Mɔ si dzi woato akpɔ dzidzedze le srɔ̃ɖeɖe me: De dzesi kuxiwo eye nàkpɔ lɔlɔ̃ ta 💖💑

Roshan (ƒe 35) kple srɔ̃a Dinusha (ƒe 32) va nye atikewɔƒe be woado ye kpɔ edziedzi le Yawoɖagbe si va yi. Wo ame evea siaa nɔ ɖoɖoezizi sesẽ aɖe me. Mete ŋu kpɔe be aʋa fafɛ aɖe nɔ edzi yim le wo dome si dze ƒã.

Esi mebia wo tso woƒe ƒomegbenɔnɔ ŋu la, Roshan gblɔ be: "Ðɔkta Priya, le mía vi evelia dzidzi megbe la, míaƒe srɔ̃ɖeɖe va zu mɔ̃ɖaŋununya ƒe ŋkɔwo ko. Le gakuxiwo kple ɖeviwo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ta la, ɣeyiɣi mele mía si míaɖe lɔlɔ̃ afia mía nɔewo o. Míewɔa avu ɣesiaɣi." Dinusha lɔ̃ ɖe edzi, hegblɔ be, "Nyemexɔa kpekpeɖeŋu aɖeke tso Roshan gbɔ o, Ðɔkta, ekpɔa vodada le ŋunye ɣesiaɣi."

Meɖe dzi ɖi na wo eye meɖe eme be: "Roshan kple Dinusha, ame geɖe susuna be ele be srɔ̃ɖeɖe nakpɔ dzidzedze le auto-pilot dzi. Gake srɔ̃ɖeɖe si kpɔ dzidzedze vavã nye nusi bia ɖokuitsɔtsɔna kple kadodo si yia edzi. Srɔ̃ɖeɖe ƒe sɔti vevi 3 ye li: Lɔlɔ̃ , Bubudede , kple Agbanɔamedzi . Egbea, mina míaƒo nu tso nusiwo nye kuxi siwo bɔ siwo doa mo ɖa le srɔ̃ɖeɖe me kple alesi woawɔ akpɔ dzidzedze ŋu." kpɔ wo dzi le susu me."

🚨 Aflaga Dzĩ siwo hiã be woana kpekpeɖeŋu tso dɔnyala/susuŋutinunyalawo gbɔ enumake

Enye nusi sɔ be masɔmasɔwo nanɔ srɔ̃ɖeɖe me. Gake ne dzesi siwo gbɔna do mo ɖa la, ele be nàyi srɔ̃ɖeɖe ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola alo tagbɔdɔdala gbɔ enumake:

• Ŋutilã, nyagbɔgblɔ alo susu me ŋlɔmiwɔwɔ ƒomevi ɖesiaɖe ƒe anyinɔnɔ (Aƒeme Ŋutasẽnuwɔwɔ / Ŋutasẽnuwɔwɔ).
• Agbagba siwo zɔhɛ ɖeka dze be yeakpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ame kemɛa ƒe ganyawo alo ame ŋutɔ ƒe ablɔɖe dzi keŋkeŋ (Coercive Control).
• Eƒe zɔhɛ si blanuiléle sesẽ si nɔa anyi ɖaa alo ameɖokuiwuwu ƒe susuwo le fu ɖem na le ƒomekuxiwo ta.
• Stonewalling nye ne akpa ɖeka ƒo asa na kadodo keŋkeŋ ne ele agbagba dzem be yeadzro nya aɖe me.