Chaka choyamba mwana wanu atabadwa padziko lapansi ndi nthawi yodabwitsa kwambiri. Tsiku ndi tsiku, sabata ndi sabata, mwana wanu amakula mofulumira kwambiri, kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano. Panthawiyi, monga mayi kapena bambo, mumamva chisangalalo chachikulu, koma nthawi zina mungamadandaule ndi zinthu zazing'ono monga "Kodi mwana wanga akukula bwino?" "Kodi mwana wanga adzachita zinthu ngati ana ena?" Ndizachilendo kwambiri. Chofunika kwambiri ndichakuti mwana aliyense ndi wosiyana. Sikuti aliyense amakula mofanana. Komabe, tikambirana za zochitika zomwe ana amakula nazo chaka choyamba chino. Tiyeni tiwone ulendo wokongola uwu wa mwana wanu.
Miyezi 1-3: Momwe dziko laling'ono limakulirakulira
Mwezi woyamba mwana wanu atabadwa, akhoza kukhala ndi mayendedwe ogwedezeka m'manja ndi miyendo yake. Salinso ndi mphamvu zambiri zowongolera khosi. Nthawi zambiri manja ake amamangiriridwa m'zibakera. Nthawi zina maso ake amaoneka ngati akugwa pang'ono, koma zimenezo n'zachibadwa. Nthawi yomweyo, akuyambanso kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano.
Pakatha miyezi itatu, mudzayamba kuona zinthu zatsopano zambiri. Kuyenda kwa mwana wanu kudzayamba kuoneka ngati kopindulitsa kwambiri.
| Zaka | Zinthu zomwe mwana angachite |
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| Ali ndi miyezi itatu |
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Miyezi 4-6: Nthawi yodzaza ndi kuseka ndi kusewera
Mwana wanu salinso wakhanda. Mayendedwe ake, masomphenya ake, ndi luso lake lolankhula zikukula mofulumira. Panthawiyi, mwana wanu akuyamba kukhala ndi anthu ambiri. Amakonda kusewera ndi kuseka nanu.
| Zaka | Zinthu zomwe mwana angachite |
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| Ali ndi miyezi inayi |
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| Ali ndi miyezi 6 |
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Miyezi 7-9: Akamakwawa ndi kufufuza dziko lapansi
Panthawi imeneyi, mayendedwe a mwana amakhala okhazikika. Ana ambiri amatha kukhala okha, kugwiritsa ntchito manja awo kugwira zinthu, ndikuyenda. Ena amayamba kuyenda akafika miyezi 9. Ndipo akafika miyezi 7, mwana amayamba kuona mitundu yonse.
Pa nthawiyi, mwana wanu akhoza kuyamba kumangokhalira kumukakamira akaona anthu omwe sakuwadziwa. Izi ndi zachibadwa pakukula kwake, choncho musadandaule.
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Miyezi 10-12: Sipatenga nthawi yayitali kuti akwanitse kukhala mwana wamkulu!
Pamene mwana wanu akuyandikira tsiku lake loyamba lobadwa, luso lake lofufuza dziko limakula kwambiri. Akuphunzira njira zatsopano zolankhulirana nanu komanso ndi ena. Mayendedwe ake akukwera tsiku ndi tsiku.
Momwe mwana amalumikizirana nanu
Pa nthawi imeneyi, mwana akhoza:
- Bweretsani chidole chosewera nacho kapena buku loti muwerenge.
- Mukayesa kupita kwinakwake, zindikirani ndipo khalani achisoni.
- Pezani chidwi chanu ndi phokoso kapena mayendedwe.
- "Thandizani" pogwiritsa ntchito manja ndi mapazi anu mukuvala.
- Nenani zinthu monga "ayi" (gwedezani mutu ) ndi "bye-bye" (gwedezani dzanja) ndi manja.
- Nenani mawu amodzi kapena awiri osavuta monga "amayi" ndi "abambo".
- Yerekezerani mawu amene mukunena.
- Ombani m'manja, gwedezani manja anu.
- Loza chala chako pa zinthu.
- Imwani kuchokera mu kapu.
- Gwiritsani ntchito chala chanu chachikulu ndi chala chanu cham'manja ponyamula zinthu zazing'ono (izi zimatchedwa pincer grasp ), makamaka mukatenga zidutswa za chakudya ndikuziyika mkamwa mwanu.
Kuyeserera kuyenda
Pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa makanda a msinkhu uwu pankhani yokhala, kukwawa, ndi kuyimirira. Ndizachilendo kuti mwana wa chaka chimodzi asayende , koma ena amayenda. Nthawi zambiri, akafika chaka chimodzi, makanda amakhala akuchita izi:
- Kufika pokhala ndekha.
- Gwirani ndipo imani.
- 'Kuyenda panyanja' - izi zikutanthauza kugwira mipando monga masofa ndi mipando ndikuyenda nazo.
- Kuima ndekha popanda chithandizo chilichonse.
- Pali masitepe ochepa okha.
Si makanda onse omwe ali ofanana. Mwana wanu amaphunzira zinthu izi pa liwiro lake. Choncho musadziyerekezere ndi ana ena. Ulendo wa mwana wanu ndi wapadera kwa iye.
Ngati muli ndi kukayikira kapena nkhawa zokhudza kukula kwa mwana wanu, ndi bwino kulankhula ndi dokotala wanu popanda kumuletsa.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Mwana aliyense ndi wapadera: Mwana wanu amakula pa liwiro lake. Pewani kumuyerekeza ndi ana ena.
- Sangalalani ndi nthawi ino: Chaka choyamba cha mwana chimatha mofulumira kwambiri. Sangalalani ndi zokumbukira zokongola izi komanso kupambana pang'ono.
- Kusewera ndi kuphunzira: Kulankhula ndi mwana wanu, kuimba nyimbo, kusewera masewera. Zonsezi ndi njira yabwino yothandizira ubongo wake kukula.
- Funsani ngati mukukayika: Ngati muli ndi nkhawa kapena nkhawa iliyonse yokhudza kuti mwana wanu sakukwaniritsa kukula kwake, kapena china chilichonse, onetsetsani kuti mwalankhula ndi dokotala wa ana kapena dokotala wa banja za izi.
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