As di de we yu bɔn yu pikin de kam nia, sɔntɛm yu go bigin fɔ gɛt kwɛstyɔn dɛn. "Wetin if a let fɔ go na ɔspitul?", "Wetin if a gɛt di pikin bifo mi dɔktɔ kam ya?", "Wetin if a nɔ ebul fɔ tinap fɔ di pen?", "O, wetin if a aksidɛntli poop da tɛm de...?" Dis ɔl na tin dɛn we rili kɔmɔn we kin kam na wi maynd. Nɔto fɔ di fɔs tɛm mama dɛn nɔmɔ, bɔt fɔ di sɛkɔn ɔ tɔd tɛm mama dɛn bak.
If yu fɔs bɔn bin izi, yu kin wɔri se, "I go tranga dis tɛm?" If yu fɔs tɛm bin at, yu go de wɔri se, "I go bi di sem bak?" If na di fɔs tɛm dis, yu go ebul fɔ imajin. Bɔt dis nɔto jɔs yu prɔblɛm. Dis kin rili kɔmɔn. So lɛ wi tɔk bɔt am.
Wetin mek wi de fil dis kayn fred?
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, na fɔ fred wetin pɔsin nɔ no. We "pikin bɔn" bi rial layf ivin we bin de bi chapta na buk, i nɔmal fɔ fil smɔl fred, want fɔ no mɔ, ɛn fred. Sɔntɛnde wi kin tink se fɔ mek big ‘birthing plan’ go mek dis fred go. Bɔt dɔktɔ dɛn se dat nɔto di bɛst sɔlv.
Di tru tin na dat, yu pikin de kɔntrol lɛk ɔltin di de we dɛn bɔn yu pikin. If yu ɛp smɔl frɔm di tin dɛn we Gɔd mek, i nɔ kin izi fɔ biliv se ilɛk aw yu mek di ditayli plan, ɔltin go go jɔs lɛk aw yu bin dɔn plan.
Bifo dat, di bɛst tin fɔ du na fɔ rayt 5 ɔ 6 pan di men tin dɛn we yu de fred pan wan pepa ɛn tɔk bɔt dɛn wit yu dɔktɔ lɔng tɛm bifo di de we yu fɔ bɔn. We yu no se yu ɛn yu dɔktɔ de na di sem pej, dat go ɛp fɔ mek yu nɔ fred.
Kɔmɔn frayd ɛn ansa to dɛn
Pan ɔl we ɔl mama in fred difrɛn, sɔm tin dɛn de we bɔku pipul dɛn kin fred. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt ɛni wan pan dɛn ɛn put yu maynd fayn.
| Kɔmɔn fɔ fred | Wetin wi rili nid fɔ no (The Reassuring Reality) . |
|---|---|
| 1. Fɔ fred se yu nɔ go ebul fɔ bia di pen we yu de bɔn | No nid fɔ bia wit pen dɛn tɛm ya. Bɔku tin dɛn de we yu kin du fɔ mek yu nɔ fil pen. Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bifo tɛm ɛn pik wetin rayt fɔ yu. |
| 2. Fɔ fred fɔ gɛt epidural | Epidural na wan we we rili sef. Siriɔs prɔblɛm dɛn nɔ kin apin so ɔltɛm. Sכm sכm sayd ifekt dεm (e.g. bak pen) dεn tu kin rili rare. |
| 3. Fɔ fred fɔ mek dɛn du sizarian sɛkshɔn (C-Section) . | Dɛn kin du C-sekshɔn nɔmɔ if i rili nid fɔ mek di mama ɛn di pikin sef. Naw, na ɔpreshɔn we rili sef. If di dɔktɔ disayd dis kayn tin, abop pan am. |
| 4. Fɔ fred fɔ let fɔ go na ɔspitul | Ɛspɛshali fɔ mama we bɔn fɔ di fɔstɛm, di tɛm fɔ wet kin bi fɔ sɔm awa. So di chans fɔ lɛ pɔsin let rili smɔl. Pak yu bag bifo tɛm ɛn plan di rod we yu go waka. |
| 5. Fɔ fred fɔ bɔn pikin bifo di dɔktɔ kam | We yu go na di leba rum na di ɔspitul, nɔto yu wan de. Nɔs dɛn we gɛt bɔku ɛkspiriɛns ɛn ɔda dɔktɔ dɛn kin de wit yu ɔltɛm. |
| 6. Fɔ fred fɔ pas stɔl we yu de bɔn pikin | Dɔktɔ dɛn kin rili si dis as rili gud sayn . i min se di pikin de na di kכrekt posishכn εn di dεlivεri de go fayn. So nɔ shem ɔ fred bɔt dat. |
Smɔl mɔ bɔt Leba Pen
Na nɔmal tin fɔ mek yu fred wit di "horror stories" we yu de bɔn pikin. Bɔt no mama nɔ fɔ gɛt fɔ sɔfa tru pen we de mek i fil bad.Mɛmba dat. Fɔ no bifo tɛm if di ɔspitul we yu go bɔn yu pikin gɛt 24 awa anestezi. If na so, yu kin gɛt epidural ɛnitɛm.
If dat nɔto opshɔn, nɔ wɔri. Tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt ɔda kayn nakotiks. Dɛn tin ya kin mek yu pikin slip smɔl, bɔt na fɔ shɔt tɛm nɔmɔ. Yu dɔktɔ go ajɔst di mɛrɛsin to di stej we yu de bɔn so dat di ifɛkt pan yu pikin nɔ go bɔku.
Apat frɔm dat, we yu praktis fɔ blo di rayt we, dat kin ɛp fɔ kɔntrol di pen bɔku bɔku wan. Yu kin lan bɔt dɛn tin ya na klas fɔ mama dɛn we gɛt bɛlɛ.
Wetin a go du if a fɔ gɛt C-Sɛkshɔn?
If yu de op fɔ bɔn pikin we nɔmal, yu kin fred if yu dɔktɔ tɛl yu wantɛm wantɛm fɔ mek dɛn du C-section . If dat apin, nɔ shek fɔ aks se, "Wetin mek dɛn de disayd dis?" ɛn "Nɔto ɔda we de?"
Bɔt if yu rili nid fɔ du am, i go fayn fɔ mek yu abop pan yu dɔktɔ da tɛm de. Dɛn kin du imejensi C-sekshɔn fɔ dɛn rizin ya:
- Di pikin in saiz big we yu kɔmpia am to yu bɔdi saiz.
- di pikin de shift to wan abnכmal posishכn we i de bכn .
- di sεviks nכ de opin inof (sεviks nכ de dilayt).
Di risk dɛm fɔ C-sɛkshɔn nɔto ziro, bɔt dɛn rili smɔl. If yu dɔktɔ se i nid fɔ bɔn pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi, nɔ wɔri bɔt am.
Di trip to di ɔspitul
If na yu fɔs pikin, yu kin gɛt fɔ wet fɔ lɔng tɛm pas aw yu tink. So nɔ wɔri fɔ bɔn pikin na taksi ɔ na stɔ. Di chans fɔ mek dat apin rili smɔl. Bɔt i bɛtɛ fɔ mek yu rɛdi bifo tɛm.
- Mek yu ɔspitul bag rɛdi at le tu wiks bifo di pikin bɔn.
- Mek klia plan fɔ aw yu go rich na ɔspitul de ɛn nɛt (motok, drayva).
- If dis na yu sɛkɔn ɔ tɔd pikin, arenj bifo tɛm fɔ mek sɔmbɔdi tek kia ɔf di ɔda pikin dɛn we yu de go na ɔspitul.
We yu kɔntrakshɔn bigin fɔ kam ɔltɛm , we min se di tɛm bitwin di kɔntrakshɔn kin bi di sem, yu fɔ rili kɔl yu dɔktɔ.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- I rili nɔmal fɔ fred fɔ bɔn pikin. Nɔto yu wan de fil dis kayn we.
- Bifo yu mek big ‘plan fɔ bɔn pikin’, tɔk opin wan wit yu dɔktɔ bɔt wetin yu de fred bifo tɛm .
- Nɔ fred fɔ mek yu fil pen. Wit di mɛrɛsin tide, bɔku fayn we dɛn de fɔ kɔntrol pen .
- If dɛn nid fɔ du C-section, dɛn kin du am fɔ mek yu ɛn yu pikin sef . Trɔst di dɔktɔ dɛn da tɛm de.
- Yu nɔ go ɛva de yu wan na ɔspitul. Di dɔktɔ dɛn we gɛt ɛkspiriɛns kin rɛdi ɔltɛm fɔ ɛp yu.
- Bifo yu tray fɔ kɔntrol ɔltin, tray fɔ tek am izi ɛn abop pan yu bɔdi ɛn yu dɔktɔ.
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