Yu de fred se yu pikin sɛf go tɔn to drɔgs? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt dis denja trɛtin (Drugs)!

We wi tink bɔt wi pikin dɛn dis tɛm, di big tin we kin mek wi fred na dis sik we de mek wi gɛt drɔgs. Nɔto so i bi? I kin rili mek pɔsin fred fɔ ivin tink bɔt am sɔntɛnde. So aw wi go sev wi pikin dɛn frɔm dis? Di bɛst ɛn di bɛst we fɔ du dat na fɔ tɔk fri wan ɛn ɔnɛs wan wit wi pikin dɛn bɔt am frɔm we dɛn yɔŋ. Lɛ wi si aw fɔ du jɔs dat.

Wetin mek wi fɔ tɔk to wi pikin dɛn bɔt drɔgs?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, if wi tich wi pikin dɛn di tru bɔt dɛn drɔgs ya ɛn di denja dɛn we dɛn kin gɛt bifo dɛn gɛt ɛni denja, dat go rili ɛp dɛn fɔ sev dɛn frɔm big denja. Dɔn dɛn nɔ go jɔs tray fɔ tek drɔgs , ɛn dɛn nɔ go lisin to dɛn padi dɛn ɛn put di rɔng tin dɛn na dɛn ed. Tink bɔt am, yu na di big pɔsin fɔ falamakata yu pikin. Yu na in "hiro". So di we aw yu de tink bɔt rɔm, sigrɛt, ɛn drɔgs, di we aw yu de luk dɛn, de afɛkt di we aw yu pikin de tink bɔt dɛn, ɛn di we aw i de biev to dɛn. So, we yu kin tɔk to yu pikin bɔt tin dɛn lɛk wɛlbɔdi, sef, ɛn gud abit, i rili impɔtant fɔ mek fɔ tɔk bɔt dɛn mɛrɛsin ya impɔtant pat pan am.

Aw yu kin tɔk to smɔl pikin bɔt drɔgs?

Ivin if yu pikin stil yɔŋ, lɛk 5 ɔ 6 ia, bɔku chans de fɔ tɔk bɔt dis. Wi kin kɔl dɛn "teachable moments." Imajin, we una de wach TV togɛda as famili, if una si pɔsin na katun ɔ fim de smok sigrɛt, dat na fayn tɛm fɔ tɔk bɔt fɔ smok. Se sɔntin simpul lɛk, "Sɔn, luk da ɔnkul de we de smok sigrɛt. Yu no aw i bad fɔ yu bɔdi? I de mek yu kɔf ɛn mek yu chɛst at." Dɔn, yu kin kɛr da stori de go to ɔda drɔgs, ɛn ɛksplen aw dɛn kin ambɔg yu ɛn aw dɛn kin gɛt pɔyzin to yu bɔdi.

Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat we yu de tɔk, yu fɔ tɔk kwayɛt wan, rili gud, ɛn wit lɔv . Yuz simpul wɔd dɛn we di pikin ɔndastand. Se tin dɛm lɛk, "Dis nɔ gud fɔ di bɔdi, bɔy pikin/dɔti. We wi tek dɛn wan ya, wi bɔdi kin sik, wi kin wik, ɛn wi nɔ kin ebul fɔ ple." Ɛksplen se drɔgs na tin we rili denja, ɛn i kin kɔz bɔku prɔblɛm nɔto fɔ di bɔdi nɔmɔ, bɔt fɔ wi maynd bak. Frɔm we dɛn yɔŋ, if pɔsin tray fɔ gi am sɔntin we denja ɔ we i nɔ no, we i no, tich am fɔ nɔ gri bay we yu se, ‘A nɔ want am!’ ɛn waka go. Dat rili impɔtant. Tink bɔt am, if na tɔys, if strenja gi yu, na di sem tin lɛk fɔ se, "O, a nɔ want am, mi mama/papa se nɔ."

Tin dɛm we yu fɔ mɛmba we yu de tɔk to pikin we ol bitwin 8-12 ia

As pikin dɛn de ol, bitwin 8 ɛn 12 ia, dɛn kin dɔn yɛri sɔntin bɔt drɔgs. Na skul, frɔm padi dɛn, na klas, ɔ na TV, ɔ na di Intanɛt. So, we yu bigin di tɔk, aks, ‘Pikin/dɔta, wetin yu dɔn yɛri bɔt drɔgs, bɔt drɔgs, bɔt marijuana? Wetin yu padi dɛn se?’ Bɔt we yu aks , nɔ aks di we aw yu de jɔj yu ɔ we yu de sɔprayz .. Nɔ mek i fred ɔ mek i fred bay we yu de aks am kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk ‘Wetin mek yu aks dat?’. ɔ ‘Udat tɛl yu dat?’. Aks am wit rili kol at, opin wan, ɛn lɛk se na in bɛst padi. Na da tɛm de i go ebul fɔ tɛl yu di tru ɛn sheb wetin de na in maynd.

Mek yu pikin no se yu de tek tɛm lisin to wetin i de tɔk. I nid fɔ no se yu bisin bɔt in kwɛstyɔn dɛn, di tin dɛn we i de fred, ɛn di we aw i want fɔ no mɔ. Yu go nid fɔ du sɔm risach ɛn rid fɔ ansa in kwɛstyɔn dɛn ɛn gi tru tru tin dɛn. Dat na okay, i impɔtant. Pikin dɛm we ol dis ej (8-12 ia) kin want fɔ tɔk opin wan bɔt sɛnsitiv tɔpik wit dɛn mama ɛn papa, ɛn dɛn nid am. So, if yu tɔk bɔt dis naw, dat go ɛp fɔ mek di domɔt opin fɔ am fɔ sheb wetin de na in maynd wit yu we i dɔn big smɔl, dat na, yɔŋ pɔsin .

Imajin, if nyuspepa ɔ nyus ripɔt se dɛn dɔn kech fambul atlet dɛn we de yuz tin dɛn we dɛn ban lɛk `(Steroids),’ den yu kin yuz dat as gud chans fɔ bigin tɔk. Tru dat, yu kin tɛl yu pikin bɔt di denja dɛn we drɔgs kin gɛt ɛn di bad bad tin dɛn we i kin du. Yu kin se tin dɛn lɛk, ‘Luk, bɔy pikin/dɔta, wetin kin apin we yu tek dɛn tin ya. Yu fɔ wok tranga wan ɛn praktis, nɔto fɔ tek shɔtkat lɛk dis, nɔto so? I nɔ fayn fɔ yu bɔdi, ɛn i go pwɛl yu tumara bambay.’

Aw fɔ tɔk to yu titi bɔt drɔgs

As yu pikin de bi titi, dat min se afta i dɔn ol 13 ia, chans de fɔ mek in padi dɛn yuz rɔm ɛn drɔgs. Dɔn bak, dis na di tɛm we in padi dɛn kin bigin fɔ drayv. I lɛk fɔ go pati ɛn go trip. So, dis tɛm, yu nɔ fɔ jɔs tɔk to yu pikin fɔ ɔndastand wetin i de tink ɛn fil, bɔt fɔ tɔk klia wan bɔt di denja dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de drayv we i dɔn drink rɔm ɔ tek drɔgs .

"Pikin/dota, dis denja pas aw yu tink. Jɔs tink, if yu ɔ ɔda pɔsin fɔ drayv motoka we yu dɔn chak, wetin na di chans fɔ lɔs yu layf, fɔ gɛt siriɔs injuri, ɔ fɔ lɔs yu an ɛn fut? Nɔto dat nɔmɔ, bɔt big big ligal prɔblɛm dɛn de bak - fɔ go na jel, fɔ pe big fayn, ɛn nɔ ebul fɔ fɛn wok ." Ɛksplen dɛn tin ya klia wan, bɔt nɔto wit wamat, bɔt wit lɔv.

Yu kin ebul fɔ rayt ɔ tɔk to yu pikin bɔt di lɔ dɛn we yu fɔ fala we yu de go ɔ yuz di motoka. Fɔ ɛgzampul, prɔmis se, "If di pɔsin we yu bin ripɔtabl fɔ pik yu (pa padi, fɔ ɛgzampul) de drink ɔ tek drɔgs na midnayt, 12:00 ɔ 2:00 ɔ ɛnitin, a go kam tek yu witout ɛni kwɛstyɔn, jɔs gi mi kɔl." Dis go mek yu pikin gɛt bɔku trɔst ɛn sef pan yu.

We yu ol dis ej, i go mɔs bi se dɛn go aks yu mɔ patikyula kwɛstyɔn dɛn bɔt drɔgs.. Lɛk ‘Wetin kin apin if yu smok marijuana?’, ‘Wetin na ays?’. Da tɛm de, yu nɔ fɔ avɔyd am, ɛksplen klia wan wetin yu no ɛn wetin yu dɔn no. We yu ɛksplen wetin yu de op fɔ ɛn yu pozishɔn dis we frɔm di biginin, di pikin kin fil sef bak fɔ kam to yu ɛn tɔk bɔt ɛnitin, ɛn fɔ tɛl yu if prɔblɛm de.

Wetin bak a go du fɔ protɛkt mi pikin dɛn frɔm drɔgs?

Luk, dis drag prɔblɛm kin afɛkt ɛni famili, ɛni pɔsin na ɛni lɛvul na sosayti. Nɔ tink se, ‘I nɔ go apin to wi famili, i nɔ go apin to mi pikin.’ Dat na tin we denja. Bɔt, if yu de tɔk to yu pikin dɛn ɔltɛm, if yu de put an pan dɛn layf, if yu tan lɛk padi to dɛn, yu kin ɛp fɔ protɛkt dɛn frɔm dis denja. Na sɔm ɔda advays dɛn fɔ dat:

H3: Sɔpɔt di pikin in intres

Ɛnkɔrej yu pikin fɔ tek pat pan tin dɛn we i lɛk, spɔt, ɔ klab dɛn we i lɛk. Dɛn tin ya kin mek pipul dɛn gɛt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn, tren dɛn fɔ bi lida, ɛn mek dɛn gɛt rɛspɛkt fɔ dɛnsɛf . We pikin fil fayn bɔt insɛf ɛn fil se dɛn valyu am, i nɔ kin du bad tin lɛk fɔ tek drɔgs.

H3: Bi aware of yu pikin in padi en hangouts

I rili impɔtant fɔ no udat na yu pikin in padi dɛn, aw dɛn tan, usay dɛn kin ɛnjɔy dɛnsɛf mɔ, ɛn wetin dɛn kin du togɛda. Bikɔs pikin dɛn we gɛt padi dɛn we de tek drɔgs kin tray fɔ tek drɔgs dɛnsɛf . Dis nɔ min se yu fɔ sɔprayz ɔl yu padi. Bɔt i fayn fɔ de wach. If i pɔsibul, briŋ yu pikin in padi dɛn na os, tɔk to dɛn, ɛn no in mama ɛn papa.

H3: Tich dɛn fɔ se ‘nɔ’ ɛn ɛp dɛn fɔ kam na os sef wan

If pɔsin tray fɔ gi yu drɔgs, sigrɛt, ɔ rɔm, tich yu pikin klia wan aw fɔ nɔ gri fɔ tek am. Praktis fɔ se, "Nɔ, a nɔ want am, a nɔ go tek am, mi mama ɛn papa nɔ lɛk am." Dɔn bak, if i ɛva gɛt prɔblɛm, i stɔp na ples we i nɔ ebul fɔ de, ɔ nid fɔ kɔmɔt de, tɛl am fɔ kɔl ɔ teks yu. Gi am di kɔnfidɛns se, "A go kam tek yu, a nɔ go aks ɛni kwɛstyɔn, nɔ fred."

Mɛmba se: If yu pikin kɔl yu fɔ ɛp am, nɔ gi am lɛkchɔ, kɔl am, ɔ kɔrɛkt am. Fɔs, mek i go na os sef wan. Afta i dɔn kol, tɔk kwayɛt wan ɛn wit lɔv.

H3: Krio famili envairoment wam, opin

Di mɔ we di os de wam, opin, ɛn lɛk, na di mɔ i go fayn. Dat min se yu os fɔ bi ples usay pikin dɛn go ebul fɔ tɔk fri wan bɔt aw dɛn de fil, dɛn prɔblɛm dɛn, di win dɛn we dɛn dɔn win, ɛn di tin dɛn we dɛn dɔn win. Apres di smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we dɛn dɔn du, ɛn mek dɛn gɛt rɛspɛkt fɔ dɛnsɛf.. Dɔn pikin dɛn go kam bifo fɔ tɛl yu bɔt dɛn prɔblɛm dɛn ɛn di lod dɛn we dɛn gɛt na dɛn maynd. Insay say we dɛn de kɔndɛm, blem, ɛn kɔndɛm ɔltin, pikin dɛn kin tray fɔ ayd ɛn lay.

H3: Mek fɔ tɔk to yu pikin bi pat pan yu ɛvride rutin.

Mek fɔ tɔk to yu pikin bi pat pan yu de ɔltɛm. Aks smɔl kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk, "Aw skul bin de?", "Wetin bin spɛshal tide?", "Wetin yu du wit yu padi dɛn?" Fɛn tɛm fɔ du tin dɛn we una kin ɛnjɔy togɛda as famili (it, ple, rid buk). Dis kin mek ɔlman gɛt tayt padi biznɛs ɛn i kin ɛp fɔ mek dɛn kɔntinyu fɔ tɔk to dɛnsɛf opin wan. Sɔntɛnde, pikin dɛn kin lɛk fɔ tɔk rilaks we dɛn de du ɔda tin, lɛk we dɛn de drayv, waka togɛda, ɔ we dɛn de du wok na os. Tek advantej pan dɛn tɛm dɛn de.

H3: Bi atɛnshɔn to yu pikin in tranga tɛm.

If yu notis se yu pikin de go tru prɔblɛm ɔ if yu notis se dɛn de biev chenj, pe atɛnshɔn to am. Sɔntɛm dɛn kin strɛs ɔ dɛn at pwɛl bikɔs ɔf ɛgzam, prɔblɛm wit dɛn padi, lɔv, ɔ ɔda rizin. Gi dɛm di sɔpɔt we dɛn nid da tɛm de, mek dɛn fil se nɔto dɛn wan de, ɛn gɛt ɔda ɛp if nid de (e.g., skul advaysa, big pɔsin we dɛn kin trɔst, dɔktɔ). We pikin fil se na in wangren de ɛn fil se nɔbɔdi nɔ ɔndastand am, i kin izi fɔ mek i tɔn to bad tin lɛk fɔ tek drɔgs.

H3: Go to dɔktɔ if nid de.

If yu ɔ yu pikin nid mɔ infɔmeshɔn ɔ gayd bɔt dɛn mɛrɛsin ya, ɛn yu nɔ gɛt ɛnibɔdi fɔ tɔk to, tɔk to yu famili dɔktɔ . Dɛn kin sho yu di rayt say, gi yu advays, ɛn sɔntɛm dɛn kin ivin sho yu to gud advaysa. Dis nɔto sɔntin we wi fɔ shem ɔ fred. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ tink bɔt wetin go apin to wi pikin dɛn tumara bambay.

Fɔ dɔn, di tin dɛn we impɔtant pas ɔl fɔ mɛmba (Take-Home Message) .

Okay, so frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt, i fɔ klia to yu aw rispɔnsibul, ɔndastandin, ɛn lɔv wi as mama ɛn papa nid fɔ wok fɔ sev wi pikin dɛn frɔm dis denja menas we dɛn kɔl drɔgs.

• Opin kɔmyunikeshɔn na di men tin . Mek yu pikin gɛt trɔst bay we yu de tɛl am ɛnitin ɛn lisin to am we yu nɔ jɔj am.
• Bi di bɛst ɛgzampul fɔ falamakata . Di we aw yu de tink bɔt drɔgs, rɔm, ɛn sigrɛt, ɛn ilɛksɛf yu de yuz am ɔ yu nɔ de yuz am, dat kin rili afɛkt yu pikin.
• Tɔk di we we fit di pikin in ej . Nɔto di we aw yu go tɔk to smɔl pikin, bɔt to smɔl pikin. Simply, in wan we we dɛn go ɔndastand.
• Lisin gud wan to wetin yu pikin de tɔk . Alay dɛn kwɛstyɔn ɛn fred, ɛn mek dɛn no se sɔmbɔdi de lisin to dɛn.
• Tich yu pikin fɔ se ‘nɔ’.Ɛn gi dɛn di mɛsej se yu de fɔ ɛp if dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm, da kɔnfidɛns de.
• Mek famili ples we gɛt wam, lɔv, ɛn sɔpɔt . Dɔn yu pikin dɛn go sheb ɔltin wit yu, ɛn chans nɔ go de fɔ mek dɛn go rɔng.
• Nɔ shem fɔ aks fɔ ɛp frɔm pɔsin we sabi du in wok if nid de . Dɔktɔ ɛn advaysa dɛn de fɔ ɛp wi.

Dis nɔto sɔntin we pɔsin kin du wan nɛt. Dis na tin we kin tek lɔng tɛm ɛn we kin kɔntinyu fɔ du am. Bɔt, wit yu tray, lɔv, ɛn dedikeshɔn, yu go mɔs ebul fɔ sev yu pikin frɔm dis drag menace. Nɔ wɔri, nɔto yu wan, lɛ wi ɔl wok togɛda fɔ dis! Mek yu pikin sef!

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