Yu smɔl pikin dɔn ol smɔl naw pas pikin we dɛn jɔs bɔn, nɔto so? dis na we yu εn yu pikin bigin fכ gεt da fayn fayn "tכk" de - dat na, dεn kin bigin fכ kכmכnik wit dεn wan dεm tru laf εn sכm sכm sawnd dεm. As yu pikin de du mɔ ɛn bigin fɔ pe atɛnshɔn to di tin dɛn we de arawnd am, yu go si in yon nyu smɔl pɔsin. Dis na so wan fayn tɛm!
Aw una de "tɔk" to wi, pikin dɛm?
So, yu smɔl pikin de yuz kray mɔ fɔ tɛl yu wetin de na dɛn maynd ɛn wetin dɛn nid dis tɛm. Dat min se we dɛn kray, dɛn kin tray fɔ tɛl yu se, ‘Mama, a angri,’ ‘A de slip,’ ‘Mi dayapɛt luk wet,’ ɔ ‘A de gɛt prɔblɛm.’ I tan lɛk dɛn langwej . Sɔntɛnde, we ɔl di nyu tin dɛn na di wɔl, di sawnd dɛn, di layt dɛn, kin ful dɛn, dɛn kin kray smɔl ɛn kray. Dat na nɔmal tin, nɔ wɔri tumɔs bɔt am.
Yu go dɔn notis se yu pikin kin ansa yu vɔys we yu de tɔk. Sɔntɛm i kin tɔn in ed da say de, sidɔm kwayɛt wan, smayl, ɔ ivin wev in an ɛn fut fɔ sho se i gladi. We yu luk yu pikin ɛn smayl, i kin smayl bak to yu. Yu nɔ tink se dat na fayn ɛkspiriɛns?
Dis na we bebi dɛn kin kam fɔ no se dɛnsɛf kin mek sawnd. I nɔ go te, yu os go bi mashin we gɛt smɔl smɔl sawnd dɛn, lɛk bɔd dɛn we de kɔl, "cooing" ɛn gurgling! yu pikin go bigin fכ "tכk" to yu wit difrεn difrεn sawnd dεm. sכm pikin dεm go ivin bigin fכ mek simpul vaybul sawnd lεk "ah-ah" כ "uh-uh" dis tεm.
Wetin wi fɔ du as mama ɛn papa?
Bɔku tin dɛn de we yu kin du fɔ ɛp yu pikin fɔ gɛt dɛn kayn we ya fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn. I tan lɛk we yu de wata smɔl plant, kia fɔ am, ɛn gro.
Tɔk ɛn ple wit yu pikin bɔku tɛm.
Yu pikin lɛk yu vɔys. So, insay dɛn fɔs mɔnt ya , tɔk to yu pikin as yu ebul, rid buk (pikchɔ buk dɛn fayn!), siŋ siŋ, ɛn ku wit lɔv. Ansa wit intres ɛn gladi to ɛvri smɔl sawnd we yu pikin de mek, ɛvri smɔl laf. Se tins laik, "Oh, mai precious son/doughter, wetin yu de tok?"
Tɛl yu pikin bɔt wetin i de luk ɛn wetin i de du. Tɛl am bɔt wetin yu de du bak. Imajin, we yu de chenj yu pikin in daypa, yu se sɔntin lɛk, "Naw, Mama, lɛ wi chenj yu bɔy pikin in daypa, so dat i go gɛt wɛlbɔdi." Dis kin ɛp yu pikin fɔ no wɔd dɛn ɛn lan bɔt langwej. We yu gi yu pikin tɔys ɔ sɔntin we i ol, tɔk in nem. Fɔ ɛgzampul, "Na di bɔl," "Na yu rat."
Gɛt "kɔnvɛshɔn" wit yu pikin.
Dis rili impɔtant. if yu pikin mek sawnd, ripit di sawnd εn wet fכ "rεspכns" frכm yu pikin. Imajin if yu pikin se "Aaag" en yu smayl en aks, "Aaag? Wetin mi pikin de se?"Dis we ya, yu de tich yu pikin lɛsin dɛn we rili valyu, lɛk aw fɔ kɔntrol di vɔys we yu de tɔk we yu de tɔk to pɔsin, aw yu de tɔk kwik kwik wan, ɛn aw fɔ tɔk to yu yon tɛm.
Dɔn bak, dis kin mek di pikin no se i impɔtant fɔ lɛ dɛn lisin to am. Nɔ intarap ɔ luk ɔdasay we di pikin de "tɔk." Mek i fil se yu bisin bɔt wetin i de tɔk ɛn i go ebul fɔ abop pan yu.
Dis smɔl "kɔnvɔshɔn" na dɛn de mek di rod fɔ big tɔk leta.
Ɔndastand we yu pikin nid fɔ sɛt mɔt
Nɔto ɔltɛm bebi dɛn kin lɛk fɔ tɔk ɔ mek nɔys. sכmtεm di stimulashכn frכm di tin dεm we de rawnd dεm (i.e. nכys, layt, pipul dεm, εtk) kin tu mכch sכmtεm. Dɔn dɛn nid fɔ rɛst smɔl.
If yu pikin de luk ɔdasay, lɔk in yay , ɔ jɔs de fus ɔ luk lɛk se i vɛks, dat kin min se i nid fɔ blo. If na so i bi, gi am sɔm tɛm fɔ rilaks, ɔ ɔg am wit lɔv. Nɔ fos am fɔ "tɔk" ɔltɛm.
Mi pikin de kray tumɔs? Mek wi lan bɔt `(Kɔlik)`
Bɔku pan di pikin dɛn we dɛn jɔs bɔn kin gɛt sɔm tɛm lɛk di sem tɛm ɛvride, bɔku tɛm na ivintɛm, we dɛn kin kray ɛn fus smɔl mɔ. Dis na sɔntin we bɔku mama ɛn papa dɛn kin gɛt.
Bɔt sɔm tɛm, if pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi , we nɔ gɛt ɔda sik ɔ prɔblɛm, kray fɔ pas 3 awa insay di de, pas 3 dez insay di wik, ɛn fɔ at le 3 wiks insay wan row, wi kin kɔl da kɔndishɔn de `(Kɔlik)`. Dis kin rili mek dɛn mama ɛn papa dɛn ɔl tu at pwɛl. Bikɔs i kin rili mek yu at pwɛl we yu nɔ ebul fɔ no wetin mek yu pikin de kray.
bכt di gud nyus na dat mכst pikin dεm de gro pas dis `(Kכlik)` kכndyushכn bay lεk 3 כ 4 mכnt. So mɛmba se dis nɔto sɔntin we go de sote go. Bɔt if yu gɛt ɛni siriɔs dawt ɔ fred bɔt dis, i go fayn fɔ mek yu tɔk to dɔktɔ.
Ustɛm a fɔ go to dɔktɔ?
If yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt ɔ dawt bɔt aw yu pikin de tɔk ɔ aw i de yɛri, nɔ shem fɔ tɔk to dɔktɔ. Nɔ tink se, "O, a de go to dɔktɔ fɔ dis smɔl tin." Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ mek yu nɔ gɛt ɛni dawt we yu gɛt.
bay di εnd fכ dis tεm (we na lεk 3 mכnt), bכku pikin dεm fכ ebul fכ:
- I kin ansa to lawd nɔys (fɔ ɛgzampul, i kin sɔprayz we yu yɛri di sawnd we wan domɔt kin lɔk wantɛm wantɛm).
- Dɛn kin mek ɔda sawnd dɛn apat frɔm kray (lɛk di "cooing" ɛn gurgling we wi bin dɔn tɔk bɔt).
- Yu de smayl we yu de tɔk to am.
- We yu luk am ɛn smayl, i kin smayl bak to yu.
Dis na di smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we pipul dɛn kin si.
Bɔt mɛmba dis bak, .Nɔto ɔl bebi dɛn na di sem. Sɔm bebi dɛn kin bigin fɔ du dɛn tin ya smɔl bifo tɛm, ɔda wan dɛn kin bigin fɔ du dɛn tin ya smɔl leta. Dat na nɔmal tin. Bɔt if yu tink se yu pikin dɔn ol pas dɛn wan ya fa fawe, ɔ if yu notis ɛni difrɛns, mek shɔ se yu go to dɔktɔ fɔ advays.
In shot: ɛnjɔy dis joyn wit yu pup!
Yu smɔl pikin in fɔs mɔnt dɛn kin pas kwik kwik wan. Insay dis tɛm, dɛn de lan nyu tin dɛn ɛvride ɛn bigin fɔ kɔnɛkt wit yu pan nyu we dɛn.
- Dis " tɔk " na tu-way strit. Di mɔ yu de tɔk to yu pikin ɛn ansa am, na di mɔ i go ebul fɔ tɔk to am fayn fayn wan.
- Yu vɔys ɛn di lɔv we yu gɛt na di men tin we de ɛnkɔrej yu pikin. So, tɔk to yu pikin, siŋ siŋ dɛm, ɛn ple wit am wit lɔv ɛn kia we yu nɔ go fred.
- Ɛni pikin difrɛn. Nɔ kɔmpia yu pikin to ɔda bebi dɛn. Ɔlman kin divɛlɔp difrɛn we.
- If yu gɛt ɛni dawt ɔ tin we de mɔna yu, nɔ ɛva shem fɔ aks dɔktɔ.
Dis pikin tɛm nɔ go ɛva kam bak. So ɛnjɔy ɛvri mɔnt to di ful wan ɛn mek dis fayn padi biznɛs wit yu smɔl pikin strɔng!
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💬 Aw pikin kin tɔk to wi insay di fɔs 3 mɔnt?
Dis tεm, di pikin in men langwej na kray. Di pikin kin sɛn mɛsej to di mama tru difrɛn kray we i kin kray fɔ mek i slip, angri, ɛn nɔ kin fil fayn. I kin bigin fɔ mek sawnd dɛn bak we dɛn kɔl ‘cooing’.
💬 Ustɛm pikin kin gɛt dɛn fɔs rial smayl (social smile)?
jεnarali, klinik, di fכs ‘rial smayl’ we pikin kin mek we i ol 2 mכnt (8 wik ol), fכ luk dεn mama in fes εn tכk.
💬 Mama kin impruv in pikin in tok skils?
Yɛs, we yu pikin mek sawnd, yu fɔ ripit di sem sawnd. Dɔn bak, luk yu pikin in fes ɛn tɔk to dɛn ɔltɛm, rid poem dɛn. Ivin if yu pikin nɔ ɔndastand dɛn tin ya, dɛn go ɛp am fɔ lan aw fɔ tɔk.
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