He makaʻu ʻē paha kou i nā keiki liʻiliʻi? E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i ka pedophobia!

Ua lohe paha ʻoe ua manaʻo kekahi poʻe i ka makaʻu a me ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole ke ʻike lākou i nā keiki liʻiliʻi, nā pēpē, a i ʻole e hele i kahi e noho ai lākou? Malia paha ua manaʻo ʻoe i kekahi mea like me ia, a i ʻole ua ʻike paha ʻoe i kekahi mea like me ia. ʻAʻole kēia he mea maʻalahi, he ʻano maʻi maoli kēia i ʻike ʻia e ke kauka. I kēia lā, e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i kēia makaʻu ʻē i nā keiki liʻiliʻi, i kapa ʻia ʻo pedophobia .

He aha ka Pedophobia?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka pedophobia kahi makaʻu maʻamau ʻole a kūpono ʻole i nā pēpē a me nā kamaliʻi. Ua loaʻa ka huaʻōlelo "pedophobia" mai ʻelua mau huaʻōlelo Helene. ʻO "paida" ke ʻano o ke keiki, a ʻo "phobos" ke ʻano o ka makaʻu.

ʻO ke kanaka me kēia maʻi e hana i nā mea āpau e pale aku ai i nā wahi i loaʻa ai nā keiki liʻiliʻi. No kekahi poʻe, ʻo ka manaʻo wale nō o ka hele ʻana kokoke i kahi keiki hiki ke hoʻoweliweli nui iā lākou a me ka hopohopo . ʻAʻole kēia he hoʻowahāwahā liʻiliʻi wale nō, akā he mea hohonu loa ia ma mua o kēlā.

He aha ka phobia?

I kēia manawa ke noʻonoʻo nei paha ʻoe i ke ʻano o ka "phobia". He maʻi hopohopo ka phobia . ʻO ia ka wā e loaʻa ai iā ʻoe kahi makaʻu maʻamau ʻole a kūpono ʻole i kahi mea hiki ʻole ke hōʻeha iā ʻoe. He maʻi phobic kikoʻī ka Pedophobia. ʻO ia hoʻi, makaʻu ke kanaka i kahi mea kikoʻī, i kēia hihia, nā pēpē a me nā keiki liʻiliʻi, a i ʻole manaʻo i ka hopohopo nui i ka wā e puni ana iā lākou.

Pehea ka maʻamau o kēia ʻano?

He mea paʻakikī ke ʻōlelo pololei i ka nui o ka poʻe i loaʻa i nā phobias kikoʻī e like me ka pedophobia. Hiki i ka poʻe he nui ke mālama i kēia makaʻu iā lākou iho, a ʻaʻole paha lākou i ʻike he makaʻu ko lākou. Eia nō naʻe, ua ʻike ʻia e ka noiʻi e loaʻa i hoʻokahi o 10 mau mākua ʻAmelika a me hoʻokahi o 5 mau keiki ʻōpio kahi phobia kikoʻī i kekahi manawa o ko lākou ola.

He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka Pedophobia a me ka Pediophobia?

Ua like ke ʻano o ka pela ʻana o kēia mau huaʻōlelo ʻelua, no laila he mea maʻalahi ke huikau. ʻO Pediophobia ka makaʻu i nā pēpē, ʻo ia hoʻi, nā mea ola ʻole e like me ka mea maoli. Eia nō naʻe, ʻo Pedophobia ka makaʻu i nā keiki maoli.

Akā aia kekahi mea, hiki i kekahi poʻe ke loaʻa i kēia mau phobias ʻelua. ʻO ia hoʻi, ʻo kekahi mea makaʻu i nā keiki (pedophobia) hiki ke makaʻu i ke ʻano kamaliʻi o nā pēpē (pediophobia). Pēlā nō, hiki i kekahi mea i loaʻa i ka pedophobia ke loaʻa i kahi maʻi i kapa ʻia ʻo pedophobia.

ʻO wai ka mea i ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī e hoʻomohala i ka pedophobia?

Ua maʻalahi kekahi poʻe i ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kēia ʻano phobia.

• Ka maʻi hoʻopilikia-koʻikoʻi (OCD)Nā kānaka me: Makemake kēia poʻe i nā mea āpau e maʻemaʻe a maʻemaʻe. ʻIke lākou i nā keiki he haumia a haunaele. Makaʻu paha lākou i ke ʻano haunaele a me ka haunaele e pili ana i ka noho ʻana me nā keiki liʻiliʻi. E noʻonoʻo i ke ʻano hopohopo o kekahi me "(OCD)" inā komo mai kahi keiki liʻiliʻi i loko o ka hale a hana i kahi haunaele ma ka hoʻolei ʻana i nā mea pāʻani ma nā wahi āpau a me ka ninini ʻana i ka meaʻai ma ka papahele.
• Kāne: Ua ʻike ʻia he ʻoi aku ka nui o nā wahine e hoʻomohala i nā phobias ma mua o nā kāne.
• Moʻolelo ʻohana: Inā ua loaʻa i kekahi o kou mau mākua a i ʻole kekahi mea kokoke iā ʻoe kahi phobia a i ʻole ka maʻi hopohopo, ʻoi aku ka nui o kou hoʻomohala ʻana i ka makaʻu like a i ʻole kekahi phobia ʻē aʻe.
• Nā kumu hoʻoilina: Manaʻo kekahi mau noiʻi e hiki i nā loli hoʻoilina (e like me nā hoʻololi ʻana o ka gene) ke hoʻonui i ka ulu ʻana o kekahi poʻe i nā maʻi hopohopo a i ʻole nā ​​phobias.

Aia kekahi mau phobias ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka pedophobia?

He mea maʻamau ka loaʻa ʻana o nā phobia he nui. Pili pinepine nā phobias kekahi i kekahi. No ka laʻana, ʻo ka mea makaʻu i nā germs (`(Mysophobia)` a i ʻole `(Germaphobia)`) e ʻike paha i nā keiki liʻiliʻi he mau mea lawe liʻiliʻi o nā germs. A laila hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa ka pedophobia. Pēlā nō, ʻo ka mea makaʻu i nā keiki liʻiliʻi e loaʻa pū ka makaʻu i nā keiki ʻōpio iki (`(Ephebiphobia)`).

No ke aha e kū mai ai kēia pedophobia? He aha nā kumu?

Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke makaʻu i nā keiki ma muli o kahi ʻike maikaʻi ʻole me kahi keiki ʻuʻuku. Ua hiki ke hana ʻia kēia ʻike maikaʻi ʻole i kou wā kamaliʻi a i ʻole ma ke ʻano he kanaka makua.

Ua ʻike pololei paha ʻoe iā ia, a ua ʻike maka paha ʻoe i kahi hanana:

• Ke ʻike maka nei i ka hana ʻino ʻana i nā keiki a i ʻole kekahi mea e pili ana i ia mea.
• Ka hoʻoweliweli ʻana o ke keiki, nā ʻōlelo hōʻino, nā hanana kolohe , a i ʻole nā ​​​​​​huhū nui.
• Ke ʻike ʻana a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana e pili ana i ka make ʻana o kahi pēpē a keiki paha .
• ʻO kahi ʻike o ka nalowale o ka hāpai ʻana, e like me ka hāʻule ʻana o ka hāpai keiki a i ʻole ka hānau make ʻana . (He mau pilikia koʻikoʻi loa kēia, no laila hiki i kēlā ʻike ke hoʻoulu i kēia makaʻu.)

E noʻonoʻo, i kou wā e pāʻani ana i kou wā kamaliʻi, ua hahau ikaika kekahi keiki iā ʻoe, a ua uhaʻi paha i kekahi o kāu mau mea pāʻani. A i ʻole, ua ʻike ʻoe i kahi pākeke e hoʻohewa ana a hahau paha i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi me ka ʻino loa. Hiki i kēlā mau hanana ke hoʻokomo hohonu ʻia i loko o ka noʻonoʻo a ma hope e hoʻokumu i ka makaʻu i nā keiki.

He aha ka mea e makaʻu ai ka poʻe me ka pedophobia?

ʻAʻole like ka hopena o ka Pedophobia i nā kānaka a pau. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike:

• Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke noho me nā keiki āu i ʻike ai, no ka laʻana, nā keiki a nā ʻohana, akā, ʻaʻole paha hiki iā ʻoe ke noho me nā keiki ʻē aʻe.
• He mea hiki ʻole paha ke ola me ka ʻole o nā hōʻailona hopohopo me kekahi keiki.
• Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hopohopo ʻoiai ke noʻonoʻo ʻoe e pili ana i ka noho ʻana me nā keiki, a i ʻole ke ʻike ʻoe i nā kiʻi o nā keiki.
• Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke makaʻu a me ka hopohopo e pili ana i kekahi kūlana e hoʻokokoke aku ai iā ʻoe i nā keiki.

He aha nā hōʻailona o ka Pedophobia?

Hiki i nā hōʻailona phobia ke ʻano like ʻole mai ka ʻoluʻolu a i ka ʻino. ʻOiai inā maopopo iā ʻoe he makaʻu kūpono ʻole ka makaʻu o kāu keiki, ʻaʻole paha ʻoe e hiki ke kāohi i kāu mau hopena kino.

Hiki i nā hōʻailona o ka pedophobia ke komo pū me:

• Pōʻino
• Waha maloʻo
• Manaʻo nui o ka makaʻu a i ʻole ka weliweli
• Ka luaʻi, ka luaʻi a i ʻole ka maʻi pākī
• Ka hou nui ʻana
• Ka hanu wikiwiki a me ka helu o ka puʻuwai
• Ke haʻalulu a i ʻole ka haʻalulu
• Pōkole o ka hanu

Ke ʻike ʻoe i kēia mau hōʻailona, ​​hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike ʻaʻole kēia he makaʻu iki wale nō, akā, he mea a ke kino ponoʻī e ʻike nei.

Pehea e ʻike pono ai inā loaʻa iā ʻoe ka Pedophobia? (Diagnosis)

ʻO ka American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) e kōkua i nā loea olakino noʻonoʻo, e like me nā psychologists, e ʻike i nā phobias e pili ana i kā lākou mau hōʻailona a pehea lākou e hoʻopilikia ai i kou ʻano ola.

Hoʻohana nā kauka i kēia mau pae hoʻohālikelike e ʻike i kahi phobia kikoʻī, e like me ka pedophobia:

• Ka makaʻu nui i loko o nā pēpē a me nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e mau ana no ka liʻiliʻi o ʻeono mahina.
• Hoʻomaka nā hōʻailona i ka wā e hele kokoke aku ai ʻoe i nā keiki, a i ʻole i kou manaʻo ua kokoke ʻoe i nā keiki.
• Ka makaʻu nui a i ʻole ka hopohopo e koi ai iā ʻoe e pale aku i nā kūlana kahi āu e noho ai a puni nā pēpē a i ʻole nā ​​​​keiki.
• Nā hōʻailona e hoʻopilikia i kou ola maikaʻi .
• Nā manaʻo o ka makaʻu nui, ka hopohopo, a i ʻole ka paʻakikī i kūlike ʻole me ka pōʻino maoli.

ʻO ka mea nui loa, inā ʻoe e manaʻo nei i kekahi mea e like me kēia, mai hūnā, e kamaʻilio me kahi āu e hilinaʻi ai, a e ʻimi i ke kōkua lapaʻau inā pono.

He aha nā lāʻau lapaʻau no kēia maʻi?

ʻO ka nūhou maikaʻi, hiki i kahi kākāʻōlelo olakino noʻonoʻo ke kōkua iā ʻoe e lanakila ma luna o kēia makaʻu o ka noho ʻana a puni nā keiki liʻiliʻi. He kūleʻa pinepine ka Psychotherapy (talk therapy) no ka poʻe me ka pedophobia.

Eia paha nā ʻano lapaʻau:

• ʻO ka lāʻau lapaʻau hōʻike (a i ʻole ka desensitization)ʻO kēia ke komo mālie a me ke ʻano o ka hoʻokūkū ʻana i kou makaʻu. Hoʻopili mālie ʻia ʻoe i nā keiki ma ka hōʻike ʻia ʻana o nā kiʻi a i ʻole nā ​​wikiō o nā keiki, a laila neʻe i kahi kahi e mamao iki aku ai ke keiki, a laila e kokoke mai ana. ʻO ka pahuhopu ka hoʻēmi ʻana i kou makaʻu ma o ka hōʻike pinepine ʻana. No nā poʻe he nui me nā phobias kikoʻī, hoʻemi nui ka lāʻau lapaʻau hōʻike i nā hōʻailona i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa.
• ʻO ka Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) : Kōkua kēia therapy iā ʻoe e kālailai i ke kumu o kou makaʻu i nā keiki. Kōkua ʻo CBT iā ʻoe e kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā hanana traumatic i hoʻoulu ai i kēia makaʻu. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe ke kumu, aʻo ʻoe pehea e hoʻololi ai i kou mau manaʻo a me nā hopena i ka wā e pili ana i nā keiki.
• Nā lāʻau lapaʻau : ʻOiai ʻoe e loaʻa ana i ka psychotherapy, hiki i nā lāʻau anti-anxiety a i ʻole nā ​​​​​​antidepressants ke kōkua. Hiki i kēia mau lāʻau lapaʻau ke kōkua i ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻana i nā hōʻailona, ​​​​e maʻalahi ai ka noho ʻana a puni nā keiki. Akā e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole kēia mau lāʻau lapaʻau wale nō ka hopena, a hoʻohana pinepine ʻia me ka therapy.

He aha nā pilikia e hiki mai ana o ka pedophobia?

ʻO kēia makaʻu nui i nā keiki e hiki ai ke paʻakikī ke hana maʻamau i loko o ke kaiāulu. Hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻalele i nā hanana pilikanaka, loaʻa nā pilikia ma ka hana, a hiki ke kaumaha . Loaʻa i kekahi poʻe nā hoʻouka kaua panic . Hiki i kēia ke manaʻo e like me ka hōʻeha puʻuwai. Hiki i kou puʻuwai ke kuʻi wikiwiki, a loaʻa paha iā ʻoe ka ʻeha umauma (ʻaʻole ma muli o ka hōʻeha puʻuwai).

Hiki i nā lāʻau lapaʻau anti-hopohopo ke kōkua iā ʻoe e mālama i kou kūlana i kou ʻimi ʻana i nā ala e hōʻemi ai i kou makaʻu.

Āhea ʻoe e ʻike ai i ke kauka?

Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kekahi o kēia mau mea, e ʻike koke i ke kauka:

• Nā hoʻouka kaua panic
• ʻO ka hopohopo mau e hoʻopilikia ai i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā a i ʻole ka hiamoe.
• Nā hōʻailona o ke kaumaha (kaumaha mau, ʻaʻohe hoihoi i kekahi mea).
• Nā pilikia o ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā mea ʻona (inā ʻaʻole hiki i ke kanaka ke hoʻomanawanui i kēia makaʻu a huli i ka waiʻona a i ʻole nā ​​​​lāʻau lapaʻau ʻē aʻe).

He aha nā nīnau āu e nīnau ai i kāu kauka?

Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i kāu kauka e like me kēia:

• He aha ke kumu i loaʻa ai iaʻu kēia phobia?
• He aha ka lāʻau lapaʻau maikaʻi loa noʻu?
• E ho'āʻo anei au i ka exposure therapy?
• Pehea ka lōʻihi e pono ai iaʻu ka lāʻau lapaʻau?

ʻO ka mea hope loa, nā mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai (Leka Lawe-Home)

Ua ʻike mākou a pau aia nā keiki liʻiliʻi ma nā wahi a pau: ma nā hale kūʻai, ma nā kaiāulu, ma nā kaʻa ʻōhua, ma nā alanui. He mea paʻakikī ke ʻike ʻole i kēia mau keiki liʻiliʻi. ʻO ka makaʻu i nā pēpē a me nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e hiki ai ke paʻakikī iā ʻoe ke kūʻai aku, huakaʻi, launa pū, hele i nā hanana, a hana i nā mea a ka hapa nui o ka poʻe e hauʻoli ai.

ʻAʻole kūpono a olakino hoʻi ka pale ʻana loa i nā keiki.

E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi. Hiki i ke kākāʻōlelo olakino noʻonoʻo ke kōkua iā ʻoe e lanakila ma luna o kāu pedophobia me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā ʻano hana psychotherapy e like me ka exposure therapy a me ka cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT). Me ke kōkua kūpono, hiki iā ʻoe ke kāohi i kēia makaʻu a ola i kahi ola maʻamau a hauʻoli. Mai makaʻu e noi i ke kōkua.

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