Yu na pɔsin we jɔs de tink bɔt insɛf ɛn put ɔda pipul dɛn dɔŋ? Dis kin bi Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)?

Wi ɔl gɛt dɛn pipul dɛn de we de tink bɔt dɛnsɛf fayn fayn wan ɛn we nɔ de tink bɔt aw ɔda pipul dɛn de fil. Sɔntɛnde, i kin rili at fɔ dil wit dɛn pipul ya. Dɛn tink se dɛn de ɔp di wɔl ɛn ɔlman smɔl pas dɛn. Yu tink se dis kin rili bi pɔsin we gɛt maynd prɔblɛm? Yes, dεn kכl am Narcissistic Personality Disorder, כ `(Narcissistic Personality Disorder - NPD)`. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis smɔl mɔ tide.

Wetin na di sik we dɛn kɔl narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, narcissistic personality disorder na wan mɛntɛl hεlth kɔndishɔn. I kin afɛkt di we aw yu de si yusɛf ɛn di padi biznɛs we yu gɛt wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Pɔsin wae gɛt NPD kin gɛt wan insatiable want fɔ impres ɔda pipul dɛm ɛn fɔ fil impɔtant. Dis want kin so tranga dat e kin mek yu du tin wae de ambɔg yu ɛn di wan dɛm wae de arawnd yu.

Di nem "narcissistic" kɔmɔt frɔm di Grik mythological hunter Narcissus. Frɔm wetin di stori se, Nasis bin so lɛk in yon fayn fayn tin dɛn dat i nɔ bin ebul fɔ stɔp fɔ luk in yon riflekshɔn insay wan pul we gɛt wata. We i dɔn, dɛn se i day we i de luk in yon riflɛkshɔn.

Bɔt pan ɔl we bɔku pipul dɛn kin kɔl di wɔd "Nazism" wit aw yu luk, NPD nɔto jɔs bɔt aw yu luk. I kin bi bak bɔt ɔda tin dɛn we yu gɛt, lɛk yu sɛns, yu sabi fɔ tɔk, yu sabi fɔ mek atis, yu ebul fɔ ple spɔt, yu jɛntri, yu gɛt pawa, ɛn yu gɛt sakrifays .

Aw dis sik kin kɔmɔn?

Di masta sabi pipul dɛn nɔ shɔ ustɛm NPD kɔmɔn. Risach dɔn sho se bitwin 0.5% ɛn 5% pan di pipul dɛm na Amɛrika kin gɛt dis sik. Dɛn kin tɔk bak se bitwin 50% ɛn 75% pan di wan dɛn we gɛt dis sik na man dɛn .

Bɔt bɔku pipul dɛn kin ayd di tin dɛn we dɛn biliv ɛn di we aw dɛn de biev lɛk dɛnsɛf. Sɔntɛnde dɛn kin kɔl dis "covert narcissism." So, i rili at fɔ no kɔrɛkt wan ɔmɔs pipul dɛn rili gɛt NPD.

Wetin na di sayn dɛm wae de sho se pɔrsin gɛt dis sik wae de mek pɔrsin fil fayn?

Di sayn dɛm fɔ NPD ɔl gɛt fɔ du wit aw yu de tink, aw yu de fil, ɛn aw yu de du tin . Di American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, we na di fayv edishɔn tɛks rivishɔn (DSM-5-TRTM) sho nayn krayteria fɔ dis dizayd. Di sayn dɛm wae de ɔnda dɛn krayteria ya kin apia to ɔda pipul dɛm lɛk dis:

1. Fɔ gɛt ɔva-ɛstimashɔn ɛn prawd fɔ yusɛf:

• Dɛn kin tek di tin dɛn we dɛn ebul fɔ du pasmak, ɔ dɛn kin sɛt gol dɛn we tu ay fɔ lɛ dɛn nɔ ɛva ebul fɔ du.
• Dɛn kin ɛgzajarayt ivin di smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we dɛn dɔn du, ɛn dɛn kin ɛgzajarayt di tin dɛn we dɛn dɔn du.

2. Fɔ drim ɔltɛm fɔ gɛt ɔ want dɛn tin ya:

• Go bifo
• Pawa
• Sɛns
• Rili fayn
• Lɔv
• Fɔ satisfay wit yusɛf.

3. Di biliv se pɔsin bɛtɛ pas ɔda pipul dɛn:

• A tink se mi na pɔsin we rili spɛshal ɛn we nɔ gɛt wan kɔmpitishɔn.
• Dɛn biliv se dɛn fɔ jɔs de wit pipul dɛn we "worthwhile" lɛk dɛn.

4. Wi nid fɔ tɛl ɔda pipul dɛn tɛnki ɛn prez am ɔltɛm:

• Self-esteem na tin we nɔ kin izi fɔ du.
• Dɛn kin dawt dɛnsɛf ɔltɛm, dɛn kin blem dɛnsɛf, ɛn dɛn kin fil se dɛn nɔ gɛt natin.
• A kin wɔri ɔltɛm bɔt wetin ɔda pipul dɛn tink bɔt mi.
• Yu kin du difrɛn tin dɛn fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn prez yu. Fɔ ɛgzampul, instead fɔ se sɔntin lɛk, "A nɔ sabi dis," yu kin se, "O, nɔ, yu rili sabi am."

5. Di abit se ɔltin fɔ bi dɛn we ɛn se dɛn fɔ gɛt spɛshal tritmɛnt:

• Dɛn kin tink tumɔs bɔt dɛn yon valyu.
• Dɛn kin op fɔ gɛt spɛshal tritmɛnt we nɔ kɔmɔn.
• Dɛn kin vɛks we ɔda pipul dɛn nɔ de lisin to dɛn ɔ mek dɛn gladi. Tink bɔt am lɛk we yu de tray fɔ go bifo pan layn ɛn tink se ɔlman go put dɛn fɔs.

6. Di tɛmteshɔn fɔ yuz ɔda pipul dɛn fɔ in yon bɛnifit:

• We dɛn no ɔ we dɛn nɔ no, dɛn kin yuz ɔda pipul dɛn.
• Dɛn kin jɔs kip as padi ɛn kɔnekshɔn di wan dɛn we dɛn tink se gud fɔ dɛn sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt ɛn stetɔs.
• Dɛn kin yuz ɔda pipul dɛn bay wilful fɔ du wetin dɛn want fɔ du.

7. Nɔ gɛt sɔri-at:

• Dɛn kin tɔk tin dɛn we kin mek ɔda pipul dɛn fil bad.
• Dɛn kin si di we aw ɔda pipul dɛn de fil, wetin dɛn nid, ɛn wetin dɛn want as wikɛd tin.
• Di gud ɛn intres we ɔda pipul dɛn de sho yu, nɔ de gi yu di sem we. Imajin, we yu padi gɛt big prɔblɛm, yu de bost bɔt wan pan di win dɛn we yu dɔn win bifo yu lisin to dɛn pen, na so i tan.

8. Fɔ jɛlɔs bɔku tɛm:

• A kin jɛlɔs we ɔda pipul dɛn ebul fɔ du am, mɔ we dɛn ay pas mi.
• A tink se ɔda pipul dɛn de jɛlɔs mi.
• Dɛn de smɔl ɛn smɔl di talɛnt ɛn sakrifays we ɔda pipul dɛn gɛt.

9. Prawd, prawd bihayvya:

• Dɛn kin biev lɛk se dɛn nɔ bisin bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn dɛn de sho se dɛn lɛk ɔda pipul dɛn.
• Fɔ biev rud rud ɛn nɔ rɛspɛkt.
• Dɛn kin tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn di we aw dɛn de put dɛnsɛf dɔŋ ɛn we de provok dɛn.

Apat frɔm dɛn nayn men krayteria ya, pipul dɛn we gɛt NPD kin sho difrɛn ɔda kayn we aw dɛn de biev. Fɔ ɛgzampul:

• Di fred fɔ sho se yu wik, tray fɔ avɔyd am.
• Dɛn kin de fa frɔm ɔda pipul dɛn bikɔs dɛn kin fil se dɛn wik.
• Tray fɔ du ɔltin pafɛkt wan (`(Perfectionism)`) (we kin fayn ɔ nɔ kin fayn, wit di fred fɔ mek yu nɔ ebul fɔ du am).
• Fɔ kɔndɛm am, nɔ gri fɔ tek am, ɛn fɔ mek i nɔ ebul fɔ bia. Dɛn kin tek ivin di smɔl smɔl tin dɛn na dɛn at.
• If pɔsin nɔ gri fɔ tek am ɔ i nɔ ebul fɔ du natin i kin mek i gɛt siriɔs pwɛl at .
• If dɛn fil se dɛn de kɔrɛkt dɛn ɔ nɔ gri wit dɛn, dɛn kin riak wit bad bad vɛks (`(rage)`) .
• Dɛn kin mek lay lay ɔmbul fɔ ayd aw dɛn de fil ɛn protɛkt dɛn yon big big pɔsin.
• Dɛn kin avɔyd tin dɛn we dɛn kin fel, ɛn chans de fɔ mek dat apin. Dis kin mek dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ du sɔntin.

De impɔtant tin na dat, jɔs bikɔs pɔrsin gɛt wan ɔr tu pan dɛn sik ya nɔr min se i gɛt NPD. Na dɔktɔ we sabi du di wok nɔmɔ go ebul fɔ no di sik kɔrɛkt wan.

Wetin na di tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin gɛt NPD?

Bikɔs NPD na mɛntɛl hεlth kכndyushכn, masta sabi pipul dεm nɔr kin tεk εksεkεkt wae mek i kin apun. Pan ɔl we dɛn dɔn si sɔm chenj dɛn we nɔ klia na di bren strɔkchɔ fɔ pipul dɛn we gɛt NPD, i stil nɔ klia if dɛn chenj dɛn de kin mek dɛn gɛt NPD ɔ if NPD kin mek dɛn chenj dɛn de.

Bɔku men tin dɛn de we dɛn dɔn no naw we de ɛp fɔ mek NPD divɛlɔp:

• Jɛnɛtiks: Pipul dɛm wae gɛt NPD kin gɛt mama ɛn papa ɔr dɛn fambul dɛm wae gɛt dis sik. Dis min se i kin bi se wan jɛnɛtik inflɔwɛns de we de rɔn na famili.
• Fɔ Wach ɛn Fɔ falamakata: Frɔm we dɛn smɔl, pikin dɛn kin wach ɛn falamakata di tin dɛn we dɛn de si, mɔ di we aw dɛn mama ɛn papa ɛn di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn de biev, ɛn dɛn kwaliti dɛn de kin bi NPD.
• Di bad tin dɛn we kin apin to pɔsin we i smɔl: Di bad bad tin dɛn we kin apin to pɔsin we i smɔl, we pɔsin nɔ kin gri fɔ tek am, we dɛn nɔ de kia fɔ am, ɛn we dɛn nɔ kin gɛt sɔpɔt, kin mek i gɛt di kayn we aw i de tink bɔt insɛf.
• Di we aw dɛn de mɛn pikin dɛn: Fɔ it pasmak, fɔ protɛkt dɛnsɛf pasmak, ɛn fɔ put an pan ɔltin (fɔ mɛn pikin dɛn wit ɛlikopta) kin mek pikin dɛn de ɛkspɛkt ɛn aks fɔ di sem atɛnshɔn frɔm ɔda pipul dɛn as dɛn de gro. Dis kin mek pikin dɛn nɔ lan bak fɔ kɔntrol ɛn kɔntrol aw dɛn de fil. Dɔn, we dɛn nɔ gɛt wetin dɛn want, i nɔ kin izi fɔ dɛn fɔ kɔntrol di we aw dɛn de fil.
• Kɔlchɔ: Risach dɔn sho se di kɔlchɔ we yu de gro ɔp kin afɛkt bak yu risk fɔ gɛt NPD. I tan lɛk se di kɔlchɔ dɛn we valyu ɛnibɔdi ɛn pɔsin in yon ɔtonomi gɛt ay risk. Pipul dɛm we de gro ɔp na kɔlchɔ dɛm we valyu kɔlektifizm ɛn wanwɔd nɔ kin gɛt NPD.

Wetin na di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin kam wit NPD?

I rili kɔmɔn fɔ mek NPD de togɛda wit ɔda mental wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm ɛn kɔndishɔn dɛn. Na sɔm pan di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin:

• Mud disɔda ɔr bipolar disorder: Pipul wae gɛt NPD kin gɛt mɔr wɔri ɛn pwɛl hat. Bipola muud disɔda kin kɔmɔn bak pan pipul dɛm wae gɛt NPD.
• Ɔda prɔblɛm dɛn we kin mek pɔsin in pasɔnaliti:Sɔm ɛgzampul dɛn na bɔdalayn pɔsin disɔda (BPD) ɛn antisɔshial pɔsin disɔda (ASPD).
• Bɔdi dismɔrfik disɔda (`(Bɔdi dismɔrfik disɔda)`): Pipul dɛm we gɛt NPD kin gɛt dis kɔndishɔn bak (dɛn kin kɔl am bak ``bɔdi dismɔrfia``). Dis kin kam bikɔs dɛn de fil bad bɔt dɛn bɔdi ɛn aw dɛn de luk.
• Sɔbstans yuse disɔda (SUD): We rial tin nɔr de go lɛk aw dɛn bin de tink, pipul dɛm wae gɛt NPD kin tɔn to rɔm ɔr drɔgs. Stimulant lɛk kɔkɛyn kin kɔmɔn mɔ, bikɔs na dɛn kayn ay pipul dɛn we gɛt NPD kin luk fɔ.
• Dɛn kin kil dɛnsɛf: Pipul wae gɛt NPD kin gɛt siriɔs pwɛl hat ɛn nɔr kin gɛt op wae dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm, dɛn nɔr kin ebul fɔ du tin, ɛn dɛn nɔr kin gri wit dɛn. Dɛn tin ya kin bi fɔ kil dɛnsɛf we dɛn plan pas fɔ "kɔl fɔ ɛp" wantɛm wantɛm. So, pipul dɛm wae gɛt NPD kin gɛt bɔrku risk fɔ kil dɛnsɛf. Dis na tin we rili siriɔs.

Aw dɛn kin no bɔt di sik we dɛn kɔl narcissistic personality disorder?

Wan pɔsin we de kia fɔ wɛlbɔdi biznɛs, we kin bi saykayatrist ɔ sayɛnsman, kin no se i gɛt NPD. Dɛn go tɔk to yu ɛn aks yu kwɛstyɔn bɔt yu layf ɛn yu rilayshɔn wit ɔda pipul dɛn (especially famili, padi, ɛn pipul dɛn we yu lɛk). Dɛn kin aks kwɛstyɔn bak fɔ pul ɔda tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin gɛt di sem kayn sik.

Yu fɔ mit at le fayv pan di nayn krayteria dɛm we de na di American Psychiatric Association (DSM-5-TRTM) manual fɔ mek dɛn no se yu gɛt NPD. Naw, no patikyula lab tɛst ɔ imej tɛst nɔ de we go ebul fɔ no NPD.

Wetin na di tritmɛnt dɛm fɔ NPD?

Di men tritmɛnt fɔ NPD na sɔm kayn saykotɛrapi.

Sɔm pan di tritmɛnt dɛm wae dɛn kin yuse fɔ NPD na:

• Dayalɛktik bihayvya tɛrapi (DBT) .
• Kognitiv bihayvya tεrapi (`(Kognitiv bihayvכral tεrapi - CBT)`)
• Mεtakognitiv tεrapi (`(Mεtakognitiv tεrapi)`)
• Grup tɛrapi (`(Grup tɛrapi)`)
• Man ɛn in wɛf ɔ famili tritmɛnt

Bikɔs bɔku tritmɛnt dɛn de, yu mɛntɛl hεlth pɔrsin na di bɛst pɔrsin fɔ tɛl yu mɔr bɔt dɛn difrɛn we ya. Yu kin aks dɛn ɛni kwɛstyɔn we yu gɛt bɔt aw dɛn we ya de wok ɛn us we fɔ du am fayn fɔ yu.

Mɛrɛsin fɔ NPD

Naw, no mɛrɛsin nɔ de we de trit NPD dairekt wan. Bɔt dɛn kin yuz mɛrɛsin fɔ trit ɔda sik dɛn we kin gɛt fɔ du wit am, lɛk fɔ wɔri ɛn pwɛl at. Sɔm pan di mɛrɛsin dɛn we kin ɛp na:

• Di mɛrɛsin dɛn we de mek pɔsin nɔ fil bad
• Antianxiety mεdikeshכn (`(Antianxiety mεdikeshכn / anxiolytics)`)
• Medikeshɔn dɛn we de mek pɔsin nɔ gɛt sik
• Antikonvulsant mεdikeshכn dεm - Pan ɔl we dεn ya kin trit εpilepshכn fכs, sכm mεdikeshכn dεm lεk lamotrigine kin εp fכ mek yu mכd stεbyul.

If a gɛt NPD, wetin a fɔ ɛkspɛkt?

Sɔntɛnde, pipul dɛm wae gɛt NPD nɔr kin no bɔt am. Sɔm pipul dɛn nɔ kin no am fɔ lɔng lɔng tɛm ɔ ivin fɔ lɔng lɔng tɛm. Bɔrku tɛm, wan tin ɔr tin wae kin mek pɔrsin strɛs kin mek pɔrsin gɛt dis sik ful wan. Na sɔm ɛgzampul dɛn bɔt dɛn kayn tin dɛn ya ɔ tin dɛn we kin apin:

• Impɔtant bad chenj dɛn: Tin dɛn lɛk fɔ pul pɔsin na in wok, fɔ lɔs wok, fɔ bankrupt.
• Pasɔnal kraysis: rilayshɔnship brok, dayvɔs.
• Ɔda prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin na layf: Sik ɔr chenj wae kin kam wae pɔrsin de ol, mɔr de wae kin afɛkt aw pɔrsin kin liv fɔ insɛf, ɔr pɔrsin wae yu lɛk day.
• Ultimatums: Pipul wae gɛt NPD kin jɔs aks fɔ ɛp if di wan dɛm wae dɛn lɛk aks fɔ am ɔr insist pan am.

Wetin na di lukin-grɔn fɔ NPD stetɔs?

Di luk fɔ NPD, dat na di ebul fɔ wɛl, dipen pan sɔm tin dɛn. Dɛn tin ya na:

• Yu sayn dɛm: Sɔm sayn dɛm fɔ NPD kin mek yu nɔr kin want fɔ go to ɛp ɔr fɔ go to tritmɛnt. Pipul wae nɔr want fɔ tan lɛk se dɛn wik, mɔr lɛk de wan wae nɔr want fɔ mek dɛn si dɛn as wik, nɔr kin pe atɛnshɔn to aw dɛn kin gɛt diagnosis.
• Aw yu NPD tranga: If e kam tranga, e kin bi big tin wae de ambɔg yu layf. Bɔrku tɛm, pipul dɛm wae gɛt siriɔs NPD kin agresiv, kin gɛt kɔnfrɔntɛshɔn, ɛn nɔr kin sɔri fɔ ɔda pipul dɛm fil ɛn nid. Dɛn nɔ kin aks fɔ ɛp ɔr go to tritmɛnt bak.
• Ɔda kɔndishɔn dɛn we yu gɛt: Pipul dɛn we gɛt NPD kin gɛt ɔda prɔblɛm dɛn if dɛn gɛt ɔda kɔndishɔn. Fɔ ɛgzampul, wɔri, pwɛl hat, ɔda pɔrsin in pasɔnaliti disɔda (especially antisocial personality disorder), ɛn sɔbstans yuse disɔda kin mek NPD wɔs.

Bikɔs bɔrku tin kin afɛkt dis, de bɛst pɔrsin fɔ aks bɔt aw yu go si yu sik na yu mɛntɛl hεlth pɔrsin. Dɛn kin gi yu mɔ infɔmeshɔn bɔt wetin yu fɔ ɛkspɛkt ɛn wetin yu go du fɔ ɛp.

Dɛn kin ebul fɔ stɔp NPD ɔ di risk fɔ gɛt am kin ridyus?

NPD kin apin fɔ rizin dɛn we masta sabi pipul dɛn nɔ ɔndastand gud gud wan. I kin rɔn bak na famili. Fɔ dɛn tu rizin ya, yu ɔ yu pikin nɔ go ebul fɔ stɔp am fɔ mek i nɔ gro.

Bɔt di we aw yu de mɛn yu pikin dɛn, dat na aw yu de chenj di we aw yu de mɛn pikin dɛn fɔ fit difrɛn tin dɛn.We dɛn de fɔ ridyus yu pikin in risk fɔ gɛt dis. Yu pikin in pikin dɛn dɔktɔ kin tich yu bɔt dis, ɔ i kin tɛl yu fɔ go to pikin dɛn we de stɔdi bɔt pikin dɛn maynd.

Aw a go tek kia ɔf misɛf (if a gɛt NPD)?

If yu gɛt NPD, i kin tranga fɔ mek yu gri fɔ tek di sik. Bikɔs ɔf de sayn dɛm fɔ dis sik, yu kin fil lɛk yu gɛt dis sik ɛn yu kin want fɔ avɔyd am. Bɔt i impɔtant fɔ ɔndastand se tritmɛnt kin mek yu layf ɛn yu padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn bɛtɛ . I kin mek am izi fɔ yu fɔ bil ɛn kip rilayshɔnship, ɛn gɛt sakrifays fɔ yusɛf ɔ fɔ yu wok.

Sɔm pan di impɔtant tin dɛn we yu go du na:

• Si yu mental hεlth prכfεshכn lεk aw dεn rεkomεnd. Pipul wae gɛt NPD kin lɛf fɔ gɛt tritmɛnt. Dis kin mek yu gɛt mɔ prɔblɛm dɛn as tɛm de go.
• Tek yu mɛrɛsin dɛn lɛk aw dɛn tɛl yu fɔ tek. Dis go ɛp yu fɔ manej ɛn rigul yu filin ɛn NPD simptom dɛm.
• Nɔ yuz drɔgs ɔ rɔm. Pan ɔl we dɛn kin mek yu fil fayn fɔ sɔm tɛm, dɛn kin mek tin wɔs as tɛm de go. If yu tek mɛrɛsin, rɔm ɔ ɔda drɔgs kin mek yu gɛt denja drɔgs intarakshɔn.

Ustɛm a fɔ go to mi dɔktɔ, ɔ ustɛm a fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

Yu fɔ go to yu dɔktɔ lɛk aw dɛn tɛl yu fɔ du. Dɛn go mek wan schedule fɔ tritmɛnt ɛn fɔ fala di visit. Yu fɔ go to yu dɔktɔ if yu notis ɛni chenj pan yu sik ɔ if yu notis chenj pan di we aw yu mɛrɛsin dɛn de wok.

Ustɛm a fɔ go na ɔspitul ɔ imejensi rum?

If yu de tink bɔt fɔ du bad to yusɛf, fɔ kil yusɛf, ɔ fɔ du bad to ɔda pipul dɛn , yu fɔ go na imejensi rum wantɛm wantɛm, kɔl 1990 (Sri Lanka in ambulans savis), ɔ tɛl pɔsin we yu trɔst ɛn go to dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm. Dɛn tin ya we yu kin tink bɔt rili siriɔs, so nɔ tray fɔ dil wit dɛn yu wan.

Difrɛn kayn we dɛn de we pɔsin kin tink bɔt insɛf nɔmɔ?

di DSM-5-TRTM (di laytst rivishכn fכ di DSM-5) nכ de dεskrεb di difrεn tכp dεm fכ narcissism כ NPD. Bɔt sɔntɛnde, masta sabi bukman dɛn kin put di kayn we aw pɔsin de tink bɔt insɛf nɔmɔ bay di we aw i de biev ɔ di we aw i de biev.

Sɔm pan di tin dɛn we dɛn yuz fɔ am na:

• Grandiose (we de ɛkspɛkt fɔ gladi fɔ ɛn no) versus vulnerable (we nid fɔ gɛt aprɔval fɔ mek dɛn kɔntinyu fɔ gɛt sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt ɛn fɔ fred se dɛn nɔ go gri wit am).
• Ovεt (`(Ovεrt)`) vεrs kכvεt (`(Kכvεt)`).
• Harmless (`(Benign)`) versus malicious (`(malignant)`) (dɛn wan dɛn we want fɔ du ɔda pipul dɛn bad ɔ yuz ɔda pipul dɛn).

Dis nɔto fɔmal klasification, bɔtWan pɔsin we de advays yu bɔt mental wɛlbɔdi biznɛs kin ɛp yu fɔ ɔndastand wetin de apin to yu. If yu tink se dɛn sik ya kin apin to yu, yu kin aks pɔsin we sabi bɔt am bak.

A kin tek tɛst fɔ si if a gɛt abit dɛn we de mek a lɛk misɛf?

Dɔktɔ dɛn kin yuz difrɛn difrɛn diagnostik skrinin kwɛshɔn dɛn fɔ ɛp fɔ no if pɔsin gɛt NPD. Pan ɔl we yu go want fɔ du tɛst na di Intanɛt fɔ no if yu gɛt am, yu fɔ mɛmba se nɔto fɔmal diagnosis . Yu fɔ rili go to pɔsin we tren ɛn we sabi du di wok fɔ mek shɔ se dɛn no se yu gɛt di sik.

Wetin a fɔ du if a tink se pɔsin we a lɛk gɛt NPD?

Pipul wae gɛt NPD nɔr kin ebul fɔ no dɛn yone sik. Bɔrku tɛm, na in fambul, padi dɛm, ɛn pipul dɛm wae dɛn lɛk na dɛn fɔs fɔ sɔprayz se pɔrsin gɛt NPD. If yu sɔprayz se pɔsin we yu lɛk gɛt NPD, yu fɔ mɛmba dɛn tin ya:

• Yu nɔ go ebul chenj pɔsin we gɛt NPD. Na dɛn nɔmɔ go ebul fɔ chenj di we aw dɛn de biev. Ivin if yu fil bad bikɔs di pɔsin we yu lɛk nɔ want fɔ chenj, mɛmba se nɔto yu fɔlt. Yu kin ɛnkɔrej dɛn fɔ go to tritmɛnt, bɔt dɛn fɔ rɛdi fɔ du dat fɔ mek dis go bifo.
• Stay calm ɛn nɔ tek tin dɛn fɔ yusɛf. Pipul wae gɛt NPD, mɔr lɛk wae dɛn vɛks, kin tray fɔ mek yu vɛks ɛn gɛt riakshɔn. Nɔ tek am fɔ yusɛf, ɛn nɔ riak di sem we aw dɛn de biev.
• Sɛt bɔda dɛn we gɛt wɛlbɔdi. Bɔrku tɛm pipul dɛm wae gɛt NPD kin tray fɔ gɛt wetin dɛn want tru ɔda pipul dɛm, ilɛksɛf dɛn no ɔr nɔr no. If yu pɔrsin wae yu lɛk gɛt NPD, fɔ sɛt wɛl bɔdi bɔda kin impɔtant. Tɔk klia wan bɔt wetin yu rɛdi fɔ du ɛn wetin yu nɔ rɛdi fɔ du, ɛn stik to dɛn bɔda dɛn de. I kin tranga, bɔt fɔ giv-ɔp to wetin dɛn want nɔ go ɛp (ɛn i kin ivin mek tin wɔs).
• Protɛkt yusɛf. Pipul wae gɛt NPD kin tray fɔ ɔndamin yu bɔda ɛn kɔntrol yu bay we yu de ``gaslight'' (we min, chenj sɔntin we yu ɔ dɛn tɔk ɔ du fɔ mek yu luk krayse). If yu fil se yu nid fɔ mek yu gɛt kɔrej tumara bambay bɔt wetin yu tɔk ɔ du, rayt am. Dɛn kin tɔk bad to ɔda pipul dɛn bak we dɛn vɛks. Tek tɛm fɔ protɛkt yu yon wɛlbɔdi ɛn wɛl-at.
• Tink bɔt yu yon maynd wɛlbɔdi bak. Una we gɛt pɔsin we yu lɛk we gɛt NPD fɔ tink bɔt fɔ go to pɔsin we de advays yu bɔt mental wɛlbɔdi biznɛs . Dis kin ɛp yu fɔ woke tru yu yone filin ɛn prɔblɛm wae de arawnd NPD, ɛn bak fɔ rɛdi bɛtɛ fɔ dil wit di ifɛkt dɛm wae dis sik kin gɛt pan pɔrsin wae yu lɛk.
• Nɔ ignore sayn dɛn we de wɔn pɔsin.Pipul wae gɛt NPD kin gɛt bɔrku risk fɔ kil dɛnsɛf. If yu sɔspɛkt se pɔsin we yu lɛk we gɛt NPD de pul insɛf kɔmɔt na di sosayti ɔ de tink bɔt fɔ du bad to dɛnsɛf, tɔk to dɛn dairekt wan. If yu tink se dɛn de pan denja wantɛm wantɛm, kɔl 911 wantɛm wantɛm, ɔ go to dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm.

Fɔ dɔn, tin dɛn we wi fɔ mɛmba

Narcissistic personality disorder nɔto fɔlt ɔr fɔlt. Na wan sik we de mek pɔsin in maynd gɛt wɛlbɔdi. If yu gɛt dis sik, tin dɛn de we yu kin du fɔ ɛp yusɛf ɛn mek yu padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn strɔng pan wɛl bɔdi. E kin tranga fɔ aksept ɛn dil wit dis sik, bɔt e kin rili pwɛl yu padi biznɛs ɛn ambɔg yu layf. So, nɔ ignore am ɔ rɔnawe pan rial tin.

If pɔrsin wae yu sabi gɛt NPD, wae yu lan bɔt am kin ɛp yu fɔ kia fɔ yusɛf ɛn tray fɔ ɛp dɛm. Sɔntɛnde, di bɛst tin we yu kin du na fɔ sɛt bɔda ɛn nɔ ambɔg dɛn bihayvya we nɔ nid. Mɛmba se yu nɔ go ebul fɔ fos pɔsin we gɛt NPD fɔ chenj. Dɛn fɔ rɛdi fɔ du am.

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