Ese imibonano mpuzabitsina ibabaza? Ese twavuga ku bijyanye no kwaguka kw'igitsina?

Kubabara mu gihe cy'imibonano mpuzabitsina ni ikibazo abagore benshi bahura nacyo bucece, ariko bakagira isoni zo kukivugaho mu ruhame. Ibi bishobora kugira ingaruka zikomeye ku ishyingiranwa ryawe no ku mubano wawe. Mu by'ukuri ntabwo ugomba kwihanganira ubu bubabare. Nubwo hari impamvu nyinshi zibitera, uyu munsi turimo kuvuga ku gikoresho cyoroshye gishobora gukoreshwa mu rugo kandi gishobora gufasha.

Mu by'ukuri se, ibyo kwagura ingirabuzima fatizo ni iki?

Mu magambo make, agakoresho ko kwagura imyanya y'abagore ni igikoresho kimeze nk'umuyoboro gishyirwa mu gitsina cyawe kigakoreshwa mu kurambura buhoro buhoro imyanya y'abagore. Akenshi bikozwe muri pulasitiki cyangwa silicone yo mu rwego rwa muganga.

Intego y'ubu buryo bwo kuvura ni ukongera buhoro buhoro ubushobozi bw'igitsina cyawe bwo koroha, gukomeza imitsi yo mu kibuno cyawe, no gutuma imibonano mpuzabitsina irushaho kuryoha. Ikintu cyiza ni uko ushobora kubikora mu rugo, mu ibanga ry'urugo rwawe, mu minota itarenze 20. Biza mu bunini butandukanye n'ubunini. Ikubereye neza biterwa n'uburyo igituba cyawe gifashe.

Ni ryari agakoresho ko kwagura intanga gakoreshwa?

Utumashini two kwagura imyanya y'abagore dushobora kugufasha cyane mu gihe ubabara mu gihe cy'imibonano mpuzabitsina cyangwa iyo ushyize ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose mu gitsina cyawe. Bituma imyanya y'abagore irushaho koroha kandi bigafasha gukomeza imitsi y'ikibuno idafite imbaraga. Reka turebe zimwe mu mpamvu zishobora gutera ubu bubabare hano hepfo.

Nigute nahitamo extender imbonankubone?

Izi dilator zigira uburebure kuva kuri santimetero 2 kugeza kuri santimetero 7. Ubugari, cyangwa ubunini, nabwo buratandukanye kuva kuri santimetero 0.5 kugeza kuri 1.5. Intego hano ni ugutangirana n'intoya hanyuma buhoro buhoro ugakomeza ku nini. Niba ubuvuzi bugenze neza, uzasanga uko igihe kigenda gihita uzabasha gushyiramo dilator nini byoroshye. Ntukihutire cyangwa ngo ugerageze gushaka ingano nini utiteguye.

Ni ubuhe bwoko bwiza kurusha ubundi: Plasitike cyangwa silikoni?

Ibi biza mu buryo bwa pulasitiki na silicone. Byombi bifite ibyiza n'ibibi byabyo.

• Plasitike: Ibi birakomeye kandi bikomeye. Bityo rero bishobora gufasha cyane mu kunagura ingirabuzima fatizo z'igitsina. Ariko, uku kunama bishobora kubangamira bamwe mu bantu.
• Silicone: Ibi byoroshye kandi byoroshye gukoresha, bigatuma byoroha kubikoresha. Silicone dilator ishobora gukoreshwa haba ishyushye cyangwa ikonje.

Icy'ingenzi ni uguhitamo imwe ikunogeye kandi ikagutera imbaraga zo kunanura igitsina cyawe.

Ikintu cyiza wakora ni ukubaza muganga wawe ibi. Ashobora kugusuzuma no kukugira inama y'ubwoko n'ingano ikubereye.

Ni gute wabikoresha neza? Intambwe ku yindi...

Gushyiramo dilator bishobora kugorana mu ntangiriro. Ariko, igikorwa cyose ntikigomba kurenza iminota 15-20. Kurikiza intambwe zikurikira.

• Intambwe ya 1: Siga amavuta menshi akomoka ku mazi (urugero: KY® cyangwa Astroglide®) ku gikoresho cyo gukamura. Ntugakoreshe amavuta akomoka ku mavuta nka Vaseline. Wibuke ko utangirira ku ntoki.
• Intambwe ya 2: Lara ugaramye ku buriri cyangwa ahantu harambuye, upfukame amavi yawe, hanyuma urambure amaguru yawe ku mpande, nk'aho uri gusuzumwa na muganga.
• Intambwe ya 3: Nk'aho ushyiramo tampon, shyiramo witonze icyuma gifunguye mu gitsina ukoresheje ukuboko kwawe ko hepfo (ugana mu mugongo wawe). Hagarara aho wumva ufunze gato, nta bubabare. Ntukinjizemo ku ngufu.
• Intambwe ya Kane: Mu gihe dilator ihari, gukora imyitozo ngororamubiri ya Kegel bishobora gufasha kuruhuka imitsi yo mu kibuno. Guhumeka umwuka mwinshi kandi muremure nabyo bishobora gufasha kuruhuka imitsi yawe.
• Intambwe ya 5: Mu minota 5-10 iri imbere, mu gihe dilator ikiri mu mwanya wayo, yimure isura n'inyuma. Yizungurutse mu ruziga, uyimure imbere, inyuma, no ku ruhande rumwe ujya ku rundi. Hanyuma uyimure isura n'inyuma nk'aho uri gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina.
• Intambwe ya Gatandatu: Nyuma y'iminota 10-15, kuramo expander.
• Intambwe ya 7: Umaze kuyikoresha, karaba neza ukoresheje isabune yoroheje n'amazi y'akazuyazi. Hanyuma wumishe ukoresheje igitambaro gisukuye cyangwa ureke yumuke.

Kora ubu buryo bwo kuvura buri munsi cyangwa buri minsi nk'uko muganga wawe yabigutegetse. Uko igihe kigenda gihita, uzabona ko agace gato k'amaraso gatuma urushaho kumererwa neza. Ibyo bivuze ko witeguye gukomeza ingano ikurikira.

Ni izihe nyungu n'ingaruka mbi z'ibi?

Utumashini two kwagura imyanya y'abagore ni uburyo bwiza kandi bwizewe bwo kuvura. Mu by'ukuri, abantu benshi babikora buri gihe babona ihumure rikomeye ku bubabare mu gihe cy'imibonano mpuzabitsina.

Ingaruka nyamukuru ni utwo dutonyanga duke tw'amaraso mu gitsina. Ariko ntibikwiye kuba kuva amaraso menshi, ahubwo bigomba kuba akantu gato k'umutuku.

Ubu buvuzi bumara igihe kingana iki?

Igihe bifata kugira ngo ibi bibeho kiratandukanye bitewe n'umuntu ku giti cye, bitewe n'ibimenyetso ufite. Hari abantu bashobora kumva baruhutse mu byumweru bike, abandi bakaba bakeneye kuvurwa muri ubu buryo mu gihe cy'amezi menshi. Icy'ingenzi ni ukwihangana no guhora ubonana na muganga wawe.

Ushobora kumva ufite isoni, umerewe nabi, cyangwa ufite umutwaro mu marangamutima kubera gukoresha igikoresho nk'iki. Ganira na muganga wawe ibyo byiyumvo mu buryo bweruye. Ni ingenzi cyane kugira ngo ubuvuzi bugende neza.