Ndinalandira thupi lomwe linasintha pambuyo pa khansa. Koma bwanji za kukalamba? (Kuvomereza Kwambiri)

Nthawi zina timatha kuthana ndi mavuto akuluakulu m'miyoyo yathu. Koma modabwitsa, sitingathe kuthana ndi zinthu zazing'ono kwambiri, zomwe ndi zachizolowezi, ndipo timamva chisoni komanso nkhawa. Lero tikulankhula za chimodzi mwa zinthu zoterezi. Tangoganizirani, kodi munthu amene walimbana ndi khansa ya m'mawere ndipo wapambana angamve bwanji ngati sangathe kuthana ndi zizindikiro za ukalamba m'thupi lake? Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe anthu ambiri amamva, koma salankhula zambiri.

Nkhondo ya mkazi ndi khansa

Kuti timvetse nkhaniyi, tiyeni titenge chitsanzo cha mayi wina amene analimbana ndi khansa ya m'mawere. Thupi lake linadutsa ulendo waukulu kwambiri. Sizinali zophweka.

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• Mankhwalawa anayenera kumwedwa kwa chaka chonse kuti khansa isabwererenso.

Tangoganizirani momwe thupi lake linasinthira atapirira zonsezi. Opaleshoni ya bere lake lamanja inasiya kachibowo kakang'ono. Anali ndi kumva kuwawa pamwamba pa mkono wake wamanja. Panali chilonda chozungulira pomwe mabere ake anachotsedwa. Komanso, bere lake lamanzere nthawi zonse linali lalikulu kuposa lamanja. Osati pang'ono chabe, koma lodziwika bwino.

Patapita nthawi, anafika pamalo pomwe akanatha kuvomereza zonse. Anaganiza motere: "Ndikuona thupi lomwe lapambana nkhondo. Ndikuona thupi lomwe lagonjetsa khansa. Ndikuona mkazi wamwayi kwambiri amene amakonda moyo wake komanso thupi lomwe limakhala nawo."

Panthawiyo, zinali zoona. Koma patatha zaka khumi, amaona mosiyana pang'ono. Wazindikira kuti kukumbatira thupi lako lonse kapena chilichonse m'moyo wako si chinthu chomwe chimachitika kamodzi kokha. Ndi chinthu chomwe chimachitika nthawi zonse.

Kodi 'Kuvomereza Kwambiri' kumeneku n'chiyani?

Mwachidule, Kuvomereza Kwambiri ndi kuvomereza kwathunthu komanso kopanda malire kuti chinachake chikuchitikadi kwa ife. Simuyenera kukonda, simuyenera kusangalala nazo, koma muyenera kuzivomereza ndikunena kuti, 'Chabwino, ichi ndi chenicheni cha momwe zinthu zilili pakadali pano.' Ndi za kusiya kulimbana ndi zenizeni, kumvetsetsa momwe zinthu zilili, ndikupita patsogolo.

Tangoganizani mukuyenda mumsewu ndipo mvula yamphamvu ikugwa. Mwanyowa.

• Kusavomereza :"O, bwanji mvula ikugwa tsopano? Izi sizingachitike!" Akudzudzula mvulayo ndipo ikunyowa.
• Kuvomereza Kwambiri: Kuvomereza mkhalidwewo ndikuchitapo kanthu, kunena kuti, "Chabwino, mvula ikugwa, ndikunyowa. Ichi ndi chowonadi. Ndikufunika kubisala kwinakwake mwachangu."

Kodi mukumvetsa kusiyana kwake? Kuvomereza Kwambiri sikutanthauza kusiya kapena kunena kuti, "Izi sizili kanthu." Koma ndi kuganiza kuti, "Mkhalidwe ndi uwu, nditani nawo tsopano?"

Kodi munalandira zizindikiro za khansa, koma zizindikiro za ukalamba?

Patapita nthawi, mayi amene ali m'nkhani yathu anadzipeza akukhala masiku ndi milungu osadziwa kuti ali ndi khansa. Imeneyi inangokhala mbali ina ya umunthu wake, monga tsitsi lake lofiirira ndi maso ake ofiirira.

Koma ... panali china chake chomwe sanathe kuchivomereza mokwanira. Chimenecho chinali kukalamba.

Kudzuka pabedi m'mawa, kutsika masitepe, "Aa ...

Zoonadi, ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi moyo wautali wokwanira kuti aone zizindikiro za ukalamba. Akudziwa zimenezo. Koma sanganene kuti wavomereza kwathunthu.

• Amapakabe utoto wa tsitsi lake akamalikulitsa.
• Ndikufuna kirimu yomwe ingathandize kuthetsa makwinya a pakhosi.
• Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi sikuti kungokhala ndi thanzi labwino komanso mphamvu zokha, komanso kumawoneka bwino mu jinzi ndi top yofewa.

Iye sakuda nkhawa ndi zinthu zimenezi monga momwe ankachitira ali ndi zaka 20. Ali ndi maganizo ambiri pa moyo wake tsopano. Koma ngati akuyesetsabe kusintha thupi lake, kodi wadzipereka kwathunthu? Mwina ayi.

Izi zikutiphunzitsa phunziro labwino. Ngakhale titavomereza chinthu chachikulu ngati khansa, kukakamizidwa ndi anthu kungapangitse kuti zikhale zovuta kuvomereza chinthu chachilengedwe monga ukalamba.

Zilonda si chizindikiro cha kufooka, koma chizindikiro cha mphamvu.

Pomaliza, nayi uthenga wofunika kwambiri wa nkhaniyi. Pakapita nthawi, zomwe zachitika chifukwa cha khansa zimakhala kutali kwambiri. Nthawi zina zimamveka ngati zachitikira wina.

Koma zipsera zomwe zili m'thupi mwanu nthawi zonse zimakukumbutsani kuti, "Ayi, zinakuchitikiranidi. Munapirira. Munapirira."

Zilonda zimenezo zimakukumbutsani momwe munaliri osatetezeka komanso momwe mulili olimba nthawi imodzi. Kumva kumeneko n'kofunika kwambiri kuposa kungolandira chinthu. Umenewo ndiye kupambana kwenikweni.