). |
| Susu ƒe lãmesẽ ƒe nɔnɔmewo abe Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Bipolar Disorder ene | Nɔnɔme vovovo siwo kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe tamesusuwo, seselelãmewo, kple nuwɔna dzi. |
Aleke mawɔ anya nenye be nye/vinye nye Neurodivergent?
Ne wò alo viwòa le tɔtrɔ siawo dometɔ aɖe me tom la, nu gbãtɔ kple nyuitɔ si nàwɔe nye be nàƒo nu kple wò ƒomea ƒe ɖɔkta (ɖɔkta). Ate ŋu aɖo wò ɖe eŋutinunyala bibi aɖe gbɔ ne ehiã. Esia akpe ɖe ŋuwò nànya ne atikewɔwɔ ƒe nɔnɔme aɖe li si na wò ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le tɔtrɔm.
Ðo ŋku edzi be womate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototodedeameme nu, adae, alo adae o. Enye dzɔdzɔme tɔtrɔ le alesi amesiame ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ tsinae me. Gake ne nɔnɔme aɖe li si henɛ vɛ (abe ADHD ene) la, woate ŋu akpɔ egbɔ. Nuwɔna ŋuti dɔdamɔnu, atikewo, kple ɖoɖo aɖewo li siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàwɔ wò ŋutetewo ŋudɔ nyuie ahakpɔ dzidzedze le agbe me.
Aleke míawɔ akpe ɖe amesi ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ to vovo ŋu?
Ne ame aɖe si ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ to vovo le wò ƒomea, xɔlɔ̃wo, alo dɔwɔƒe le asiwò la, nu geɖe li nàte ŋu awɔ atsɔ ado alɔ wo.
- Ðo to: Zi geɖe la, ame siawo sena le wo ɖokui me be ame aɖeke mese yewo gɔme o. Eyata ɖo to wo. Na woase le wo ɖokui me be yedea bubu yewoƒe nukpɔsusuwo kple tiatiawɔwɔwo ŋu.
- Dzeɖoɖo le mɔ si anɔ bɔbɔe na wo nu: Ame aɖewo dina be yewoaɖo dze to asitelefon alo e-mail dzi tsɔ wu be yewoaɖo dze kple ŋkume kple ŋkume. Na ɣeyiɣi kple mɔnukpɔkpɔ wo be woawɔe.
- Mègaŋlɔ ŋkɔ na ɖokuiwò o: Ƒo asa na ŋkɔwo abe "ewɔa dɔ nyuie" alo "ewɔa dɔ nyuie o." Zi geɖe la, alesi gbegbe nèwɔa nu abe Neurotypical ene koe nya siawo dzidzea.
- Menye amesiamee sɔ o:Ame eve siwo ŋu dɔléle ɖeka le gɔ̃ hã (e.g. autism) ate ŋu ato vovo kura. Eyata mègatsɔe be amesiame le ɖeka le ame ɖeka dzi o.
- Mègasusu be ŋutete alo nunya mele ye si o: Ame siwo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo to vovo ate ŋu adze abe ɖe woto vovo tso ame bubuwo gbɔ ene le woƒe vovototowo ta. Gake ema mefia be womebi ɖe dɔa me o alo woƒe tagbɔ mekɔ tututu o. Wɔ nu ɖe amesiame ŋu bubutɔe.
Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme
- Neurodivergent menye dɔléle alo nusi gblẽ o. Enye dzɔdzɔme tɔtrɔ le alesi míaƒe ahɔhɔ̃ wɔa dɔe me.
- Ŋusẽ tɔxɛ aɖewo le ame siawo si siwo mele ame bubuwo si o, eye kuxi siwo wodoa goe le woƒe gbesiagbegbenɔnɔ me hã le wo si.
- Nyawo ate ŋu atrɔ ame aɖe ƒe agbenɔnɔ. Ame aɖe xɔxɔ be "eto vovo" kpɔa ŋusẽ gã aɖe ɖe woƒe kakaɖedzi kple dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ dzi wu be woayɔe be "dɔléla" alo "ame si gblẽ."
- Ame siwo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo to vovo ate ŋu akpɔ dzidzedze ŋutɔ le go ɖesiaɖe me ne wona gɔmesese nyuitɔ, kpekpeɖeŋu, kple dɔwɔƒe siwo hiã.
- Ne ɖikeke aɖe le mia alo viwòa me le esia ŋu la, mègawɔ nyametsotsowo le ɖokuiwò si gbeɖe o. Ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàbia wò ɖɔkta (ɖɔkta) hena aɖaŋuɖoɖo .
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