Xa ugqirha ekuxelela okanye umntu omaziyo ukuba unesifo okanye unesifo esithile, imibuzo yokuqala efika engqondweni yile: "Gqirha, ingaba oku kuyinyani?", "Ngaba oku kuya kunyangwa ngokupheleleyo?", "Ngaba ndiya kuze ndikwazi ukuphila ngendlela endandiphila ngayo ngaphambili?". Ngenxa yokungaqiniseki konke oku engqondweni yethu, sonke sifuna ukwazi into ethile eqinisekileyo ngekamva. Ngamaxesha anjalo, ukuqikelela kukagqirha okusekelwe kwezonyango namava ngendlela imeko yakho eya kuqhubeka ngayo kubizwa ngokuba yi-prognosis .
Yintoni nje into yokuqikelela ukuba izinto ziza kwenzeka?
Ngamafutshane, i-prognosis sisibikezelo sezonyango malunga nesiphumo esinokwenzeka kwimeko yakho. Yicinge njengoqikelelo lwemozulu. Kanye njengokuba usenokuthi, "Kukho amathuba angama-90% emvula namhlanje," i-prognosis sisibikezelo malunga noko kunokwenzeka ngokusekelwe kwidatha yangaphambili kunye namava abanye abaguli.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba, oku akulona uqikelelo oluchanekileyo olupheleleyo. Olu luqikelelo olungcono olusekelwe kwisayensi yezonyango. Akukho mntu unokuqikelela ikamva lakho ngokuqiniseka. Nangona kunjalo, ngokusekelwe kumava amawaka ezigulana ezineemeko ezifana nezakho, ugqirha wakho unokukunika umbono olungileyo wento enokwenzeka kuwe.
Uqikelelo lwesifo lunokukunceda ufumane iimpendulo kwimibuzo efana nale:
- Ngaba isifo sam singanyangeka?
- Ngaba ndiza kukwazi ukuchacha ngokupheleleyo?
- Ngaba iimpawu zam ziya kuphela?
- Ngaba ndiza kukwazi ukwenza umsebenzi wam ndedwa?
- Ingaba olu nyango lufanelekile ngokwenene?
- Ndingaphila ixesha elingakanani?
Kutheni kubalulekile ukuba uyazi le meko?
Ukuba nombono othile ngento eza kwenzeka kwixesha elizayo ngesifo sakho kunokukunceda wena kunye nabanakekeli bakho ukuba nenze izigqibo ezilungileyo ebomini bakho. Asinakuzithintela rhoqo ekuguleni okanye ekubeni neengozi. Kodwa ukuba nombono othile ngento enokwenzeka emva koko kunokusinceda sijongane ngcono nezinto ezingaphaya kwamandla ethu.
| Intsimi yokwenza izigqibo | Indlela Uqikelelo Lwezigulo Olunceda Ngayo |
|---|---|
| Izigqibo Zonyango | Ukwazi isibikezelo kunokukunceda ukhethe unyango, kunye nokulwala. Khawuthelekelele ukuba umntu unomhlaza. Ngenxa yokuba efuna ukwandisa amathuba akhe okusinda, angakhetha unyango olunzima oluneziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezininzi. Kodwa, omnye umntu onesifo esifanayo unokwala olo nyango kuba ecinga, "Ndifuna ukungabi nantlungu kwaye ndikhululeke ubomi bam bonke." Zombini ezi zigqibo zezomntu ngamnye. Isibikezelo sikukhokela ekwenzeni eso sigqibo. |
| Izigqibo zoBomi | Ukuba nombono wekamva kunokukunceda ucwangcise imihla yakho. Kungakushukumisela ukuba ulungiselele imali yakho kunye nobomi bakho bokomoya. Olu lwazi lunokukunceda ubeke phambili abantu ofuna ukudibana nabo kunye neenjongo ofuna ukuzifezekisa. Kwakhona, ukwazi ukuba uza kuphila ngokupheleleyo kunokunciphisa uxinzelelo lokwenza izigqibo ezinkulu zobomi ngokukhawuleza. |
Oogqirha bayifumana njani le meko yokuqikelela?
Oogqirha basebenzisa zombini idatha evela kuphando lwezonyango kunye namava abo obuchwephesha ukwenza isibikezelo. Izibalo zonyango zihlala zisetyenziselwa ukufumanisa isibikezelo sakho. Abaphandi bajonga amava amaqela amakhulu ezigulana kwaye bachonge iipatheni zesifo. Ukwazi oko kwenzeke kuninzi lwabantu abanesifo kwixesha elidlulileyo kuluncedo kakhulu ekuxeleni kwangaphambili oko kuya kwenzeka kumntu onesifo eso ngoku.
Ugqirha udala ingqikelelo ehambelana nawe ngokuqokelela imeko yakho yempilo kunye nedatha kwizigulana ezinjengawe.
| Uhlobo lweenkcukacha-manani eziqwalaselweyo | Intsingiselo nje |
|---|---|
| Amanqanaba okusinda | Linani labantu abasaphila emva kwexesha elithile emva kokuba befunyaniswe benesifo. Umzekelo, xa sithetha ngomhlaza, sithetha "ngezinga lokusinda kweminyaka emi-5." |
| Amanqanaba eengxaki | Bangaphi abantu abafumana ezinye iingxaki zempilo ngexesha lesi sifo okanye emva konyango oluthile. Ingqikelelo yesifo inokutshintsha xa kuvela iingxaki ezintsha ezifana nezi. |
| Amanqanaba empumelelo yonyango | Indlela unyango olusebenza ngayo ukunceda ekunyangeni isifo, ukulawula ukusasazeka kwaso, okanye ukunciphisa iimpawu. |
| Amanani okuphinda-phinda | Amathuba okuba isifo okanye uphawu luphinde lubuye emva kokuba luphelile. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu xa kuthethwa ngethuba lokuba umhlaza uza kuphinda ubuye emva kwexesha elingenazo iimpawu (ukuxolelwa) kumhlaza. |
Izinto ezibangela ukubikezela kwangaphambili
Oogqirha bajonga nezinye izinto ezininzi xa befumanisa ubukhali besifo. Nangona ezinye zezi zinto zichaphazela umhlaza, ezininzi zixhaphakile nakwesiphi na isifo.
- Uhlobo lwesimo: Uhlobo oluthile lwesimo onaso lunokuchaphazela kakhulu ukubikezela kwakho isifo. Cinga ngomhlaza. Ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni ukhula phi emzimbeni (umz., ibele, imiphunga), iziphumo zinokwahluka kakhulu.
- Ukuqhubela phambili kwesifo: Xa ufumanisa isifo, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba sisasazeke kangakanani emzimbeni. Kwimeko yomhlaza, inqanaba laso liyinto ephambili echaphazela ukuqikelela kwangaphambili.
- Iimpawu zemfuza nezebhayoloji: Ngamanye amaxesha, izinto ezifana notshintsho lwemfuza kwiiseli ezigulayo zinokunika umbono wokuba isifo siya kuba yingozi kangakanani.
- Impilo yakho iyonke: Ukuba uneengxaki zempilo ezingaphezu kwesinye (umz. isifo seswekile, uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu), ngamanye amaxesha imeko inokuba nzima ngakumbi, nto leyo echaphazela ukubikezela kwangaphambili kwesifo.
- Nokuba kukho unyango olusebenzayo: Ukuba kukho unyango olusebenzayo nolusebenzayo lwesifo sakho, kukho ithuba elikhulu lokuba ingqikelelo iya kuba ntle.
- Indlela osabela ngayo kunyango: Ukuba umzimba wakho usabela kakuhle kumayeza nakunyango, olo luphawu oluhle kakhulu.
- Imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla:Ungafumana umbono wento eza kwenzeka kwizinto ezifana nenqanaba apho ungenza khona imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla wedwa, kunye nokuba ulele ebhedini na.
- Ezinye izinto: Kwezinye izifo, izinto ezinje ngobudala, isini, kunye nohlanga zinokuchaphazela isiphumo sesifo ngandlela ithile.
Ugqirha ukuxelela njani ngesifo esingalindelekanga?
Akukho ndlela inye yokuthetha ngokubikezela isifo. Indlela ugqirha athetha ngayo nawe inokwahluka.
Ngamanye amaxesha ugqirha usenokuthi "Uqikelelo olukhuselekileyo." Oku kuthetha ukuba akukho lwazi lwaneleyo lokuthetha nantoni na ngokuqinisekileyo okwangoku, imeko ayiqinisekanga, ngoko ke kufuneka ulumke kakhulu.
Ngokwesiqhelo, ezi ndlela zilandelayo zinokuchaza i-prognosis:
- Kwimigangatho: amagama anje "Egqwesileyo", "Elungileyo", "Efanelekileyo", "Embi". Oku kuya kukunika umbono ocacileyo wemeko kwaye kukuvumele ukuba uqale ukuthetha ngeenkcukacha.
- Njengoluhlu lwexesha: Umzekelo, xa uthetha ngobude bexesha omele uphile ngalo, unganika uluhlu lwexesha olufana "neminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemihlanu," ngokusekelwe kwizibalo kunye nezinto zakho.
- Eyona meko ilungileyo/embi kakhulu: Abanye abantu bathanda ukulungela yonke into ngengqondo. Ungachaza oku ngokuthi "imeko ebalaseleyo, oku kwenzekayo, imeko embi kakhulu, oku kwenzekayo."
- Imeko enokwenzeka kakhulu: Ugqirha angakuxelela isiphumo esinokwenzeka kakhulu, esithi, "Oku koko kunokwenzeka kakhulu."
Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba i-prognosis ingatshintsha ngokuhamba kwexesha . Ugqirha wakho angahlaziya i-prognosis njengoko kufumaneka ulwazi olutsha, olufana nendlela osabela ngayo kunyango.
Uthetha njani nogqirha wakho malunga noqikelelo lwakho?
Xa sifumanisa ukuba sinesifo, singaziva singenakunceda. Kungathi ugqirha unamandla onke nolwazi lonke. Kodwa inyani yile, nawe unamandla amaninzi kule ngxoxo. Kuba nguwe kuphela owaziyo eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe.
Gcina ezi zinto engqondweni xa uthetha nogqirha wakho malunga noqikelelo lwakho lwesifo:
- Cacisa ukuba yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe: Ngaba ufuna ukuphila ixesha elide? Ungabi nantlungu? Ngaba ufuna ukukwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla njengesiqhelo? Cacisa oko kugqirha.
- Sixelele into onokuyibuza: Ngamanye amaxesha asifuni kuva iindaba ezimbi. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Unelungelo lokuthi, "Ndixelele nje iinkcukacha" okanye "Ndifuna ukwazi zonke iinkcukacha."
- Sixelele indlela ofuna ukulazi ngayo ulwazi: Ngaba ufuna imeko engcono/embi kakhulu, izibalo, okanye into enokwenzeka kakhulu?
- Ukuba awuqondi, qiniseka ukuba ubuza oku: Sisenokungaqondi amanye amagama asetyenziswa ngoogqirha. Oko akuyonto ihlazo. Ungaze woyike ukubuza uthi, "Gqirha, andiqondi loo nto. Ungakuchaza ngokulula?"
Yintoni umahluko phakathi kokuxilongwa kunye nokuxela kwangaphambili isifo?
La ngamagama amabini abantu abaninzi abawadidayo.
Khumbula nje:
Ukuxilongwa kuthetha ukufumanisa , oko kukuthi, ukuchonga isifo .
Ukuxela kwangaphambili kuthetha ukuxela kwangaphambili , oko kukuthi, ukuxela kwangaphambili ngekamva lesi sifo.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuxela kwangaphambili yingqikelelo yezonyango, eyona nto ingcono malunga nekamva lemeko yakho, kodwa ayisosiqinisekiso se-100%.
- Ukwazi oku kuya kukunceda wenze izigqibo ezibalulekileyo malunga nonyango kunye nobomi.
- Ugqirha umisela i-prognosis ngokusekelwe kulwazi lwezonyango, izibalo, kunye namava akhe.
- Zininzi izinto ezichaphazela oku, njengempilo yakho iyonke, inqanaba lesi sifo, kunye nendlela osabela ngayo kunyango.
- Musa ukoyika ukubuza ugqirha wakho imibuzo, ukufuna ulwazi ekufuneka uluqonde, kunye nokuveza izimvo zakho. Bubomi bakho obu, ngoko ke ungumdlali obalulekileyo kule ngxoxo.
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