Kodi inunso mumalankhula mofulumira kuposa momwe mukuganizira? Mwina izi ndi zinthu zambirimbiri!

Kodi nthawi zina mumapeza kuti mawu anu akuchokera mwachangu kuposa momwe mukuganizira? Kapena mumaona kuti n'kovuta kuti anthu amvetse zomwe mukunena? Mwina anzanu ndi achibale anu nthawi zambiri amanena zinthu monga, "Lankhulani pang'onopang'ono" kapena "Nenaninso zimenezo." Ngati izi ndi zachilendo kwa inu, ndiye kuti nkhaniyi yomwe tikambirane lero idzakhala yofunika kwambiri kwa inu. Tiyeni tiwone chomwe chingayambitse izi.

Kodi kusokonezeka kumeneku n’chiyani? Tiyeni timvetse mosavuta.

Kusokonezeka maganizo ndi mtundu wa vuto la kulankhula lomwe limakhudza kulankhula bwino . Malinga ndi zamankhwala, ndi vuto la kulankhula bwino. Limafanana ndi kusokonezeka maganizo, koma mosiyana pang'ono. Munthu amene ali ndi vuto la kulankhula movutikira nthawi zambiri amalankhula mwachangu kwambiri . Zikuoneka ngati mawu amasakanikirana pamodzi ndikuyenda mozungulira. Polankhula mofulumira chonchi, zigawo zina za mawu, ndiko kuti, masilabulo, nthawi zina zimasiyidwa, kapena mawu awiri kapena atatu angatuluke ngati kuti agwirizana.

Tangoganizani kuti mukupereka nkhani kenako mwadzidzidzi muyime pakati pake pamalo osafunikira. Izi zingawoneke zosokoneza kwambiri kwa omvera. Akumva ngati nkhani yanu yasweka "zidutswa" ndipo yangotuluka mwadzidzidzi.

Vuto lina ndi ili ndi lakuti ngakhale wokamba nkhani akumva ngati zomwe akunena zikumveka bwino, omvera sangamvetse . Sangamvetse zomwe mukunena. Chifukwa chake nthawi zonse mutha kupempha zinthu monga "Nenaninso" ndi "Dikirani kaye." Izi zitha kukhala zokhumudwitsa kwambiri, eti?

Kodi vutoli limatchedwa kuphwanya zinthu zambiri bwanji?

Akatswiri azachipatala akuti ana azaka zoyambira sukulu pakati pa 1.1% ndi 1.2% akhoza kukhala ndi vutoli. Komanso, pafupifupi gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a omwe ali ndi chibwibwi nawonso amakumana ndi vuto la kusakhazikika kwa zinthu.

Matendawa amapezeka kwambiri mwa anyamata kuposa atsikana . Madokotala nthawi zambiri amawazindikira ali ndi zaka 8, chifukwa nthawi yomweyo mwana amalankhula movutikira moti amaonetsa zizindikiro za kusalankhula bwino.

Kodi zizindikiro za kudzaza zinthu ndi ziti? Tiyeni tipeze yankho lenileni.

Chizindikiro chachikulu cha phokoso lalikulu ndikulankhula mwachangu kwambiri komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osafunikira monga "um..." "ah..." nthawi zonse. Ndipotu, tonsefe timagwiritsa ntchito mawu amodzi kapena awiri otere tikamalankhula. Ndizachilendo. Koma kwa munthu amene ali ndi phokoso lalikulu, izi zimachitika nthawi zonse. Zimenezi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwa ena kumvetsetsa zomwe akunena.

Nazi zizindikiro zina zodziwika bwino za kutsekeka kwa minofu:

• Kulankhula mwachangu kwambiri: Chizindikiro chachikulu ndikulankhula mofulumira kwambiri moti ena sangamvetse zomwe mukunena. Kamvekedwe ka mawu anu kangawoneke ngati kosazolowereka, "kuima ndi kuyima" kwa omwe akumvetsera.
• Kumeza kapena kumamatira pamodzi mawu ndi ziganizo:Kusiya zigawo za zilembo kuchokera m'mawu aatali (monga "Kamikation" m'malo mwa "Communication") kapena kulumikiza mawu angapo pamodzi ndikudula zigawo (monga "Mayannona" m'malo mwa "Ndikufuna kupita").
• Kuyima pamalo osayembekezereka pakati pa chiganizo: Mutha kusiya kulankhula pamalo osayembekezereka mu chiganizocho. Mwachitsanzo, "Ndikufuna kupita kukaonera kanema [ima kaye]."
• Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti 'wodzaza' pafupipafupi: Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu monga "um," "ah," "mukudziwa," ndi zina zotero kumasokoneza kayendedwe kabwino ka zokambirana.
• "Maze patterns" mukulankhula: Mukadumpha kuchokera ku mutu wina kupita ku wina pamene mukulankhula, zimakhala zovuta kuti omvera amvetse zomwe mukunena mwadongosolo. Mwachitsanzo, "Ndikufuna kumaliza izi - sindikufuna kufunsa mafunso. Lipoti langa linachedwa nthawi yatha. Ngati sindipereka nthawi yake, ndidzakhala ndi vuto." Mutha kunena chinthu chomwecho mobwerezabwereza.
• Kusintha zomwe zikunenedwa pakati: Mwachitsanzo, "Ndikufuna... Kodi ndingathe... kukhala nanu masana?"

Kuwonjezera pa izi, pakhoza kukhala zizindikiro zina:

• Kulemba mwaluso kopanda kulemba ndi kulemba.
• Kuvuta kuyika maganizo pa chinthu.
• Kusuntha miyendo ndi miyendo mopitirira muyeso kapena kuchita zizindikiro polankhula.
• Kukhala ndi mavuto ophunzirira omwe sakhudzana ndi nzeru.
• Osayang'anana wina ndi mnzake akamalankhula.
• Kusokoneza ena pamene akulankhula, kusokoneza, kapena kusayembekezera nthawi yawo yokambirana.

Kodi zifukwa za kusokonekera kwa zinthu ndi ziti?

Ndipotu, akatswiri azachipatala sakudziwabe chomwe chimayambitsa clathrin. Komabe, imapezeka kwambiri mwa anthu omwe ali ndi matenda enaake. Matenda oterewa ndi monga:

• Matenda Okhudza Kumva
• Matenda Osowa Chisamaliro/Osagwira Ntchito Mopitirira Muyeso (ADHD)
• Matenda a Autism Spectrum
• Zovuta Zophunzira
• Matenda a Tourette

Kafukufuku wina akusonyeza kuti kusadziwa zinthu kungachitike m'mabanja, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kungakhale kobadwa nako . Komabe, kafukufuku wowonjezereka akufunika kuti atsimikizire izi.

Kodi mavuto omwe angakhalepo chifukwa cha kudzaza zinthu ndi zinthu zina ndi ati?

Ngati simungathe kulankhulana bwino ndi ena, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti sakumvetsa zomwe mukunena, zingakhudze kwambiri thanzi lanu la maganizo . Ana omwe ali ndi vuto la claustrophobia angamve manyazi, kukayikira nzeru zawo, komanso kudzipatula kwa ana ena. Angaphunzirenso kulankhula pang'ono poopa kuti angamvetsedwe molakwika.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake matenda ndi chithandizo ndizofunikira kwambiri . Kutha kufotokoza molimba mtima komanso momveka bwino kumakhudza pafupifupi mbali iliyonse ya moyo wanu.

Kodi Kuchulukana kwa Zinthu Kumapezedwa Bwanji?

Katswiri wa matenda a chilankhulo amatha kuzindikira vuto la kulankhula mwa kumvetsera mawu anu ndikuonetsetsa kuti palibe vuto lina lililonse la kulankhula.

Mukakumana ndi katswiri wanu wa matenda, adzakufunsani za zizindikiro zanu ndi mbiri yanu ya thanzi. Mwachitsanzo, kudziwa ngati vuto lanu la kulephera kuphunzira likugwirizana ndi vuto lina lofanana nalo, monga ADHD kapena vuto la kuphunzira, ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pa matenda. Adzakufunsani mosamala za zizindikiro za kulephera kuphunzira. Izi zidzafuna kukambirana ndi katswiri wanu wa matenda. Izi zingaphatikizepo:

• Kukambirana mwachizolowezi.
• Kuwerenga chinthu mokweza.
• Kufotokoza nkhani kapena kukumbukira.
• Kulemba mayeso owerenga, kulemba, kapena nzeru.

Ngati mwana wanu akuwonetsa zizindikiro za claustrophobia, gulu lingafunike kuti limuthandize kuzindikira vutoli. Katswiri wothandiza kulankhula angafunikenso kupeza chidziwitso kuchokera kwa aphunzitsi a mwanayo kapena alangizi a kusukulu. Angathandize kudziwa ngati mwanayo ali ndi vuto lina lililonse la chilankhulo, kuphunzira, kapena kulankhulana ndi anthu ena kuwonjezera pa claustrophobia. Kuzindikira bwino mavuto onse ndikofunikira kuti mupeze chithandizo choyenera.

Kodi tingachiritse bwanji kusokonekera kwa zinthu?

Chithandizo cha kulankhula chingakuthandizeni kuchepetsa kusokonezeka kwa mawu anu. Pa nthawi ya chithandizo, katswiri wanu wa kulankhula adzakuthandizani kudziwa momwe mumalankhulira mosasamala. Kenako mutha kuyesa kulankhula momveka bwino. Angakujambulaninso pa vidiyo ndikukupatsani chidziwitso cha zomwe ena amamva ndikuwona mukamalankhula.

Kutengera ndi makhalidwe a kalankhulidwe kanu, katswiri wolankhula angakuphunzitseni zinthu monga:

• Momwe mungalamulire kupuma kwanu: Mukatero mutha kulankhula mozungulira mwachibadwa.
• Momwe mungaimitsire nkhaniyi pa nthawi yoyenera komanso pamalo oyenera: Kenako nkhaniyo idzayenda bwino kwambiri.
• Momwe mungagogomezere masilabulo: Izi zithandiza kupewa kusokonezeka kwa mawu ndi ziganizo.
• Momwe mungakonzere nkhani yanu m'njira yomveka bwino yomwe omvera anu angamvetse.
• Momwe mungalankhulire bwino pogwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro zosagwiritsa ntchito mawu, monga kuyang'anana maso.
• Momwe mungalankhulire zosowa zanu kwa ena (monga, kupempha thandizo popanda kufulumira ngati mukuvutika kumaliza chiganizo).

Uphungu kapena chithandizo chingakhalenso gawo lofunika kwambiri pa chithandizo. Mungafunike thandizo pothana ndi nkhawa yophunzira kulankhula popanda chibwibwi. Ngati mwana wanu akuchita chibwibwi, uphungu wa m'banja ungathandize kulimbitsa luso lake lolankhulana lomwe akuphunzira kudzera mu chithandizo cha kulankhula.

Kodi tiyenera kukhala ndi maganizo otani pa nkhaniyi?

Ngakhale kuti palibe njira yosavuta komanso yofanana yochiritsira kulankhula mokweza, chithandizo cha kulankhula chingathandize inu kapena mwana wanu kuthana ndi vutoli ndikupangitsa kuti kulankhula kumveke bwino . Komabe, njirayi imafuna kuleza mtima kwambiri komanso kudzipereka . Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zina (makamaka panthawi yamavuto) mungamve ngati mukufunanso kulankhula mokweza. Kupitiriza kuchita zomwe mwaphunzira mu chithandizo cha kulankhula kudzakuthandizani kulankhula momveka bwino nthawi zonse.

Kodi zinthu zambirimbiri zingathe kupewedwa?

Simungathe kusiya kulankhula mokweza. Komabe, njira yolankhulirana ingakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vutoli, zomwe zingakupangitseni kukhala wodzidalira komanso wolankhula bwino.

Kodi ndingathe bwanji kuthana ndi zinthu zambirimbiri? Ndingamuthandize bwanji mwana wanga?

Ngati mwana wanu akuvutika ndi zinthu zambiri, pali zinthu zingapo zomwe mungachite kuti muthandize:

• Tsimikizirani maphunziro omwe mwaphunzira kuchokera ku chithandizo cha kulankhula: Nthawi zonse fufuzani zomwe mwana wanu akuphunzira mu chithandizo cha kulankhula. Funsani katswiri wawo wa kulankhula momwe mungathandizire machitidwe amenewo kunyumba.
• Khalani oleza mtima: Popereka uphungu kwa munthu amene ali ndi vuto losakhazikika, tingakhale ofulumira kuwakonza. Koma chinthu chabwino kwambiri ndikuwapatsa nthawi yoti amalize malingaliro awo.
• Gwiritsani ntchito zinthu zomwe zili kusukulu: Mwana wanu akhoza kulandira thandizo lowonjezera ndi thandizo kusukulu lomwe lingamuthandize kupambana.
• Lowani m'magulu othandizira: Funsani katswiri wolankhula wa mwana wanu za njira zolumikizirana ndi makolo ena a ana ofooka. Mutha kuthandizana ndikuganizira bwino zosowa za mwana wanu.

Kodi ndiyenera kupita kwa dokotala liti?

Ngati inu kapena mwana wanu mukukumana ndi zizindikiro za claustrophobia, pitani kwa dokotala kapena katswiri wa kulankhula. Vuto lalikulu ndi kuzindikira zizindikiro izi mwa inu nokha . Ngati ena nthawi zonse akukupemphani kuti "muchepetse liwiro" kapena "mubwereze," mungapindule polankhula ndi katswiri wa kulankhula (SLP).

Kodi Kudzaza Zinthu Ndi Vuto la Mitsempha?

Ngakhale kuti claritin ndi vuto la kulankhula bwino, kafukufuku wina akusonyeza kuti imakhudzidwanso ndi zinthu zokhudzana ndi ubongo . Mwachitsanzo, kafukufuku amene anayang'anira ntchito ya ubongo ya anthu omwe ali ndi claritin anapeza kuti zinthu zina sizili bwino mu basal ganglia ndi prefrontal cortex.

Komabe, akatswiri olankhula ndi olankhula akuphunzirabe zinthu zonse zomwe zimakhudza matenda olankhula bwino.

Pomaliza, zomwe muyenera kukumbukira! (Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba)

Kudzaza zinthu kungakulepheretseni inu kapena mwana wanu kuchita zinthu zofunika kwambiri, monga kugawana chidziwitso ndi ena ndikudzipangitsa kuti mumvetsetseke. Kungayambitsenso manyazi komanso kudziona ngati wosafunika. Koma kudzaza zinthu sikukhudzana ndi nzeru za munthu kapena luso lake lolankhula. Anthu ambiri opambana, kuphatikizapo omwe amapeza ndalama kuchokera ku mawu awoawo, ali ndi vuto la kulankhula bwino. Chofunika ndikuphunzira kulithetsa. Apa ndi pomwe kugwira ntchito ndi Katswiri wa Matenda a Chilankhulo Cholankhulidwa kungakuthandizeni kupeza kalembedwe kanu ndi kudzidalira. Chifukwa chake, musachite mantha, musamachite manyazi, ndipo pezani thandizo lomwe mukufuna.

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