Gbɔdɔdɔ Kple Ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye. Ame geɖe tɔtɔna vie ne wose nya eve siawo, alo? Ame aɖewo susuna be nu ɖekae yewonye. Ame bubuwo gɔ̃ hã vɔ̃na vie be yewoaƒo nu tso eŋu. Le nyateƒe me la, nyati sia nye nyati si gɔme sese sesẽ ŋutɔ eye wòle vevie ŋutɔ. Nukpɔsusu etɔ̃ siawo katã, si nye Gbɔdɔdɔ, Ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye kple Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzro, le vevie le amesi nènye gɔmesese me. Eyata egbea, mina míaɖe tɔtɔ sia ɖa eye míaƒo nu tso eŋu bɔbɔe ŋutɔ, abe ɖe xɔlɔ̃ eve le nu ƒom ene.
Mina míakpɔ nusi ‘Gbɔdɔdɔ’ (vidzinu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ) fia gbã.
Kpuie ko la, gbɔdɔdɔe nye nugbagbe ƒe nɔnɔme siwo le mía si le vidzidzi me . Ðɔktawo nɔa te ɖe gbɔdɔdɔ sia dzi tsoa nya me ne vidzĩ nye "nyɔnuvi" alo "ŋutsuvi". Nu vevi etɔ̃e dea dzesi esia.
- Dzɔdzɔmeŋusẽŋununya: Esiawo nye nu suesuesue siwo le míaƒe lãmenugbagbeviwo me. Míaƒe domenyiŋusẽfianu ŋuti nyatakakawo (DNA) katã le wo me. Dzɔdzɔmenugbagbevi siawo ƒe eve tɔxɛ aɖe li si woyɔna be ‘gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe domenyiŋusẽfianu’. Zi geɖe la, X domenyiŋusẽfianu eve (XX) nɔa nyɔnu si, gake X ɖeka kple Y (XY) ɖeka nɔa ŋutsu tɔ si.
- Gonads: Esiawoe nye ŋutinu vevi siwo kpɔa gome le vidzidzi me. Azigolowo le nyɔnuwo si eye vidzidɔ le ŋutsuwo si. Lãmenugbagbevi siawo ɖea lãmetsiŋusẽ siwo hiã hena vidzidzi la doa goe.
- Ŋutilã ƒe wɔwɔme: Ne ɖevi tsi le vidzidɔ me la, alesi gotagome vidzinuwo tsinae dzie wòtsona be ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye. Esiawoe nye nɔnɔme vevitɔwo. Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, nɔnɔme evelia abe no, ŋutilã ƒe nɔnɔme, kple ɖa hã le hatsotso sia me.
Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒomevi vevi kawoe?
Nɔnɔme siwo ŋu míeƒo nu tsoe le etame la mesɔ na amesiame o. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, vovototo suesuesuewo ate ŋu anɔ wo dome. Eyata le atikewɔwɔ me la, wodea dzesi gbɔdɔdɔ ƒomevi vevi etɔ̃ le vidzidzi me. Mina míalé ŋku ɖe esia ŋu be míase nya sia gɔme nyuie.
| Hatsotso | Dzesi siwo wokpɔna zi geɖe |
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| Vidzinu kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu kple nyɔnu ƒe gbɔdɔdɔ | Esia ƒo nu tso ame gbogbo aɖewo siwo mewɔ ɖeka kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ƒe aɖaka siwo le etame la dometɔ aɖeke pɛpɛpɛ 100% o. Wodzia wo kple nɔnɔme siwo meku ɖe ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ŋu koŋ o le dzɔdzɔme nu. Vovototo siawo ate ŋu anɔ domenyiŋusẽfianu, gotagome vidzinuwo, alo vidzidzi ƒe ɖoɖo me. |
Esia ɖee fia mí be gbɔdɔdɔ menye ameyibɔ kple yevu nu o, ke boŋ be nu vovovowo le eme.
Gbɔdɔdɔ menye gbɔdɔdɔ o!
Ne wole nu ƒom tso gbɔdɔdɔ kple ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye ŋu la, nya bubu aɖe dona eye wònana nuwo gatɔtɔna ɖe edzi. Emae nye gbɔdɔdɔ. Gake mesesẽ abe alesi nàsusui ene o.
Gbɔdɔdɔ nye amesi ƒe lɔlɔ̃ alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nu lé dzi na wò. Edo ƒome kple wò seselelãmewo, ƒomedodowo, kple amenyenye. Nu vevitɔe nye be menye wò gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzroe afia wò o. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ŋutsu si wodzi la ate ŋu alɔ̃ ŋutsu bubu. Ema nye nu bubu kura.
Nya aɖewo siwo ɖɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzodzroe nye esi:
- Gay
- Lesbian si nye nyɔnuvi
- Vidzinu eve ƒe vidzinu
- Pansexual
- Queer ƒe nya
Enyo, eyata nukae nye ‘Ŋutsu kple nyɔnu’?
Afi siae ame geɖe tsina le. Ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye menye nu gbagbe o. Enye hadome kple dekɔnu nu. Eyae nye nusi nèsena le ɖokuiwò me le ememe kple alesi nèɖenɛ fiana hadomegbenɔnɔ. Menye ŋutsu alo nyɔnu si wodzi wòe ɖonɛ o. Mina míagbã nya sia.
Ŋutsuwo Kple Nyɔnuwo ƒe Akpa Siwo Wowɔna
Le hadomegbenɔnɔ kple dekɔnu ɖesiaɖe me la, mɔkpɔkpɔ aɖewo li be "ele be nyɔnuwo nanɔ alea" eye "ŋutsuwo nanɔ alea." Nukpɔsusu aɖewo le hadomegbenɔnɔ me ku ɖe alesi woado awu, alesi woaƒo nu, dɔ siwo woawɔ, kple alesi woawɔ nui ŋu. Woyɔa esiawo be Ŋutsuwo Kple Nyɔnuwo ƒe Akpawo. Esiawo to vovo tso dukɔ ɖeka me yi bubu me kple le dekɔnu ɖesiaɖe me.
Ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ƒe Dzesidede Ame
Esiae nye ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye ƒe akpa vevitɔ kekeake. Ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ƒe dzedzeme nye wò ememe sidzedze le amesi nènye ŋu. Eɖanye ŋutsu alo nyɔnu ka kee nèɖanye o, wò amenyenyee nye be nyɔnue nènye, ŋutsue nènye, alo mènye wo dometɔ aɖeke o.
- Cisgender: Esia fia amesiwo ƒe vidzinu ŋutɔŋutɔ le wo dziɣi kple woƒe ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye sɔ. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ame aɖe si wodzi nyɔnu gake wòɖe eɖokui fia be nyɔnue yenye la nye cisgender.
- Ame si trɔ eƒe vidzinu: Esia fia amesiwo ƒe vidzinu si wodzi le wo dziɣi kple woƒe ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye mesɔ o. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne ŋutsue wodzi ame aɖe gake ese le eɖokui me be nyɔnue yenye eye wòɖee fia be yenye nyɔnu la, ke ame ma nye ame si trɔ eƒe vidzinu.
- Non-binary: Esia fia amesiwo se le wo ɖokui me be yewoƒe ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye mesɔ ɖe "nyɔnu" alo "ŋutsu" ƒe aɖakaawo me nyuie o. Esia hã nye nya si keke ta si lɔ amenyenye vovovowo ɖe eme.
Ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye ƒe Nyagbɔgblɔ
Aleae nèɖea wò ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye fiana xexeame. Ema fia nuwo abe awu siwo nèdona, ɖa si nèdona, ale si nèwɔa nui, ale si nèƒoa nui ene. Ame ƒe nyagbɔgblɔ ate ŋu anye ŋutsu, nyɔnu, alo evea siaa ƒe ƒuƒoƒo (androgynous). Esia toa vovo ŋutɔ tso ame ɖeka gbɔ yi bubu gbɔ.
Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme
- Gbɔdɔdɔ nye nugbagbe ƒe nɔnɔme (amadede, ŋutilã ƒe akpa aɖewo) siwo wonana le vidzidzi me.
- Ŋutsu alo nyɔnu nyenye nye nusi nèsena le ɖokuiwò me le ememe kple wò amenyenye si nèɖena fiana hadomegbenɔnɔ. Enye hadome kple ame ŋutɔ tɔ siaa.
- Gbɔdɔdɔ nye amesi ƒe lɔlɔ̃ alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nu lé dzi na wò.
- Nukpɔsusu etɔ̃ siawo to vovo eye wole wo ɖokui si . Ðeka metsoa nya me le evelia ŋu o.
- Ele vevie ŋutɔ be míade bubu ame bubuwo ƒe amenyenye ŋu ahadze agbagba ase wo gɔme.
- Ne èse le ɖokuiwò me be yetɔtɔ, biabia, alo nuteɖeamedzi aɖe le nya siawo ŋu la, mègavɔ̃ be yeaƒo nu tso eŋu na ame tsitsi, xɔ̃wò, alo wò ɖɔkta si dzi nèka ɖo o .
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