Lɛ wi lan bɔt aw yu smɔl pikin de gro ɛn aw i sef. (Toddler Divɛlɔpmɛnt Maylston & Sefty)

Yu smɔl pikin de gro smɔl smɔl, nɔto so? I de lan nyu tin dɛn ɛvride, ɛn i rili fayn fɔ si. Sɔm impɔtant tin dɛn de we dɛn kin du fɔ mek dɛn gro insay dis tɛm. Ɛn wi nid fɔ rili tek tɛm we dɛn sef. Tide, wi go tɔk bɔt ɔl dis rili simpul wan, di we we yu go ɔndastand.

Udat na smɔl pikin?

We yu yɛri di wɔd "toddler," yu kin tink bɔt aw pikin ol. Wi kin kɔl pikin dɛn we ol bitwin 1 ɛn 3 ia "toddlers." Insay dis tɛm, yu go notis se yu pikin de bigin fɔ du tin fɔ insɛf smɔl smɔl . Dem go stat sho likl indipendens. Insay dis tɛm we yu pikin de smɔl, yu pikin go lan fɔ:

• It yu wan.
• Waka we nɔbɔdi nɔ ɛp yu.
• Yuz nyu wɔd dɛn, ripit di wɔd dɛn we yu yɛri, ɛn tɔk dɛn nem ɛn dɛn sɔmnem.
• Ɔndastand simpul kɔmand dɛn lɛk "nɔ" ɛn "stɔp".
• Una drɛs we yu nɔ go ɛp yu bɔku.
• Sheb tɔys wit ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn alaw dɛn fɔ tek dɛn turn fɔ ple.

Bɔt mɛmba se ɔl pikin kin gro ɛn lan bay wetin i want . Sɔm pikin dɛn nɔ kin dɔn masta dɛn tin ya we dɛn ol 3. Nɔto kɔmpitishɔn.

Ustɛm mi smɔl pikin nid fɔ mek dɛn chɛk am wit dɔktɔ?

Insay yu pikin in fɔs ia, i go mɔs bi se yu dɔktɔ go de chɛk yu pikin ɔltɛm fɔ mek shɔ se yu pikin de gro fayn ɛn i de mit di impɔtant tin dɛn we i dɔn du insay di fɔs ia. As yu pikin de ol, dɛn chɛk-ap ya kin apin smɔl. Yu kin tɔk to yu pikin in dɔktɔ fɔ mek wan schedule fɔ chɛk-ap we go wok fɔ yu pikin bitwin 1 ɛn 3 ia.

• Na 1 ia ol.
• Na 15 ɛn 18 mɔnt.
• Na 2 ia ol.
• Na 30 mɔnt.
• We i ol 3 ia.

Wetin yu go ɛkspɛkt we yu de du dɔktɔ in ɛgzam?

Jɔs lɛk aw dɛn kin chɛk yu pikin we dɛn smɔl, we dɛn kin chɛk pikin dɛn fayn fayn wan, dɛn kin pe atɛnshɔn mɔ pan aw yu pikin de gro. Dɛn tɛst ya kin bi:

• Fɔ mɛzhɔ yu pikin in wet, ayt, ɛn ed rawnd . Ɛn bak fɔ chɛk di ful bɔdi, inklud di yay, yes, tit, at, ɛn lɔng.
• Fɔ gi di imunayzeshɔn dɛn we nid .
• Fɔ chɛk di divɛlɔpmɛnt maylston dɛn .
• Fɔ ansa ɛni kwɛstyɔn ɔ wɔri we yu gɛt bɔt yu pikin we de gro.
• Fɔ tɔk bɔt di nɛks tin dɛn we dɛn fɔ du fɔ mek dɛn divɛlɔp.
• If nid de, ɔda fɔ mek dɛn du blɔd tɛst fɔ chɛk fɔ si if di ɛmoglobin nɔ bɔku (anemia) ɛn if i gɛt lid pɔyzin .

Wetin na di impɔtant divɛlɔpmɛnt maylston dɛm fɔ smɔl pikin dɛm?

Divεlכpmεnt maylston dεm na tin dεm we yu sכm pikin kin du pan wan patikyula ej. Dɛn maylston ya na aw wi de si aw yu pikin de du:

• Wetin de muv?(Big ɛn smɔl mɔsul aktiviti dɛm - `Grɔs ɛn Fayn Mɔta Skil`).
• Fɔ Tɔk (Lɛngwej Divɛlɔpmɛnt Skil).
• Lanin (Kɔgnitiv Skil).
• Ple (Sɔshial ɛn Imɔshɔnal Skil).

Mɛmba se ɔl pikin kin divɛlɔp di we aw i want . Dis nɔto kɔmpitishɔn, bɔt na tɛst fɔ no aw yu smɔl pikin kin rich dɛn maylston ya kwik kwik wan. Sɔm pikin dɛn kin rich dɛn maylston ya kwik pas ɔda wan dɛn. If yu tink se yu pikin de let fɔ du dɛn maylston ya, mek shɔ se yu tɔk to yu dɔktɔ . Da we de, yu go ebul fɔ no ɛni prɔblɛm ɛn sɔlv am.

15-18 Mɔnt Todla Divɛlɔpmɛnt ɛn Sefty

Bitwin 15 ɛn 18 mɔnt, yu smɔl pikin de lan fɔ sho aw i de fil wit di langwej we i jɔs dɔn lan. Fɔ trowe tantrum na nɔmal pat pan di divɛlɔpmɛnt fɔ pikin dɛn we dɛn gɛt dis ej. Na we fɔ mek dɛn tɛl yu se dɛn nɔ gladi we dɛn nɔ gɛt wetin dɛn want. Yu kin ɛp fɔ mek yu smɔl pikin in at pwɛl bay we yu de yuz tɔys ɛn gem dɛn fɔ pul in maynd pan am. Fɔ ɛgzampul, if yu smɔl pikin de kray na stɔ fɔ tɔys, yu kin pul in maynd bay we yu sho am sɔntin we fayn ɔ siŋ siŋ we i lɛk.

We yu pikin ol dis ej, i fɔ de it na tebul wit di ɔda pipul dɛn na di famili. Dɛn de lan fɔ yuz tin dɛn lɛk spun ɛn fɔk, ɛn fɔ stɔp fɔ drink frɔm bɔtul ɛn drink frɔm kɔp.

Sayn dεm fכ divεlכpmεnt we dεn kin si pan dis ej:

• Sho difrɛn kayn we aw yu de fil , frɔm we yu de du tin we yu nɔ de tink bɔt to we yu de sho lɔv to di wan dɛn we yu sabi.
• Fɔ ɛksplen di aydia dɛn wit simpul, wan wɔd dɛn (e.g., mama, papa, pikin, it).
• Ɔndastand simpul, wan step kɔmand lɛk "sit."
• Fɔ bigin fɔ waka ɛn rɔn .
• Drink frɔm kɔp ɛn it wit spun .

Aw yu go protɛkt pikin we ol dis ej?

Du dɛn tin ya fɔ protɛkt yu smɔl pikin bitwin 15 ɛn 18 mɔnt:

• Klos di stej wit get , if nɔto dat di smɔl wan go fɔdɔm.
• We yu de travul wit motoka, put di pikin na motoka sit we de biɛn .
• Kip yu os fri frɔm pɔyzin . Tek tɛm mɔ wit kɔba dɛn we ay fɔ mek smɔl pikin dɛn rich. Nɔ ɛva kip pɔyzin insay kɔntena dɛn we tan lɛk bɔtul fɔ it ɔ drink ɔ jam jɔg . If yu pikin drink sɔntin we gɛt pɔyzin, tek di bɔtul ɛn go na di ɔspitul we de nia yu wantɛm wantɛm ɔ kɔl 1990 Ambulans Savis .
• Nɔ gi yu tin dɛn we go mek yu chok, lɛk raw karɔt, apul we dɛn nɔ pul, greps, pinat, sosish, pɔp, ɛn had kandy.. Tin dɛn lɛk rayp avokado, mash potato, kuk vegjetabul, tomato, ɛn frut dɛn we dɛn dɔn pul ɔ kuk na di bɛst. Ɔltɛm kɔt it dɛn we gɛt rawnd ɔ we tan lɛk kɔyn to smɔl smɔl fɔ mek yu nɔ chok.

Divεlכpmεnt εn sef fכ 2 ia ol pikin

Pikin dɛn we ol tu ia kin fil bad ɛn dɛn kin rili want fɔ sho ɔda pipul dɛn aw dɛn de fil. Dɛn kin sho se dɛn lɛk dɛnsɛf, dɛn gladi, dɛn kin vɛks, ɛn dɛn kin vɛks.

Di we aw yu pikin ɔndastand di lɔ dɛn kin rili difrɛn frɔm wetin yu de op fɔ. Dis tɛm, sɛt strɔng ɛn kɔnsistɛns limit fɔ biev . Bɔku pan di pikin dɛn we ol tu ia kin want fɔ mek dɛn mama ɛn papa gladi. So, mek shɔ se yu prez yu pikin we i de biev fayn ɔ we i lan nyu tin.

Yu go si se yu pikin kin tɔk bɔku tin, i kin want fɔ no mɔ, ɛn i kin rili du tin. Insay dis tɛm, dɛn wɔd dɛn de gro kwik kwik wan . We yu rid buk to yu pikin, dat kin ɛp am fɔ tɔk mɔ bɔt wɔd dɛn, fɔ mek i ebul fɔ tɔk fayn, ɛn fɔ mek i sabi fɔ lisin.

Pan ɔl we pikin dɛn we ol tu ia lɛk fɔ de wit ɔda pikin dɛn, bɔku tɛm dɛn kin ple dɛn wan . Di men we aw dɛn kin lan na dis ej na bay we dɛn de falamakata dɛn .

Yu pikin kin bigin fɔ sho sayn dɛn we de sho se dɛn dɔn rɛdi fɔ tren fɔ mek pɔti . Dɛn kin de dray fɔ lɔng tɛm insay di de, ɔ dɛn kin gɛt sɛt tɛm fɔ mek dɛn bɔdi muv. Dɛn kin want bak fɔ no bɔt di tɔylɛt ɛn dɛn kin no aw dɛn yon bɔdi de wok. Pikin dɛn kin lan fɔ yuz tɔylɛt we dɛn dɔn rɛdi. Ɛnkɔrej yu pikin ɛn ɛp am we nid de . I nɔmal fɔ mek pikin dɛn sabi fɔ tren pɔt insay smɔl smɔl stɛp dɛn.

Sayn dεm fכ divεlכpmεnt we dεn kin si pan dis ej:

• Fɔ falamakata ɔda pipul dɛn, mɔ big pipul dɛn ɛn pikin dɛn we dɔn big .
• Sidɔm ɛn ple nia ɔda pikin dɛn ɛn smɔl smɔl bigin fɔ put ɔda pipul dɛn insay dɛn ple.
• I de tɔk insay simpul sɛntɛns dɛn we gɛt tu to 4 wɔd dɛn . (e.g. "Di pikin want milk", "Gi mi di bol")
• Fɔ no di shep ɛn kɔlɔ dɛn .
• Fɔ fala tu step instrɔkshɔn dɛn , lɛk "pik yu tɔys dɛn ɛn put dɛn na di bɔks."
• Klaym ɔp ɛn dɔŋ chia ɛn tebul dɛn.
• Stand pan tip fut .

Aw yu go protɛkt pikin we ol dis ej?

Fɔ fala dɛn advays ya fɔ protɛkt yu pikin we ol tu ia:

• Fɔ mek yu nɔ bɔn , kip di tɛmpracha na di ɔt wata tap dɔŋ 49 digri sɛlshiɔs (120°F) .
• Instɔl smok ɛn kabon monoksayd ditektɔ na ɔl di flɔ na yu os, na ɛvri bedrum. Test di ditektɔ dɛn wan tɛm insay di mɔnt, ɛn chenj di batri dɛn ɛvri siks mɔnt.
• Gɔn dɛn we dɛn mek na osIf yu gɛt fɔ kip dɛn, kip dɛn lɔk, ɛn nɔ gɛt bulɛt .
• Protɛkt ilɛktrik kɔd dɛn bay we yu tep dɛn na grɔn ɛn kɔba di say dɛn we ilɛktrik kin kɔmɔt . Dis na impɔtant tin bikɔs yɔŋ pikin dɛn go tray fɔ put dɛn finga ɔ ɔda tin dɛn insay dɛn.
• Nɔ ɛva lɛf yu pikin in wan na batrum, bathtub, swimin pul, ɔ ɛnisay we gɛt wata . Tek tɛm bad bad wan if bɔkit dɛn de we gɛt wata na di bafa.
• Nɔ ɛva lɛf yu pikin in wan na do . Ɔltɛm mek big pɔsin de wach dɛn we dɛn de krɔs di strit ɔ we dɛn de ple na di yad.

Divεlכpmεnt εn sef fכ 3 ia ol pikin

Yu pikin we ol tri ia de kam fɔ bi pɔsin wit ɔda pipul dɛn na dis ej, ɛn di we aw i de tɔk ɛn aw i de muv de divɛlɔp kwik kwik wan. Yu pikin kin want fɔ no mɔ, bɔku tɛm i kin aks "wetin mek?" ɛn sɔntɛnde dɛn kin aks di sem tin bak ɛn bak.

Pikin dɛn we ol tri ia de gɛt strɔng sɛns fɔ tink bɔt dɛnsɛf . Yu pikin de no di difrɛns bitwin bɔy pikin ɛn gyal pikin, ɛn i de falamakata dɛn big pipul dɛn we dɛn de falamakata. We yu pikin de ple, i de tɔk mɔ wit in kɔmpin dɛn. Dɛn wɔd dɛn de gro to bɔku bɔku wɔd dɛn. Ivin if di we aw dɛn de kɔl dɛn nɔ pafɛkt, ɔda pipul dɛn kin ɔndastand lɛk 75% pan wetin yu pikin de tɔk.

Di we aw pɔsin kin ebul fɔ yuz motoka kin sho se i gɛt gud kɔdineshɔn . Yu pikin kin lɛk fɔ kɔt wit siza, stɛk tin dɛn pan dɛnsɛf, ɛn drɔ sɛklɔ.

Sayn dεm fכ divεlכpmεnt we dεn kin si pan dis ej:

• Alaw fɔ tɔn we yu de ple.
• Fɔ no di tin dɛn we dɛn sabi we de arawnd dɛn.
• Fɔ tɔk klia wan fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn ɔndastand ɛn yuz tu ɔ tri sɛntɛns dɛn we yu de tɔk to pɔsin .
• Yuz gud tin fɔ imajin . I kin mek stori ɛn tɛl dɛn, mek tɔys dɛn gɛt layf ɛn mek dɛn tɔk.
• Fɔ ebul fɔ klaym ɛn dɔŋ stej wit wan fut na ɛni stɛp .
• Fɔ ebul fɔ rɔn ɛn klaym .

Aw yu go protɛkt pikin we ol dis ej?

Fɔ protɛkt yu pikin we ol tri ia, du dɛn tin ya:

• Praktis wetin fɔ du if faya kech na os (Fire Drills) .
• Mek yu abit fɔ wɛr ɛlmɛt we yu de rayd baysikul.
• Tɔk bɔt aw fɔ protɛkt yusɛf frɔm strenja dɛn (Stranger Safety) .
• We yu de kuk, tɔn di handel fɔ pɔt ɛn pan so dat dɛn nɔ go si dɛn bifo di stov , so dat di smɔl wan nɔ go tɔch dɛn.
• Tich yu pikin in nem, adrɛs, ɛn fon nɔmba . I fayn bak fɔ tich dɛn aw fɔ kɔl 119 (polis) ɔ 1990 (ambulans) we ɛnitin apin.

Us tin dɛn pikin fɔ no bifo i go na priskul?

Fɔ bigin priskul na ɔda big tin na yu smɔl pikin in layf. Dis kin bi miks bag fɔ filin fɔ yu ɛn yu smɔl pikin. Bɔt fɔ mek shɔ se yu pikin rɛdi, dat kin ɛp fɔ mek i izi fɔ chenj. Na sɔm tin dɛn we yu fɔ ɔndastand bifo yu pikin bigin fɔ go bifo skul:

• Fɔ sheb wit ɔda pipul dɛn .
• Fɔ ebul fɔ tɔk bɔt wetin dɛn nid ɛn wetin dɛn want .
• Di ebul fɔ lisin ɛn pe atɛnshɔn we nɔ gɛt ɛnitin fɔ ambɔg am.
• Di ebul fɔ no sɔm lɛta ɛn nɔmba dɛn .
• Yuz gud abit lɛk "duya" ɛn "tɛnki".

Yu pikin go lan bɔku tin na klasrum, ɛn nɔto ɔl dɛn skil ya nid fɔ pafɛkt bifo di fɔs de. Di impɔtant we we yu go pripia yu pikin na fɔ tich am aw fɔ kɔntrol aw i de fil na di klasrum . Dis min se dɛn nid fɔ ebul fɔ se "A go kam bak rayt" we yu lɛf dɛn, ɛn fɔ tɔk to di ticha if dɛn nid ɛp.

Us tɔys dɛn kin ɛp fɔ mek pikin dɛn gɛt sɛns?

Wan ɔda impɔtant tin we wi kin luk pan as yu pikin de gro na fɔ divɛlɔp in maynd . divεlכpmεnt fכ kכgnitiv na di we aw yu pikin de yuz in bren fכ lan bכt di wכl we de arawnd am. Bitwin di ej fɔ 1 ɛn 3, yu smɔl pikin kin gɛt sɔm nyu tin dɛn fɔ no, lɛk fɔ tink fɔ insɛf, fɔ ɔndastand kɔmand, fɔ tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛn, ɛn fɔ yuz wetin dɛn de imajin. Na sɔm gem ɛn tin dɛn we yu kin du we go ɛp yu pikin fɔ no mɔ:

• Yuz imajineshɔn tru stori ɛn ple.
• Ple wit dɔl, stuf animal, ɛn tɔys .
• Ple wit pazl we gɛt tri ɔ 4 pat.
• Fɔ drɔ wit pensil dɛn we gɛt kɔlɔ .
• Fɔ bil tawa frɔm blɔk dɛn .
• Yuz tɔys dɛn we gɛt pat dɛn we de muv lɛk bɔtin ɛn lev.
• Fɔ ple ayd ɛn luk fɔ .
• Fɔ sɔt guds bay saiz ɛn kɔlɔ .
• Fɔ siŋ siŋ ɛn raym dɛn .

Us wɛlbɔdi biznɛs wi fɔ tink bɔt we i kam pan aw pikin dɛn de gro?

Dɛn se lɛk 17% pan di pikin dɛn na Amɛrika kin gɛt divɛlɔpmɛnt we kin delay ɔ dɛn kin gɛt disabled. Yu kin si di sem kayn tin dɛn na Sri Lanka bak. So, i impɔtant fɔ mek wi no bɔt dis.

• Autism Spectrum Disorder: Ɔtizm na wan nyurodivɛlɔpmɛnt disɔda.. Dis kin afɛkt aw pipul dɛn kin tɔk to dɛnsɛf, aw dɛn kin biev wit ɔda pipul dɛn, ɛn aw dɛn kin biev. Di kwaliti dɛm fɔ ɔtizm pan pikin dɛm na: prɔblɛm wit sɔshal skil dɛm, delay pan langwej divɛlɔpmɛnt ɛn prɔblɛm skil dɛm, prɔblɛm wit fayn motoka skil ɛn kɔdineshɔn, ɛn atɛnshɔn dɛfisit.
• Intɛlektual Disabiliti: Intɛlektual disabiliti de mek pikin nɔ ebul fɔ lan ɛn du di sem pawa lɛk in kɔmpin dɛn. Di sayn dɛm fɔ pikin dɛm we gɛt disabled intɛlektual na: dɛn nɔ kin ebul fɔ tɔk wetin dɛn nid, i nɔ kin izi fɔ mɛmba tin, dɛn kin sɔlv prɔblɛm, ɛn dɛn nɔ kin ɔndastand di lɔ dɛn we de na di soshal layf. yu kin si intelektual disabiliti wit kכndyushכn lεk Down syndrome, fetal alcohol syndrome, εn Fragile X syndrome .
• Divεlכpmεnt Delay: Divεlכpmεnt delay na we yu pikin tek lכng tεm fכ rich wan patikyula divεlכpmεnt maylston. Dɛn kin yuz dɛn maylston ya fɔ no aw yu pikin de ple, lan, tɔk, muv, ɛn biev. εgzampl dεm na di εksprεsiv tכk dεlay, rεsεptiv tכk dεlay, fayn mכtal כ sεns prכsεsin dεlay, כ gros mכtal dεlay .

We dɛn no se di divɛlɔpmɛnt delay, tritmɛnt kwik na di bɛst we fɔ mek yu pikin go bak na di rayt rod. If dɛn nɔ no di delay kwik kwik wan, yu pikin kin gɛt prɔblɛm fɔ lan we i bigin skul. If yu tink se yu pikin nɔ de gro fayn, mek shɔ se yu go to dɔktɔ .

Ustɛm a fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

Yu sabi yu pikin pas ɔlman. If yu tink se sɔntin nɔ fayn wit di we aw i de biev ɔ di we aw i de lan, tɔk to dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm .

Dis na sayn dεm we de sho se yu sכm pikin kin gεt divεlכpmεnt delay:

• I de lɔs di tin dɛn we i bin dɔn ebul fɔ du trade . Fɔ ɛgzampul, i bin de tɔk sɔm wɔd dɛn, bɔt naw i nɔ de ivin tɔk dɛn.
• Nɔ yuz tu wɔd sɛntɛns (lɛk `drink milk`) ivin afta 2 ia.
• Nɔ ɔndastand aw fɔ yuz kɔmɔn tin dɛn lɛk spun ɛn fɔk.
• Nɔ fala simpul instrɔkshɔn lɛk "nɔ" ɔ "stɔp."
• Nɔ stedi we yu de waka .
• I nɔ kin izi fɔ tɔk to ɔda big pipul ɔ pikin dɛn ɔ nɔ kin tɔch dɛn yay fayn .

If yu tink se yu pikin gɛt dilɛy fɔ divɛlɔp , i impɔtant fɔ du sɔntin kwik kwik wan . Dis kin mek yu dɔktɔ ebul fɔ chɛk yu pikin ɛn trit ɛni prɔblɛm we i gɛt we i de gro.

Kwɛstyɔn dɛn we yu fɔ aks di dɔktɔ

We yu go to dɔktɔ, yu kin aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk dɛn wan ya:

• Mi smɔl pikin de divɛlɔp di rayt we fɔ in ej?
• Wetin a fɔ du if mi smɔl pikin mis sɔm divɛlɔpmɛnt maylston dɛn?

Mɛsej we dɛn kin kɛr go na os

Yu smɔl pikin de gro so fast, ɛn dɛn de kɔnɛkt mɔ ɛn mɔ wit di wɔl we de rawnd dɛn. Kip yu yay pan di divɛlɔpmɛnt maylston dɛm bitwin di ej dɛm fɔ 1 ɛn 3. If yu tink se yu smɔl pikin de let fɔ rich in divɛlɔpmɛnt maylston dɛm, nɔ fred fɔ tɔk to yu dɔktɔ . Ɔl pikin difrɛn, bɔt if yu gi dɛn di sɔpɔt we dɛn nid di rayt tɛm, dat go mek dɛn gɛt bɔku bɛnifit fɔ dɛn tumara bambay. Di lɔv, atɛnshɔn, ɛn ɛnkɔrejmɛnt we yu gɛt na di tin dɛn we dɛn kin gɛt we valyu pas ɔl!

` Divεlכpmεnt fכ di pikin dεm we de tכd, divεlכpmεnt maylston dεm, pikin sef, 15-18 mכnt ol, 2 ia ol, 3 ia ol, priskul rεdi