Kukwaniritsa maloto anu okhala mayi kapena bambo nthawi zina sikophweka monga momwe mukuganizira. Pambuyo poyembekezera mwana kwa zaka zambiri, kuvutika kwambiri, ndipo potsiriza kufunafuna thandizo la ukadaulo monga IVF ( In Vitro Fertilization ), zinthu zambiri zimabwera m'maganizo mwa anthu ambiri. Pakati pawo, lingaliro lalikulu lomwe limabwera kwa anthu ambiri ndi lakuti, "Tikadangomaliza ulendowu nthawi imodzi ...". Mwachidule, kumverera kwa momwe zingakhalire zabwino kukhala ndi mapasa pamtengo womwewo komanso ndi khama lomwelo.
N’chifukwa chiyani anthu ambiri amakonda mapasa kwambiri?
Chifukwa chachikulu cha izi ndi mtengo wokwera wa chithandizo cha IVF. Tonse tikudziwa kuti ngakhale ku Sri Lanka, njira imodzi ya IVF imawononga ndalama zambirimbiri. Nthawi zina chithandizo sichimayenda bwino ngakhale nthawi yoyamba. Chifukwa chake, ngati chithandizochi, chomwe chimachitika mutagwiritsa ntchito ndalama zonse m'manja, chingamalize banja nthawi imodzi, ndiko kuti, ngati ana awiri abadwa, ndibwino kuchiwona ngati mwayi waukulu.
"Zinali zodula kwambiri. Tinkadziwa kuti iyi inali nthawi yokhayo komanso yomaliza yomwe tingathe kuchita izi. Ndiye zingakhale bwino bwanji titakhala ndi mapasa? Chifukwa kaya titakhala ndi mwana mmodzi kapena awiri, mtengo wake udzakhala wofanana. Choncho tinaganiza zomaliza banja nthawi yomweyo." - Awa ndi maganizo a mayi wina amene anali ndi ana aakazi awiri a mapasa kudzera mu chithandizo cha IVF.
Kupatula mtengo, palinso zifukwa zina.
- Mpikisano wotsutsana ndi nthawi: Nthawi ndi yamtengo wapatali, makamaka kwa akazi azaka zopitirira 35. Mukaganiza kuti simudzakhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yoyesa kutenga pakati kachiwiri ndikuyambanso chithandizo china, sizodabwitsa kuti mumayesedwa kukhala ndi ana awiri pa mimba imodzi.
- Kupsinjika maganizo: Kupsinjika maganizo, chisoni, ndi kutopa komwe kumabwera chifukwa chokhala wopanda mwana kwa zaka zambiri n'koopsa kwambiri. Choncho zimakhala bwino kuthetsa zonsezi nthawi imodzi.
- Lingaliro lakuti " mapasa ndi okongola kwambiri": Anthu ena amakonda mapasa chifukwa amaganiza kuti ndi "okongola kwambiri". Komanso, anthu ena amaona kuti n'kosavuta kumaliza ntchitoyi ndi mimba imodzi ndi kubereka imodzi.
Koma n’chifukwa chiyani madokotala sakonda izi? - Tiyeni timvetse zoopsa zake
Ngati mulankhula ndi dokotala wanu ndi kunena kuti, "Ndikufuna mapasa," mwina angayese kukuletsani. Chifukwa chake n'chakuti, pankhani ya zamankhwala , mimba ya mapasa ndi vuto lalikulu kwa mayi ndi mwana kuposa kubereka mwana m'modzi .
"Odwala ambiri amangoganiza zokhala ndi pakati mwanjira iliyonse yomwe angathe. Amaganiziranso za chiopsezo cha mapasa. Nthawi zina sazindikira kuipa kwa 'zotsatira zake zoipa'," akutero katswiri wina.
Tiyeni timvetse bwino zoopsa izi kuchokera pa tebulo ili m'munsimu.
| Ndani ali pachiwopsezo? | Kodi chingachitike n’chiyani? |
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| Kwa ana omwe akuyembekezera kubadwa |
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| Zoopsa kwa mayi |
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Zinthu zimenezi zingakhale zoopsa kumva. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti aliyense amene ali ndi mapasa adzakhala ndi mavuto amenewa. Mapasa ambiri amabadwa athanzi komanso abwino. Komabe, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti chiopsezochi n'chokwera kwambiri kuposa mwana m'modzi .
Tiyeni tiphunzire kuchokera ku zomwe takumana nazo.
Amanda, mayi amene anali ndi mapasa kudzera mu IVF, anayenera kubereka msanga ali ndi masabata 20 ndipo anayenera kupuma pabedi kwa masabata 11. Pamapeto pake, mapasa ake anabadwa masabata 8 asanakwane.
Iye akunena motere: "Pitani mukaone momwe zimakhalira kukhala ndi mwana wosakwana nthawi. Sankhani ngati ndi chiopsezo chomwe mungatenge. Chifukwa ndi ululu waukulu. Ana anga ali ndi miyezi 9 tsopano, ndipo akuchita bwino, koma ndimawadera nkhawa nthawi zonse. Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi nkhawa ndi mavuto aliwonse a nthawi yayitali."
IVF ikhoza kukhala yokwera mtengo, koma ngati ana obadwa msanga abadwa, mtengo wowasunga kuchipatala kwa nthawi yayitali - osati ndalama zokha, komanso maganizo - ndi wokwera kwambiri.
Kuzindikira kumasintha malingaliro.
Chabwino kwambiri n’chakuti pamene zoopsa zimenezi zafotokozedwa momveka bwino, anthu ambiri omwe poyamba ankaganiza kuti akufuna mapasa amasintha maganizo awo. Kafukufuku wina anasonyeza kuti atalankhula ndi dokotala wawo za zoopsa za mimba ya mapasa, chiwerengero cha makolo omwe akufuna mapasa chimachepa ndi theka.
Chifukwa cha izi n’chakuti patatha zaka zambiri tikuvutika ndi kusabereka, cholinga chathu chimakhala pa “kutenga mimba” mwanjira iliyonse yofunikira. Koma chithunzi chachikulu cha mimba, kubereka, ndi kulera ana chomwe chimabwera pambuyo pake sichikuwoneka panthawiyo.
Kusamalira mapasa athanzi sikophweka!
Tangoganizirani kuti muli ndi mapasa athanzi, obadwa pa nthawi yake, popanda mavuto. Ndi bwino kwambiri. Koma kuwasamalira sikophweka.
Katswiri wina, yemwenso ndi bambo wa mapasa athanzi, anati: "N'zovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe anthu amaganizira. Ntchito yeniyeni imayamba ana akabadwa. Palibe chosangalatsa kuposa kubwerera kunyumba kumapeto kwa tsiku ndikupangitsa ana onse awiri kulumpha ndikukukumbatirani. Ndipo palibe chokhumudwitsa kuposa kukhala ndi anthu awiri akulira limodzi mu stereo."
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Chotsatira chachikulu komanso chabwino kwambiri cha chithandizo cha IVF ndi kukhala ndi mwana m'modzi wathanzi . Si chiwerengero chomwe chili chofunika, koma thanzi la mwana ndi mayi.
- Ngati mukuganiza zokhala ndi mapasa, lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu za zoopsa zonse zachipatala zomwe zingachitike.
- Musapange zisankho zomwe zingaike miyoyo ya mayi ndi mwana wosabadwa pachiwopsezo poganizira za mtengo wa chithandizo. Mtengo ndi nkhawa zochizira mwana wosakwana nthawi yake ndi zazikulu kwambiri.
- Dokotala wanu adzasankha kuchuluka kwa mazira oti muwasamutsire kutengera zaka zanu, thanzi lanu, komanso mtundu wa mazirawo. Khulupirirani upangiri wa akatswiri.
- Cholinga chachikulu chiyenera kukhala kupita kunyumba muli okondwa ndi mwana wathanzi. Zimenezi n'zofunika kwambiri kuposa kukhala ndi mwana mmodzi kapena awiri.
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