He kanaka makemake ʻoe e noho pū me nā kānaka a pau? ʻO wai ka mea hoʻokaʻawale i kou ʻike?

ʻAʻole anei ʻoe e makemake e ʻōlelo 'ʻaʻole' ke noi ʻia ʻoe e hele i kahi pāʻina a i ʻole kahi hui? Ke hāʻawi nei anei ka hālāwai ʻana me nā poʻe hou a me ka hui pū ʻana me kahi hui o nā kānaka iā ʻoe i ka hauʻoli nui a me ka ikaika? Inā pēlā, aia kahi manawa kūpono he extrovert ʻoe. Loaʻa iā kākou āpau nā ʻano pilikino like ʻole, ʻo ia hoʻi, ko kākou mau ʻano. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kēia mau ʻano i kekahi manawa he mea paʻakikī iki. E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia me nā kikoʻī hou aku i kēia lā.

ʻO wai kēia kanaka extrovert?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka extrovert kekahi kanaka e loaʻa ana ko lākou ikehu a me ka hoihoi mai ka honua waho, ʻo ia hoʻi, mai nā hana pilikanaka me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ua hoʻolauna mua ʻia kēia mau huaʻōlelo ʻelua ʻo `(Extrovert)` a me `(Introvert)` e Carl Jung, he kanaka hiki ʻole ke poina i ka wā e kamaʻilio ana e pili ana i ka psychology. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻia nā kānaka i ʻelua ʻano e like me ke ʻano o kā lākou kuhikuhi ʻana i ko lākou ikehu.

ʻO ka maʻamau, he kanaka kamaʻilio nui ka mea extrovert, he launa pū, he ʻeleu, a he mehana hoʻi i nā kānaka. E noʻonoʻo aia kekahi ma kou keʻena e minoʻaka a kamaʻilio me nā mea a pau, ʻike i nā mea a pau, a inā ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i kahi huakaʻi keʻena a pāʻina paha, ʻo lākou ka mea mua e hoʻonohonoho. Hiki i kēlā kanaka ke lilo i extrovert. He hui nui ko lākou o nā hoaaloha, a he akamai loa hoʻi lākou i ka hana ʻana i nā hoaaloha hou.

Hiki ke loli ko kākou ʻano i loko o ko kākou ola. Malia paha he kanaka mālie loa ʻoe, he kanaka hoʻokamani i kou wā kamaliʻi. Akā i kēia manawa, i kou wā makua, he kanaka launa pū ʻoe, he kanaka hoʻokamani. ʻO ko kākou mau genes, ko kākou ulu ʻana, a me ke kaiapuni a kākou e ulu ai, e kōkua ana i ko kākou ʻano kū hoʻokahi.

ʻO Extrovert a me Introvert: He aha ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā mea ʻelua?

ʻO ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i kou ʻano pilikino e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻimi i nā ala hou e hoʻoponopono ai i nā pilikia, hoʻomaikaʻi i kāu mau pilina, a hoʻomaopopo i kou mau ikaika a me kou nāwaliwali. ʻO ka ʻokoʻa nui ma waena o nā mea ʻelua pehea ʻoe e loaʻa ai kou ikehu. Loaʻa i ka extrovert ka ikehu mai ka launa pū ʻana me nā kānaka a me ka launa pū ʻana. Loaʻa i ka introvert ka ikehu mai ka noho hoʻokahi a me ka nānā ʻana i ko lākou ʻano i loko.

Hiki ke hoʻomaopopo pono ʻia kēia mau hoʻololi mai ka papa ma lalo nei.

Hoʻopaʻa pinepine ka introvert i ko lākou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo iā lākou iho a hana maikaʻi loa i ka wā e noho hoʻokahi ai lākou. Akā, ʻo ka extrovert, i ka wā e kū ai i kahi pilikia, loaʻa iā ia kahi hopena ma ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kekahi a me ka hoʻopuka ʻana i kēlā mau manaʻo. I ka wā e hoʻokele ai i ke kaumaha a me ka hopohopo, hiki i ka makemake o ka introvert no ka noho mālie ke lilo i mea maikaʻi. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka proactivity o ka extrovert a me ka hiki ke hana pū me kahi hui e hoʻokaʻawale iā lākou ma ke ʻano he alakaʻi maikaʻi.

Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai inā he extrovert ʻoe?

ʻAʻole he ʻepekema pololei ka hoʻoholo ʻana inā he extrovert a introvert paha ʻoe. ʻAʻohe ana hoʻokahi. Akā aia kekahi mau ala hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana e loaʻa ai kahi manaʻo o kou ʻano pilikino. ʻO kekahi ala, ʻo ia ka lawe ʻana i kahi hoʻokolohua pilikino pūnaewele e like me ka Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). A i ʻole, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike inā like ʻoe i nā ʻano maʻamau me kahi extrovert.

Eia kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona:

• Ke hoʻolilo ʻoe i ka manawa me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, ʻike ʻoe i ka ikaika a me ka hou .
• Inā ʻoe wale nō no ka lōʻihi loa , e pau ana kou ikaika , e manaʻo ʻoe ua make ʻoe, a e luuluu ʻoe.
• Makemake ʻoe e lilo i kikowaena o ka nānā a ʻaʻole makaʻu ʻoe e kū i nā kūlana maʻa ʻole.
• Makemake ʻoe e hoʻomaka i kahi kamaʻilio, ʻoiai me kahi mea āu i ʻike ʻole ai . ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa, kamaʻilio ʻoe e hoʻonohonoho i kou mau manaʻo.
• Hoʻomaka mau ʻoe i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā huakaʻi a me nā pāʻina kahi e hui pū ai nā kānaka.
• ʻAʻole pinepine ʻoe e hōʻole i kahi kono i kahi pāʻina a i ʻole kahi hui pū ʻana.
• Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi maʻalahi i kekahi ʻano a me ke kūlana. ʻO nā hoʻoholo koke e lawe mai i ka hauʻoli i kou ola.

ʻAʻole kēia he mea ʻeleʻele a keʻokeʻo loa. Malia paha he kanaka extrovert loa ʻoe ma ka hana, hiki ke alakaʻi i kahi hālāwai me ka ʻole o ka hoʻohaunaele. Akā i kou hoʻi ʻana mai i ka home, he kanaka paha ʻoe e makemake e heluhelu i kahi puke a nānā paha i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni iā ​​ʻoe iho. ʻO ia hoʻi, he mau ʻano `(Ambivert)` kou. ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e ʻike ai e pili ana i kou ʻano, ʻo ia ka noʻonoʻo ʻana iā ʻoe iho. E noʻonoʻo pono e pili ana i kāu mau ʻike , nā mea āu e makemake ai. Eia kekahi, he ala maikaʻi ke nīnau i kahi hoaaloha āu e hilinaʻi ai a kokoke iā ʻoe.

Nā pono a me nā pōʻino o ka lilo ʻana i extrovert

Nui nā ʻano maikaʻi e pili ana i ka lilo ʻana i extrovert. He akamai loa lākou i ke kūkulu ʻana i nā pilina pili kanaka. Kōkua kēia mau mākau pili kanaka maikaʻi iā lākou e mālama i nā pilina aloha a loaʻa kahi pae kiʻekiʻe o ka ʻoluʻolu me ko lākou ola. Eia kekahi, ʻo ko lākou hiki ke hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo e hoʻolilo iā lākou i mea maikaʻi loa i ka ʻōlelo ʻana i ka lehulehu a me nā hana kamaʻilio nui.

Akā, ʻaʻole ia me ka ʻole o nā pilikia. Hiki i ka noho hoʻokahi i nā manawa a pau ke paʻakikī loa no ka mea extrovert. Eia kekahi, ʻōlelo pinepine lākou ma mua o ko lākou noʻonoʻo ʻana, hiki ke hana i kekahi mau pilikia. Hoʻomalu lākou i ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma kahi hui, no laila hiki ke paʻakikī iki iā lākou ke lilo i mea hoʻolohe maikaʻi.

Loaʻa i nā introverts a me nā extroverts ko lākou mau ikaika a me nā nāwaliwali. ʻO ka ambivert, nona ka maikaʻi o nā mea ʻelua, ʻo ia paha ka mea e loaʻa ai ka pōmaikaʻi nui loa. ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo ia ka ʻike i nā pilikia e pili ana i kou ʻano pilikino a hana i nā hoʻololi e pono ai e hoʻohana pono i kou mau ikaika.