Kukhala ndi mapasa ndi maloto abwino kwa ambiri. Ndani sakonda kuona ana awiri ofanana, atavala zovala zomwezo ndikusewera limodzi? Koma nthawi zambiri sitimaganizira zenizeni zomwe zili kumbuyo kwa malotowa, mtengo wake, ndi nsembe zomwe ziyenera kuperekedwa. Lero tikulankhula za mayi wina dzina lake Leslie yemwe adakumana ndi zoterezi. Nkhani yake idzakhala yofunika kwambiri kwa ambiri mdziko lathu, makamaka omwe akuvutika ndi kusowa ana ndipo akuganizira njira monga (IVF).
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Nkhani ya Leslie: Kuchokera ku chisoni chosakhala ndi ana mpaka ku chisangalalo cha mapasa
Leslie ndi mayi wazaka 33. Iye ndi mwamuna wake, Heath, ali kale ndi mwana wamwamuna wazaka 5. Anabadwa mwachibadwa, popanda chithandizo chapadera. Koma kenako Leslie anakumana ndi vuto lalikulu lokhala ndi mwana. Anali ndi mimba zingapo zoberekera , zomwe ndi zoopsa kwambiri. Chifukwa cha izi, madokotala analangiza Leslie ndi Heath kuti asayesenso kubereka ana mwachibadwa.
Choncho, chifukwa chofunitsitsa kukhala ndi mwana wina, anaganiza zogwiritsa ntchito njira ya IVF. Mwachidule, IVF - In Vitro Fertilization ndi njira yomwe dzira la mayi ndi umuna wa bambo zimaphatikizidwa kunja kwa thupi mu labotale kuti apange mluza, womwe umayikidwa m'chiberekero cha mayi. Uwu unkaoneka ngati mwayi womaliza womwe anali nawo woti akhale ndi ana ambiri.
Mtengo ndi Maganizo: Kusankha Chithandizo cha IVF
Leslie ndi Heath adagwiritsa ntchito 22,000 pa chithandizochi , chomwe ndi ndalama zambirimbiri m'dziko lathu. Izi ndi ndalama zambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake adaganiza kuti, m'malo mogwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri, akanakhala ndi mapasa ngati n'kotheka. Malinga ndi Leslie, "Sitinapite kwa dokotala n'kunena kuti tikufuna mapasa. Tinati, 'Sitingathe kukhala ndi ana, tikufuna thandizo lanu, iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yomwe tili nayo. Chifukwa chake zingakhale bwino kwambiri titakhala ndi mapasa.'" Chifukwa mtengo wake ndi womwewo kaya tili ndi mwana m'modzi kapena awiri. Chifukwa chake ngati uwu ndi mwayi womaliza, adaganiza kuti zingakhale bwino kumaliza banja.
Nkhani iyi yomwe akunena ndi yokhudza mtima kwambiri.
"Sindikuganiza kuti mungaike mtengo pa banja lanu. Momwe ndimaonera nkhaniyi, ndili ndi mwayi wokhala ndi ana anga... ndimalira ndikaganizira za izi. Chovuta kwambiri ndichakuti ndi zodula kwambiri. Mbali ina ndi kulera ana, komwe nakonso ndi kokwera mtengo kwambiri."
Izi zikusonyeza kuti mtengo wa mwana sungayesedwe ndi ndalama. Makolo saganizira kawiri za kudzimana chifukwa cha ndalamazo.
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Dokotala wa Leslie asanalandire chithandizo cha IVF, anaonetsetsa kuti apita ku uphungu wa kubereka. Imeneyi inali sitepe yofunika kwambiri chifukwa panthawiyi, ankakumana ndi mavuto ambiri osayembekezereka. Mwachitsanzo, chochita ndi mazira otsala pambuyo pa chithandizocho, ndani amene angakhale mwini wa mazirawo ngati banjali litasudzulana, komanso momwe angathanirane ndi vuto lokhala ndi mapasa pamene anali kale ndi mwana m'modzi.
Poyamba Leslie ankafuna kuti mazira atatu aikidwe m'chiberekero mwake. Chifukwa chake chinali chakuti apindule kwambiri ndi ndalama zomwe adagwiritsa ntchito. Ankayembekezera kuti mmodzi kapena awiri apambana, ndipo ngati n'kotheka, awiri. Koma dokotala wake sankagwirizana nazo konse. Iye anati, "Ayi." Izi zikusonyeza udindo wa madokotala. Cholinga chawo chachikulu si kupanga mapasa, koma kuthandiza kubweretsa mwana mmodzi wathanzi padziko lapansi.
Pamapeto pake, anaganiza zosamutsa mazira awiri. Mwamwayi, onse awiri anapambana!
Mapasa: Maloto akwaniritsidwa ndi zenizeni zovuta
Ana aakazi a Leslie, Bella ndi Maddie, ali ndi thanzi labwino masiku ano. Koma mimbayo sinali yophweka kwa Leslie. Anayenera kukhala milungu isanu ndi umodzi akugona pabedi. Akufotokoza chaka choyamba atabadwa ana ake kuti "chovuta kwambiri." Chifukwa chimodzi cha zimenezi ndi chakuti mwana wake wamwamuna wamkulu, Garrett, anali ndi zaka ziwiri zokha panthawiyo.
Pamene Leslie ankatuluka ndi ana ake, anthu ambiri ankabwera kwa iye nati, "O, inenso ndikufuna kukhala ndi mapasa." Ayenera kuti anaseka yekha panthawiyo.
"Samalani. Sizophweka. Simungafune kusintha, koma si masewera."
Chomwe tifunika kumvetsetsa kuchokera munkhaniyi ndichakuti zenizeni zitha kukhala zosiyana ndi chithunzi chokongola chomwe chikuwoneka kunja. Koma Leslie akufotokoza nkhani yokongola kwambiri kumapeto. "Ngakhale kuti chaka choyamba chinali chovuta, chinali choyenera. Kodi chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri zovuta ndi ziti pamapeto pake ? Ndidzakhala ndi chaka china kapena ziwiri zovuta, akadali aang'ono."
| Zinthu zoti muganizire | Zitsanzo kuchokera ku zomwe Leslie anakumana nazo |
|---|---|
| Mtengo wa ndalama | Kulandira chithandizo katatu kunawononga 22,000. Iyi ndi ndalama yomwe yayikidwa popanda chitsimikizo choti ipambana. |
| Kukonzekera m'maganizo ndi mwakuthupi | Kupuma pabedi kwa milungu 6 panthawi ya mimba. Chaka choyamba mukabereka ana chimakhala chovuta kwambiri. |
| Kufunika kwa uphungu wa zachipatala | Kufunika kupanga zisankho zovuta, monga kuchuluka kwa mazira oti asamutse ndi zomwe angachite ndi mazira otsalawo. Malangizo a dokotala ndi ofunikira. |
| Zotsatirapo pa mamembala ena a m'banja | Vutoli limawonjezeka kawiri mapasa akabadwa, chifukwa mwana wamkulu amakhala ndi zaka ziwiri zokha. |
Nkhani ya Leslie imatiuza momveka bwino kuti IVF si chithandizo chamankhwala chokha, koma ulendo wovuta wokhudza ndalama, malingaliro, ziyembekezo, ndi mavuto ambiri.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Njira zothandizira kubereka monga IVF zingakhale zodula komanso zovutitsa maganizo.
- Kukhala ndi mapasa kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe kumaonekera, makamaka panthawi ya mimba komanso chaka choyamba kapena ziwiri mutabereka ana.
- Mtengo wa mwana sungayesedwe ndi ndalama, koma ndikofunikira kuganizira mosamala za ndalama musanayambe kulandira chithandizo.
- Musanapange chisankho chilichonse chotere, ndikofunikira kukambirana nkhani zonse momasuka ndi dokotala wanu . Malangizo awo adzakuthandizani kupanga zisankho zoyenera.
- Pamapeto pa vuto lililonse, kumbukirani kuti chimwemwe ndi chikondi chomwe mumalandira kuchokera kwa ana anu n'zofunika kwambiri kuposa china chilichonse.
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