Yu smɔl pikin kin fil lɛk se dɛn nɔ lɛk yu? I kin bi Riaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)!

Mama ɛn Papa, una dɔn ɛva si ɔ yɛri bɔt sɔm yɔŋ pikin dɛn we nɔ de sho ɛni lɔv ɔ lɔv to di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn, ivin dɛn yon mama ɛn papa? I tan lɛk se na dɛn wan de na dɛn yon wɔl. Dis na tin we rili sɔri, ɛn dɔktɔ de ɛksplen am. Tide wi de tɔk bɔt wan pan dɛn kayn tin ya, we dɛn kɔl `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD).'

Wetin na `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)`?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` na wan sik we yɔŋ pikin nɔ kin ebul fɔ mek wɛlbɔdi imɔshɔnal bon wit di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn, lɛk in mama ɛn papa. Di men rizin fɔ dis na bikɔs di pikin nɔ bin gɛt di rayt filin ɛn sef we i bin smɔl, ɔ dɛn nɔ bin de kia fɔ am ɔ dɛn bin de trit am bad. Pikin dɛm we gɛt `RAD` kin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ kɔntrol dɛn filin. I nɔ kin izi bak fɔ dɛn fɔ mek tayt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn. I sɔprayz fɔ no se sɔntɛnde pan ɔl we di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn kin rili lɛk dɛn ɛn du gud to dɛn, dɛn pikin ya nɔ kin ivin kam nia dɛn, ɛn i kin tan lɛk se dɛn de fred.

Udat kin gɛt `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Dis sik kin mɔs pan yɔŋ pikin dɛm wae dɛn nɔr de kia fɔ ɔr de trit dɛn bad pan dɛn bɔdi ɔr filin. Bɔt, i kin afɛkt pikin dɛn bak we dɔn big. Pikin dɛn we gɛt ay risk fɔ gɛt RAD na:

• Bɔku pipul dɛn we de kia fɔ pikin: Imajin se dɛn de muf pikin frɔm wan ples usay dɛn de mɛn pikin to ɔda wan, ɔ frɔm wan famili we dɛn de mɛn pikin to ɔda famili, ɛn i nɔ ebul fɔ mek padi biznɛs wit ɛnibɔdi fɔ ɔltɛm.
• Separeshon afta attachment: Afta di pikin don divεlכp gud emotional bond wit dεn praymar kia, dεn fכ separate frכm dεm.
• Traumatic loss in early life: If pikin gɛt bɔku big big lɔs ɔr tin dɛn we kin mek i nɔ ebul fɔ bia we i yɔŋ we i nɔ ebul fɔ bia.
• Mama ɛn papa dɛn we nɔ de tray fɔ de nia dɛn pikin pan aw dɛn de fil: Sɔm mama ɛn papa ɔ pipul dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn pikin nɔ kin tray tranga wan fɔ de nia dɛn pikin pan aw dɛn de fil.
• Institutionalization: If yu fɔ spɛn tɛm na ples lɛk ɔfɛnij, we yu nɔ gɛt lɔv we mama ɛn papa lɛk yu.

Sɔntɛnde, mama ɛn papa dɛn we dɔn adopt am, we nɔ no bɔku tin bɔt di pikin in past, kin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit di nyu pɔsin we dɛn dɔn ad to di famili. Ɛspɛshali if di pikin gɛt sɔm kayn we aw i nɔ de fil fayn. If yu na nyu mama ɔ papa, yu pikin de sho sayn dɛm fɔ `RAD`, ɔ yu de gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ kɔnɛkt wit yu pikin, mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu pikin in dɔktɔ ɛn mek dɛn chɛk dis.

Aw kɔmɔn tin na `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)`?

Infakt, i nɔ kin izi fɔ tɔk klia wan aw dis kin apin, bikɔs bɔku pipul dɛn nɔ kin ripɔt. Bɔt dɛn se bitwin 1% ɛn 2% pan di pikin dɛn kin gɛt RAD. Pikin dɛn we dɛn pul na dɛn os ɛn put dɛn na ɔda say dɛn lɛk fɔ mɛn pikin dɛn we nɔ gɛt mama ɛn papa, kin gɛt RAD. Na lɛk af pan dɛn pikin ya kin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ mek padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn as tɛm de go.

Wetin na di sayn dɛm fɔ `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)`?

Di sayn dɛm fɔ RAD kin difrɛn frɔm wan pikin to ɔda pikin, bɔt sɔm pan di kɔmɔn sayn dɛm we dɛn kin si pan bebi ɛn yɔŋ pikin dɛm na:

• Nɔ fɔ sho se dɛn de fil fayn: We dɛn de wit ɔda pipul dɛn, dɛn nɔ de sho fayn tin dɛn lɛk fɔ gɛt kɔrej, lɔv, ɛn gladi at.
• Nɔ fɔ tɔch pɔsin in yay ɛn fɔ tɔch am wit yu bɔdi: Nɔ want fɔ luk pɔsin in yay ɔ tɔch am.
• Fɔ sho se yu de fred ɛn vɛks: Ɔltɛm yu de vɛks, kray, ɛn sɔri.
• Tray fɔ kɔntrol: Dɛn kin tray fɔ kɔntrol tin dɛn we de arawnd dɛn. Dis kin mek dɛn brok di lɔ dɛn.

Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin `Inhibited Reactive Attachment Disorder` ɛn `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)`?

Wan ɔda kɔndishɔn we gɛt fɔ du wit `Inhibited Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` na `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED).` Bɔt difrɛns de bitwin di tu. Lɛ wi si wetin dɛn bi.

`RAD` (Dɛn dɔn stɔp am) .

Pikin dεm we gεt `RAD` kin no wetin de apin rawnd dεm, bכt dεn nכ de ansa am pan filin. Dɛn nɔ de sho ɔ aks fɔ lɛ di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn ɔ ɔda pipul dɛn lɛk dɛn. Dɛn kin lɛk fɔ de dɛn wan. Di kwaliti dɛn we dɛn gɛt na:

• Fɔ avɔyd di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn.
• Fɔ de fa frɔm sɔshal sityueshɔn dɛn.
• I de agens tin dɛn we de kɔmfɔt (e.g., fɔ kɔt kɔt).

`DSED` (Disinhibited - opin to do, bɔt nɔ gɛt ɛnitin fɔ stɔp am)

Pikin dɛm wae gɛt `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)` kin bi ɔva padi wit strenja dɛm. Dɛn kin ivin fala dɛn rawnd ɛn nɔ aks dɛn mama ɛn papa. Bɔku tɛm, dɛn pikin ya kin du tin we dɛn yɔŋ pas dɛn ej ɛn dɛn kin aks ɔda pipul dɛn fɔ lɛk dɛn di we aw dɛn nɔ kin sef. Di sayn dɛm na:

• No selektiv kɔnɛkshɔn (jɔs lɛk wit ɛnibɔdi).
• Fɔ fɛn atɛnshɔn frɔm ɔlman.
• Fɔ biev di we we nɔ fit in ej.
• Nɔ ɔndastand sɔshal bɔda dɛn.

Fɔ ɛgzampul, pikin we gɛt `RAD` kin pul insɛf kɔmɔt nia ɔda pipul dɛn na pati ɛn sidɔm na kɔna in wan. Bɔt pikin we gɛt `DSED` go go ɔp to ɛn tɔk to ɔlman we i nɔ no, sɔntɛm i go ivin klaym na dɛn lap. Dɛn ɔl tu gɛt wɛl bɔdi atakshɔn prɔblɛm, bɔt di we aw dɛn de sho dɛnsɛf difrɛn.

Wetin na di tin dɛm wae kin mek yu gɛt `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)`?

Nɔr patikyula rizin nɔr de fɔ mek pikin dɛm wae gɛt RAD kin gɛt dis sik.Stɔdi dɛn dɔn sho se bɔku rizin dɛn de we kin mek pikin nɔ ebul fɔ gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ am:

• Abiuz ɔ neglect: Di pikin kin fil se dɛn dɔn lɛf am ɛn na in wangren de. Fɔ ɛgzampul, if di mama ɛn papa dɛn de fɛt bɔku tɛm ɛn dɛn nɔ de chɛk di pikin, di pikin nɔ go gɛt di lɔv ɛn lɔv we i nid.
• Fɔd insekyuriti: We pikin nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ it ɛn drink, we na di men tin we i nid.
• Sefty kɔnsyans: If di pikin fil se i de fred se dɛn de pan denja.
• Nɔ klin: Di pikin kin de na wet dayapɛt fɔ lɔng tɛm, if nɔbɔdi nɔ chenj am.
• Di chenj dɛn we kin apin to di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ pikin dɛn ɔltɛm: Sɔntɛm di pikin nɔ kin no udat fɔ abop pan.
• Kia we nɔ de chenj: If dɛn kin du wetin di pikin nid wan wan tɛm nɔmɔ, mɔ if di pikin nɔ no ustɛm fɔ lɛ di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ am lɛk am ɛn kɔrej am.

Yɔŋ pikin dɛn kin gɛt wɛlbɔdi atakshɔn we dɛn de mit dɛn bɛsik nid dɛn ɔltɛm ɛn ɔltɛm . Dis kin mek di pikin ɛn di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ am, gɛt trɔst. If dɛn nɔ mit di pikin in bɔdi ɛn filin nid dɛn fayn fayn wan, i de pan denja fɔ gɛt `RAD`.

Aw dɛn kin no bɔt `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)`?

Fɔ no if yu gɛt RAD, yu pikin in dɔktɔ go aks yu bɔt yu pikin in mɛdikal istri ɛn di sayn dɛm we yu pikin de sho. Fɔ ɔndastand yu pikin in sik, di dɔktɔ kin aks am kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk dɛn wan ya:

• Yu tink se dɛn dɔn ɛva trit yu pikin bad ɔ nɔ pe atɛnshɔn to am?
• Ustɛm yu fɔs notis dɛn sayn ya?
• Us tin dɛn yu notis fɔs?
• Aw di padi biznɛs de bitwin yu ɛn yu pikin?
• Aw yu layf de?
• Ɔda pipul dɛn de we de kia fɔ di pikin we gɛt fɔ du wit di pikin?

If yu dɔktɔ saspek se yu gɛt RAD, i go mɔs bi se dɛn go rifer yu ɛn yu pikin to dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn, sayɛnsman, ɛn saykayatrist fɔ ɛp fɔ no if yu pikin gɛt sik ɛn tɛl yu bɔt tritmɛnt dɛn we go ɛp yu.

I pɔsibul fɔ kɔnfyus `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)` wit `Autism Spectrum Disorder`?

Bifo i dɔn se pikin gɛt `RAD`, di dɔktɔ go du tɛst fɔ pul ɔda tin dɛn we kin mek i gɛt am, mɔ di kɔndishɔn dɛn lɛk `Autism Spectrum Disorder`. `Autism Spectrum Disorder` na divεlכpmεnt kכndishכn wae de afekt pכsin in bihayvya εn kכmyunikeshn. pan di sכfa, i kin gεt di sem kayn simptom dεm lεk `RAD`. Di difrɛns we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat, abiuz ɔ neglek nɔto wan tin we de mek pɔsin gɛt `Autism Spectrum Disorder`, bɔt i kin afɛkt di diagnosis fɔ `RAD`.

Aw dɛn kin trit `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)`?

Di men tin we dɛn kin pe atɛnshɔn pan fɔ tritmɛnt fɔ RAD na fɔ mek pikin dɛn ɛn di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn gɛt fayn fayn filin .ɛn/ɔ fɔ mek di rilayshɔnship dɛn we de mek pɔsin fred, we nɔ izi fɔ gɛt, kam bak. Dɛn tritmɛnt ya kin mek di pikin strɔng pan in maynd, ɛn dis kin ɛp di pikin fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn. Pikin ɛn di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn kin bɛnifit frɔm dɛn tritmɛnt plan ya. Di tritmɛnt kin inklud:

• Saykotɛrapi/Kɔnsul: Wan mɛntɛl hεlth kɔlnɔ de wok wit di pikin ɛn in mama ɛn papa fɔ ɛp dɛn fɔ gɛt wɛl bɔdi imɔshɔnal skil dɛm ɛn ridyus prɔblɛm bihayvya we de ambɔg di bond.
• Famili Tɛrapi: Dis kin min se di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ di pikin fɔs ɛn di pikin fɔ wok togɛda fɔ ɛp fɔ mek dɛn gɛt wɛlbɔdi we fɔ mek dɛn de tɔk to dɛnsɛf.
• Sɔshial Skil Intɛrvɛnshɔn: Dis tritmɛnt de tich di pikin aw fɔ biev fayn wit ɔda pikin dɛn we gɛt di sem ej na nɔmal soshal sityueshɔn. Mama ɛn papa dɛnsɛf kin du dis, ɛn dɛn kin ɛp di pikin fɔ yuz dɛn tin ya we i dɔn lan apat frɔm di tritmɛnt.
• Speshal Edukeshɔn: If pikin nid am, skul-lɛvel program dɛn kin ɛp pikin dɛn fɔ lan di skil dɛn we dɛn nid fɔ gɛt sakrifays pan skul ɛn soshal biznɛs.
• Klas dɛm fɔ di skil dɛm fɔ mama ɛn papa: Insay dɛn sɛshɔn ya, mama ɛn papa dɛn kin lan mɔ fayn we fɔ mɛn dɛn pikin in prɔblɛm dɛn we nɔ kin izi fɔ dɛn.

Ɔda kɔmplikeshɔn dɛn de we kin gɛt fɔ du wit `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Yes, pikin dεm we gεt `RAD` de pan risk fכ gεt difrεn kכmplikεshכn dεm we dεn sכmtεm εn yɔŋ bikɔs dεn nεgεlεkt εn abiuz dεm na dεn bכdi, filin, εn soshal. Dɛn prɔblɛm ya kin bi:

• Dilay di divɛlɔpmɛnt maylston dɛm ɛn ridyus di fyzikal growth.
• Prɔblɛm wae de mɛk pɔrsin fil bad, fɔ ɛgzampul, pwɛl hat, wɔri, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), ɛn prɔblɛm wae de mɛk pɔrsin nɔr de vɛks.
• Di prɔblɛm dɛn we pɔsin kin gɛt we i de it.
• Dizayd fɔ yuz sɔbstans.
• Prɔblɛm dɛn na skul (prɔblɛm fɔ lan ɛn/ɔ di we aw pɔsin de biev).
• Prɔblɛm dɛn we de na rilayshɔnship (wit dɛn kɔmpin dɛn, big pipul dɛn, dɔn dɛn patna dɛn).
• Risky bihayvya, fɔ ɛgzampul fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we yu yɔŋ ɔ ɔltɛm.

Aw kwik mi pikin go gɛt wɛlbɔdi padi biznɛs afta dɛn dɔn trit am?

If dɛn nɔ gɛt tritmɛnt, pikin dɛn we gɛt RAD kin gɛt di sayn dɛn te dɛn big. I kin afɛkt aw dɛn de wok na sosayti. Tritmɛnt na fɔ lɔng tɛm we de gi di pikin sɔpɔt pan filin. I kin ivin nid am ɔl in layf. No tɛm nɔ de fɔ no ustɛm yu pikin go gɛt wɛlbɔdi rilayshɔnship. Bɔt tritmɛnt wit di sɔpɔt we di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn kin gi di bɛst rizɔlt.

Aw fɔ mek yu nɔ gɛt `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)`?

Di bɛst we fɔ mek dɛn nɔ gɛt RAD na fɔ ɛp pikin dɛn fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi rilayshɔn wit dɛn mama ɛn papa ɛn/ɔ ɔda pipul dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn fɔs. Dɛn kin gɛt wɛlbɔdi rilayshɔnship we di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn du dɛn tin ya:

• Fɔ mek famili gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn tru padi biznɛs we nɔ de chenj ɛn we nɔ gɛt wan prɔblɛm.
• Fɔ mek pikin dɛn fil se dɛn lɛk dɛn ɛn dɛn de gri wit dɛn.
• Fɔ sɔpɔt pikin dɛn we de na difrɛn stej dɛn we dɛn de divɛlɔp.
• Ɔltɛm mit di pikin in bɛsis nid dɛn.

Aw a go ɛp mi pikin fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi padi biznɛs?

As pɔsin we de kia fɔ yu pikin, yu kin ɛp yu pikin fɔ gɛt wɛlbɔdi atakshɔn bay we yu:

• Fɔ sɛt di say dɛn we yu fɔ put di tin dɛn we yu fɔ du: Di say we yu de liv ɔltɛm, fayn fɔ ɔl pikin dɛn. So, fɔ sɛt bɔda dɛn rili impɔtant. Wit rizin limit ɛn di rayt, nɔ-disiplin fɔ di bɔdi, pikin dɛn kin ɔndastand wetin dɛn de ɛkspɛkt frɔm dɛn ɛn wetin go apin if dɛn brok di lɔ dɛn. Dis kin mek pikin dɛn nɔ fred ɛn ɛnkɔrej dɛn fɔ biev di rayt we.
• Yu fɔ de kwayɛt we yu pikin nɔ de biev fayn: We yu pikin nɔ de biev fayn, na fɔ de kwayɛt; nɔ riak if yu vɛks. Disiplin yu pikin akɔdin to di lɔ dɛn we yu dɔn mek bifo tɛm ɛn we yu pikin no. We yu pikin dɔn kol ɛn rɛdi fɔ gɛt gud padi biznɛs, sho se yu lɛk am ɛn du gud to am. Dis de sho yu pikin se yu de fɔ dɛn, ivin we tin tranga.
• Sho se yu lɛk ɛn pe atɛnshɔn to am ɔltɛm: Spend tɛm wit yu pikin yu wan. Tɔk to am, siŋ to am, ple wit am. Hol am, kɔt am, ɔ du ɔda tin dɛn we go sho se pɔsin we de kia fɔ am lɛk am ɛn lɛk am. Bɔt mɛmba se sɔm pikin dɛn nɔ kin opin dɛn at fɔ dis kayn lɔv pas ɔda wan dɛn. Fɔ stɔp fɔ lɛk pɔsin ɛn fɔ lɛk pɔsin nɔto ɛva pɔnishmɛnt we pɔsin kin gri wit.

Wetin a fɔ ɛkspɛkt if a gɛt pikin we gɛt `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Bɔrku pikin dɛm wae de gɛt tritmɛnt fɔ RAD kin gɛt stebul, wɛl bɔdi rilayshɔn wit dɛn praymari kia ɛn ɔda pipul dɛm na dɛn layf. Pikin dɛm wae nɔr de gɛt tritmɛnt kin de pan denja fɔ gɛt prɔblɛm wit dɛn filin wae de kɔntinyu. Laki, i nɔr kin ɛva let fɔ fɛn tritmɛnt fɔ divɛlɔpmɛnt ɛn mɛntɛl hεlth kɔndishɔn, inklud RAD. I impɔtant fɔ mɛmba dɛn tin ya:

• Bɔku pikin dɛn we dɛn kin adopt na os usay dɛn de mɛn pikin dɛn we nɔ gɛt mama ɛn papa kin liv dɛn layf we rili gɛt wɛlbɔdi ɛn we dɛn kin ajɔst fayn fayn wan. Nɔto ɔl pikin we dɛn adopt kin gɛt `RAD`.
• Pikin dɛm wae dɔn gɛt siriɔs trauma trade kin gɛt ɔda tin dɛm wae kin mek dɛn gɛt mɛntɛl hεlth ɛn bihayvya chalenj. Fɔ ɛgzampul, we pɔsin tek drɔgs ɔ rɔm we i gɛt bɛlɛ, ɔ we in famili gɛt prɔblɛm wit in maynd, dat kin mek i gɛt RAD.

Aw lɔŋ `Rɛaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD)` dɔn de?

Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) na wan sik wae de kam wae yu de liv yu layf. Bɔt, tritmɛnt ɛn sɔpɔt kin ɛp pikin fɔ gɛt wɛl bɔdi rilayshɔnship ɔlsay na in layf, ɛn kin mek in filin ɛn soshal wɛlbɔdi bɛtɛ.

Ustɛm a fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

If yu notis se yu pikin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ mek nɔmal rilayshɔnship, ɔ if yu si ɛni sayn fɔ `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` na yu pikin, go to yu pikin in dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm fɔ mek dɛn ebul fɔ no am ɔ fɔ mek dɛn sɛn am to spɛshal pɔsin. If yu no bɔt dis sik kwik kwik wan ɛn trit am, dat kin ɛp pikin dɛn we gɛt dis sik fɔ gɛt bɛtɛ tin fɔ du.

Us kwɛstyɔn dɛn a fɔ aks mi dɔktɔ?

• A fɔ rifer mi pikin to advays?
• Wetin de mek mi pikin sho di sayn dɛm fɔ `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?
• Yu kin rifer mi to spɛshal ɔr sɔpɔt grup we de wok wit pikin ɛn famili we gɛt dis diagnosis?
• Yu tink se di sik dɛn we mi pikin kin gɛt go chenj as i de ol? Ɛni tin dɛn de we a fɔ no mɔ bɔt?

I impɔtant fɔ mek yu gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit yu pikin ɛn trit am di kayn we we go mek i fil se dɛn lɛk am. If yu pikin nɔ de gɛt fayn fayn padi biznɛs wit yu ɔ di pɔsin we de kia fɔ dɛn, go to di pɔsin we de kia fɔ yu. Fɔ aks fɔ advays ɔ tritmɛnt nɔ min se yu na bad mama ɔ papa. Bifo dat, i de opin di domɔt fɔ mek yu gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit yu pikin, ɛn gɛt wɛlbɔdi, ɛn ɔl yu layf.

Di tin dɛn we impɔtant pas ɔl fɔ mɛmba (Take-Home Message) .

Riaktiv Atɛshmɛnt Disɔda (RAD) nɔto sɔntin we fɔ mek pɔsin in at pwɛl. If dɛn no di pikin dɛn kwik kwik wan, dɛn trit dɛn di rayt we, ɛn dɛn gɛt lɔv, stebul, dɛn kin liv gladi ɛn wɛlbɔdi layf. Mɛmba:

• Ɔl pikin difrɛn: Nɔto ɔl pikin kin ansa di tritmɛnt di sem we. Peshɛnt ɛn ɔndastand.
• Nɔto yu wan de: Ɔda mama ɛn papa dɛn de we de go tru di sem kayn tin. Gɛt ɛp frɔm dɔktɔ dɛn, advaysa dɛn, ɛn sɔpɔt grup dɛn.
• Lɔv ɛn stebul: Di bɛst tin we yu kin gi pikin na lɔv we nɔ gɛt kɔndishɔn ɛn say we nɔ de chenj ɛn we sef.
• Prɔfɛshɔnal ɛp: If yu gɛt dawt, nɔ shem ɔ fred fɔ go to dɔktɔ. Dat na di big ɛp we yu go gi yu pikin.

Wi ɔl gɛt di wok fɔ gi wi pikin dɛn pikin we sef ɛn we gɛt lɔv. Lɛ wi ɔl wok togɛda fɔ mek wi ebul fɔ du dat!

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