Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' iyinto okukhulunywa ngayo kakhulu, futhi abanye abantu bayisebenzisa njengendlela yokuvimbela inzalo. Abanye bayibiza nangokuthi 'Withdrawal Method'. Kalula nje, ngesikhathi socansi, umlingani wakho ukhipha ipipi lakhe esithweni sakho sangasese ngaphambi nje kokuba akhiphe i-ejaculation. Ngakho-ke, isebenza kangakanani le ndlela? Ingabe kuwumqondo omuhle ukuthembela kuyo ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa? Ake sixoxe ngalokhu ngokusobala nangokucacile namuhla.
Uhlelo 'lokuKhupha' lusebenza kanjani?
Ukuze ukukhulelwa kwenzeke, isidoda somlingani wakho kumele sidlule esithweni sakho sangasese sowesifazane bese sihlangana neqanda emapayipini akho esibeletho . Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi ukukhulelwa.
Ngendlela ethi 'Donsela Ngaphandle', umlingani uzama ukuvimbela isidoda esiqukethe isidoda ukuba singangeni esithweni sangasese sowesifazane. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ipenisi iyakhishwa ngaphambi kokukhipha isidoda bese isidoda sikhishwa emzimbeni. Inhloso eyinhloko yalokhu ukunciphisa isikhala sesidoda sokungena esithweni sangasese sowesifazane.
Isebenza kangakanani le ndlela? Ingabe ingathenjwa ngempela?
Nansi into ebalulekile. Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' isebenza kahle ngo-80% kuphela. Lokhu akusebenzi kahle kakhulu kunezinye izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo , njengekhondomu, amaphilisi okuvimbela inzalo , noma ama-IUD .
Kalula nje, owesifazane oyedwa kwabahlanu abasebenzisa le ndlela yodwa yokuvimbela inzalo uzokhulelwa kungakapheli nonyaka.
Ungase ucabange, "Sesilokhu sisebenzisa le ndlela iminyaka eminingi futhi ayikaze ibe nenkinga." Kodwa lokho akuqinisekisi ukuthi ngeke ukhulelwe ngesikhathi esizayo. Ngisho nephutha elincane kakhulu elenziwa umlingani wakho lingaholela ekukhulelweni .
Yiziphi izizathu zokwehluleka kwendlela ethi 'Pull Out'?
Kunendawo enkulu yamaphutha kule ndlela. Ake sibheke izizathu eziyinhloko.
| Isizathu sokwehluleka | Incazelo elula |
|---|---|
| Ukungakwazi ukuyisusa ngesikhathi | Akulula ukwazi isikhathi esiqondile sokukhipha isisu. Ukukhipha isisu kuvame ukwenzeka ngesikhathi senjabulo enkulu ngesikhathi socansi. Ngaleso sikhathi, kunzima kakhulu ukunikeza ubuchopho isignali yokuthi "ukhiphe manje". Umuntu onolwazi oluncane angase angakwazi ukubona lesi sikhathi. Futhi, ngisho nomuntu onolwazi angase enze amaphutha ngenxa yezinto ezifana nokucindezeleka notshwala. |
| Uketshezi olungaphambi kokukhipha i-ejaculate | Lokho abantu abaningi abangakwazi ukuthi uketshezi olucacile oluphuma epenis ngaphambi kokukhipha isisu (pre-cum) lungaqukatha nenani elincane lesidoda. Ngisho noma inani lesidoda kulolu ketshezi liphansi, lisenganele ukubangela ukukhulelwa. Ngakho-ke, noma ngabe ukhipha isidoda sakho ngesikhathi esifanele, kunengozi yokuthi lolu ketshezi lungene esithweni sangasese sangasese ngaphambi kokukhipha isisu. |
| Ukugcoba isidoda ngesitho sangasese sowesifazane | Mhlawumbe umlingani wakho angakhipha ipenisi yakhe ngesikhathi esifanele. Kodwa kuthiwani uma isidoda sifika emathangeni akho noma eduze kwesitho sakho sangasese sowesifazane (i-vulva)? Isidoda singamaseli angabhukuda kahle. Uma kukhona umswakama ozungeze isitho sangasese sowesifazane, isidoda singangena esitho sangasese sowesifazane ngaso futhi sibangele ukukhulelwa. |
Yiziphi izinkinga ezinkulu zale ndlela?
Manje cishe usuyaqonda ukuthi le ndlela akuyona indlela yokuvimbela inzalo ethembekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezinye izinkinga eziningana.
- Ukubeka umthwalo wokukhulelwa ngokuphelele kowesifazane: Kule ndlela, umlingani wesilisa unamandla aphelele okulawula ukukhulelwa. Uma ethola isikhathi esingalungile, noma enquma ukungahoxi ngenxa yenjabulo yaleso sikhathi, kuzodingeka ubhekane nemiphumela. Awunawo amandla okulawula lokhu.
- Ucansi lungaba lucindezelayo: Ukuya ocansini ucindezelwe "ukuyeka ngesikhathi esifanele" kungaba lucindezelayo kubo bobabili abantu abathintekayo. Lokhu kunganciphisa nenjabulo nokwaneliseka kwempilo yakho yocansi.
- Isidingo sokuvimbela inzalo esiphuthumayo:Uma usola ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle, kuzodingeka ugijime ufune izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo eziphuthumayo. Lokho kukucindezela okukhulu. Ukusebenzisa indlela ethembekile kusukela ekuqaleni kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokugwema lolu hlobo lobunzima.
- Ukuntuleka kokuvikeleka ezifweni ezithathelwana ngocansi : Lena yinto ebaluleke kakhulu futhi eyingozi.
Khumbula, indlela ethi 'Pull Out' ayivikeli ezifweni ezithathelwana ngocansi (STIs) njenge-HIV, i-Gonorrhea, kanye ne-Chlamydia. Okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuzivikela kulezi zifo ukusebenzisa ikhondomu.
Pho kungani abantu abaningi kangaka besebenzisa le ndlela?
Naphezu kwalezi zingozi, kunezizathu eziningana ezenza imibhangqwana eminingi isebenzise le ndlela:
- Ngoba akubizi lutho.
- Ngoba abazi kahle ezinye izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo (amaphilisi, ama-IUD, imijovo).
- Ngoba angifuni ukufaka noma yiluphi uhlobo lomshini noma i-hormone emzimbeni wami.
- Ngoba ungenza isinqumo ngokuzumayo lapho uya ocansini, futhi akudingeki uhlele kusenesikhathi.
- Ngoba akukho okunye okufanele kwenziwe uma kungekho enye indlela yokuvimbela inzalo etholakalayo ngaleso sikhathi.
Abanye abantu basebenzisa le ndlela ukuze bathole ukuvikelwa okwengeziwe kanye nenye indlela yokuvimbela inzalo (isib. amaphilisi).
Uma usebenzisa le ndlela, ungayinciphisa kanjani ingozi?
Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' ingcono kancane kunokungayisebenzisi nhlobo indlela yokuvimbela inzalo. Kodwa uma usunqume ukuyisebenzisa, kunezinto ongazenza ukuze unciphise izingozi.
1. Yisebenzise ngenye indlela yokuvimbela inzalo: Lena yindlela engcono kakhulu yokunciphisa ingozi yokukhulelwa. Ukusebenzisa indlela ethi 'Pull Out' ngekhondomu kukhulisa kakhulu ukuphepha. Iphinde ivikele ezifweni ezithathelwana ngocansi.
2. Qaphela kakhulu ngesikhathi sokuvuthwa kweqanda: Ingozi enkulu yokukhulelwa iphakathi nomjikelezo wakho wanyanga zonke (cishe amasonto amabili ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuya esikhathini). Kuwukuhlakanipha ukumaka lezi zinsuku ekhalendeni futhi ungathembeli kuphela kule ndlela phakathi naleso sikhathi.
3. Cela umlingani wakho ukuthi achame ngaphambi kocansi: Lokhu kungasiza ekunciphiseni inani lesidoda oketshezini olungaphambi kokukhipha iqanda ngezinga elithile. Kodwa-ke, akuyona indlela ephumelela ngokuphelele.
4. Gcina izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo eziphuthumayo eduze:Kungumqondo omuhle ukugcina iphilisi lokuvimbela inzalo eliphuthumayo liseduze uma kwenzeka weqa umthamo. Leli philisi lingavimbela ukukhulelwa uma lithathwa zingakapheli izinsuku ezinhlanu zobulili obungavikelekile. Buza udokotela wakho ngalokhu.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Indlela ethi 'Pull Out' (Withdrawal) akuyona indlela ethembekile kakhulu yokuvimbela ukukhulelwa. Inezinga eliphezulu lokwehluleka.
- Le ndlela ayinikezi noma yikuphi ukuvikelwa ezifweni ezithathelwana ngocansi (ama-STI). Ukuze uvikele ezifweni eziyingozi njenge-HIV, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ikhondomu.
- Le ndlela ingahluleka kalula ngenxa yezici ezifana nesikhathi esingalungile, uketshezi olungaphambi kokukhiya, kanye nokungcola kwangaphandle kwesidoda.
- Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubonisana nodokotela womndeni wakho ukuze ukhethe indlela yokuvimbela inzalo ephephile nethembekile kakhulu efanele wena nomlingani wakho.
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