Wake wazizwa unzima, unesizungu, futhi ungenalutho kangangokuthi awukwazi ukwenza lutho? Kuvamile ukuzizwa ngaleyo ndlela. Awuwedwa, baningi abanye abantu abaphila nale mizwa. Namuhla sizokhuluma ngalokhu kucindezeleka kwengqondo, noma ukucindezeleka, kanye nendlela ekhethekile kakhulu engasisiza sinqobe lesi simo, okungukuthi 'ukusekelwa kontanga'.
Kuyini ngempela ukwesekwa kontanga?
Kalula nje, ukwesekwa kontanga usizo nokuqonda okutholayo kumuntu oye wadlula ezinkingeni ezifanayo obhekene nazo futhi wazinqoba. Cabanga ukuthi kukunika amandla kangakanani ukukwazi ukukhuluma nomuntu oye waba lapho ukhona.
Abasekeli Bontanga ngabantu abaye babhekana nezinkinga zempilo yengqondo futhi manje sebeyalulama futhi benza kahle. Basebenzisa okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ukusiza nokukhuthaza abanye ababhekene nezinselele ezifanayo nezakho. Kufana nomuntu owazi indlela ephambi kwakho emgwaqweni omnyama, ekukhombisa indlela.
Kunezindlela ezahlukene zokuthola lolu sizo:
- Amaqembu Okusekela: Amaqembu lapho abantu abaningana abanokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo behlangana khona ukuze baxoxe.
- Umeluleki Oyedwa: Ungaxoxa ubuso nobuso nomeluleki ozinikele.
- Ngezindlela ezahlukene zokuxhumana: Ungahlangana nalaba bantu ezibhedlela nasemakliniki. Kukhona namathuba okuxhumana ku-inthanethi noma ngocingo.
Yiziphi izinzuzo ezikhethekile zale ndlela?
Ucwaningo luye lwathola nokuthi abantu abathola lolu hlobo lokusekelwa kontanga balulama ekucindezelekeni ngokushesha nangcono kunabanye. Ake sibheke ezinye zezinzuzo lokhu okungakulethela zona.
| Inzuzo | Incazelo Elula |
|---|---|
| Umuzwa wethemba | Kufika umuzwa omuhle engqondweni, "Uma ebekwazile ukudlula kulokhu, nami ngingakwazi." Izindaba zabo zangempela zizoba ugqozi olukhulu kuwe. |
| Ukusekelwa ngokomzwelo | Kuyimandla amakhulu ukuba nomuntu oqonda imizwa yakho ngaphandle kokukwahlulela. Kukwenza uzizwe sengathi awuwedwa. |
| Usizo olusebenzayo | Bazokufundisa ngezindlela zangempela, izinsizakusebenza, kanye nokubeka imigomo okubasizile, futhi bazokusiza ukukuxhumanisa nabantu abafanele. |
| Ukwehliswa kwezindleko | Uma kuqhathaniswa nezinye izindlela zokwelapha, lolu uhlobo lokusekela olungabizi kakhulu. Esikhathini esiningi, lezi yizinsizakalo zokuzithandela. |
Lokhu kusekelwa kontanga kuyinto ewusizo kakhulu ekusiza ukuthi uzinakekele kangcono, uzizwe ulawula impilo yakho, futhi ube nethemba kakhudlwana.
Umehluko phakathi kokusekelwa kontanga kanye nokwelulekwa ngemisebenzi
Lapha sidinga ukuqonda iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu : Ukusekelwa kontanga akuthathi indawo yokwelashwa okuvela kuchwepheshe njengodokotela wezifo zengqondo noma isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo.
Ukusekelwa kontanga kuwukusekelwa okuwusizo okutholayo ngaphezu kokwelashwa okunikezwa udokotela wakho noma udokotela wezifo zengqondo. Akuyona neze indawo yokwelashwa kwezokwelapha.
Cabanga nje, udokotela ukunika imithi nokwelashwa. Okwamanje, kukhona umuntu onjengomngane obambe isandla sakho, ekukhuthaza, futhi ekusiza ohambweni lwakho. Yileyo ndlela lezi zindlela ezimbili ezisebenza ngayo ndawonye. Ngakho-ke, zombili zibaluleke ngokulinganayo ohambweni lwakho lokuphulukiswa.
Ngingaluthola kanjani lolu hlobo lokusekelwa?
Nakuba lo mqondo usemusha eSri Lanka, izinsizakalo ezinjalo ziya ngokuya zisungulwa kancane kancane. Labo abanikeza usizo baziwa ngamagama ahlukahlukene. Isibonelo, `ochwepheshe bontanga`, `abaqeqeshi bokululama kontanga`.
Into engcono kakhulu nephephile ongayenza ukukhuluma ngalokhu nodokotela womndeni wakho noma udokotela wezifo zengqondo omelaphayo.
- Bangakudlulisela eqenjini lokusekelana lontanga elithembekile nelifanelekile noma kumuntu ngamunye.
- Ezinye izibhedlela kanye nemitholampilo yezempilo yengqondo nazo zingase zinikeze izinhlelo ezinjalo. Buza udokotela wakho ngazo.
- Kukhona futhi amaqembu anikeza ukwesekwa okukhethekile ezindabeni ezithile, njengokulutheka kwezidakamizwa.
Ungathembi wonke amaqembu aku-inthanethi.Qiniseka njalo ukuthi ufuna iseluleko sezokwelapha futhi uya endaweni efanele.
Nawe ungasiza othile.
Uma nawe usululame enkingeni yempilo yengqondo efana nale futhi manje wenza kahle, nawe ungasiza abanye. Kunezinhlelo zokuqeqesha kanye nezifundo zesitifiketi ezitholakalayo zalokho. Yithuba elihle lokukhanyisa impilo yomunye umuntu ngolwazi lwakho.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukucindezeleka kuyisimo esivamile. Akudingeki ubhekane nakho wedwa.
- Ukusekelwa kontanga usizo nokuqonda okutholayo kothile oye waba nokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo nawe.
- Lokhu kuzokunikeza ithemba, impumuzo ngokomzwelo, kanye neseluleko esiwusizo.
- Lokhu akusikho okungathatha indawo yokunakekelwa kwezokwelapha kochwepheshe, kodwa kunalokho kuyisengezo esiwusizo kukho.
- Njalo thintana nodokotela wakho ukuze uthole iqembu lokusekela noma umuntu ofanele wena.
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