Ese wicara ku ntebe yo mu biro umunsi wose? Cyangwa umara umwanya munini wunamye kuri telefoni yawe? Ushobora kuba uzi ububabare bwo mu mugongo no mu ijosi buterwa no guhaguruka umaze amasaha menshi wicaye. Nubwo benshi muri twe dutekereza ko ubu bubabare ari "oh... ni ibisanzwe," impamvu nyamukuru ibitera ni uburyo twifatamo, ni ukuvuga uko twifata. None rero uyu munsi, reka tuvuge ku buryo imiterere yacu ari yo, impamvu ari ingenzi kuri twe, n'uburyo twarushaho kunoza imiterere yacu kugira ngo tugire ubuzima bwiza kandi tutagira ububabare bw'umugongo n'ijosi.
Mu by'ukuri, imiterere y'umubiri ni iki?
Mu magambo make, imiterere y'umubiri wawe ni uko umubiri wawe uba uri wowe ubwawe gusa, nta kintu na kimwe utekerezaho. Ibyo bivuze uburyo uhagaze, uko wicaye, uko ugenda, ibi byose.
Ibi si ikindi kintu gusa. Sisitemu yacu y'imitsi n'amagufwa, sisitemu nini y'amagufwa, imitsi, ingingo, imitsi n'imitsi mu mubiri wacu, ikorana kugira ngo igenzure uko duhagaze. Tekereza nawe, kuki udacika intege ngo ugwe iyo wicaye ku ntebe? Ni ukubera ko iyi sisitemu ihora ikora kugira ngo ikurinde gutuza no kumererwa neza.
Nanone, ubwo bushobozi bwo guhindura imiterere ni bwo budufasha kugenda tudafatiriwe mu mwanya umwe. Tekereza niba umubiri wawe wari igikinisho gifite imiterere imwe, wagombaga kuzunguruka umubiri wawe wose kugira ngo ufate ikaramu yaguye hasi, si byo se? Kubwibyo, imiterere yacu si ikibazo cy'amahirwe gusa, ahubwo ni ikintu cy'ingenzi cyane gituma imirimo yacu ya buri munsi yoroha.
Hari ubwoko bubiri bw'ingenzi bw'imiterere y'umubiri.
Imiterere yacu ishobora kugabanywamo ubwoko bubiri bw'ingenzi bitewe n'icyo dukora. Kubisobanukirwa bizagufasha gusobanukirwa neza imiterere yawe.
| Ubwoko bw'imiterere | Mu magambo make ... |
|---|---|
| Imiterere idahindagurika | Ibi bivuga uburyo uhagaze iyo utari mu nzira. Urugero, uburyo uhagaze iyo uhagaze, wicaye, cyangwa usinziriye. Ukiri umwana, ababyeyi bawe bajyaga bakubwira bati "Icara ugororotse ntugatinye!" Si byo se? Ni bwo bakubwira kunoza uburyo uhagaze. |
| Imiterere ihinduka | Uku ni ko utuma umubiri wawe uhora uhagaze iyo ugenda, haba kugenda, kwiruka, kuzamuka ingazi, cyangwa kugera ku kintu runaka. Tutabanje kubitekerezaho, imibiri yacu ihora ihindura imiterere yayo. Umuntu ukina siporo cyangwa ukora yoga atekereza cyane ku buryo afata umubiri we. Yibanda ku miterere ye ihinduka. |
None se hari ikintu nk'igitekerezo 'gikwiye' cyangwa 'gikwiye'?
Dore ikintu cyiza cyo kutwibutsa. Nta kintu nk'igitekerezo "gitunganye" gikorera buri wese ku isi. Umubiri wa buri wese uratandukanye. Rero ntugahangayikishwe no kwicara neza igihe cyose. Mu by'ukuri, ubushakashatsi bumwe na bumwe bwagaragaje ko icyo dutekereza ko "imyitwarire mibi" ifitanye isano cyane n'icyizere cyacu n'uko tugaragara kuruta ubuzima bwacu bw'umubiri. Ibyo bivuze ko ushobora kwicara no kugenda mu mutekano, ariko ntugomba kubihangayikishwa.
Ariko, hari amategeko rusange dushobora gukurikiza kugira ngo dufashe imibiri yacu. Uburyo bwiza bwo kugumana imiterere myiza ni ukurinda imitsi y'umugongo wacu.
Mu buryo busanzwe, umugongo wacu ufite imikondo itatu y'ingenzi:
1. Uruti rw'umura rw'umugongo
2. Igice cyo hagati cy'inyuma y'igituza (`uruti rw'igituza`)
3. Umugongo wo hasi (uruti rw'umugongo)
Izi mpande eshatu zituma umugongo wacu ugira ishusho yoroheje ya 'S'. Si byiza kunama cyangwa kudohoka mu buryo bushyira igitutu cyinshi kuri izi mpande bitewe n'uko uhagaze.
Inama nke zo kugira ngo umuntu agire imiterere myiza
Nubwo umubiri wawe ugenzura imiterere y'umubiri wawe mu buryo bwikora, hari ibintu bike ushobora gukora kugira ngo ukomeze kugira imiterere myiza.
- Komeza umutwe wawe n'ibitugu byawe bigororotse: Ntugatere ijosi inyuma cyangwa ngo ureke umutwe wawe uremere imbere. Iri ni ikosa abantu benshi bakora iyo bareba telefoni zabo.
- Komeza ibitugu byawe bihuze n'ikibuno cyawe: Tekereza ko hari umurongo ugororotse uturutse mu kibuno cyawe ukagera ku bitugu byawe. Urashaka ko uyu murongo ukomeza kuba ugororotse uko bishoboka kose. Uyu murongo uzagenda urushaho gukomera uko ugenda utera imbere cyangwa inyuma (uko urimo kwikubita). Niba wicaye, gerageza kugumana inguni ya dogere 90 hagati y'umugongo wawe n'ikibuno (nk'inguni iri mu mfuruka y'impande kare).
- Komeza umubiri wawe wo hasi uhamye: Uburyo ushyira amaguru n'ibirenge byawe bizatandukana bitewe n'uko wicaye cyangwa uhagaze.
- Igihe yicaye:Shyira ibirenge byawe hasi, amavi yawe apfukamye kuri dogere 90. Guma amaguru yawe atandukaniye gato ku tuguru, utayarenze. Niba amaguru yawe atageze hasi, koresha akantu gato ko kugenderaho. Ntureke amaguru yawe arambarara.
- Iyo uhagaze: Gerageza ibirenge byawe ku buryo bingana n'ubugari bw'ikibuno. Gerageza uburemere bw'umubiri wawe ku ruhande rw'imbere rw'ibirenge byawe.
Kuki imiterere myiza ari ingenzi cyane kuri twe?
Gukomeza kwihagararaho neza bishobora kugufasha kwirinda ububabare bwinshi busanzwe bw'umugongo, ijosi, n'amaboko. Nanone, kwihagararaho neza (cyane cyane iyo ukora imyitozo ngororamubiri cyangwa imyitozo ngororamubiri) bishobora gufasha kwirinda imvune za siporo.
Gukomeza kwihagararaho neza bishobora kugabanya kwangirika kw'ingingo zawe, cyane cyane izo mu mugongo wawe. Nubwo kwihagararaho neza bishobora kutarinda burundu indwara z'ingingo nka rubagimpande, bishobora kugabanya rwose umuvuduko uterwa n'ingingo zawe.
Wibuke ko kugira imiterere myiza ari ikintu gisabwa mu mubiri wawe igihe kirekire. Gutekereza gato uyu munsi bishobora kugufasha kumererwa nabi cyane mu gihe kizaza.
None se, nakora iki kugira ngo nongere imiterere yanjye?
Ni byiza gukurikiza inama iri hejuru. Ariko guhora uhangayikishijwe n'uko uhagaze bishobora kunaniza mu mutwe. Dore ubundi buryo bworoshye bwo kunoza uko uhagaze udahora uhangayikishijwe n'umugongo wawe.
- Fata umwanya utekereze ku buryo uhagaze: Aho guhora wibaza uti "Ese mpagaze neza?", fata umwanya utekereze ku buryo uhagaze rimwe mu isaha. Niba wumva ufite ubukana cyangwa ububabare, haguruka, urambure, wongere utangire.
- Koresha umutima wawe: Gukaza buhoro imitsi yo mu nda n'iyo mu mutima bizagufasha kugorora imiterere yawe kandi bigufashe neza mu mugongo wawe. Ibi ntibigomba gukorwa igihe cyose, ariko bikore igihe wibuka. Guhumeka umwuka uterura ikintu kiremereye nabyo ni uburyo bwiza bwo gukora iyi mitsi no kugabanya umuvuduko ku mugongo wawe.
- Ambara inkweto zikwiranye neza kandi ziryoshye: Hari ubwoko bw'inkweto (cyane cyane inkweto ndende) zituma ibirenge byacu n'utuguru byacu bijya mu myanya idasanzwe. Ibi bishobora kugira ingaruka ku miterere y'umubiri wose. Rero menya neza ko inkweto zidafashe kandi ntizigire ikibazo iyo uhagaze cyangwa ugenda.
- Kurikiza indyo yuzuye n'imyitozo ngororamubiri: Gukomeza gukora siporo no kurya neza bizakomeza imitsi yawe, amagufwa yawe, n'umubiri wawe wose. Umubiri ukomeye utuma byoroha kugumana imiterere myiza.
Ni ibihe bimenyetso by' 'imiterere mibi'?
Nkuko twabivuze mbere, imiterere mibi si indwara. Kubwibyo, ntabwo buri gihe itera ibimenyetso. Ariko, ni ibisanzwe kugira ububabare bw'umugongo, kuribwa umutwe, cyangwa kunanuka mu mubiri iyo umaze igihe kinini uri mu mwanya umwe.
Abantu benshi bahangayikishwa no kuba badafite "imiterero itunganye". Ariko ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko imiterero idatera ububabare nk'uko tubitekereza. Akenshi, imiterero mibi ni kimwe mu bintu bitera ububabare n'ibindi bimenyetso. Ibintu nko kudakora cyane no kudakora imyitozo ngororamubiri bishobora gutera ibi bibazo kurusha imiterero.
Ese imiterere mibi ishobora gutera ububabare bw'umugongo cyangwa kuribwa umutwe?
Yego, urashobora. Cyane cyane niba umaranye igihe kirekire uri mu mwanya umwe. Imiterere ishobora kugira ingaruka kuri ibi bikurikira:
- Kubabara umugongo
- Kubabara mu ijosi
- Umutwe
- Ubushobozi bw'umubiri wawe bwo kwiyoroshya muri rusange
- Ingano y'ingendo (urugero rw'urugendo ushobora gukora cyangwa urworoshye)
- Kuringaniza umubiri
Niba ufite ububabare budashira ubwabwo mu byumweru bike, menya neza ko wagiye kwa muganga. Nubwo ububabare butaterwa n'uko umuntu ahagaze, ni ngombwa ko muganga agusuzuma niba hari ububabare bushya budashira, cyangwa burushaho kwiyongera.
Kimwe n'abantu benshi, ushobora kuba uhangayikishijwe n'uko "Sinicaye neza" cyangwa "Umugongo wanjye uzavunika umunsi umwe." Nubwo imiterere yawe ari ingenzi ku buzima bwawe, kunama kuri televiziyo ukunda mu mpera z'icyumweru ntabwo bizakwangiza cyane umugongo wawe.
Igikuru ni ukwitondera uko uhagaze umunsi wose. Cyane cyane niba ukora ku meza cyangwa uhagaze igihe kirekire, fata ikiruhuko gito rimwe na rimwe, urambura, uhindure imiterere. Niba ufite ububabare mu ijosi, mu rutugu, cyangwa mu mugongo, ntubyirengagize ahubwo ujye kwa muganga. Ashobora kugusobanurira icyaguteye ibimenyetso n'icyo wakora kugira ngo ubigabanuke.
Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo
- Uburyo umubiri wawe uhagazemo ni uburyo usanzwe ufata umubiri wawe. Hari ubwoko bubiri bw'uburyo umubiri uhagazemo: budahinduka n'uburyo uhagazemo.
- Nta buryo bumwe "butunganye" bushobora kugirira akamaro buri wese. Icy'ingenzi ni ugukomeza imikurire y'umugongo wawe.
- Aho guhora uhangayikishijwe n'uko uhagaze, jya wibuka kenshi ku munsi kandi ukosore uko uhagaze nibiba ngombwa.
- Gukomeza gukora siporo, gukomeza umutima wawe, kunanura imitsi no gukurikiza ubuzima bwiza bigira uruhare runini mu gutuma umuntu ahagarara neza.
- Niba ufite ububabare budashira bw'umugongo, ijosi, cyangwa ubundi bubabare, ntubyirengagize kandi nta kabuza uganire na muganga wawe.

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