Ungakhusela njani ubuwena bakho kwi-intanethi kunye nodumo lwakho? Masithethe ngale nto!

Mhlawumbi usebenzisa 'iNethiwekhi yoLuntu' kule mihla, njenge-Facebook, i-Instagram, iTikTok, akunjalo? Uthumela umyalezo 'weText' kubahlobo bakho, 'uthumela' 'iFoto' entle, 'wabelana' ngevidiyo oyithandayo. Ngale ndlela, ngayo yonke into encinci oyenzayo kwi-intanethi, ubuwena bakho, oko kukuthi, ukuba ungubani kunye nendlela oziphatha ngayo, yakhiwe kwihlabathi 'le-Intanethi'. Ngamanye amaxesha obu 'buBuwena be-Intanethi' bunokwahluka kancinci kwindlela abahlobo bakho, usapho, kunye nootitshala besikolo abakubona ngayo ebomini bokwenyani. Ukuzama abalinganiswa abahlukeneyo kwi-intanethi ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba mnandi. Ungayitshintsha indlela obonakala ngayo kwabanye, indlela oziphatha ngayo, kwaye uhlolisise ngakumbi ngezinto ozithandayo. Kodwa, njengakubomi bokwenyani, kukho amanyathelo anokukunceda uhlale ulawula kwi-intanethi. Makhe sithethe ngaloo nto namhlanje.

Kutheni le nto "ubuwena kwi-intanethi" kunye nodumo kubaluleke kangaka?

Cinga ngako oku, olu "buso" ulwenzayo kwi-intanethi, okanye 'ubuwena bakho kwi-intanethi', lunokuchaphazela ikamva lakho. Xa ufaka isicelo kwisikolo, eyunivesithi, okanye emsebenzini kwixesha elizayo, amanye amaziko anokujonga 'iProfayili yakho yeMidiya yoLuntu'. Emva koko, ungalahlekelwa lithuba ngenxa yento engafanelekanga oyithumele 'kwi-intanethi'. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukulumka ngale nto.

"Oko ukuthethayo kwi-intanethi kufana 'nendlela yakho yedijithali'. Inyathelo ngalinye olithathayo kuloo ndlela linokubonwa ngumntu."

Ngamafutshane, udumo lwakho kwi-intanethi, indlela abanye abacinga ngayo ngawe kwi-intanethi, ixabiseke njengodumo lwakho lokwenyani. Luxanduva lwakho ukulukhusela.

Khumbula ezi zinto ukuze ukhusele ubuwena bakho kwi-intanethi kunye nodumo lwakho!

Kulungile, makhe sibone indlela yokukhusela ubuwena bakho kwi-intanethi kunye nodumo lwakho. Ukuba uyazikhumbula ezi zinto, ungahlala ukhuselekile.

1. Akukho nto kwi-intanethi 'eyexeshana', emva kwayo yonke loo nto!

Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyiqonde kuqala. Awunakukwazi ukususa ngokupheleleyo nantoni na oyithumela kwi-intanethi. Khawuthelekelele, unomsindo kumhlobo wakho kwaye uthumela into embi ngomsindo. Nokuba uyicima emva kwexesha elithile, umntu usenokuyithatha umfanekiso wayo. Okanye uyikhuphele. Awunalo nofifi lokuba bangaphi abantu abaya kuyithumela kwaye iza kuhlala ixesha elingakanani kwi-intanethi. Ngoko ke, cinga kabini, kodwa kathathu okanye kane ngaphambi kokuba uthumele into ethile. Zibuze, "Ingaba kulungile ukuba ndikubone oku ngonaphakade?"

2. Ukubaluleka kokwenza i-'Profayili' yakho ibe 'yabucala'

Kwii-'Social Networks' ezininzi, ungenza i-'Profile' yakho ibe 'yeyoluntu' okanye 'yeyabucala'. Ukuba 'yeyoluntu', nabani na angayibona inkcazelo yakho, 'ifoto', 'ikopi', 'ibambe isikrini'. Ingasetyenziswa ngeendlela ongazifuniyo. Ke ngoko,Soloko useta 'Izicwangciso Zakho Zabucala' kwi 'Profayili zakho zeNethiwekhi Yentlalo' ngokufanelekileyo kwaye uzigcine 'Zabucala'. Musa ukuthembela kuphela kwi 'Izicwangciso Ezimiselweyo' (oko kukuthi izicwangciso abazibonelela ekuqaleni) ze 'Sayithi' nganye. Funda 'Izicwangciso' ngononophelo kwaye ugcine izinto zakho ziyimfihlo kangangoko unako.

3. Londoloza 'iphasiwedi' yakho njengegolide!

Iphasiwedi yakho, oko kukuthi, iphasiwedi yakho, ifana nesitshixo sendlu yakho. Ukuba iwela ezandleni ezingalunganga, banokuzenza ngathi ungumntu ongenguye, benze izinto ezimbi ngeAkhawunti yakho, baze bonakalise igama lakho. Ke ngoko:

• Sebenzisa `Iphasiwedi` eqinileyo. Kuphephe ukusebenzisa amagama agqithisiweyo alula ukuwaqikelela (njengosuku lwakho lokuzalwa okanye igama lakho). Sebenzisa indibaniselwano yoonobumba, amanani, kunye neempawu.
• Tshintsha igama lakho lokugqitha rhoqo.
• Musa ukwabelana ngegama lakho eligqithisiweyo nabani na. Musa ukwabelana ngegama lakho eligqithisiweyo nomhlobo wakho osenyongweni okanye isithandwa sakho, ngaphandle kwabazali bakho okanye umntu omdala omthembileyo! Yinto yakho yobuqu.

4. Cinga kabini ngemifanekiso engafanelekanga kunye 'nezimvo'

Eminye imifanekiso, iividiyo, kunye nezimvo ocinga ukuba zihlekisa okanye "zintle" ngoku zinokuba yingxaki enkulu ukuba uzijonga emva kweminyaka, okanye ukuba utitshala wakho, umntu okwiziko lemfundo ephakamileyo ofaka isicelo kuye, okanye umntu onokukunika umsebenzi kwixesha elizayo uya kuzibona.

Umthetho olungileyo ngulo: "Ukuba utatomkhulu noomakhulu, abazali bakho, abazali bomhlobo wakho osenyongweni, okanye umntu omhloniphayo ubona into enokukwenza uzive uneentloni uze ucinge, 'Owu, wenze ntoni lo mntwana?', kungcono ungayithumeli."

Ungalibali ukuba nokuba uthumela kwi-'Private Page', isenokuba 'iHacked' kwaye umntu angayi 'Kopa' aze 'ayithumele'.

5. Musa ukuphendula kwizicelo ezingafanelekanga!

Ulutsha oluninzi lufumana imiyalezo nezicelo ezingafanelekanga kwi-intanethi. Ngamanye amaxesha zivela kubantu ongabaziyo, ngamanye amaxesha zivela kubantu abacinga ukuba ngabahlobo. Ezi zinto zinokuba zezoyikisayo, ezingaqhelekanga, nezibangela iintloni. Ukuba uziva ngathi umntu uyakuhlukumeza kwi-intanethi, xelela umntu omdala omthembayo (umzali, utitshala, njl.njl.) ngoko nangoko. Ungaze uphendule kwimiyalezo enjalo. Ukwenza njalo kuya kwenza izinto zibe mbi ngakumbi. Ungagqibela uthethe into ongafuni ukuyithetha.

6. Yiba nomonde ngaphambi kokuba uthumele unomsindo - masiphephe ukuvutha ngumsindo.

Ngaba wakha wacaphuka kakhulu ngento ethethwe ngumntu kangangokuba uzive ufuna ukuthumela 'Umbhalo' okanye 'Ingxelo' ebukhali? Ngamaxesha anjalo, linda imizuzu embalwa uze uzole. Khumbula, nokuba umsindo wakho uyancipha okanye ingqondo yakho itshintsha, loo 'ngxelo' ibukhali oyithumeleyo isenokuba isekwi-intanethi. Uza kuzisola kamva. 'Imiyalezo' eyenziwe ngomsindo onje ikwabizwa ngokuba yi-'Flaming'. Ke ngoko, musa ukuba likhoboka leemvakalelo, kodwa yenza ngobulumko.

7. Musa ukuthumela izimvo ezibangela intlungu okanye ukuthuka abanye.

Ekubeni singazifihla amagama ethu okwenyani kunye neenkcukacha zethu kwezinye 'iiNethiwekhi zoLuntu' kunye 'neeForam', abanye abantu bacinga ukuba banokuthetha nantoni na abayifunayo, bathuke abanye, baze bahlukumeze abanye. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba singathethi okanye senze izinto kwi-intanethi esingenakuzenza ubuso ngobuso nomntu. Ukwenza izinto ezinjalo akugcini nje ngokulimaza iimvakalelo zabanye abantu, kodwa ukuba umntu ufumanisa ukuba ungubani, kuya konakalisa kakhulu 'uDumo' lwakho. Cinga ngaphambi kokuba 'uPose', "Ndingatsho oku phambi kwabo?"

8. Masihloniphe imithetho 'yeLungelo lokushicilela'.

Asinakusebenzisa okanye sabelane ngayo yonke imifanekiso, ingoma, okanye ividiyo kwi-Intanethi ngendlela esiyifunayo. Banabanini. Yiyo loo nto `(Ilungelo lokushicilela)` liyinjongo, oko kukuthi, ilungelo lokushicilela. Ukuba `uthumela`, `wabelana`, okanye usasaza izinto zabanye abantu ngaphandle kwemvume yabo, akukho mthethweni. Izinto ezinjalo zinokubangela iingxaki kwixesha elizayo. Ke ngoko, yiqaphele imithetho `Ilungelo lokushicilela` kwaye uyihloniphe.

9. Jonga 'iDijithali yeNyathelo' yakho

Oku kufana nomsebenzi wobucuphi. Chwetheza igama lakho lesikrini (igama olisebenzisayo elithi 'online') okanye 'Idilesi ye-imeyile' kwi-'(i-Search Engine)' efana nethi 'Google' uze ubone ukuba kuvela ntoni. Ngale ndlela ungafumana umbono wokuba abanye bakubona njani 'kwi-intanethi', ukuba 'i-Intanethi yakho injani'. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-'(Digital Footprint)' - imikhondo oyishiyayo kwi-intanethi.

10. Funa uncedo kumntu omdala othembekileyo, lucele

Ukuba unemibuzo okanye amathandabuzo malunga neempawu ozishiya kwi-intanethi, malunga 'nobuntu bakho kwi-intanethi' , ungoyiki ukubuza umntu omdala othembekileyo (umama, utata, utitshala, isalamane osithembayo). Yinyani, mhlawumbi uyazi okungakumbi nge 'teknoloji' kunye 'neendaba zoluntu' kunabaninzi abantu abadala. Nangona kunjalo, amava abo obomi aya kukunceda kakhulu. Baza kukunika iingcebiso ezilungileyo.

Okokugqibela, nantsi into endimele ndiyithethe (Umyalezo Wokubuyela Ekhaya)

Ubuwena bakho kwi-intanethi kunye nodumo lwakho lwakhiwe ngendlela efanayo nobuwena bakho bokwenyani. Kodwa kukho umahluko omkhulu. Xa uthetha okanye wenza into kwi-intanethi, awusoloko unethuba lokuchaza ngokucacileyo intsingiselo yakho kunye nethoni yakho. Abantu banokukuqonda gwenxa ngokusekelwe kumazwi akho kuphela.

Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba 'uPose', 'uYabelana', okanye 'uVavanye' into, cinga nje kube kanye, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi. Sebenzisa i-intanethi ngononophelo. Emva koko akuyi kufuneka uzisole kamva, uthi, "Owu, kutheni ndenze/ndithethe loo nto?", kwaye ungakha 'ubuwena obukwi-Intanethi' obuhle. Buya kuba luncedo kakhulu nakwikamva lakho. Lumka!

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