Ngaba 'ungumntu oqhelekileyo engqondweni'? Masithethe ngale nto ngokulula!

Mhlawumbi ukhe waliva igama elithi 'neurotypical' ndaweni ithile. Mhlawumbi kwi-intanethi, okanye kumhlobo. Asilogama lezonyango elisetyenziswa rhoqo ngoogqirha bethu. Kodwa ligama elibalulekileyo xa kufikwa kwindlela iingqondo zabantu ezikhula kwaye zisebenza ngayo. Ngamafutshane, 'neurotypical' yindlela iingqondo zabantu abaninzi ehlabathini ezikhula kwaye zisebenza ngayo.

Yintoni 'i-neurotypical'? Kulula kakhulu!

'I-neurotypical', khawucinge, yindlela iingqondo zabantu abaninzi emhlabeni, oko kukuthi, malunga ne-80% ukuya kwi-85% yabantu, eziphuhliswe kwaye zisebenza ngayo. Iingqondo zaba bantu ngokubanzi zinezinga elifanayo lezakhono ezahlukeneyo, umzekelo, inkumbulo, ubuchule bezibalo, kunye nokukwazi ukuqonda oko kuthethwayo.

Kodwa into ebalulekileyo apha kukuba asitsho ukuba 'yi-neurotypical' kulungile, okanye abo bangenjalo, oko kukuthi, 'i-neurodivergent', babi. Kufana nombala weenwele zakho, umbala wolusu lwakho. Luphawu olwahlukileyo kumntu ngamnye, kungekhona into enokulinganiswa njengento elungileyo okanye embi. Sonke sahlukile komnye nomnye, kwaye kunjalo.

Kutheni singafuni ukusebenzisa igama elithi "uqhelekile"?

Ngoku usenokuba ucinga, "Kutheni ungambizi nje umntu ngokuba 'yi-neurotypical' endaweni yokuthi 'uqhelekile'?" Nasi isizathu. Akukho zingqondo zimbini ezifanayo. Cinga nje, kukho malunga nee-neurons ezingama-86 eebhiliyoni kwingqondo yomntu, iiseli ezinxibelelana ngemiqondiso yombane neyekhemikhali! Unxibelelwano phakathi kwezi neurons lubizwa ngokuba zii-synapses . Kukho iitriliyoni zezi synapses kwingqondo yakho. Olu thungelwano lwee-synapses yilo olukwenza ube ngulowo unguye, kwaye luhlukile kuwe nge-100%.

Ngoko ke, ukuba ingqondo nganye yahlukile kangaka, kunzima ukuchaza "ubuchopho obuqhelekileyo," akunjalo? Yiyo loo nto sijonga indlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo size siyibize ngokuba 'yi-neurotypical', yindlela uninzi lweengqondo zabantu ezisebenza ngayo. Oko akuthethi ukuba leyo yindlela yodwa "echanekileyo".

Zithini ezinye iinkalo zobomi njengomntu 'oqhelekileyo kwingqondo'?

Njengomntu 'oqhelekileyo kwimithambo-luvo', unokufumanisa ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ujongane neminye yemingeni abantu 'abaneengxaki zengqondo' ngamanye amaxesha abajongana nayo. Oku kungenxa yokuba izinto ezininzi kuluntu lwethu, ezikolweni, nakwiindawo zokusebenza zenzelwe ukuba zilungele uninzi, oko kukuthi, abantu 'abaqhelekileyo kwimithambo-luvo'. Makhe sijonge imizekelo embalwa:

Uhlengahlengiso lwentlalo kunye nokuziqhelanisa

Njengomntu 'oqhelekileyo kwingqondo', ungaqhelana nabanye abantu kuluntu ngaphandle kobunzima obukhulu. Awunawo umnqweno oqinileyo wokuzenza ngathi ufana nabanye (oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-"mashing"). Uluntu luyakwamkela njengoko unjalo uninzi lwexesha. Ke ngoko, awusoloko unexhala elifana nelithi, "Ngaba abantu baza kundilahla?" "Ngaba baza kundicinga ngendlela engafanelekanga?"

Umsebenzi wesikolo kunye nemfundo

Amaxesha amaninzi, indlela ezifundisa ngayo izikolo kunye nemisebenzi eyenziwa eklasini yenzelwe ngendlela elula ukuba abantwana 'abaqhelekileyo' bayiqonde. Ke ngoko, izinto ezinje ngokuhlala ugxile kwisifundo kunye nokulandela imiyalelo zisenokungabi ngumceli mngeni omkhulu kuwe.

Umzekelo, xa utitshala efundisa isifundo esikolweni, kunokuba lula ngomntwana 'oqhelekileyo' ukumamela rhoqo, ukuqonda, nokuphendula imibuzo xa ebuzwa.

Ukucubungula izivamvo

Sihlala sifumana ulwazi oluvela kwiimvakalelo zethu ezintlanu (amehlo, iindlebe, impumlo, ulwimi, ulusu). Umntu 'oqhelekileyo kwimithambo-luvo' akanangxaki inkulu ngendlela olu lwazi olucutshungulwa ngayo yingqondo. Oku kuthetha ukuba bayakwazi ukulibala ngevumba elibi, izandi, kunye nokuchukumisa, okanye ukunciphisa impembelelo yazo. Banamathuba amaninzi okuhlala bezolile kwaye bangacaphuki lula (`(baxinezelekile)` okanye `((bavuseleleke kakhulu)`) nokuba bakwiindawo ezixineneyo nezinengxolo.

• Khawuthelekelele, xa usebhasini, uva ingxolo eninzi kwaye kufuneka uhambe phakathi kwezihlwele. Umntu 'oqhelekileyo' unokukwazi ukujongana nezi zinto aze afike apho aya khona ngaphandle kobunzima obukhulu.

Unxibelelwano lwentlalo kunye nencoko

Xa sithetha nabantu, xa sisenza ishishini nabo, kukho imithetho emininzi engathethwanga kunye nolindelo. Umzekelo, izinto ezinjengokujonga ubuso bomntu xa ethetha, kunye nokuphendula ngokufanelekileyo kwincoko yakhe. Abantu 'abaqhelekileyo' badla ngokuba nexesha elilula lokuqonda le mithetho yoluntu engathethwanga kwaye baziphathe ngokufanelekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, ukunxibelelana nabantu kunokuba lula kubo.

Ngaba ukuba 'ngumntu oqhelekileyo engqondweni' yinto ehlala ubomi bonke? Akunjalo tu!

Hayi, oko akuyonyani. Umntu ozelwe 'enesifo sengqondo' unokutshintsha ukusebenza kwengqondo yakhe kamva, abonise iimpawu 'ze-neurodivergent'. Oku sikubiza ngokuba yi- "acquired neurodivergence".

Ngamafutshane, indlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo iyatshintsha ngenxa yempembelelo ethile kuyo ngaxa lithile ebomini. Oku akufuneki kube yinto embi. Lutshintsho nje.

Kwenzeka njani oku "kuhlukahluka kwe-neurological okufunyenweyo"?

Kunokubakho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zoku:

• Izifo zengqondo ezinxulumene nobudala: Umzekelo, izifo ezifana nesifo sika-Alzheimer zitshintsha ukusebenza kwengqondo ngokusisigxina.
• Ukulimala entloko kunye nokwenzakala kwengqondo: Cinga ngokuxhuzula , okanye ukwenzakala kwengqondo okubuhlungu kakhulu (iiTBI) , okunokubangela ukulahlekelwa yinkumbulo okwethutyana okanye okungapheliyo, ubunzima bokugxila, kunye notshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha.
• Iingxaki zempilo yengqondo okanye iziganeko ezibuhlungu: Ezinye iimeko zempilo yengqondo, umzekeloIzinto ezifana `(Depression)` kunye `(Anxiety)` zinokutshintsha iinkqubo zeekhemikhali kunye nokusebenza kwengqondo. Kwakhona, iimeko ezifana `(Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder - PTSD)`, eziyindlela yokukhusela ingqondo xa ijongene neziganeko ezibuhlungu kakhulu, zinokutshintsha indlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo.

Nangona kunjalo, ezinye izifundo zifumanise ukuba, ngaphandle kwezi zizathu, ngamanye amaxesha kunqabile kakhulu, kwaye ngaphandle kwesizathu esicacileyo, umntu 'ohambahambayo' unokuqala ukubonisa iimpawu 'zokuhambahambayo'. Kodwa oko kunqabile kakhulu.

Ngaba abazali 'abane-neurotypical' banabo abantwana 'abane-neurodivergent'?

Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo kunokwenzeka! Kwakhona, abazali abaneengxaki zengqondo banokuba nabantwana abaneengxaki zengqondo. Oku akuyonto ithile ecalanye.

I-genetics inokuchaphazela amathuba omntu okuba ne-neurodivergent. Umzekelo, iimeko ezifana ne-Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) kunye ne-Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) zinokusebenza kwiintsapho. Nangona kunjalo, iingcali azikayiqondi ngokupheleleyo indlela okanye isizathu sokuba abanye abantu baphuhlise ezi meko. Kwaye, kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokudlala indima, kungekuphela nje ii-genes. Ngoko ke, ukuba umzali unazo akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakhe uza kuzizuza njengelifa.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo: lo asingombuzo "olungileyo-ombi", ngumahluko nje!

Xa sithetha 'nge-neurotypical' kunye 'ne-neurodivergent', kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba oku akusiyonto "eqhelekileyo" kunye "nengaqhelekanga," okanye "elungileyo" kunye "nembi." Ngumahluko nje. Ukuba yindlela enye yinxalenye nje yokuba umntu ungubani, kwaye akuchazi ixabiso lakhe elipheleleyo.

Cinga ngayo, abanye abantu babhala ngesandla sabo sasekunene, abanye ngesandla sabo sasekhohlo. Ngumahluko nje, kwaye awunakuthi omnye ungcono okanye mbi kunomnye. Kuyafana nakule nto.

Ukuba 'ungumntu oqhelekileyo kwimithambo-luvo', ingqondo yakho ingasebenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo kuneyomntu 'one-neurodiversary.' Kodwa nobabini ninezinto ezininzi ezifanayo. Nobabini ningabantu, kwaye nobabini nifuna ukuphila ubomi obonwabisayo nobunempilo.

Ukuxhasa 'ii-neurodiversities' kunye nokudala imeko-bume ebafaneleyo ngokwenene kuluncedo kuye wonke umntu. Sonke sifanele sizabalazele uluntu apho 'ii-neurodiversities' kunye 'nee-neurotypicals' zinokuba nolonwabo ngokulinganayo.

Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya

Kulungile, nazi izinto ekufuneka uzikhumbule koko sithethe ngako:

• 'I-Neurotypical' ibhekisa kwindlela eqhelekileyo apho ubuchopho babantu abaninzi bukhula kwaye busebenza khona. Ayisiyonto yokuxilongwa kwezonyango.
• OkuAsikuko ukuba "kuqhelekile" xa kuthelekiswa "nokungaqhelekanga" okanye "okuhle" xa kuthelekiswa "nokubi." Yinto nje enye yokwahluka (ukwahluka kweemvakalelo) ekhoyo engqondweni yomntu.
• Ukuba 'ngumntu oqhelene nemithambo-luvo' kusenokungabi luphawu oluhlala lukho ubomi bonke. "Ukwahlukana kwemithambo-luvo okufunyenweyo" kunokubangela utshintsho kwindlela esebenza ngayo ingqondo yomntu.
• Abazali 'abane-neurotypical' banokuba nabantwana 'abane-neurotypical', kwaye abazali 'abane-neurotypical' banokuba nabantwana 'abane-neurotypical'.
• Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuqonda, ukwamkela, kunye nokuhlonipha umahluko phakathi komnye nomnye. Sonke sifanele sibe nethemba loluntu oluvumela ukwahluka nokuphatha wonke umntu ngokulinganayo.

Ngoko ke, ndicinga ukuba ngoku uyiqonda ngcono igama elithi 'neurotypical'. Ukwazi izinto ezinje kusinceda siqondane ngcono.

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