Wetin yu pikin de tɛl yu? (Newborn Communication) Mek wi lisin!

Yu mɛmba di fɔs sawnd we yu pikin bin mek we dɛn bɔn am? Dat min se di pikin in fɔs kray. Infakt, pikin dɛn kin bigin fɔ tɔk to wi frɔm di tɛm we dɛn bɔn dɛn. Fɔs, dɛn kray ɛn sawnd dɛn ya we di pikin de kray kin tan lɛk strenj langwej we yu nɔ go ebul fɔ ɔndastand. Bɔt bifo yu no, yu kin lan di pikin in ‘langwej’ ɛn lan fɔ ɔndastand gud gud wan wetin di pikin nid ɛn gi am. Yu nɔ tink se i wɔndaful? Dis na di biginin fɔ da fayn fayn padi biznɛs de bitwin mama ɛn pikin, ɛn papa ɛn pikin.

Aw bebi dɛn kin tɔk to wi?

Kray na di men we aw pikin kin tɔk to dɛnsɛf afta dɛn bɔn am. We pikin kray, i kin min se sɔntin nɔ de apin to am. Lɛ wi tek wan luk pan wetin i bi:

• Sɔntɛm angri: Di ​​kray, "O, a angri!" kin kam sloslo ɛn shɔt. Sɔm bebi dɛn kin kray we dɛn de tray fɔ put dɛn an na dɛn mɔt.
• Di klos kin wet: Bebi dɛn nɔ kin rili fil fayn we dɛn dayapɛt ɔ klos wet. Ivin da tɛm de, dɛn kin kray fɔ mek yu no.
• I kin bi bikɔs ɔf di kol: Smɔl pikin dɛn kin kol izi wan. If dɛn an ɛn fut kol, ɔ if dɛn nɔ wɛr inof klos, dɛn kin kray.
• I kin bi bikɔs dɛn taya: Bebi dɛn kin fil taya afta dɛn dɔn ple tranga wan ɔ we di nɔys lɛvɛl na dɛn say de bɔku. Ivin da tɛm de, dɛn kin kray ɛn se, "A want fɔ slip naw."
• I kin bi bikɔs dɛn want fɔ mek dɛn kɔt dɛn: Sɔntɛnde, ɔl wetin di pikin dɛn want na di wam we dɛn mama ɔ papa gɛt. Bebi dɛn kin kray ivin we dɛn want fɔ kɔt dɛn ɛn fil se dɛn lɛk dɛn.

Imajin, yu de wok na di kichin ɛn yu pikin bigin fɔ kray wantɛm wantɛm. Yu rɔn go ɛn si se yu pikin de luk yu wit in tu an dɛn. Dat kin bi se, "Duya pik mi," nɔto so?

Bɔt sɔntɛnde, pikin dɛn kin kray we dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ du ɔl di tin dɛn ɛn di nɔys dɛn we de rawnd dɛn wan tɛm. Ɔ, bebi dɛn kin kray fɔ no rizin . So we yu pikin de kray, nɔ wɔri se yu nɔ bin ebul fɔ mek i kol kwik kwik wan. Kray na we fɔ mek pikin dɛn sho aw dɛn de fil ɛn ansa tin dɛn we dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol.

Apat frɔm we pikin dɛn de kray, dɛn kin tɔk to wi bay ɔda sawnd dɛn, aw dɛn de sho dɛn fes, ɛn aw dɛn bɔdi de muv . I impɔtant fɔ no dɛn tin ya, ɛn i de mek di padi biznɛs bitwin yu ɛn yu pikin strɔng.

Pe atɛnshɔn gud wan to aw yu pikin de ansa yu vɔys. Yu vɔys na di we aw di pikin de tɛl am fɔ it, fɔ wam, fɔ tɔch am, ɛn fɔ kɔrej am. We yu pikin de kray, notis aw i kin kol kwik kwik wan we yu kam nia am ɛn tɔk to am. Notis aw i de lisin to yu we yu de tɔk wit lɔv. Ivin if yu pikin de luk ɔdasay, in ful atɛnshɔn de pan yu vɔys we yu de tɔk. Dɔn yu pikin kin chenj in bɔdi smɔl smɔl, chenj in fes, ɔ ivin muv in an ɛn leg dɛn fɔ mek i mach di ritm we yu de tɔk.

Smɔl mɔ bɔt aw fɔ ɔndastand pikin in "langwej"...

• di kuk εn gurgling: arawnd wan εn af to tu mכnt, di pikin dεn kin bigin fכ mek sawnd lεk ‘oo’ εn ‘ah’. Dis na dɛn fɔs wɔd dɛn. Dɛn kin intres mɔ we yu ansa dɛn sawnd dɛn de.
• Laf: Bebi dɛn kin bigin fɔ smayl arawnd tu mɔnt. Natin nɔ de we go mek yu satisfay pas fɔ si yu fes ɛn smayl we yu de tɔk to dɛn, nɔto so?
• Di we aw dɛn de sho dɛn fes: Bebi dɛn fes kin chenj we dɛn angri ɔ we dɛn nɔ kin fil fayn. Dɛn kin opin dɛn yay we dɛn sɔprayz. Yu kin rid bɔku tin frɔm dɛn wɔd dɛn ya.
• Di we aw yu bɔdi de muv: We yu pikin gladi, i go flap in an ɛn leg, ɛn we i de fred, i go tɛns. Dɛn tin ya na sayn dɛn bak we de sho se yu pikin de sɛn yu.

So, wetin yu fɔ du as mama?

frכm di tεm we yu bכn yu pikin εn yu ol am na yu an, yu de stat fכ kכmכnik wit yu an - wit yu fכs glans, yu fכs sawnd, yu fכs tכch. Bebi dɛn kin lan bɔt di wɔl kwik kwik wan bay we dɛn de yuz dɛn sɛns. So nɔ fɔgɛt fɔ du dɛn tin ya:

• Tɔk to yu pikin ɛnitɛm we i pɔsibul. Ilɛksɛf yu pikin nɔ ɔndastand wetin yu de tɔk, yu vɔys we yu de tɔk we de mek yu fil fayn ɛn we de sho lɔv, go mek i gɛt bɔku sikyɔriti ɛn kɔmfɔt. Tɔk to am we i de was, chenj, fid, ɔ ple. Se tin dɛm lɛk, "Aw mi prɛshɔ bɔy pikin/dɔti?" "Lɛ wi wɛr fayn dres tide, nɔto so?"
• Gi yu pikin wan kis ɛn kɔd wit lɔv. Bebi dɛn kin lan bɔt di wɔl tru ɛni tɔch we dɛn tɔch dɛn. Di tɔch we yu tɔch dɛn wit lɔv de mek dɛn fil lɛk se di wɔl na fayn ɛn sef ples.
• Ɔltɛm ansa we yu pikin kray. Bebi dεm nכ de ‘bad’ if dεn hכg dεm כ pik dεm tu mכch. Dis na sɔntin we bɔku mama dɛn kin tink se nɔ rayt. Infakt, we yu ansa kwik kwik wan, yu pikin kin ɔndastand se i sef, pɔsin de fɔ kia fɔ am, ɛn nɔto in wangren de. Dis kin mek i gɛt kɔnfidɛns.
• Tray fɔ mek yu pikin kol we i de kray. Sɔm bebi dɛn kin mek dɛn kol bay we dɛn de rɔk saful wan ɔ waka rawnd di rum. Ɔda pipul dɛn kin ɛnjɔy fɔ ple lullaby, slo poem, ɔ wan sawnd we nɔ gɛt wanwɔd we dɛn kɔl ‘wayt nɔys’ (e.g., pɔt we de rɔn sloslo, fan, ɔ sɔntɛnde vaykum klin). I kin tek sɔm tɛm fɔ mek yu pikin no wetin i lɛk pas ɔl. Peshɛnt wit am.

Sɔmtɛm, ivin if yu dɔn mit ɔl di tin dɛn we yu pikin nid – angri, chenj di dayapɛt, wam at – yu pikin kin stil kray. Nɔ wɔri bɔt am. Sɔntɛm yu pikin taya smɔl, ɔ di nɔys ɛn layt we de rawnd dɛn de mek i fil bad pasmak. Ɔ sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin jɔs want fɔ kray fɔ natin. Ivin da tɛm de, i go fayn fɔ mek yu kɔt dɛn ɛn tɔk to dɛn wit lɔv.

Mi pikin de kray tumɔs? Yu tink se dat pɔsibul?

Bɔku pikin dɛn we dɛn jɔs bɔn kin gɛt sɔm tɛm insay di de we dɛn kin ful-ɔp smɔl ɛn kray bɔku, mɔ na ivintɛm. Dis na nɔmal tin. Ɔl di pikin dɛn we dɛn jɔs bɔn kin kray ɛn ful-ɔp.

Bɔt if pikin we gɛt wɛlbɔdi ɛn we nɔ gɛt ɔda sik kray fɔ pas tri awa insay di de, pas tri dez insay di wik, fɔ tri wiks insay wan row, wi kin kɔl da kɔndishɔn de pan mɛrɛsin `(Kɔlik)` . Dis na tɛm we mama ɛn papa dɛn kin rili at ɛn we kin mek dɛn strɛs. We pikin de kray ɔltɛm, i nɔ kin izi fɔ no wetin fɔ du.

Bɔt di gud nyus na dat bɔku tɛm, kɔlik go kɔmɔt insɛf bay di tɛm we yu pikin ol 3 ɔ 4 mɔnt. So, kɔntinyu fɔ strɔng. Tray ɔl wetin yu ebul fɔ kɔrej yu pikin insay dis tɛm, go to dɔktɔ, ɛn gɛt sɔpɔt frɔm di wan dɛn we de de fɔ ɛp yu.

Ustɛm yu fɔ tɛl dɔktɔ bɔt aw pikin de kray?

Pan ɔl we i nɔmal fɔ mek pikin kray, sɔntɛnde i kin bi sayn fɔ se i gɛt prɔblɛm. So mek shɔ se yu go to dɔktɔ pan dɛn kayn tin ya:

• If yu pikin kray fɔ lɔng tɛm, we min fɔ lɔng tɛm, ilɛksɛf yu tray fɔ mek i fil fayn, i nɔ go stil stɔp fɔ kray.
• If yu notis sɔntin we nɔ kɔmɔn ɔ difrɛn na di sawnd we yu pikin de kray. Fɔ ɛgzampul, if dɛn de kray wit vɔys we rili ay, ɔ if dɛn de kray wit vɔys we rili wik ɛn we nɔ izi fɔ yɛri.
• If di pikin gɛt ɔda sayn dɛn wit di kray we i de kray. Fɔ ɛgzampul:
• If yu pikin in aktiviti dεn dכn dכn , i tan lεk se i de slip, כ i nכ intres fכ ple.
• If yu dɔn ridyus di milk we yu de it , if yu nɔ want fɔ drink milk, ɔ if yu vɔmit di milk we yu dɔn drink.
• If fiva de (bɔku tɛm i kin pas 38 digri sɛlshiɔs / 100.4 digri Fahrenheit).
• If yu gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ blo (yu de blo kwik kwik wan, yu chɛst de go insay we yu de blo, yu lip dɛn de tɔn blu).
• if i tan lεk se di pikin de fil pen sכmsay (e.g., i de kray we i de ol in bεlε, i de kray we i de drכ in leg dεm, i de kray we yu tכch wan patikyula pat na in bכdi).
• If di pikin in skin luk yɔlɔ (lɛk janda).
• If yu gɛt vɔmit ɔ dayarɛa .

Ivin if yu gɛt wan ɔ tu pan dɛn sayn ya, i go fayn fɔ mek yu go to dɔktɔ fɔ advays yu. Bikɔs sik dɛn we yɔŋ pikin dɛn kin gɛt kin siriɔs kwik kwik wan, i impɔtant fɔ mek dɛn chɛk dɛn if yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt.

Dɔn bak, if yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt aw yu pikin de yɛri ɔ si , tɛl yu dɔktɔ. spεshal tεst dεm de we kin chεk dεn tin ya fכ nyu bכbi dεm (e.g., nyu bכbi skrεning tεst dεm). Bikɔs di mɔ we dɛn no di prɔblɛm kwik kwik wan, na di mɔ i go ebul fɔ trit am.

Fɔ dɔn, na sɔm tin dɛn we wi fɔ mɛmba

Yu smɔl pikin dɔn de tɔk to yu frɔm di de we dɛn kam na dis wɔl. Pan ɔl we da langwej de kin tan lɛk se i kɔmplikt smɔl fɔs, smɔl smɔl yu go sabi fɔ ɔndastand am.

• Yu pikin de rili tray fɔ tɛl yu tin dɛn. Lisin to am, tray fɔ ɔndastand am.
• Di lɔv we yu gɛt, di we aw yu lɛk am, ɛn di we aw yu de ansa kwik kwik wan na in de mek yu pikin fil lɛk se dis wɔl na say we sef ɛn fayn. Dis kin ɛp am fɔ gɛt kɔnfidɛns ɛn fɔ mek i gɛt maynd.
• Ɛni pikin difrɛn. Wetin kin wok fɔ wan pikin nɔ kin wok fɔ ɔda pikin. So peshɛnt ɛn fɛn wetin go wok fɔ yu pikin.
• Nɔto yu wan de. As nyu mama, i nɔmal fɔ gɛt kwɛstyɔn, wɔri, ɛn dawt. Da tɛm de, aks fɔ ɛp frɔm yu man, yu fambul, ɛn padi dɛn. Dɔn bak, if yu gɛt ɛni dawt bɔt yu pikin in wɛlbɔdi ɔ aw i de biev, nɔ fred ɛn nɔ de te fɔ go to dɔktɔ.

Wi op se dis fayn, lɔv padi biznɛs bitwin yu ɛn yu smɔl pikin go strɔng ɛvride!

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