Hnute cancer hmasawn tak i do mek em? (Advanced Breast Cancer) - I chhungte hrilh dan tur chu hetiang hi a ni

I doctor-in hnute cancer i nei tih a hrilh che a, a hmasawn deuh deuh, Stage III emaw IV emaw a nih chuan lu-a vuak ang maiin a awm ngei ang. Chutih lai chuan i khawvel pum pui a tlakbuak ang maia inhriat chu thil pangngai tak a ni. Mahse a harsa ber, a buaithlak ber chu i chhungte, i hnaih berte - i pasal, i fate, i nu, i pa hnena i hrilh dan tur ngaihtuah hi a ni mai thei. Hei hi thu hriatna pek mai ni lovin a tam zawk. Nangmah ngeiin hlauhna, lungngaihna leh thinrimna te, chubakah i chhungte rilru put hmang te chu i hmachhawn a ngai a ni. Mahse, nangmah chauh i ni lo. Khawvelah hian hmeichhe engzat nge hetiang thil tawn hi tawng tawh? He inbiakna harsa tak hi i chhungkuaa mi zawng zawng tan chakna pe thei tura siam dan tur i sawi dawn nia.

Engtin nge he thuthang hi i break home?

A tlangpuiin, mi tam zawk chuan an kawppui, chu chu an pasal emaw, an nupui emaw hnenah hetiang thuthang hi an hrilh hmasa thin. A tha ber chu doctor-in he diagnosis a pek che hian i bulah an awm reng a ni. Mahse chutiang chu a thleng ngai lo. A châng chuan mahni chauha i awm laiin chanchin i hre mai thei.

I pasal nu chu cancer vangin a thi tawh ang tih han ngaihtuah teh. Chutiang mi hrilh chu vawi engzat nge i ngaihtuah nawn leh ang? Mahse hetiang hun lai hian thil tha ber chu dik tak leh rang thei ang bera thudik sawi hi a ni .

"An lungngaihna hi thil pangngai a ni. Chu chu chhuah tir i phal a ngai a ni," tiin doctor leh counselor-te chuan an sawi. An tap leh lungawi lohna hmuh chu i tân tuar harsa mai thei. Mahse, chutiang rilru put hmang chu bottling up ai chuan a tha zawk.

I nu leh pa emaw, i unaute emaw hnenah direct-in i hrilh thei ang. A nih loh leh, chu chu i tan a harsa lutuk a nih chuan, i kawppui emaw, i ṭhian rintlak tak emaw hnenah chanchin hrilh turin i ngen thei bawk. Chhungkaw hla tak tak emaw, thian dang emaw hrilh hreh suh. Huaisenna i neih hunah tlem tlemin hrilh rawh. Mi zawng zawng hnêna thu inang sawi nawn leh chu rilru hahna a ni thei.

Hemi chungchang hi engtin nge naupangte hnenah i hrilh thin?

Hei hi a harsa ber pawh a ni mai thei. I fate chu an la naupang a nih chuan engtin nge hei hi i hriatthiam tir? Engtin nge hlauthawng lovin thudik i hrilh theih ang?

I fate chu kum 3 leh kum 6 mi niin han ngaihtuah teh. Hetiang kum naupang takah pawh hian thudik sawi hi a tha ber. Mahse an kum a zirin hriatthiam theih a ni.

"Direct takin, 'Nuin cancer a nei. ' Cancer a ni tih sawi rawh."'' tih thumal hi hlau suh. Chu thu chu i thup a nih chuan midang hnen atanga an hriat chuan an rilruah zawhna lian tak an nei mai thei, "Mommy, engvangin nge thudik min hrilh loh?" Chu chuan an hlau lehzual ang.

Hetiang hian awlsam takin i sawifiah thei ang: "Nu hian a taksa chhungah lung chhe tak a nei a. Chuvang chuan a na deuh hlek a ni. Doctor chuan a lung chu a hmin theih nan leh a paih chhuah nan damdawi a pe a. Chu damdawi chuan a sam a ti tla thei a, a chang chuan a chau hle bawk. Puitlingte tap i hmuh chuan chu chu hlau suh, thil pangngai a ni.

Naupangte nena in inbiak dan hi an kum azirin a inang lo tur a ni.

Engtin nge i dinhmun dik tak chu an hriatthiam tir?

Cancer hi mi zawng zawng tan a inang lo. He thu hi i chhungte hnena hrilhfiah hi i mawhphurhna a ni. Hnute cancer vei zawng zawng hian operation emaw chemotherapy emaw an nei vek dawn lo.

Hmangaihte hnena sawifiah a harsa thei hle a, a bik takin Stage IV chungchang hi a harsa thei hle."Tihdam kim theih a ni lo a, mahse thunun theih a ni a, enkawlna chi khat hnuaiah i awm chhunzawm zel a ngai a ni" tih thudik tak hi an tan chuan pawm a harsa mai thei.

Chhungkaw member thenkhat chuan i thi thuai ang tih an hlau mai thei. Stage IV cancer vei kum sawm emaw a aia rei emaw dam tawh hmeichhia an awm tih an hriat chuan an thlamuang ang. Stage III-ah chuan chu hun chu a rei zawk thei bawk.

A tha ber chu i doctor thusawi chungchangah rinawm taka sawi hi a ni. Naupang têin, "Mommy hi a thi dawn em?" i sawi thei ang, "Tun dinhmunah chuan chutiang chu kan ngaihtuah lo, ka fapa. Doctor-te chuan Mommy hi an enkawl tha hle. Chutiang chu a thleng dawn niin a lang a nih chuan kan sawi leh ang," i ti thei ang.

Chhungte hnen atangin engtin nge tanpuina kan dil ang?

Cancer hian i chhungkaw nun a tidanglam ngei ang, chuvangin i duh leh mamawh chu i hnaih berte hnenah chiang taka hriat a pawimawh.

I mamawh chu hun kal zelah a danglam zel ang. Stage thum i nih chuan enkawlna kawngah harsatna i tawk mai thei , chutah chuan thla engemaw zat hnuah i nun pangngaiah i kir leh thei ang. Stage palinaah chuan tanpuina tam zawk i mamawh mai thei. Mi ropui taka i inhriat lai a awm ang a, a dangah pawh harsatna i neih hun a awm bawk ang. Heng zawng zawng hi chhungte nen sawiho a, mi zawng zawng tana tha ber tur chu i rel a pawimawh hle.

Ṭanpuina pawm thiam pawh i zir a ngai bawk. Independent taka hna i thawh tawh chuan midangte hnen atanga tanpuina dil nghal a, an tanpuina che pawm chu a harsa mai thei. Mahse tun dinhmunah chuan a zahthlak lo, thil tul tak a ni.

I duhzawng sawi chhuah hlau suh.

Tunah chuan hnute cancer enkawlna kawngah hma a sawn hle tawh a. Mahse, hmeichhe \henkhat chuan mi tam takin sawi an hlauh em em thupui sawi chu thlamuanawm an ti hle. Chu chu, "Ka inenkawlna hian hna a thawk lo a nih chuan engtin nge ni ang?" emaw, "Tunah hian damdawi ka nei tawh nia ka inhriat chuan engtin nge ni ang?"

I doctor chuan i stage 3 cancer hi tihdam theih a ni a ti mai thei. Mahse, chutiang a nih loh chuan eng nge thleng dawn tih i chhungte nena inbiakna neih chu a thlamuanthlak mai thei. A nih loh leh kum tam tak chhung chu stage 4-ah i awm tawh a, enkawlna theih zawng zawng i lo enchhin tawh a, tunah chuan i ni hnuhnung berte chu hahdam taka i hman theih nan hospice care i ngaihtuah mek a ni mai thei.

Heng inbiakna harsa tak tak neih hian hlawkna thup a nei a ni. I sawi chhuah chuan i hlauhthawnna chu a reh thin. I chhungte hnena i duhzawng i hrilh a, i ziah chhuah tir chuan, "Awle, tunah chuan ruahmanna ka nei ta. Tunah chuan ka dah bo thei tawh ang a, nun dan tur ka ngaihtuah mai thei tawh ang," tiin i ngaihtuah ang.