Txawm hais tias koj hlub koj tus menyuam heev los, puas muaj tej lub sij hawm koj xav tias koj tus menyuam puas yuav rov qab hlub thiab kev hlub ntawd rau koj? Koj tus menyuam puas rub nws tawm thaum koj mus khawm nws? Koj puas xav tias koj nyuaj siab nkag siab txog yam uas tshwm sim hauv nws lub siab? Koj yuav tsum tu siab thiab ntxhov siab vim yog tej yam zoo li no. Nws yog ib qho kev paub nyuaj heev. Niaj hnub no peb tab tom tham txog qhov mob zoo li no. Peb hu qhov no ua Reactive Attachment Disorder, lossis (RAD) luv luv. Qhov no yog ib qho teeb meem nrog kev sib txuas ntawm tus menyuam thiab tus neeg uas yog tus saib xyuas nws (niam, txiv lossis tus saib xyuas). Cia peb tham txog qhov no kom meej.
Hais yooj yim xwb, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) yog dab tsi?
Kev Mob Siab Rov Qab (REactive Attachment Disorder - RAD) yog ib qho mob uas ib tug me nyuam tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv cov neeg saib xyuas (peb hu lawv ua 'cov neeg saib xyuas'). Qhov ua rau qhov no feem ntau yog thaum tseem hluas, thaum yau, thaum tus me nyuam raug tsis quav ntsej lossis raug tsim txom hauv qee txoj kev.
Cov menyuam uas muaj tus mob no muaj teeb meem tswj thiab tswj lawv txoj kev xav . Lawv kuj muaj teeb meem tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus. Cov menyuam uas muaj RAD tsis tshua nrhiav kev nplij siab lossis qhia cov cim qhia tias lawv nplij siab. Qee zaum, txawm tias cov neeg saib xyuas lawv hlub thiab ua siab zoo npaum li cas los xij, peb yuav pom tus menyuam ntshai lossis txhawj txog lawv.
Leej twg raug kev cuam tshuam ntau tshaj plaws los ntawm qhov xwm txheej no?
Feem ntau pom muaj tus mob no rau cov menyuam yaus uas raug tsis quav ntsej lossis raug tsim txom los ntawm lub cev lossis kev xav. Txawm li cas los xij, qee zaum cov menyuam loj dua kuj tuaj yeem muaj tus mob RAD. Ib tug menyuam muaj feem yuav mob RAD ntau dua yog tias:
- Kev hloov pauv ntau zaus hauv kev saib xyuas: Xav txog qhov no: Qee tus menyuam raug muab tso rau hauv qhov chaw zov menyuam. Thaum lawv hloov chaw tas li, tus menyuam tsis muaj lub sijhawm los tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog tib tus neeg.
- Kev Sib Cais Ntawm Cov Neeg Saib Xyuas Tseem Ceeb: Yog tias ib tug me nyuam tau tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv niam lawv txiv, thiab tom qab ntawd yuav tsum tau sib cais ntawm lawv rau qee qhov laj thawj, nws tuaj yeem ua rau tus me nyuam poob siab heev.
- Kev puas tsuaj loj heev thaum tseem hluas: Muaj ntau yam xwm txheej phem heev, xws li kev tuag lossis kev poob loj, thaum tseem hluas.
- Cov neeg saib xyuas tsis nyob ze tus menyuam: Qee tus niam txiv lossis cov neeg saib xyuas tsis sim nyob ze tus menyuam. Lawv tsis qhia tias lawv xav nkag siab txog tus menyuam txoj kev xav lossis nplij nws.
- Kev loj hlob ntawm tsev kawm ntawv:Cov menyuam yaus uas loj hlob hauv cov tsev xws li cov chaw zov menyuam ntsuag yuav raug tshem tawm ntawm ib tus neeg saib xyuas uas muaj kev hlub tshua.
Qhov no yuav nyuaj rau cov niam txiv saws yuav, vim lawv yuav tsis paub tag nrho zaj dab neeg ntawm lawv tus menyuam yav dhau los. Yog tias koj yog ib tug niam txiv saws yuav tshiab thiab koj tus menyuam muaj cov cim qhia ntawm RAD, lossis koj muaj teeb meem sib raug zoo nrog koj tus menyuam, nws tsis yog koj qhov txhaum. Nco ntsoov tham nrog koj tus menyuam tus kws kho mob txog qhov ntawd.
Cov tsos mob ntawm RAD feem ntau yog dab tsi?
Txhua tus menyuam yaus yuav muaj cov tsos mob sib txawv. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj qee cov tsos mob uas pom tau rau cov menyuam mos thiab cov menyuam yaus me. Cia peb nkag siab txog cov no kom meej.
| Cov tsos mob | Qhov no txhais li cas? |
|---|---|
| Tsis qhia txog kev xav zoo | Thaum koj nrog lwm tus neeg nyob, koj tsis qhia txog kev xav zoo li kev nplij siab, kev hlub, lossis kev zoo siab ntawm koj lub ntsej muag lossis hauv koj tej kev ua. Koj ua zoo li koj tsis tseem ceeb dab tsi li. |
| Tsis txhob kov qhov muag thiab kov lub cev | Thaum ib tug neeg ntsia koj lub qhov muag, khawm koj, lossis tuav koj txhais tes, koj rub tawm. Koj tsis xav kom ze. |
| Qhia kev ntshai lossis kev npau taws | Lawv qhia kev npau taws los ntawm kev qw nrov nrov thiab pov khoom rau hauv pem teb ('tantrums'). Lawv yeej ib txwm tsis zoo siab thiab tu siab. |
| Sim tswj | Lawv nrhiav tej yam nyob hauv lawv ib puag ncig uas lawv tswj tau. Qhov no feem ntau ua rau lawv ua txhaum cai. |
Qhov txawv ntawm RAD thiab DSED yog dab tsi?
Muaj lwm yam mob uas cuam tshuam nrog RAD, tab sis nws txawv me ntsis. Nws hu ua Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED). Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nkag siab txog qhov txawv ntawm ob qho no.
| Yam ntxwv | Kev Mob Sib Txuas Lus (RAD) | Kev Tsis Sib Haum Xeeb ntawm Kev Koom Tes Hauv Zej Zog (DSED) |
|---|---|---|
| Kev coj cwj pwm nrog cov neeg saib xyuas | Zam cov neeg saib xyuas. Sim nyob deb. | Tej zaum koj yuav ua phooj ywg nrog leej twg dhau lawm. |
| Kev coj cwj pwm nrog cov neeg tsis paub | Kuv nyiam nyob ib leeg, deb ntawm zej zog. | Phooj ywg nrog cov neeg txawv teb chaws ntau dhau. Tej zaum yuav xav mus nrog cov neeg txawv teb chaws txawm tias tsis tau nug lawv niam lawv txiv los xij. |
| Nrhiav kev nplij siab | Tsis kam thaum muaj ib tug neeg sim nplij lawv (piv txwv li, khawm lawv). | Xav tau kev saib xyuas thiab kev hlub los ntawm leej twg. |
| Kev coj cwj pwm ib txwm muaj | Txawm hais tias lawv paub txog tej yam uas tshwm sim nyob ib puag ncig lawv los, lawv tsis teb raws li kev xav. | Lawv ua txuj ua li cov menyuam yaus uas tseem hluas dua lawv lub hnub nyoog. Lawv tsis nkag siab txog ciam teb ntawm zej zog. |
Dab tsi ua rau muaj tus mob RAD no?
Tsis muaj ib qho laj thawj tseeb rau qhov no. Kev tshawb fawb qhia tau tias muaj ntau yam laj thawj uas ua rau ib tug menyuam tsis muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog lawv cov neeg saib xyuas. Cov laj thawj tseem ceeb yog:
- Kev tsim txom lossis kev tsis quav ntsej: Tus me nyuam xav tias nws raug tso tseg thiab nyob ib leeg.
- Cov kev xav tau yooj yim uas tsis tau ua tiav:Thaum ib tug me nyuam tsis tau txais cov khoom tseem ceeb ntawm lub neej, xws li zaub mov, kev huv si, thiab kev nyab xeeb, lawv tsis muaj kev ntseeg siab rau lub ntiaj teb.
- Kev Ntshai Txog Kev Nyab Xeeb: Tus me nyuam pheej ntshai tias nws muaj kev phom sij.
- Tsis huv: Tej yam xws li nyob hauv daim ntaub so ntswg ntub ntau teev tuaj yeem ua rau tus menyuam tsis xis nyob thiab tsis quav ntsej.
- Kev saib xyuas tsis sib xws: Tsuas yog qee zaum xwb tus menyuam yuav tau txais kev pab. Tus menyuam yuav tsis paub tseeb tias lawv puas yuav tau kev nplij siab lossis tau txais yam lawv xav tau.
Hais yooj yim xwb, thaum tus menyuam lub cev thiab lub siab xav tau kev pab tas li, kev ntseeg siab yuav tsim los ntawm tus menyuam thiab tus neeg saib xyuas. Qhov kev ntseeg siab no yog lub hauv paus ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Yog tias cov kev xav tau no tsis raug ua tiav, tus menyuam yuav muaj feem ntau dua los ntawm kev mob RAD.
Tus kws kho mob kuaj mob li cas?
Yuav kom kuaj tau tus mob RAD, koj tus kws kho mob yuav nug koj txog keeb kwm mob thiab cov tsos mob ntawm koj tus menyuam. Tus kws kho mob yuav nug cov lus nug xws li:
- Koj tus menyuam puas tau raug kev tsim txom lossis kev tsis saib xyuas ib yam dab tsi?
- Koj thawj zaug pom cov tsos mob no thaum twg?
- Koj thiab koj tus menyuam sib raug zoo li cas?
- Koj tsev neeg lub neej nyob li cas lawm?
- Puas muaj lwm tus neeg saib xyuas uas tab tom saib xyuas tus menyuam?
Raws li cov ntaub ntawv no, yog tias tus kws kho mob xav tias muaj RAD, lawv yuav xa tus menyuam mus rau kws kho mob menyuam yaus , kws kho mob hlwb, lossis kws kho mob hlwb kom kuaj mob thiab pom zoo rau kev kho mob kom raug.
Puas yog RAD thiab Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) yuav tsis meej pem?
Yog, qee zaum cov tsos mob ntawm ob yam mob no yuav zoo sib xws ntawm qhov saum npoo. Yog li ntawd, ua ntej tus kws kho mob xaus lus tias tus menyuam muaj RAD, lawv yuav kuaj xyuas kom paub tseeb tias tsis muaj lwm yam mob, xws li Autism Spectrum Disorder ( ASD ) . Qhov txawv tseem ceeb yog tias ASD yog ib qho mob loj hlob. Nws tsis yog los ntawm kev tsim txom lossis kev tsis quav ntsej. Txawm hais tias RAD muaj feem cuam tshuam ncaj qha rau tus menyuam txoj kev paub thaum ntxov.
Cov kev kho mob rau RAD yog dab tsi?
Lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm kev kho mob rau RAD yog kho qhov kev sib raug zoo ntshai lossis nyuaj ntawm tus menyuam thiab tus neeg saib xyuas thiab tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm lub siab. Cov kev kho mob no pab tau tus menyuam thiab tus neeg saib xyuas.
| Txoj kev kho mob | Hais yooj yim xwb... |
|---|---|
| Kev Kho Mob Hlwb/Kev Qhia Tswv Yim | Ib tug kws pab tswv yim txog kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb ua haujlwm nrog tus menyuam thiab cov niam txiv los pab lawv txhim kho cov txuj ci kev xav zoo thiab txo cov cwj pwm tsis zoo uas cuam tshuam rau kev sib raug zoo. |
| Kev Kho Mob Tsev Neeg | Cov neeg saib xyuas tseem ceeb thiab tus menyuam ua haujlwm ua ke los tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo. |
| Kev Pab Txhawb Kev Txawj Sib Tham Hauv Zej Zog | Tus me nyuam raug qhia kom coj tus cwj pwm zoo hauv kev sib raug zoo nrog cov phooj ywg. Cov niam txiv kuj koom nrog qhov no. |
| Kev Kawm Tshwj Xeeb | Yog tias ib tug me nyuam xav tau, cov kev kawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv yuav pab tus me nyuam kawm cov txuj ci kom ua tiav hauv kev kawm thiab kev sib raug zoo. |
| Cov Chav Kawm Txuj Ci Kev Ua Niam Ua Txiv | Cov niam txiv tuaj yeem kawm paub tswj hwm lawv tus menyuam tus cwj pwm nyuaj kom zoo dua. |
Ua ib tug neeg saib xyuas kuv tus menyuam, kuv yuav pab tau kuv tus menyuam li cas?
Nrog rau kev kho mob, ua tus saib xyuas, koj tuaj yeem ua ntau yam los tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus menyuam.
1. Tsim kom muaj ciam teb meej
Ib puag ncig uas tsis tu ncua yog qhov zoo heev rau txhua tus menyuam. Yog li ntawd, kev teem ciam teb yog qhov tseem ceeb heev. Nrog rau kev txwv tsim nyog thiab cov txheej txheem qhuab qhia tsim nyog, tsis yog lub cev , cov menyuam paub tias yuav tsum tau ua dab tsi ntawm lawv thiab yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim yog tias lawv ua txhaum cai. Qhov no txo cov menyuam txoj kev ntshai thiab txhawb kom lawv coj tus cwj pwm zoo.
2. Txawm tias koj tus menyuam ua tsis zoo los koj tseem nyob twj ywm.
Thaum koj tus menyuam ua tsis zoo, nyob twj ywm. Tsis txhob teb thaum koj npau taws. Qhuab qhia koj tus menyuam raws li cov cai uas koj tau tham nrog koj tus menyuam ua ntej. Thaum koj tus menyuam so thiab npaj rov qab los nrog koj dua, qhia kev hlub thiab kev saib xyuas rau nws. Qhov no qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias koj nyob ntawm no rau nws txawm tias thaum muaj teeb meem.
3. Muab kev hlub thiab kev saib xyuas ntau ntau
Siv sijhawm nyob ib leeg nrog koj tus menyuam. Tham nrog nws, hu nkauj, ua si nrog nws. Khawm nws, puag nws. Tab sis nco ntsoov tias qee tus menyuam tsis nyiam hom kev sib chwv no heev. Tsis txhob siv kev tsis hlub thiab kev khuv leej ua ib hom kev rau txim.
Kuv yuav tsum mus ntsib kws kho mob thaum twg?
Yog koj pom tias koj tus menyuam muaj teeb meem tsim kev sib raug zoo li qub, lossis yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj cov tsos mob RAD uas tau hais hauv tsab xov xwm no, mus ntsib koj tus menyuam tus kws kho mob tam sim ntawd kom tau txais kev qhia. Qhov mob no tau txheeb xyuas thiab kho sai npaum li cas, qhov muaj feem ntau dua rau kev ua tiav zoo rau koj tus menyuam.
Kev nrhiav kev pab los ntawm kws kho mob tsis tau txhais hais tias koj yog ib tug niam txiv phem. Nws tsuas yog qhib lub qhov rooj rau kev tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo, noj qab nyob zoo, thiab mus ib txhis nrog koj tus menyuam.
Cov Lus Qhia Txog Kev Coj Mus Tsev
- Kev Mob Sib Txuas Lus Tsis Zoo (RAD) yog ib qho mob hnyav, tab sis kho tau, uas yog los ntawm kev tsis quav ntsej lossis kev raug mob thaum yau hauv ib tug menyuam.
- Qhov no tsis yog qhov txhaum ntawm tus menyuam thiab tsis yog qhov txhaum ntawm cov niam txiv uas tau ris lub luag haujlwm tu menyuam.
- Cov yam ntxwv tseem ceeb yog kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm lub siab, tsis kam txais kev nplij siab, thiab nyuaj rau tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus.
- Lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm kev kho mob yog los tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo, ruaj khov, thiab kev hlub ntawm tus menyuam thiab tus neeg saib xyuas.
- Nrhiav kev pab tswv yim kho mob thaum ntxov, thiab muab kev hlub thiab kev saib xyuas uas ua siab ntev thiab tsis tu ncua yog qhov tseem ceeb heev rau yav tom ntej ntawm tus menyuam.
Kev Mob Sib Txuas Lus, RAD, kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb ntawm menyuam yaus, tus cwj pwm ntawm menyuam yaus, kev sib raug zoo ntawm kev xav, kev sib raug zoo ntawm niam txiv, kev tsis quav ntsej, kev kho mob
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