Koj tus menyuam puas raug kev tsim txom hauv tsev kawm ntawv? (Kev tsim txom) - Cia peb tham txog qhov no!

Koj tus menyuam puas tsis xav mus kawm ntawv? Nws puas ntshai caij tsheb npav lossis mus rau chaw ua si? Qee zaum qhov no yuav yog vim nws raug kev thab plaub . Qhov no tsis yog ib qho me me. Qhov kev thab plaub no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev puas siab puas ntsws tob hauv ib tug menyuam. Hauv qee kis hnyav heev, nws tuaj yeem nce mus rau kev ua phem, kev puas tsuaj khoom vaj khoom tsev, thiab kev raug mob hnyav rau ib tug menyuam. Yog li ntawd, yog tias koj tus menyuam raug kev thab plaub, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum pab tiv thaiv nws.

'kev ua phem rau lwm tus' yog dab tsi tiag?

Ua ntej, cia peb nkag siab tias kev ua phem rau lwm tus yog dab tsi. Qee zaum cov menyuam yaus me me thuam ib leeg, puas yog? Yog tias nws yog kev ua si me me los ntawm ib tug kwv tij lossis ib tug phooj ywg, thiab nws yog kev lom zem rau ob leeg, tsis muaj teeb meem loj. Qhov ntawd yog qhov ib txwm muaj.

Tiam sis, yog tias qhov kev tso dag no txuas ntxiv ua rau lwm tus mob siab, ua rau muaj teeb meem , qhov ntawd yog qhov teeb meem pib. Qhov ntawd yog qhov peb hu ua 'kev ua phem rau lwm tus'.

Hais yooj yim xwb, kev ua phem rau lwm tus yog thaum ib tug me nyuam uas muaj hnub nyoog zoo ib yam txhob txwm ua thiab ua rau lwm tus me nyuam mob lub cev, hais lus, lossis lub hlwb. Tus me nyuam uas ua phem rau lwm tus ntseeg tias nws muaj hwj chim tsis sib npaug rau lwm tus me nyuam. Qhov no suav nrog kev thawb, ntaus, cem, hem, thiab thuam. Qee zaum qhov no suav nrog kev siv nyiaj lossis lwm yam khoom los ntawm kev yuam. Lwm tus me nyuam ua phem rau lwm tus los ntawm kev tsis quav ntsej lawv thiab tshaj tawm cov lus xaiv cuav.

Xav txog seb, koj tus menyuam yuav xav li cas yog tias nws raug lwm tus menyuam lossis ib pawg neeg ua phem rau nws txhua hnub hauv tsev kawm ntawv?

Ib hom kev ua phem loj heev niaj hnub no yog kev ua phem hauv internet . Nws txhais tau tias kev txaj muag thiab ua rau lwm tus raug mob los ntawm kev sib raug zoo hauv social media, texting, thiab WhatsApp. Qhov no kuj loj ib yam li lwm hom kev ua phem.

Qhov kev ntxub ntxaug no yuav tsum tsis txhob saib yooj yim . Nws yog qhov tsis yog los xav tias, "Cov menyuam yaus yog li ntawd, peb tsuas yog yuav tsum ua siab ntev rau nws." Vim tias qhov no muaj kev cuam tshuam loj heev rau cov menyuam yaus txoj kev ntseeg tus kheej thiab kev nyab xeeb. Hauv qee kis hnyav, muaj cov lus ceeb toom hauv ntiaj teb tias qhov kev ntxub ntxaug no tau ua rau cov menyuam yaus tua tus kheej thiab ua tej yam txaus ntshai xws li kev tua neeg hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Yog li ntawd, qhov no yog ib qho teeb meem loj heev.

Vim li cas cov menyuam yaus thiaj li ua phem rau lwm tus zoo li no?

Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus ua phem rau lwm tus vim ntau yam. Ib txhia menyuam yaus xav tias lawv xav tias lawv tseem ceeb dua, nrov dua, lossis tswj hwm lawv, thiab lawv xaiv ib tug menyuam yaus uas lawv xav tias lub hlwb lossis lub cev tsis muaj zog dua lawv, lossis tus uas zoo li lossis ua txawv me ntsis. Tus menyuam yaus uas ua phem rau lwm tus tsis yog ib txwm loj dua lossis muaj zog dua lwm tus menyuam yaus.

Qee zaum, cov menyuam yaus ua phem rau lwm tus vim lawv tau raug kho tib yam li ntawd. Yog tias txhua tus neeg hauv lawv tsev neeg lossis ib puag ncig ib txwm qw thiab hais lus phem rau ib leeg, lawv yuav xav tias qhov no yog qhov ib txwm muaj. Koj pom, txawm tias nyob rau hauv qee qhov yeeb yaj kiab TV, nws yog ib qho ib txwm muaj los kho lwm tus tsis zoo, ua rau lwm tus tsis muaj zog, thuam lwm tus vim lawv qhov zoo nkauj lossis tsis muaj peev xwm. Qhov no kuj cuam tshuam rau lawv.

Koj paub li cas yog tias koj tus menyuam raug tsim txom?

Tshwj tsis yog koj tus menyuam qhia koj ncaj qha, lossis tshwj tsis yog tias muaj cov cim qhia tias raug mob, nws yuav nyuaj rau paub tseeb tias nws puas raug tsim txom.

Txawm li cas los xij, muaj qee cov cim ceeb toom uas peb, ua niam txiv, tuaj yeem saib xyuas:

• Yog koj pom koj tus menyuam tus cwj pwm hloov pauv , lossis lawv zoo li ntxhov siab xwb.
• Yog tias nws tsis noj mov zoo, tsis tsaug zog zoo , lossis tsis xav ua tej yam uas nws nyiam ua.
• Yog tias koj zoo li chim siab dua li yav dhau los, lossis yog tias koj yooj yim chim siab txawm tias yog tej yam me me xwb los xij .
• Yog tias muaj tej yam cuam tshuam (piv txwv li, tsis xav caij tsheb npav mus kawm ntawv, zam qee qhov chaw ntawm tsev kawm ntawv).
• Yog tias koj feem ntau yws txog tej yam xws li tsis xav mus kawm ntawv, mob plab, lossis mob taub hau (tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum hnub kawm ntawv).
• Cov phau ntawv thiab khaub ncaws feem ntau ploj lossis puas tsuaj.
• Yog tias koj pom tej yam xws li ntshai lossis quaj hauv koj tus npau suav .

Yog tias koj xav tias muaj ib yam dab tsi zoo li no, tab sis koj tus menyuam tsis xav tham txog nws, sim pib kev sib tham me ntsis tsis ncaj qha, es tsis txhob nug cov lus nug ncaj qha . Xav txog tias koj pom ib qho xwm txheej zoo li no hauv TV thiab nug ib yam dab tsi zoo li, "Tub/ntxhais, koj xav li cas txog qhov no?" lossis "Koj xav tias tus menyuam ntawd yuav tsum ua li cas?" Tom qab ntawd, koj tuaj yeem nug, "Koj puas tau pom ib yam dab tsi zoo li no tshwm sim?" lossis "Koj puas tau muaj ib yam dab tsi zoo li no tshwm sim rau koj?" Tej zaum koj tuaj yeem tham txog ib qho kev paub uas koj lossis lwm tus neeg hauv koj tsev neeg muaj thaum muaj hnub nyoog ntawd.

Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog qhia rau koj tus menyuam kom nkag siab tias yog lawv raug kev tsim txom lossis yog lawv pom lwm tus raug kev tsim txom, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tham nrog ib tus neeg laus uas koj ntseeg siab txog qhov ntawd. Qhov no yuav yog koj, lwm tus neeg laus (ib tug xib fwb, ib tug kws pab tswv yim hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ib tug phooj ywg hauv tsev neeg, lossis txawm tias ib tug kwv tij).

Peb ua niam ua txiv tau dab tsi?

Yog koj tus menyuam qhia koj txog kev ua phem rau lwm tus, mloog kom zoo zoo . Muab kev nplij siab thiab kev txhawb nqa.Muab. Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus tsis kam qhia cov neeg laus txog tej yam no. Vim lawv txaj muag, lawv tu siab txog tej yam zoo li no tshwm sim. Los yog lawv ntshai tias lawv niam lawv txiv yuav chim siab, npau taws, lossis teb tsis raug.

Qee zaum cov menyuam xav tias nws yog lawv qhov txhaum . Yog tias lawv txawv, yog tias lawv tau ua txawv, qhov no yuav tsis tau tshwm sim. Lwm lub sijhawm lawv ntshai tias yog tus neeg ua phem pom qhov lawv hais, lawv yuav ua phem ntxiv. Ib txhia menyuam xav tias lawv niam lawv txiv tsis ntseeg lawv, lossis yuav tsis ua dab tsi txog nws. Lwm tus ntshai tias lawv niam lawv txiv yuav hais kom lawv "mus deb," tab sis lawv ntshai ua li ntawd.

Yog li ntawd, ua ntej, qhuas koj tus menyuam rau qhov qhia koj qhov no . Nco ntsoov tias lawv tsis yog tib leeg xwb, thiab tias muaj ntau tus neeg raug kev tsim txom thaum lub sijhawm hauv lawv lub neej. Piav qhia tias tus menyuam uas tsim txom yog tus uas coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo, tsis yog koj tus menyuam . Qhia rau lawv paub tseeb tias koj thiab lawv yuav ua haujlwm ua ke los nrhiav kev daws teeb meem.

Cov kev tshawb fawb qhia tau tias muaj ntau tus menyuam yaus thiab cov tub ntxhais hluas hais tias qhov kev ua phem no feem ntau tshwm sim hauv tsev kawm ntawv . Yog li ntawd, qhia rau ib tus neeg hauv tsev kawm ntawv (txawm tias nws yog tus thawj xib fwb, tus kws saib xyuas menyuam hauv tsev kawm ntawv, tus kws pab tswv yim, lossis tus xib fwb) txog qhov xwm txheej. Feem ntau, lawv tuaj yeem ua tib zoo mloog thiab ua cov kauj ruam los tiv thaiv nws kom tsis txhob ua teeb meem.

Vim tias kev ua phem rau lwm tus tuaj yeem tshwm sim rau ntau qhov xwm txheej, tsis muaj ib txoj kev daws teeb meem uas haum rau txhua tus . Yam uas ua haujlwm rau ib qho chaw yuav tsis ua haujlwm rau lwm qhov. Txoj kev daws teeb meem zoo tshaj plaws nyob ntawm ntau yam, suav nrog lub hnub nyoog ntawm cov menyuam yaus uas koom nrog, qhov hnyav ntawm qhov xwm txheej, thiab qhov xwm txheej ntawm kev ua phem rau lwm tus.

Yog koj tus menyuam hais tias, "Yog tias lawv pom kuv hais li cas, lawv yuav ua rau kuv mob ntxiv," lossis hem tias yuav ua rau koj mob lub cev, ua tib zoo xav txog qhov no . Qee zaum kev tham nrog tus menyuam niam txiv tuaj yeem pab tau. Txawm li cas los xij, feem ntau, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tiv tauj tus menyuam cov xib fwb lossis cov kws pab tswv yim ua ntej . Yog tias koj tau sim ua li ntawd thiab tseem xav tham nrog tus menyuam niam txiv, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tham nrog tus thawj coj hauv tsev kawm ntawv, xws li tus kws pab tswv yim. Qhov no yuav txo qhov kev pheej hmoo ntawm cov teeb meem tsis tsim nyog.

Ntau lub tsev kawm ntawv muaj cov cai thiab cov kev pab cuam tiv thaiv kev ua phem rau menyuam yaus. Tsis tas li ntawd, ntau lub tebchaws thiab peb lub tebchaws muaj cov cai lij choj txog qhov no. Tshawb nrhiav cov cai hauv koj cheeb tsam. Qee zaum, yog tias koj muaj kev txhawj xeeb loj txog kev nyab xeeb ntawm koj tus menyuam, koj yuav tsum tiv tauj cov tub ceev xwm.

Koj xav qhia dab tsi rau koj tus menyuam?

Cov niam txiv muaj peev xwm qhia lawv cov menyuam kom paub daws teeb meem kev ua phem rau lwm tus. Tej zaum ib txhia niam txiv lossis cov neeg saib xyuas menyuam yuav xav hais kom lawv tus menyuam "mus ntaus nws." Qhov no nkag siab tau, vim tias koj npau taws thaum koj pom koj tus menyuam raug kev txom nyem, thiab tej zaum koj tau raug hais kom "sawv cev rau koj tus kheej" thaum koj tseem yog menyuam yaus. Lossis koj yuav ntshai tias koj tus menyuam yuav raug ua phem rau lwm tus, yog li ntawd kev ntaus nws yog tib txoj kev los tiv thaiv nws.

Txawm li cas los xij, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum qhia cov menyuam kom tsis txhob teb rau kev ua phem lossis ua phem rov qab . Qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ua phem sai sai, ua rau muaj teeb meem ntau dua, thiab txawm tias ua rau ib tus neeg raug mob. Hloov chaw, qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum ua yog tawm ntawm qhov xwm txheej, sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus neeg, thiab qhia rau ib tus neeg laus .

Nov yog qee txoj hauv kev los pab cov menyuam yaus hloov pauv tej yam thiab xav tias zoo dua:

• Qhia rau ib tug neeg laus: Cov xib fwb hauv tsev kawm ntawv, tus thawj xib fwb, cov niam txiv, thiab cov neeg ua haujlwm hauv chav noj mov tuaj yeem pab tiv thaiv qhov kev ua phem no.
• Tsis txhob cia tus neeg ua phem rau koj thiab siv 'kev sib raug zoo nrog phooj ywg': Siv chav dej sib txawv yog tias tus neeg ua phem nyob ze, tsis txhob mus rau koj lub txee thaum tsis muaj leej twg nyob ib puag ncig. Tsis txhob nyob ib leeg nrog tus neeg ua phem, nyob nrog ib tus neeg . Ntawm lub tsheb npav, hauv txoj kev hauv tsev, ntawm chaw ua si - txhua qhov chaw uas tus neeg ua phem yuav nyob, nrhiav ib tus phooj ywg. Yog tias koj tus phooj ywg xav tau kev pab, ua tib yam.
• Tswj koj qhov kev npau taws: Nws yog ib qho ib txwm muaj rau kev npau taws rau tus neeg ua phem rau lwm tus, tab sis qhov ntawd yog qhov uas cov neeg ua phem nyiam ua. Nws muab rau lawv lub hwj chim. Xyaum tsis txhob quaj, tsis txhob ntsej muag liab, thiab tsis txhob chim siab . Qhov no yuav tsum tau xyaum ntau, tab sis nws yog ib txoj hauv kev zoo kom tsis txhob raug pom los ntawm tus neeg ua phem rau lwm tus. Qee tus menyuam pom tias 'cov tswv yim txias' xws li suav txog 10, sau cov lus npau taws rau ntawm daim ntawv, ua pa tob tob, thiab taug kev mus yog qhov pab tau. Qee zaum nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los qhia koj tus menyuam kom ua lub ntsej muag ntsiag to kom txog thaum tsis muaj kev phom sij (luag nyav lossis luag nyav tsuas yog ua rau tus neeg ua phem chim siab ntxiv).
• Ua siab loj, taug kev deb, thiab tsis quav ntsej tus neeg ua phem rau koj: Hais kom meej thiab hais kom tus neeg ua phem rau koj "tsis txhob" thiab taug kev deb. Xyaum ua kom tsis quav ntsej cov lus uas ua rau mob siab, xws li ua txuj tsis xav paub lossis xa ntawv rau ib tus neeg hauv koj lub xov tooj. Kev tsis quav ntsej tus neeg ua phem rau koj qhia tau tias koj tsis quav ntsej. Raws li lub sijhawm dhau mus, tus neeg ua phem rau koj yuav nkees ntawm kev cuam tshuam koj.
• Tham txog qhov no:Tham nrog ib tug neeg uas koj ntseeg siab. Nws yuav yog ib tug kws pab tswv yim hauv tsev kawm ntawv, ib tug xib fwb, ib tug kwv tij neej tsa, lossis ib tug phooj ywg. Lawv tuaj yeem muab cov lus qhia zoo rau koj. Txawm tias lawv kho tsis tau qhov teeb meem los xij, nws tuaj yeem pab koj tsis txhob nyob ib leeg.

Yuav ua li cas los txhim kho lub zog ntawm lub hlwb (kev ntseeg siab) ntawm ib tug menyuam?

Kev ua phem rau tus menyuam yuav ua rau tus menyuam tsis muaj kev ntseeg siab rau nws tus kheej . Yuav kom pab rov qab kho nws, txhawb kom koj tus menyuam siv sijhawm nrog cov yam zoo . Kev koom nrog cov koom haum, kev ua si nawv, lossis lwm yam kev ua ub no uas lawv nyiam yuav pab tsim kom muaj lub zog ntawm lub hlwb thiab kev phooj ywg.

Mloog zoo thaum koj tus menyuam tham txog lub sijhawm nyuaj, thiab txhawb kom lawv qhia koj txog tej yam zoo txog lawv hnub, thiab mloog zoo rau tej yam ntawd. Qhov no yuav pab txhua tus kom muaj tus cwj pwm sib txuas lus qhib siab . Ib txwm qhia rau lawv paub tias koj ntseeg lawv thiab koj yuav ua txhua yam koj ua tau los pab lawv dhau txhua yam teeb meem.

Nco ntsoov tias, kev tsim kom muaj ib puag ncig hauv tsev uas cov menyuam yaus xav tias lawv tau txais kev hlub, kev nyab xeeb, thiab kev lees txais yog lub zog loj rau lawv los ntsib cov teeb meem no.

Thaum kawg, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov ...

Kev ua phem rau menyuam yaus muaj peev xwm ua rau menyuam yaus lub neej tsis zoo. Nws yuav tsum tsis txhob raug tso tseg li ib yam dab tsi uas ib txwm muaj .

• Tham nrog koj tus menyuam yam qhib siab lug . Txhawb kom nws ntseeg koj yog tias nws raug tsim txom.
• Mloog tus me nyuam hais li cas, txhawb nqa nws, thiab ua kom nws nkag siab tias nws tsis ua yuam kev .
• Ua haujlwm ua ke nrog lub tsev kawm ntawv. Cov xib fwb thiab cov kws pab tswv yim yuav pab daws cov teeb meem no.
• Qhia koj tus menyuam yuav ua li cas thiaj li daws tau qhov teeb meem kev thab plaub , tab sis tsis txhob siv kev ua phem.
• Pab txhim kho koj tus menyuam lub hlwb lub zog thiab kev ntseeg siab rau tus kheej .

Thaum ua tej yam no, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tsim kom muaj ib puag ncig hauv tsev uas koj tus menyuam xav tias tau txais kev hlub thiab kev nyab xeeb . Qhov no yuav muab lub zog rau lawv los ntsib txhua yam teeb meem.

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