Omuntu akuli ku lusegere ennyo, mpozzi omwami wo, mukyala wo, omwana wo, maama wo, oba taata wo, bw’afa mu bwangu mu kiseera ekitayinza kulowoozebwako... Obulumi bw’owulira tebuyinza kwogerwako, si bwe kiri? Kiwulira ng’ensi yonna ekuguddeko. Oddamu otya okutandika obulamu bwo oluvannyuma lw’okukubwa ensisi n’ennaku etagumiikiriza? Osituka otya n’oteeka ebirowoozo byo mu mbeera ennungi eri abalala? Leero tugenda kwogera ku bintu ebitonotono ebiyinza okukuyamba okufuna amaanyi ago.
Emboozi za bamaama abaafuula ennaku amaanyi
Wadde ng’emboozi zino ziva mu bamaama abali ebweru w’eggwanga, ennaku temanyi nsi, ggwanga, wadde eddiini. Enneewulira eyo ya bulijjo eri buli muntu. Era bwe kityo n’amaanyi omuntu g’alina okuvvuunuka ennaku. Laba engeri bamaama bano, oluvannyuma lw’okufiirwa babbaabwe mu bulumbaganyi obw’amangu obw’abatujju, gye baagumira ennaku eyo ne bayimirirawo ku lw’abaana baabwe n’eri abantu.
Emboozi ya Laura: Okuyimirirawo ku lw'Omwana
Laura yalina omwana ow’emyaka 4 ng’alina obwetaavu obw’enjawulo, a.k.a. autistic, ayitibwa Willie. Laura ne bba baalabirira wamu Willie. Naye oluvannyuma lwa bba okufa mu bwangu, obuvunaanyizibwa bwa Willie obujjuvu bwagwa ku bibegabega bya Laura.
Omwana oyo yanyiiga nnyo olw’okufiirwa kitaawe. Yeerabira ebintu bye yali ayize ne kitaawe okugeza engeri y’okugenda mu kaabuyonjo yekka. Yali asuubira nti kitaawe ajja kudda. Okuva bwe kiri nti yali tasobola kwogera, yali asobola okugenda mu maaso n'okwogera "ennaku" mu lulimi lwa bakiggala lwokka.
Mu kiseera kino, ekintu ekisinga obukulu Laura kye yalina okukola kwe kuyingiza mutabani we mu ssomero eddungi. Yakikola wadde nga kyali kizibu nnyo. Mpola mpola, mutabani we yatereera. Kati ajjukira kitaawe n’essanyu. Laura kati akola okuzimba essomero ery’enjawulo eri mutabani we n’abaana abalala abalina autism. Kyabadde kirooto kya ye ne bba.
Bw’oteeka ennaku yo ku bbali n’okola ekintu ku lw’omuntu eyeesigama ku ggwe, ekyo ku bwakyo kifuuka ensibuko y’amaanyi mangi okubeera omulamu.
Emboozi ya Patricia: Okuyamba Abalala Okubonaabona
Patricia yali afiiriddwa omu ku bawala be olw’obulwadde bw’ekifuba mu nnyindo ng’ebula emyaka mukaaga ekintu kino kibeerewo. Awo ne mutabani we n’afiira mu kikangabwa kye kimu. Olw’okuba yali tasobola kugumira bulumi obwo, yagenda ew’omusawo w’eby’omutwe , oba omusawo w’eby’omutwe. Omusawo yamuwa eddagala eriweweeza ku kweraliikirira n’okumukkakkanya.
Teyakoma awo. Yasalawo ayagala kuyamba balala abaali babonaabona nga ye. Yatandikawo ekibiina ekiyamba mu kitundu kye eri amaka amalala agaali gafiiriddwa abaagalwa baabwe. Kati, nga bayita mu kyo, abantu bangi bafunye omukisa okugabana ennaku yaabwe n’okufuna emirembe mu mutima.
"Singa mutabani wange yali wano, yandibadde annyumiriza nnyo," Patricia bw'agamba. Amaliridde okukola ekintu ekirungi okuva mu kufa kw'abaana be .
Engeri ki ezimu eziyinza okuyamba okugumira ennaku?
Okusinziira ku mboozi zino, tusobola okukiraba nti bamaama bano baagumira ennaku yaabwe mu ngeri ez’enjawulo. Naye bonna baafuna ekigendererwa ekimu. Kino ka tufunze mu kipande.
| Engeri y’okwolekaganamu n’okusoomoozebwa | Ennyonyola n’ekyokulabirako |
|---|---|
| Okuzuula ekigendererwa ekipya | Laura okwewaayo eri mutabani we ow’obwetaavu obw’enjawulo n’okufuba kwe okutandikawo essomero eri abaana abalala nga ye. |
| Okuyamba abalala | Patricia yatandikawo ekibiina ekiyamba abo abaali mu nnaku nga ye, ng’awulira nti si ye yekka era ng’afuna okubudaabudibwa mu kuweereza abalala. |
| Okulwanirira enkyukakyuka | Bamaama abalala babiri (Sally ne Domenica) baakola ekibiina okulwanirira enkyukakyuka mu mateeka agafuga obukuumi bw’ebizimbe okulaba ng’abalala tebafuna nkomerero y’emu ng’abaana baabwe. |
| Okusigala nga banywevu ku lw’amaka | Diana, ng’agezaako okubeera ow’amaanyi mu maaso g’abaana be. Bwe baali beetaaga okukaaba, yakaaba yekka okubeera omugongo ogw’amaanyi (omugongo ogw’amaanyi) gye bali. |
| Okufuna obuyambi okuva mu balala | Diana agamba nti obuwagizi bw’abakyala abalala mu kitundu bwamuwa amaanyi mangi. Si kirungi kubeera wekka mu nnaku, era teweetaaga kubeera wekka. |
Owulira ennaku esingawo ku nnaku ez’enjawulo?
Bw’ofiiriddwa omuntu wo, kiyinza okukuluma naddala ku mikolo egy’enjawulo ng’amazaalibwa, omwaka omuggya, n’olunaku lwa bamaama. Kya bulijjo nnyo. Bino bye bimu ku bintu ebiyinza okukuyamba mu biseera ng’ebyo.
- Kkiriza enneewulira zo: Bw’oba owulira ennaku era ng’oyagala okukaaba, kibeere bwe kityo. Tossa mu ccupa mu nneewulira zo ng'olowooza nti, "Nneetaaga okuba ow'amaanyi." Ennaku nkola etwala obudde. Si kintu ky'osobola okugamba nti, "Okay, ekyo kimala."
- Mubeere wamu n’ab’omu maka: Mu kifo ky’okubeera wekka, kwatagana n’ab’omu maka abalala. Bwoba oli maama alina abaana, omugugu gw'okugezaako okuzannya " happy mom" gukendeera katono ng'oli n'abantu abalala.
- Weekolere: Kola ekintu ekikunyumira. Naaba bulungi, soma ekitabo, genda mu kifo w’owummulira, ofune masaagi. Kikulu ggwe okwepampagira.
- Jjukira omuntu gwe wafiirwa n’omukwano: fumba emmere gye yayagadde era omuwe esadaaka, oddeyo mu kifo gye wagenda nabo, otunule mu bifaananyi bye, era ogabana n’abalala ebirungi by’abajjukira.
- Noonya omusawo amagezi: Oluusi ennaku eno eyinza okukuzitoowerera. Bw’oba tosobola kwebaka, towulira nga toyagala kulya, oba nga tosobola na kukola mirimu gyo egya bulijjo, mazima ddala laba omusawo wo akuwe amagezi. Bwe kiba kyetaagisa, ajja kukusindika ew’omukugu mu by’obulamu bw’obwongo . Okusaba obuyambi si kabonero ka bunafu, kabonero ka maanyi.
Okufiirwa olw’okukankana okw’amangu kuyinza okuba okuzibu okugumira okusinga ennaku eya bulijjo, n’olwekyo kikulu okufuna obuyambi mu biseera ng’ebyo.
Obubaka Obutwala Awaka
- Kya bulijjo okuwulira ennaku ng’ofiiriddwa omuntu wo. Si kibi okuwulira ennaku oba okukaaba. Kiriza okuwulira enneewulira ezo.
- Ekiseera ekitwala okudda engulu okuva mu nnaku kya njawulo eri buli muntu. Tonyigiriza kulowooza nti, "Nnina okuvvuunuka kino mu bwangu."
- Tobonaabona wekka. Gabana ennaku yo n'ab'omu maka go n'emikwano gyo. Kiba kiwummulo kinene nnyo.
- Okufuna ekigendererwa ekipya, gamba ng’okuyamba abalala oba okulabirira abo abakwesigamyeko, gamba ng’abaana, kiyinza okukuwa amaanyi amangi mu bulamu.
- Bw’oba ofuna obulumi obutagumiikiriza oba ng’olina obuzibu mu birowoozo, tolwawo kulaba musawo wo n’okufuna amagezi g’omusawo. Kabonero ka maanyi.
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