Ungenza ntoni xa umntwana wakho omncinci etyhefwa? Masiqaphele oku!

Owu, ezi ngxaki zinokwenzeka nangaliphi na ixesha xa kukho umntwana omncinci endlwini. Kuyoyikisa kakhulu ukucinga ngazo, akunjalo? Kodwa ukuba siyazi kakuhle le nto, singenza izinto ezifunekayo ngokukhawuleza ngaphandle kokukhathazeka. Uninzi lwexesha, ezi zinto zenzeka kubantwana abancinci ekhaya. Nangona ezinye iingxaki zinokulawulwa ekhaya, ngengcebiso yezonyango, ezinye iimeko zinokuba zinzulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba zifune unyango olungxamisekileyo. Ngoko ke, masithethe ngale nto namhlanje.

Zithini iimpawu zetyhefu? Lumka!

Umntwana angabonakalisa iimpawu ezahlukeneyo xa exhuzula. Ukuba ubona enye okanye ezingaphezulu kwezi, kufuneka ukhathazeke. Ayizizo zonke iimpawu ezibonakalayo ngamaxesha onke, kwaye kubalulekile ukukhumbula oko.

• Ukulala, ukudinwa: Ukuba umntwana ubonakala elele nje, kunzima ukuvuka, okanye ubonakala edinwe, oko kungaba luphawu. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana obedlala kakuhle emini ulala ngequbuliso, kuya kuba yinto engathandabuzekiyo.
• Utshintsho olukhawulezileyo kwindlela yokuziphatha: Ukuba ubona utshintsho olukhulu kwindlela yokuziphatha komntwana wakho, njengomntwana owayedla ngokuhleka aze agijime ngequbuliso abe nomsindo, elila, okanye ezolile kakhulu, kufuneka uyiqwalasele loo nto. Basenokucaphuka okanye bathule kakhulu.
• Ivumba elingaqhelekanga: Ukuba umlomo, umphefumlo, umzimba, okanye impahla yomntwana wakho inevumba elingaqhelekanga nelingaqhelekanga (umzekelo, ivumba elifana ne-parafini, amayeza, okanye iikhemikhali), oko kungaba luphawu lwengxaki.
• Iipilisi, umgubo, okanye ezinye izinto emilebeni, emlonyeni, okanye empahleni: Ukuba ubona iipilisi, umgubo, okanye ulwelo olunemibala engaqhelekanga emilebeni yomntwana, emlonyeni, okanye empahleni, unokukrokrela ukuba umntwana ufake into emlonyeni wakhe.
• Ukuqunjelwa kakhulu: Ukuba kuphuma amathe amaninzi kunesiqhelo emlonyeni, luphawu olunokubonwa kwezinye iimeko.
• Ukugabha: Ukuba ngequbuliso uhlanza ngaphandle kwesizathu, kwaye ukuba uhlanza luneziqwenga zamayeza, lunombala ongaqhelekanga, okanye lunevumba elibi, xhalaba.
• Ukudideka: Ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukuqaphela ukuba uphi okanye ukuba unani, akaphenduli kakuhle kwinto oyibuzayo, okanye uzenza ngathi akazi nto, olo luphawu olubi kakhulu.

Ukuba ubona enye okanye ezingaphezulu kwezi mpawu, kufuneka uthathe inyathelo ngokukhawuleza.

Ndingenza ntoni ukuba umntwana wam uneempawu zokuxhuzula? Musa ukoyika uze wenze ezi zinto!

Kulungile, ngoku ukuba unamathandabuzo ngomntwana wakho, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba utye into ocinga ukuba inetyhefu, ufanele wenze ntoni? Kukho iindlela ezimbini ezinokwenzeka apha.

Umzekelo wokuqala: Umntwana uphilile engqondweni, uphilile, kwaye akanangxaki yokuphefumla.

Khawuthelekelele ukuba umntwana wakho utye into ocinga ukuba inetyhefu (umz., ipilisi enye okanye ezimbini, ulwelo oluncinci lokucoca), kodwa uphilile engqondweni, uziphatha ngendlela eqhelekileyo, udlala, kwaye akanangxaki yokuphefumla.

Musa ukoyika ngexesha elinje, kodwa kubalulekile ukufuna ingcebiso kagqirha ngokukhawuleza.

• Ukuba unako, tsalela umnxeba kwiZiko loLwazi lweZityhefu leSizwe eSri Lanka. Inombolo yabo yefowuni ithi 0112686143. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba le nombolo ibhalwe phantsi ndaweni ithile. Baza kubuza iinkcukacha (oko umntwana akuthathileyo, ubungakanani, ubudala, ubunzima, iimpawu zangoku, njl.njl.) baze bakuxelele kanye into omawuyenze. Banokukuxelela izinto onokuzenza ekhaya, okanye bakuxelele ukuba uye esibhedlele ngoko nangoko.
• Kungenjalo, ungamsa umntwana esibhedlele esikufutshane okanye kugqirha wosapho lwakho ngoko nangoko. Oogqirha banokuhlola imeko baze benze oko kufunekayo.
• Okubaluleke kakhulu: Qiniseka ukuba uzisa nantoni na ocinga ukuba umntwana wakho uyityile (ibhotile yeyeza, ipilisi, ibhotile yolwelo, okanye inxalenye yesityalo). Oku kuya kuba luncedo olukhulu koogqirha kunyango lwabo.

Inqanaba lesibini: Indlela umntwana aziphethe ngayo ayiqhelekanga, ulahlekelwa zingqondo, unesifo sokuxhuzula, kwaye kunzima nokuphefumla.

Khawuthelekelele ukrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho usele ityhefu, aze ukuziphatha kwakhe kutshintshe kakhulu ngequbuliso, alale kakhulu, aphelelwe ngamandla, axhuzule, okanye abe nobunzima bokuphefumla.

Le yimeko engxamisekileyo! Musa ukuchitha naliphi na ixesha!

• Fowunela u-1990 ngoko nangoko uze ufowunele i-Suwa Seriya Ambulance Service. Ngaphandle koko, mse umntwana kwi-Emergency Room/Accident Service yesibhedlele esikhulu ngokukhawuleza kangangoko unako.
• Musa ukumbangela umntwana ukuba ahlanze nangasiphi na isizathu! Ezinye iityhefu (umz. i-asidi, i-kerosene, njl.njl.) zinokuba yingozi ngakumbi ukuba zihlanzwa. Ngoko ke, musa ukumbangela ukuba ahlanze de ugqirha akuxelele ukuba wenze njalo. Musa ukunika isiraphu ye-Ipecac, eyayisetyenziswa ngaphambili.
• Ukuba umntwana ubonakala engazi nto, mjike ecaleni. Ngale ndlela, ukuba uyatshica okanye uyahlanza, kuya kuphuma emlonyeni endaweni yokuba kungene emiphungeni.
• Qiniseka ukuba uthatha nantoni na ocinga ukuba umntwana wakho uyityile (ibhotile yeyeza, ibhotile engamanzi, nantoni na ocinga ukuba inokuba yityhefu) uye nayo esibhedlele. Oku kuya kunceda oogqirha ukuba bagqibe ngokukhawuleza ukuba luhlobo luni lwetyhefu kunye nonyango abafanele balunike.

Singenza ntoni ukukhusela abantwana bethu abancinane ekonzakaleni? Masizinyamekele ezi zinto!

Kukho intetho ethi "ukuthintela kusoloko kungcono kunonyango." Oko kuyinyaniso ngokupheleleyo kwezi zisombululo. Zininzi izinto esinokuzenza ukukhusela abantwana bethu abancinci kwiingozi ezinjalo.

• Gcina onke amayeza endlwini, nokuba ziivithamini, kude nabantwana abancinci, nokuba kwiikhabhathi ezitshixiweyo okanye kwindawo ephakamileyo apho bangenakuwafikelela khona.Ezinye iipilisi kunye nesiraphu zinemibala emininzi kwaye zibukeka njengeelekese. Abantwana abancinci banokucinga ukuba ziyatyiwa. Umzekelo, kuthekani ukuba umzukulwana omncinci ufumana iipilisi zoxinzelelo lwegazi okanye zeswekile zikamakhulu wakhe aze azifake emlonyeni wakhe? Khawucinge ngento eza kwenzeka. Ngoko ke lumka kakhulu ngale nto.
• Iimveliso zokucoca – umzekelo, i-bleach, i-asidi, izicoci zomgangatho, izibulali-zinambuzane – kunye nezixovuli zeengcongconi, i-parafini, kunye notywala akufuneki zigcinwe kwiindawo apho abantwana banokuzifumana khona. Zigcine zitshixiwe okanye zibekwe phezulu apho zingenakufikelelwa khona. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi ziza ngeebhotile ezinemibala, ngoko ke abantwana bayalingeka ukuba bazithathe bazifake emlonyeni wabo.
• Lahla iibhetri zeqhosha ezisetyenzisiweyo ngokufanelekileyo. Gcina ezintsha kude nabantwana. Ezi bhetri zincinci, zikhazimlayo zifumaneka kwiilawuli ezikude, kwiithoyi, nakwiikhadi zomculo. Ziyingozi kakhulu ukuba ziginyiwe. Zinokubangela umonakalo omkhulu emqaleni okanye esiswini kwiiyure ezimbalwa. Ke ngoko, emva nje kokusetyenziswa, zilahle enkunkuma kude nabantwana. Gcina iibhetri ezintsha kwiphakheji efanayo kwaye uzigcine kwindawo ekhuselekileyo.
• Ungaze, nangasiphi na isizathu, uxelele umntwana omncinci uthi, "Eli yeza linambitheka njengetshokholethi" okanye "Eli linambitheka njengejusi." Xa utsho njalo, baya kucinga ukuba kukutya okanye isiselo. Ukuba balibamba ngelixa ungekho, bangalingena ngokunyenya bazame ukulitya. Xa unika amayeza, soloko usithi, "Eli liyeza eliza kukwenza uzive ungcono."
• Le yimpazamo enkulu eyenziwa ngabantu abaninzi: Ungaze ugcine izinto ezinokuba yityhefu ezifana nolwelo lokucoca, izibulali-zinambuzane, okanye i-parafini kwiibhotile ebezinokutya okanye iziselo ngaphambili (umz., iibhotile zamanzi, iibhotile zeziselo ezibandayo). Ayingabo abantwana kuphela, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha abantu abadala banokuzisela ezi zinto bengaqondanga. Khawucinge ngento enokwenzeka ukuba ubeka i-parafini encinci kwibhotile yamanzi uze uyishiye ekhitshini, aze umntu ayisele, ayibize ngamanzi! Soloko ugcina ezi zinto kwiibhotile zokuqala ezazifike nazo, kunye neleyibhile eqhotyoshelweyo.
• Ungaze ushiye iityhefu zeempuku okanye izibambo zokubulala izinambuzane emhlabeni apho abantwana banokuzifumana lula khona. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi ziza ngendlela yeepellets ezinemibala okanye iibhisikithi, ezinokuginywa lula ngabantwana, becinga ukuba kukutya.
• Lumka ngezityalo zokuhombisa ekhayeni lakho. Kukho iintlobo ezithile zezityalo zangaphakathi nezasegadini ezimagqabi azo, iintyatyambo, neziqhamo zinokuba yityhefu. Ukuba umntwana omncinci uzifaka emlonyeni wakhe, zinokubangela iingxaki. Ngoko ke, khangela ezo zityalo kwiindawo apho abantwana banokufikelela kuzo. Ukuba unamathandabuzo, kungcono ukuzisusa.
• Lumka ngeengxowa neebhegi zeendwendwe. Ngamanye amaxesha, iingxowa zeendwendwe zinokuba nezinto ezifana namayeza kunye nezinto zokuthambisa. Xa abantwana abancinci benomdla baze bazikhuphe, banokubanjwa bazifake emlonyeni wabo. Ke ngoko, xa iindwendwe zifika, nceda ubacele ukuba babeke iingxowa zabo kwindawo abangenakukwazi ukufikelela kuyo.

Khumbula, xa kukho abantwana abancinci , nokuba ngumzuzu omnye wokungakhathali unokukhokelela kwingozi enkulu. Ngoko ke hlala uqaphela okukungqongileyo.

Ngaba masizikhumbuze ngento esithethe ngayo? (Umyalezo oya ekhaya)

Kulungile, masiphinde sijonge ezona zinto zibalulekileyo sithethe ngazo namhlanje.

1. Ukuthintela kungcono: Gcina zonke izinto zasekhaya, ezinje ngamayeza, iimveliso zokucoca, izibulali-zinambuzane kunye neebhetri, kwiindawo ezikhuselekileyo apho abantwana abancinci bangenakuzifikelela khona. Oku kuthetha ukuba zigcinwe kwiikhabhathi ezitshixiweyo okanye kumgangatho ophezulu.

2. Qaphela iimpawu zokuxhuzula: Lumka iimpawu ezinjengokozela, utshintsho olukhawulezileyo kwindlela oziphatha ngayo, ivumba elingaqhelekanga, ukuhlanza, kunye nokudideka.

3. Thatha inyathelo ngoko nangoko:

• Ukuba umntwana usezingqondweni kwaye uphilile, fowunela iZiko loLwazi lweZityhefu likaZwelonke (0112686143) okanye ubone ugqirha ngokukhawuleza.
• Ukuba imeko yomntwana imbi kakhulu (ukulahlekelwa zingqondo, ukuxhuzula, ubunzima bokuphefumla), fowunela u-1990 ngoko nangoko uze ubize i-ambulensi okanye umse esibhedlele ngokukhawuleza.

4. Musa ukuhlanza (ngaphandle kwengcebiso kagqirha): Kwezinye iintlobo zetyhefu, ukuhlanza kunokwenza imeko ibe mandundu.

5. Thabatha into enetyhefu uye nayo: Thabatha into (ibhotile yeyeza, ipakethi) ocinga ukuba umntwana usenokuba uyityile uye nayo esibhedlele. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kunyango.

6. Musa ukushiya abantwana bodwa: Hlala ubajongile, ingakumbi abantwana abancinci, xa bedlala okanye besenza umsebenzi wesikolo.

Ukuqonda kwakho, ingqalelo yakho, kunye nenyathelo elikhawulezileyo olithathayo zezona zinto zinamandla amakhulu onokuthi usindise umntwana wakho omthandayo kwingozi enjalo. Musa ukoyika, ukuba uyazikhumbula ezi ngongoma, ungajongana nantoni na.

Ukutyhefa , ukutyhefa ebantwaneni, ukutyhefa, ukutyhefa ebantwaneni, iimpawu zokutyhefa, ukuthintela ukutyhefa, unyango olungxamisekileyo, iZiko loLwazi lweSizwe lweeTyhefu eSri Lanka, 1990 Suwa Seriya