Well-Child Visit at 17: As mama ɛn papa, lɛ wi tek kia ɔf dis!

Yu pikin de rich 17 ia, we na rili impɔtant tɛm fɔ mek dɛn tek stɛp fɔ bi yɔŋ pɔsin. Dɛn de go tru bɔku chenj dɛn na dɛn bɔdi ɛn maynd insay dis tɛm, nɔto so? So, fכ mεdikal chεk-ap na dis ej, we dεn kכl ``Wεl-Child Visit,'' na tin we rili impɔtant. Lɛ wi si wetin kin apin ɔltɛm insay dis tɛm, ɛn wetin wi as mama ɛn papa fɔ tek tɛm mɔ bɔt?

Wetin kin apin we dɛn de du dis mɛdikal ɛgzam?

Na dis na wetin kin apin we yu go si dɔktɔ wit yu pikin:

1. Fɔs, dɛn kin mɛzhɔ yu pikin in wet ɛn ayt kɔrɛkt wan. afta dat, dεn de yuz dεn mεzhɔmεnt dεm fכ kכl dεn bכdi mas indeks, כ ``BMI'' . כl dis dεn rεkכd pan dεn ``Growth Chart.'' Tink bכt am lεk stori bכt pikin in growth. Di dɔktɔ kin yuz dis fɔ si if di pikin in grow fit in ej ɛn wɛlbɔdi.

2. Neks, dεn de mכ su di pikin in blכd prεsh כn. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin tɛst fɔ yɛri bak.

3. Dɔn di pat we impɔtant pas ɔl de kam. Di dɔktɔ go aks yu ɛn yu pikin kwɛstyɔn dɛn, tɔk bɔt yu prɔblɛm dɛn, ɛn gi yu fayn advays. Di men tin dɛn we dɛn go tɔk bɔt na:

Pikin in it, slip, ɛn ɛksesaiz

• Fɔ it ɛn drink: I rili impɔtant fɔ no wetin pikin de it we i ol dis ej. Di dɔktɔ go mɔs tɔk bɔt dis. Jɛnɛral wan, yu fɔ it tri men it dɛn ɛvride. I bɛtɛ if dɛn it ya gɛt tin dɛn we nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ prɔtin (fɔ ɛgzampul, fish, chukchuk), ɔl gren (lɛk ɔtmil, brawn rays), at le fayv frut ɛn vɛjitebul , ɛn at le tri savis dairy prodakt we nɔ gɛt bɔku fat ɔ we nɔ gɛt fat ɔ soya milk we gɛt fɔt.

• Slip: Oh, slip impɔtant fɔ dɛn yɔŋ pikin ya. Bɔrku tɛm, dɛn kin nid fɔ slip bitwin 8 ɛn 10 awa ɛvride. Bɔt, insay dis bizi tɛm, i kin kɔmɔn bak fɔ lɛ pɔsin nɔ slip fayn. Dis kin afɛkt di skul wok ɛn spɔt. Infakt, we dɛn ol dis ej, dɛn bɔdi kin chenj ɛn dɛn kin pe atɛnshɔn fɔ wek te na nɛt. Bɔt i nɔ kin izi fɔ mek pɔsin slip fayn bikɔs ɔf skul na mɔnin, nɔto so? So, tɛl yu pikin sɔm tin dɛn we go mek yu rilaks bifo yu go slip bifo i go slip na nɛt. Yu fɔ mɛmba dɛn fɔ ɔf ilɛktronik tin dɛn lɛk fon, kɔmpyuta, ɛn tablɛt fɔ lɛk wan awa bifo dɛn go slip .

• Fɔ du tin wit yu bɔdi: I rili impɔtant fɔ du sɔm kayn bɔdi fɔ at le 60 minit insay di de. Ɛnkɔrej yu pikin fɔ stɔp di tɛm we i de yuz fɔ sho di fim.– Dat min se tɛm we yu spɛn wit TV, vidio gem, ɛn smart fon – kip am balans. Bifo dat, pe atɛnshɔn pan tin dɛn we gɛt wɛlbɔdi lɛk fɔ spɛn tɛm wit ɔda pipul dɛn, fɔ du ɛksɛsayz, ɛn fɔ slip fayn. I impɔtant bak fɔ sɛt gud ɛgzampul bay we yu nɔ de spɛn bɔku tɛm na di skrin ɛn ɛksesaiz ɛvride.

di pikin in growth εn divεlכpmεnt – dis na nכmal tin dεm!

We pikin dɛn rich 17 ia, i nɔmal fɔ mek pikin dɛn gɛt dɛn kayn sik ya we dɛn kin gɛt na dɛn bɔdi ɛn maynd. Nɔ wɔri bɔt dɛn, dɛn jɔs de pat pan divɛlɔpmɛnt:

• If na gyal pikin , i fɔ dɔn gɛt in fɔs prɛgnɛshɔn bay naw. If yu gyal pikin nɔ dɔn du am yet, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt am. Natin nɔ bad wit dat.
• insay di kes fכ bכy pikin , di sayn dεm we de sho se di tεstikul dεm de big, di penis we de lכng, εn di pubic ia we de gro – de sho klia wan insay dis tεm.
• Dɛn kɔmpin grup kin rili afɛkt dɛn . Na so dis ej de bi.
• Dɛn kin tray fɔ no difrɛn aydɛntiti fɔ no udat dɛn bi, us kayn ples fayn fɔ dɛn, ɛn wetin dɛn lɛk.
• Di filin fɔ mami ɛn dadi biznɛs de kɔmɔt na do. Dis inklud fɔ intres pan lɔv rileshɔnship, fɔ fɛn ɔl di tin dɛn we pɔsin kin du fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ɛn fɔ no aw i want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn di we aw i want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin. I impɔtant fɔ tɔk bɔt dɛn tin ya opin wan ɛn ɔndastand wit yu pikin.
• Dɛn dɔn bigin fɔ tink gud wan bɔt tin dɛn we at fɔ ɔndastand ɛn aw fɔ disayd fɔ du sɔntin. Bɔt dɛn kin stil gɛt di abit fɔ du sɔntin we dɛn nɔ want fɔ du ɛn dɛn nɔ kin tink tumɔs bɔt di bad tin dɛn we go apin to dɛn we dɛn du sɔntin. So wi nid fɔ gayd dɛn.
• Dɛn kin tɛmpt dɛn bak fɔ du sɔm tin dɛn we de mek dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm . Dis na di tɛm we dɛn nid wi atɛnshɔn ɛn gayd mɔ.

4. Fizik Ɛgzam:

Neks, di dɔktɔ go chɛk di pikin. Dis go min fɔ chɛk di pikin in skin , fɔ lisin to in at ɛn in lɔng wit stɛtoskɔp, chɛk fɔ si if di spayna kɔba (lɛk skɔliosis), ɛn chɛk fɔ ɛni sayn we de sho se i dɔn yɔŋ . I bεst fɔ gɛt mama ɔ papa ɔ pɔsin we de kia fɔ di pikin (chaperone) wit di pikin we dɛn de du dis ɛgzam. Dis kin kɔrej di pikin bak.

5. Fɔ Ɔpdet di Vaysin dɛn:

Vaysin nɔ de protɛkt pikin dɛn nɔmɔ, bɔt di wan ol kɔmyuniti de protɛkt frɔm siriɔs sik dɛn. So, i rili impɔtant fɔ gi yu pikin di kɔrɛkt dos fɔ di vaysin dɛn di rayt tɛm . Bɔt di tɛm fɔ gi di vaysin kin difrɛn smɔl frɔm wan dɔktɔ in ɔfis to ɔda wan. So, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ fɔ no ustɛm fɔ gi nɛks ɛn wetin fɔ ɛkspɛkt.

6. Test if nid de:

Di dɔktɔ kin ɔda fɔ mek dɛn du blɔd tɛst ɔ ɔda tɛst dɛn we fit fɔ chɛk if dɛn gɛt tin dɛn lɛk anemia, ay kɔlɔstrel, TB, ɛn sik dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs (STD).

Kip dɛn tin ya na yu maynd te yu pikin in nɛks wɛl bɔdi chɛk (we i ol 18 ia).

Okay, naw lɛ wi si wetin ɔda tin wi nid fɔ mɛmba afta wi dɔn si di dɔktɔ, te wi pikin in nɛks chɛk-ap.

Skul ɛn plan dɛn fɔ tumara bambay

• Ɛnkɔrej yu pikin fɔ tek pat pan difrɛn tin dɛn we nɔ de na di skul . Dat min se, tin dɛn we dɛn lɛk, lɛk myuzik, art, spɔt, ɛn klab dɛn afta skul. Dɛn tin ya go ɛp fɔ mek dɛn biev fayn.
• Ɛnkɔrej yu pikin fɔ tek di wok we i de du na skul. Prez di tin dɛn we i de du fayn, ɛp am we i de tray tranga wan, bɔt lɛ i du am insɛf.
• Tɔk bɔt ay edyukeshɔn ɔ wok plan dɛn tumara bambay . Tɔk bɔt wetin na dɛn drim ɛn wetin dɛn nid fɔ du fɔ rich de.
• If yu pikin gɛt prɔblɛm na skul – sɔntɛm i nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ gred ɔ i nɔ want fɔ go skul – tink bɔt if di tin we kin mek i gɛt prɔblɛm na fɔ buli am , na mental wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm lɛk pwɛl hat, ɔ prɔblɛm wit aw i de lan ɔr fɔ pe atɛnshɔn. Aks pɔsin we sabi du in wok if nid de.

Yu rilayshɔnship ɛn gayd wit di pikin

• Spend sɔm tɛm fɔ tɔk to yu pikin ɛvride, spɛn tɛm togɛda . Una it togɛda, du smɔl ɛksesaiz togɛda, tɔk bɔt tin dɛn we impɔtant to yu pikin, bɔt dɛn padi dɛn, ɛn bɔt wetin de na dɛn maynd.
• Prez di gud tin dɛn we i de disayd fɔ du. Mek yu pikin put an pan smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we di famili disayd fɔ du. Dis go mek dɛn fil se dɛn gɛt fɔ du wit di wok.
• Sɛt os lɔ dɛn, mek wetin yu de op fɔ klia wan , ɛn gi fayn, we yu bin dɔn gri fɔ du bifo tɛm if dɛn pwɛl di lɔ dɛn.
• Ɛnkɔrej yu pikin fɔ bi rispɔnsibul we i dɔn ol fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Ɛksplen di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin we pɔsin gɛt sik dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs (STD) ɛn we pɔsin gɛt bɛlɛ we i nɔ want. Tɔk opin wan bɔt aw fɔ kɔntrol bɔn pikin ɛn di impɔtant tin fɔ yuz kɔndɔm . Pan ɔl we dɛn tin ya na tin dɛn we wi nɔ de tɔk bɔt na wi sosayti, dis no rili impɔtant fɔ mek pikin dɛn sef.
• Mɛmba yu pikin fɔ brus in tit tu tɛm insay di de, fɔ yuz flos wan tɛm insay di de, ɛn go to dɛntist ɛvri 6 mɔnt .
• Ɛksplen to yu pikin di siriɔs denja dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i smok, vap, rɔm, ɛn ɔda drɔgs . Tɔk bak bɔt di denja dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i nɔ yuz di mɛrɛsin we dɛn de gi am di rayt we. Prez yu pikin fɔ se "nɔ" to dɛn tin ya.
• Di sayn dɛm fɔ pwɛl hatYu fɔ de wach fɔ sayn dɛm wae de sho se yu gɛt pwɛl hat. Dɛn tin ya kin bi we yu kin vɛks bɔku tɛm, yu nɔ kin bisin bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn, yu nɔ kin lɛk fɔ du tin dɛn we yu bin de ɛnjɔy trade, yu gred na skul kin go dɔŋ wantɛm wantɛm, ɛn yu kin tɔk bɔt aw fɔ kil yusɛf. If yu notis ɛni wan pan dɛn sayn ya, go to dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm.
• Ɛnkɔrej yu pikin fɔ tek di rispɔnsibiliti fɔ mek apɔntinmɛnt wit dɔktɔ, fɔ ful-ɔp di mɛrɛsin dɛn, ɛn fɔ kia fɔ in yon wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm dɛn (e.g., asma, dayabitis).

Aw fɔ mek shɔ se di pikin sef?

• Pikin dɛn fɔ wɛr sitbɛlt ɔltɛm we dɛn de rayd motoka. Mek am bi yu abit.
• We yu pikin bigin fɔ drayv , sɛt limit fɔ di nɔmba fɔ di pasenja dɛn we i go ebul fɔ kɛr wan tɛm ɛn di tɛm dɛn we i go ebul fɔ drayv (espɛshali na nɛt). Tɛl yu pikin strikt wan se i nɔ fɔ teks ɔ yuz in fon we i de drayv.
• Tɔk bɔt di bad bad tin dɛn we kin apin we pɔsin drayv we yu dɔn chak . Dɔn bak, tɛl yu pikin se i nɔ fɔ ɛva go insay motoka wit pɔsin we dɔn de drink ɔ yuz drɔgs. Bifo dat, tɛl yu pikin fɔ kɔl yu ɔltɛm if i nid ɛp ɔ i gɛt prɔblɛm .
• Pikin dɛn fɔ put sanskrin we gɛt SPF we pas 30 ɔ pas dat at le 15 minit bifo dɛn go na do ɛn put am bak ɛvri 2 awa. Dɛn nɔ fɔ yuz tanning bed , bikɔs dɛn kin mek dɛn gɛt kansa na dɛn skin mɔ.
• Mek shɔ se yu pikin no ɛn no bɔt sef na di Intanɛt, aw fɔ buli pipul dɛn na di Intanɛt, ɛn aw fɔ yuz soshal midia fayn fayn wan .
• If yu gɛt tin dɛn we denja lɛk faya-ayɛn na os, kip dɛn lɔk fayn fayn wan , usay pikin dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ rich. Kip tin dɛn lɛk amunishɔn separet ɛn sef. Kip di ki dɛn usay pikin dɛn nɔ go ebul fɔ rich.
• If yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt yu layf – if yu gɛt inof it, sef ples fɔ liv, wɛlbɔdi inshɔrans, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn – tɔk to yu dɔktɔ. Yu dɔktɔ kin rifer yu to kɔmyuniti risɔs ɔ rifer yu to fayn soshal woka.

Fɔ dɔn, mɛmba dis...

We pikin rich 17 ia, na tin we rili impɔtant ɛn we at fɔ du na in layf. Dɛn de go tru bɔrku chenj na dɛn bɔdi, maynd, ɛn soshal layf. Dɛn kin kɔnfyus smɔl wit ɔl dis. As mama ɛn papa, di lɔv, sɔpɔt, ɛn gayd we una de gi dɛn rili impɔtant to dɛn insay dis tɛm.

Tɔk wit yu pikin opin wan, tek tɛm lisin to wetin i de tɔk, ɛn tray fɔ ɔndastand am. Bifo yu jɔj yu pikin, tray fɔ tink di we aw i de si am.

Di tin we pas ɔl na dat, i impɔtant fɔ mek yu gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit yu pikin we yu go abop pan. Mek dɛn no se yu de fɔ dɛn ilɛk wetin na di prɔblɛm. Dɛn mɛdikal tɛst ya na jɔs wan impɔtant tin fɔ du da waka de. If yu gɛt ɛni prɔblɛm, dawt, ɔ wɔri, nɔ ɛva fred ɔ shem fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ.

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