Nawde, wi ɔl de yɛri nyu wɔd dɛn de tɔk bɔt na soshal midia ɛn TV, nɔto so? Sɔntɛnde, wi kin yuz dɛn wɔd ya pan ɔl we wi nɔ no di rayt tin we dɛn min. Semweso, wan wɔd we dɔn de ring na wi yes dis biɛn tɛm na "Cisgender." Sɔntɛm yu dɔn yɛri dis wɔd bifo. So, wetin rili bi Cisgender? Yu tink se dis na kɔmplikɛt tɔpik? Atɔl. Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis rili simpul ɛn fayn fayn wan tide ɛn klia ɔl di kwɛstyɔn dɛn we de na wi ed.
Wetin Cisgender jɔs min?
I rili simpul. Cisgender min se yu maynd gri wit di biyolojikal sɛks we dɛn bin gi yu we dɛn bɔn yu.
Lɛ wi ɛksplen smɔl mɔ. Imajin se we yu bɔn, di dɔktɔ dɛn rayt "uman" pan yu bɔn satifiket. As yu de ol, yu de tink ɛn fil bak se yu na gyal pikin, ɔ uman. If na so i bi, yu na cisgender uman .
Semweso, if dɛn bɔn yu as "man" na yu bɔn satifiket, ɛn as yu de gro, yu stil de tink ɛn fil lɛk bɔy pikin ɔ man, dat min se yu na cisgender man .
Bɔku pipul dɛn na di wɔl kin fɔdɔm na di cisgender kategori. Di Latin pat pan dis wɔd, "cis", min "na dis say". Di ɔpɔzit wɔd na "trans". I min "na di ɔda say". In ɔda wɔd, wi kin kɔl pipul dɛn we de aydentify wit jɛnɛral aydentiti we difrɛn frɔm di sɛks we dɛn bin gi dɛn we dɛn bɔn dɛn `Transjɛndor`.
Yu tink se mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn man ɔ uman na tu difrɛn tin?
Yɛs! Dis na pɔynt we bɔku pipul dɛn kin kɔnfyus. Bɔku pipul dɛn kin tink se "sɛks" ɛn "jɛnda" na di sem tin. Bɔt dɛn tin ya na tu tin dɛn we rili difrɛn. Lɛ wi ɔndastand dis difrɛns klia wan.
| Pɔynt | Tɔk bɔt |
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| Seks fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs | Dis na tin we gɛt fɔ du wit bayoloji . Dat min se, i gɛt fɔ du wit yu bɔdi. Bɔku tɛm, dɛn kin sheb am to tu pat: uman ɛn man. Dis na bays pan:
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| Bɔy ɔ gal | Dis na tin we rili soshal tin . Dat min se, i gɛt fɔ du wit di we aw pipul dɛn de biev, di wok we dɛn de du, ɛn di we aw dɛn de biev we di sosayti de op fɔ uman ɛn man dɛn. Fɔ ɛgzampul, aidia dɛn we sosayti de put insay wi, lɛk "bɔy pikin nɔ de kray," "gayl dɛn fɔ wɛr dres," ɛn "man fɔ strɔng." Dɛn tin ya kin difrɛn frɔm wan kɔlchɔ to ɔda kɔlchɔ. |
Jɛnda Aydentiti na aw yu de si yusɛf frɔm insay, aw yu de tɔk to yusɛf (i, in, dɛn). Ɔlman in sɛks ɛn in jɔnda aydentiti nɔ de mach.
So udat na Nonbinary?
``Nonbinary'' na jεnarכl tεm we dεn kin yus fכ pipul dεm we dεn jεnda aydentiti nכ fit insay di tradishכnal bכks dεm fכ man כ uman. I kin bi sɔmsay bitwin, wan kɔmbaynshɔn fɔ ɔl tu, ɔ wan aydentiti kɔmplit wan ausayd ɛni wan pan dɛn.
Sɔm ɛgzampul dɛn:
- Jɛnda: Dɛn sɛkshɔnal aydentiti kin chenj bɔku tɛm.
- Jɛndafluid: Na aydentiti we kin chenj bɔku tɛm bitwin man ɛn uman aydentiti.
- Agender: Pipul dɛn we nɔ de aydɛnshɔn wit ɛni jɛnɛral aydentiti (man, uman, ɔ ɔda wan).
- Bigender: Pipul dɛn we de sho se dɛn na man ɛn uman di sem tɛm ɔ difrɛn tɛm.
Jɛnda Aydentiti ɛn Sɛkshɔnal Ɔriɛnteshɔn
Dis na ɔda tin we kin mek bɔku pipul dɛn kɔnfyus.
- Jɛnda Aydentiti: Dis na udat yu bi . I min if yu de sho se yu na man, uman, ɔ ɔda pɔsin.
- Sexual Orientation: Na udat yu lɛk . Na udat yu lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn fɔ fil.
Fɔ ɛgzampul, pɔsin we transjɛndor (pɔsin we in jɛnɛral aydentiti difrɛn frɔm in sɛks we dɛn gi am we dɛn bɔn am) kin lɛk di ɔda man ɔ uman (stret), omoseksual (gay/lesbian), ɔ bayseksual. Dɛn tu kɔnsɛpt ya nɔ gɛt ɛnitin fɔ du wit dɛnsɛf.
Lɛ wi lan bak bɔt di sik we dɛn kɔl Intersex.
Sɔm pipul dɛn kin tink se bayolojikal wan na tu man ɛn uman nɔmɔ de, man ɛn uman. Bɔt i rili tan lɛk spɛktrum mɔ. ``Intersex`` na di kכndyushכn we dεn bכn pכsin wit sεks kכntribyushכn dεm (kromozom, כmon, כ jεnital) we nכ de εksakכt fכ mach di wan dεm fכ nכmal man כ uman bכdi. Dis nɔto jɔnda aydentiti, bɔt na bayolojikal difrɛns . If yu want fɔ no mɔ bɔt dis, i bɛtɛ fɔ aks yu dɔktɔ (dɔkta).
Wetin na "Cisgender Privilege"?
Dis na tɔpik we rili impɔtant. we a se "privilege," sohm pipul kin tink se dis min se cisgender pipul dem superior pas oda pipul. Atɔl.
Cisgender Privilege na di prɛvilɛj ɛn prɛvilɛj we yu kin ɛnjɔy fɔ insɛf bikɔs yu jɛnɛral aydentiti fit insay di "nɔmal" fɔm we bɔku pipul dɛn na di sosayti gri wit. Cisjɛndor pipul dɛn nɔ nid fɔ wɔri bɔt di prɔblɛm dɛn, kwɛstyɔn dɛn, ɛn di diskrimineshɔn we pipul dɛn we nɔto cisjɛndor kin gɛt ɛvride.
Cisgender privilege nɔ min se yu de du sɔntin we nɔ rayt. I min se bikɔs ɔf yu sɛkshɔnal aydentiti, yu nɔ go gɛt sɔm pan di tin dɛn we ɔda pipul dɛn kin gɛt.
Lɛ wi luk sɔm ɛgzampul dɛn:
- Yu nɔ nid fɔ wɔri bɔt pɔsin we de luk yu strenj wan, aks yu kwɛstyɔn, ɔ harass yu we yu go yuz pɔblik tɔylɛt.
- We yu mit nyu pɔsin, nɔbɔdi nɔ de aks wetin na yu "rial nem".
- Yu nɔ nid fɔ wɔri if pɔsin go yuz di kɔrɛkt pronɔm (i/i) we i de tɔk bɔt yu.
- Ɔda pipul dɛn nɔ kin aks yusɛf kwɛstyɔn dɛn we nɔ impɔtant bɔt yu bɔdi ɔ di ɔpreshɔn dɛn we dɛn dɔn du.
- Wen yu si foto fo yu sef as pikin, yu no go nid fo explein to enibodi se, "Wetin mek yu no bi di we yu de nau?"
Pan ɔl we dɛn tin ya na nɔmal tin fɔ cisjɛndor pɔsin, fɔ transjɛndor ɔ pɔsin we nɔto baynary, dɛn tin ya na strɛs we dɛn kin gɛt ɛvride we kin put dɛn pan big risk fɔ gɛt strɛs, pwɛl hat, ɛn ɔda wɛlbɔdi prɔblɛm dɛn.
Aw wi de rɛspɛkt ɛn sɔpɔt ɔlman?
As cisgender pipul, wi kin ɔndastand dɛn difrɛns ya ɛn ɛp fɔ mek wan sosayti we gɛt mɔ inkluziv ɛn rɛspɛktful. I nɔ nid fɔ bi big tin. Lɛ wi bigin wit smɔl smɔl tin dɛn.
- Nɔ tink se: Nɔ tink se ɔlman we yu mit na cisjɛndor.
- Bi rɛspɛktful: Rispekt aw pɔsin de introdyus insɛf. Kɔl dɛn bay di nem ɛn pronɔm we dɛn lɛk. If yu nɔ shɔ, natin nɔ bad fɔ aks yu wit pɔlitiks se, "Aw yu go lɛk fɔ mek dɛn adrɛs yu?"
- Nɔ aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn we nɔ impɔtant:Nɔ aks kwɛstyɔn bɔt pɔsin in bɔdi, ɔpreshɔn, ɔ pɔsin in yon mɛrɛsin infɔmeshɔn. Na tin we rili pɔsin in yon.
- Yu fɔ no: We yu rid smɔl bɔt dɛn tɔpik ya ɛn no, yu go mek yu nɔ rid sɔntin we go mek pɔsin fil bad we yu nɔ no.
As tɛm de go, wi ɔl na mɔtalman. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ rɛspɛkt dɛn kɔmpin dɛn aydentiti ɛn du tin wit gud ɛn ɔndastandin.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Cisgender min se yu jɛnɛral aydentiti de mach di bayolojikal sɛks we dɛn bin gi yu we dɛn bɔn yu.
- Sεks na bayolojikal tin, εn jεnda na tin we soshal kכnstrכkt. Nɔ kɔnfyus di tu.
- Pɔsin in sɛkshɔnal aydentiti ɛn sɛkshɔnal ɔriɛnteshɔn na tu kɔmplit difrɛn kɔnsɛpt.
- I impɔtant fɔ rɛspɛkt ɔlman in aydentiti. Yu kin rili sɔpɔt dɛn bay we yu kɔl dɛn di nem ɛn pronɔm we dɛn lɛk.
- We wi no mɔ bɔt dɛn tɔpik ya, wi go ebul fɔ mek pipul dɛn ɔndastand mɔ ɛn gɛt sɔri-at.
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