Nukae nye orgasm? Mina míaƒo nu tso eŋu gaglãa!

Anɔ eme be èse nya sia kpɔ, alo ègblɔe na xɔ̃wòwo le ɣlidodo me gɔ̃ hã. Nuka tututue nye orgasm , alo abe alesi woyɔnɛ le Eŋlisigbe me ene la, ``(Orgasm)``? Togbɔ be ame aɖewo hea ɖe megbe vie le nuƒoƒo tso esia ŋu hã la, le nyateƒe me la, ele vevie ŋutɔ na míaƒe ŋutilã ƒe lãmesẽ, vevietɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ. Eyata, mina míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu gaglãa vie eye vɔvɔ̃ alo ɖikeke aɖeke manɔmee egbea, enyoa?

Nuka tututue nye orgasm?

Kpuie ko la, gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro sesẽe nye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ƒe kɔkɔƒe . Le ɣeyiɣi sia me la, gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe masɔmasɔ kple nyaƒoɖeamenu siwo katã le wò ŋutilã me la dona zi ɖeka. Wò vidzinuwo kple wò ŋutilã bliboa sea vivisese sesẽ aɖe si doa dzidzɔ na ame.

Zi geɖe la, sɛkɛnd ʋɛ aɖewo koe alɔ̃dɔdɔ xɔa ame, gake enyea nuteƒekpɔkpɔ si daa gbe le ame ŋu ŋutɔ.

Wò ŋutɔe wɔ aŋenu sia. To vidzinuwo kple ŋutilã ƒe akpa siwo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe seselelãme le (erogenous zones) ŋudɔwɔwɔ me. Esia ƒe kpɔɖeŋu aɖewoe nye:

• Ŋutsu ƒe vidzinuwo `(Penis)`
• Aɖuɖɔtoewo
• Mawunɔ `( clitoris /">clitoris )`
• Vagina ƒe vidzidɔ
• Nowo ƒe ʋuʋu
• Anus ƒe akɔta

Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ate ŋu adzɔ ne wole gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbegbegblẽnɔnɔ wɔm alo ne wole gbɔdɔdɔ wɔm kple woƒe zɔhɛ. Esia nye míaƒe ŋutilã ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nuwɔna ƒe akpa eneawo dometɔ ɖeka. Akpa eneawoe nye:

1. Didi : Esiae nye nusi míeyɔna be ``Libido'' alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro.

2. Dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ/Nyɔyɔ : Ŋutilã ƒe dzadzraɖo ɖe gbɔdɔdɔ ŋu.

3. Orgasm : Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzidzemekpɔkpɔ ƒe kɔkɔƒe.

4. Tameɖoɖo kplikpaa : Ŋutilãa trɔna yia nɔnɔme si sɔ me.

Ame aɖewo hã zãa nyawo abe "climaxing" kple "cumming" hena orgasm. Esiawo katã nye ŋkɔ vovovo siwo wotsɔ na nu ɖeka ko.

Nukae dzɔna ɖe ŋutilãa dzi le afakaka aɖe me?

Bu eŋu kpɔ, ne woda afakaka aɖe la, nu geɖe dzɔna zi ɖeka le wò ŋutilã katã me.

• Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe masɔmasɔ si va do mo ɖa le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe ŋuɖoɖo ƒe ɣeyiɣia ƒe akpa eve gbãtɔwo (didi kple nyɔnyrɔ̃) la ɖea asi le eŋu zi ɖeka . Ewɔna nam abe ɖe woɖe asi le nane si xaxa la ŋu zi ɖeka ene.
• Wò dzi ƒe tsotso, ʋu ƒe sisi, kple gbɔgbɔ ƒe tsotso dzina ɖe edzi .
• Lãmetsiŋusẽ vovovowo dona ɖe wò ʋukawo me . Esiawoe nana nèsena le ɖokuiwò me be dzidzɔ ma.
• Lãmetsi siwo ƒo xlã wò vidzinuwo kple aɖuɖɔtoewo dzea ƒoƒo gɔme le ɣeyiɣi ƒe didime nu, abe zi ɖeka le sɛkɛnd ɖeka me ene, hena sɛkɛnd geɖe .

Lãmetsi siawo ƒe tete wɔa akpa vevi aɖe ŋutɔ le dzinukpɔkpɔ me. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, nyɔnuwo ƒe vidzidɔ kple vidzidɔ ƒe lãmekawo ƒoa ƒu le ɣeyiɣi sia me. Esia ate ŋu ana tsi sue aɖe natso nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔa me. Nenema ke le ŋutsuwo hã gome la, lãmeka siwo le ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu ƒe gɔme la ƒoa ƒu, si wɔnɛ zi geɖe la, tsia dona.

Nukae dzɔna le aŋekotokua megbe?

Le aɖabaƒoƒo ʋɛ aɖewo me tso esime afakaka la wu enu la, vivivi la, wò ŋutilã atrɔ ava nɔ abe alesi wònɔ tsã ene. Nusiwo nàte ŋu akpɔ mɔ na ne èle hayahayam dometɔ aɖewoe nye esi:

• Ŋutilã ƒe akpa siwo vuvu alo yɔ fũ le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro ta, abe ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu alo vidzidɔ ene, trɔna yia woƒe lolome kple amadede si sɔ gbɔ .
• Àte ŋu ase le ɖokuiwò me be yeƒe dzi dze eme wu alo màvo le ɖokuiwò me o wu alesi nèwɔna ne èka asi wò vidzinuwo ŋu.
• Ŋutilã bliboa ƒe ŋutigbalẽ ate ŋu azu pink alo dzĩ eye wòadze abe ɖe wòbiã vie ene .
• Ðewohĩ àse le ɖokuiwò me be yeƒe dzi dze eme, yeƒe dzi dze eme, alo ɖeɖi te ye ŋu .

Ame aɖewo ate ŋu anyɔ ake le aɖabaƒoƒo ʋɛ aɖewo megbe tso esime woɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro nu eye woate ŋu akpɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro zi geɖe ɖe wo nɔewo yome. Ame bubuwo hiã ɣeyiɣi didi wu (refractory period) hafi woate ŋu agaɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ ake. Esia toa vovo ŋutɔ tso ame ɖeka gbɔ yi bubu gbɔ , eyata nusi nèsena le ɖokuiwò me la sɔ na wò.

Ðe aŋenu ƒomevi vovovowo li?

Ẽ, aŋenu ƒomevi vovovowo li. Na míakpɔ nusiwo wonye ɖa:

• Anal orgasm : Esia dzɔna to akɔta ƒe ʋuʋu me.
• Clitoral orgasm : Clitoral nye nyɔnu ƒe vidzidzi ƒe akpa si le gota. Enɔa nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔa tame, afisi akɔtaƒuwo kpena le. Wotsɔ ŋutigbalẽ si woyɔna be clitoral hood tsyɔ edzi. Zi geɖe la, wosea vidzidɔ ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro le ŋutilãa ƒe gowo dzi, ɣeaɖewoɣi abe ʋuʋudedi ene.
• Vaginal orgasm : Vidzidɔe nye ʋuʋu yi nyɔnu ƒe vidzidzi ƒe ɖoɖoa me. Ame geɖe ɖɔa vidzidɔ ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro be enye seselelãme si sena le eɖokui me le ŋutilãa me goglo.
• Combo orgasm : Ne ame aɖe ɖo orgasm to clitoris kple vagina siaa ƒe ʋuʋu le ɣeyiɣi ɖeka me me la, ate ŋu anye orgasm si nu sẽ ŋutɔ .
• Erogenous zones : Togbɔ be ƒã hã la, ame aɖewo ate ŋu anyɔ ne woʋã erogenous zone bubu siwo le ŋutilãa dzi. Kpɔɖeŋu aɖewoe nye to, abɔta, klo, kɔ, no, no, kple asibidɛ.

Aleke mawudɔla sena le eɖokui me?

Zi geɖe la, nyɔnyrɔ̃ nyea nuteƒekpɔkpɔ si nu sẽ eye wòdoa dzidzɔ na ame . Gake mesena le eɖokui me abe ɖeka ene na amesiame o . Alesi ame ɖesiaɖe sena le eɖokui me ate ŋu ato vovo, eye ame ɖeka gɔ̃ hã ate ŋu ase le eɖokui me be yeto vovo le ɣeyiɣi vovovowo me. Vovototo siawo katã sɔ eye wole lãmesẽ me .

Nu vevitɔe nye be nàlɔ̃ ɖe edzi be enye wò nuteƒekpɔkpɔ, eye màtsi dzi ɖe alesi nèsena le ɖokuiwò me ŋu o.

• Ame siwo nye ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ate ŋu ado tsinyenye alo tsi bubuwo alo womaɖe wo o.
• Zi geɖe la, afakaka la xɔa sɛkɛnd ʋɛ aɖewo, gake ate ŋu anɔ anyi eteƒe nadidi wu ɣeaɖewoɣi.
• Seselelãme siwo wosena le ame ɖokui me le alɔ̃dɔdɔ me ate ŋu anɔ bɔbɔe alo asẽ ŋutɔ.
• Ame aɖewo ate ŋu ahiã nu tɔxɛ siwo woatsɔ aʋã ame alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe kpekpeɖeŋunu abe vibrators ene hafi woate ŋu aɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ.
• Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, àte ŋu anyɔ kaba ŋutɔ, bɔbɔe, eye màʋãe boo o. Gake ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ate ŋu abia ɣeyiɣi kple agbagbadzedze geɖe hafi nyɔnyrɔ̃. Esiawo katã sɔ.

Nukatae mascot le lãmesẽ me alea gbegbe?

Nusi koŋ gbɔ esia tsoe nye lãmetsiŋusẽwo. Le gbɔdɔdɔ me la, wò ŋutilã ɖea lãmetsi aɖe si woyɔna be dopamine . Wogayɔa esia be "lãmetsiŋusẽ si nana ame ƒe dzi dzea eme." Eɖea lãmetsi aɖe si woyɔna be oxytocin hã doa goe . Wogayɔa esia be "lɔlɔ̃ ƒe atike."

Lãmetsiŋusẽ siawo evea siaa dzia wò dzidzɔkpɔkpɔ kple seselelãme nyui bubuwo ɖe edzi. Wokpena ɖe ame ŋu hã be cortisol, si wogayɔna be "nuteɖeamedzi ƒe lãmetsi" ƒe ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi dzi ɖena kpɔtɔna. Eyata, esia tae aƒemelã ƒe amesinɔnɔ nye dɔyɔyɔ ƒe nuteƒekpɔkpɔ alea gbegbe ɖo.

Nukatae wòsesẽna nam be maxɔ atsyɔ̃ɖonu?

Ele be ame geɖe nate mɔnu vovovowo kpɔ eye woaɖo dze nyuie kple woƒe zɔhɛ be dzɔgbenyui nasu wo si. Esia sɔ ŋutɔ. Menye amesiamee nye ɖeka o.

Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, nu bubu geɖewo ate ŋu anɔ anyi siwo ana màte ŋu akpɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzidzeme gãtɔ kekeake gbɔ o, si fia be màkpɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ o:

• Tsitsi : Elabena ŋutilãa trɔna ne ame tsi.
• Nukpɔsusu totrowo, dzixɔsewo, alo nusiwo ŋu wode se ɖo le gbɔdɔdɔ ŋu : Le dekɔnu alo mawusubɔsubɔ ƒe ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi aɖewo ta.
• Mɔkpɔkpɔ gãwo : Mɔkpɔkpɔ siwo meva eme o ƒe amesinɔnɔ le gbɔdɔdɔ ŋu.
• Lãmetsiŋusẽ ƒe masɔmasɔ : Le kpɔɖeŋu me, nɔnɔmewo abe `(Hypogonadism)`.
• Seselelãme ƒe kadodo alo akɔfafa ƒe anyimanɔmanɔ kple zɔhɛ : Ƒomedodo me kuxiwo.
• Nuteƒekpɔkpɔ gbegblẽ siwo dzɔ va yi ku ɖe gbɔdɔdɔ ŋu : Ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe susu dzi.
• Ŋutilã alo susu ƒe lãmesẽ manyomanyo : Atikewɔwɔ ƒe nɔnɔme aɖewo kple susu me kuxiwo ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ame dzi.
• Nuteɖeamedzi : Gbesiagbegbenɔnɔ ƒe nyaƒoɖeamenu.
• Atike aɖewo, atike vɔ̃ɖiwo, alo aha sesẽ zazã .

Ne tsitretsitsi le sesẽm na wò, alo ne ele seselelãme ƒe fuɖename hem vɛ na wò la, ele be nàyi ɖɔkta gbɔ godoo . Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie ate ŋu anɔ ame aɖewo ŋu, si ate ŋu ado kplamatse woƒe tsitretsitsi ƒe ŋutete. Àte ŋu aƒo nu kple wò dɔnɔdzikpɔla gbãtɔ (PCP) be nànya nu geɖe tso esia ŋu. Alo, àte ŋu ayi nyɔnuwo ƒe dɔléleŋutinunyala gbɔ aƒo nu tso gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie le nyɔnuwo me ŋu.

Ðe viɖe aɖewo le aŋenuwo ŋu na lãmesẽa?

Ẽ bliboe! Numekukuwo ɖee fia be viɖe geɖe le turmeric ŋu na lãmesẽ. Wo dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Taɖuame kple vevesese bubuwo dzi ɖeɖe kpɔtɔ .
• Dzi ƒe lãmesẽ ƒe nyonyo .
• Dzinukpɔkpɔ ƒe ʋuʋu dzi ɖeɖe kpɔtɔ .
• Kakaɖeamedzi le eɖokui ŋu ƒe dzidziɖedzi .
• Midɔ alɔ̃ nyuie .
• Nuteɖeamedzi dzi ɖeɖe kpɔtɔ .

Eyata ne èlé ŋku ɖe viɖe siawo ŋu la, àte ŋu akpɔe be menye vivisese koe ŋugbledede nye o, ke eɖea vi na míaƒe lãmesẽ bliboa hã.

Nu vevitɔ kekeake siwo dzi wòle be woaɖo ŋkui (Take-Home Message) .

Enyo, eyata nu aɖewo siwo dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui tso nusiwo ŋu míeƒo nu tsoe me lae nye esi:

• Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro nye seselelãme si doa dzidzɔ na ame ŋutɔ si dzɔna le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro me .
• Amesiame kpɔa akunyawɔwɔa le mɔ vovovowo nu . Wò nuteƒekpɔkpɔe le vevie na wò. Mègatsɔ ɖokuiwò sɔ kple ame bubuwo o.
• Nu geɖe ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ŋutete si le ame si be wòazu samurat dzi.
• Ne esesẽna na wò be nàɖo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro gbɔ eye wòle fu ɖem na wò la, mègakpe ŋu o eye nàdi atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo .

Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ le vevie na míaƒe nyonyo bliboa. Esia tae wòle vevie ŋutɔ be woaƒo nu tso nusiawo ŋu gaglãa eye woade suku. Ne nya bubu aɖewo gale asiwò la, bia ɖɔkta si dzi nèka ɖo.

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