Sɔntɛnde, yu kin fil lɛk se yu jɔs want fɔ de yu wan ɛn nɔ de nia ɔlman? Yu gɛt tɛm we yu nɔ want fɔ tɔk to ɛnibɔdi, yu nɔ want fɔ mit ɛnibɔdi, ɛn yu jɔs vɛks? Dɛn tin ya kin bi sayn fɔ se pwɛl hat dɔn kam insay yu layf. Nɔto yu nɔmɔ i de afɛkt, bɔt i de afɛkt di pipul dɛn we de arawnd yu we lɛk yu. I tan lɛk se we yu trowe ston na wata, di ripɛl dɛn we i de mek kin skata ɔlsay.
Aw pwɛl hat kin afɛkt yu padi biznɛs?
Bɔrku tɛm, pɔrsin wae gɛt pwɛl hat kin fil lɛk se i nɔr de nia ɔda pipul dɛm ɛn nɔr de wit ɔda pipul dɛm. Di tin dɛn we yu bin de ɛnjɔy trade, di trip dɛn we yu bin de travul wit yu padi dɛn, ɛn di gladi gladi tɛm dɛn we yu bin de spɛn wit yu fambul dɛn kin bigin fɔ dɔn. Yu kin fil lɛk se nɔbɔdi nɔ ɔndastand yu. Dɔn bak, fɔ vɛks pan smɔl tin ɛn fɔ de na ed ɔltɛm na pat pan dis kɔndishɔn.
Naw, nɔ tink di we aw yu de si am, bɔt na di we aw di wan dɛn we yu lɛk de si am. Yu patna, yu mama ɛn papa, yu pikin dɛn, ɛn yu bɛst padi dɛn de wach dis chenj. Dɛn kin fil bad we yu nɔ gladi fɔ dɛn. Dɛn kin tink se yu at pwɛl bikɔs dɛn du sɔntin we nɔ rayt. Dɛn kin fil bad bak we dɛn de tray fɔ ɛp yu ɛn yu nɔ gri fɔ du dat.
De impɔtant tin na dat dis rileshɔnship prɔblɛm kin mek yu pwɛl hat wɔs . I tan lɛk wan bad bad saykl. Rilayshɔnship kin wɔs, so pwɛl hat kin wɔs. As pwɛl hat de wɔs, na so di rilayshɔnship de wɔs.
Bɔt gud nyus de. Di sɔpɔt we yu kin gɛt frɔm yu famili ɛn padi dɛn pan dis waka na yu big trɛnk . We yu yuz da trɛnk de fayn, yu go ebul fɔ kɔmɔt na dis kayn tin.
Tin dɛn we yu kin du fɔ mek yu padi biznɛs kɔntinyu
Dis na tranga joyn, bɔt wit smɔl smɔl step dɛm, yu kin bil dɛn rilayshɔnship ya bak.
1. Tray fɔ pul yu wan
We pwɛl at kin kam, wi ɔl kin want fɔ go na wi rum, lɔk di domɔt, ɛn de wi wan. Bɔt na dat na di las tin we yu want fɔ du. Di sɔpɔt we di wan dɛn we yu lɛk de gi yu rili impɔtant dis tɛm.
- Start smɔl: Nɔ du big tin wan tɛm. Pik di fon ɛn gi yu bɛst padi wan kɔl. Ɔ sɛn mɛsej.
- Wan kwik deti: If i pɔsibul, aks se, "Wi go go na do fɔ smɔl tɛm ɛn drink sɔm ti?" Ɔ go waka fɔ shɔt tɛm togɛda.
- Tɔk bɔt wetin de na yu maynd: Fɔ tɔk bɔt aw yu de fil kin bi fayn we fɔ ɛp yusɛf. Bɔt yu nɔ nid fɔ tɔk, jɔs fɔ wach TV togɛda ɔ fɔ de wit pɔsin we nɔ tɔk natin, na fayn tin bak.
2. Tɔk opin wan wit di wan dɛn we yu lɛk.
Nɔ tink se dɛn go gɛs wetin de na yu maynd.
- Tɛl dɛn wetin yu de tink ɛn fil.
- Yu kin ivin se, "A jɔs want mek yu lisin to dis rayt naw, a nɔ nid fɔ gi yu sɔlvishɔn." Dɔn dɛn go no aw fɔ ɛp yu.
- Mek dɛn ɔndastand se yu stil lɛk dɛn, bɔt i at fɔ sho am rayt naw.
- Dɔn bak, aks dɛn aw dɛn de fil. Dis na tu we fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn.
- If fɔ tɔk rili at, fɔ fɛn famili ɔr rilayshɔnship tritmɛnt kin rili ɛp.
3. Nɔ fred fɔ aks fɔ ɛp.
Di tinkin "A bi lod to evribodi" kin kam na yu maynd. Nɔto yu, na di pwɛl at we de insay yu ed de tɔk. Yu fambul ɛn padi dɛn rili want fɔ ɛp yu. Bɔt dɛn nɔ no wetin fɔ du.
- Aks fɔ prɛktikal ɛp: Ɛp nɔ min ɔltɛm fɔ sɔpɔt yu filin. I kin bi smɔl prɛktikal ɛp lɛk "Yu kin go na di stoa ɛn briŋ sɔm tin fɔ it fɔ mi?" ɔ "Yu kin wach di pikin dɛn fɔ sɔm tɛm?"
| Tin dɛn we yu fɔ pe spɛshal atɛnshɔn to | Wetin yu go ebul fɔ du |
|---|---|
| Yu pikin dɛn | Yu pikin dɛn kin fred ɛn vɛks bikɔs yu chenj. Ɛksplen di tin we apin insay simpul langwej we dɛn go ɔndastand. Se sɔntin lɛk, ‘Mama/Papa nɔ wɛl smɔl, na dat mek i nɔ de kam fɔ ple lɛk aw i kin ple. Bɔt i de tek mɛrɛsin frɔm dɔktɔ , ɛn i go wɛl jisnɔ.’ |
| Prɔblɛm dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit mami ɛn dadi biznɛs | E kin rili kɔmɔn fɔ gɛt di dεkrεshɔn pan sɛks drayv ɔr pɔrsin wae de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs bikɔs ɔf pwɛl hat ɛn sɔm tritmɛnt dɛm. Dis nɔto natin fɔ shem. Tɔk opin wan wit yu patna bɔt dis. If wi nɔ pe atɛnshɔn to di prɔblɛm, dat kin mek i wɔs. Mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ bɔt dis. I kin ebul fɔ gi yu difrɛn mɛrɛsin ɔ gi yu we fɔ ridyus dis sayd ɛfɛkt. |
| Ɔfis | Di lɔ nɔ se yu fɔ tɛl yu bɔs bɔt dis. Bɔt if pipul dɛn na yu wokples vɛks pan di we aw yu de biev, if yu tɔk di tru, dat go mek dɛn fil fayn. Yu kin gɛt sɔpɔt bak frɔm di ɔfis. Dat go bi big boost fo yu tu. |
4. Join wan Sɔpɔt Grup
Sɔmtɛm, fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛm wae de sɔfa wit dis sik, ivin pas yu famili, kin mek yu fil trɛnk. I de gi yu di filin se "Nɔto mi nɔmɔ de fes dis."
- Yu kin aks yu dɔktɔ ɔ advaysa bɔt sɔpɔt grup dɛn na yu eria. I kin bi bak se grup dɛn de na di Intanɛt.
Wit ɔl dis, i impɔtant fɔ gɛt di rayt tritmɛnt . Fɔ fala di instrɔkshɔn dɛn we yu dɔktɔ gi yu. Tek yu mɛrɛsin lɛk aw dɛn tɛl yu fɔ tek am. Dɔn dis waka go izi fɔ yu.
Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os
- Pwɛl hat nɔto wikɛd tin, na sik wae dɛn kin trit.
- I rili impɔtant fɔ lɛf fɔ de yu wan ɛn tɔk opin wan wit di wan dɛn we yu lɛk fɔ mek yu nɔ gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn.
- Nɔ fil se fɔ aks fɔ ɛp na lod. Yu fambul ɛn padi dɛn rɛdi fɔ ɛp yu.
- Mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu patna ɛn dɔktɔ bɔt tin dɛn we rili impɔtant, lɛk mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.
- Yu nɔ nid fɔ go tru dis waka yu wan. If yu gɛt di rayt mɛrɛsin, di sɔpɔt we di wan dɛn we yu lɛk go gi yu, dat go ɛp yu fɔ wɛl kwik kwik wan.
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