Ðe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme’ nènyea? Mina míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu bɔbɔe!

Ðewohĩ èse nya ‘neurotypical’ le afi aɖe kpɔ. Ðewohĩ le internet dzi, alo tso xɔ̃nye aɖe gbɔ. Menye atikewɔwɔ me nya si míaƒe ɖɔktawo zãna zi geɖe ŋutɔŋutɔe wònye o. Gake enye nya vevi aɖe ne wole nu ƒom tso alesi amewo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ tsina hewɔa dɔe ŋu. Kpuie ko la, ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme’ nye alesi xexeame ƒe ame akpa gãtɔ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ tsina hewɔa dɔe.

Nukae nye ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme’? Ele bɔbɔe ŋutɔ!

‘Neurotypical’ nye, bu eŋu kpɔ, alesi xexeametɔ akpa gãtɔ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃, si fia be ame siwo ade 80% va ɖo 85%, ƒe ahɔhɔ̃wo tsina hewɔa dɔe. Zi geɖe la, ŋutete vovovowo ƒe seƒe ɖeka koe nɔa ame siawo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ me, le kpɔɖeŋu me, ŋkuɖoɖonudzi, akɔntabubu ƒe ŋutete, kple ŋutete si le wo si be woase nya siwo wogblɔ gɔme.

Gake nu vevitɔ le afisia enye be míele gbɔgblɔm be ‘neurotypical’ nyenye nyo o, eye be amesiwo menye nenema o, si nye ‘neurodivergent’ hã nye ame vɔ̃ɖi o. Ðeko wòle abe wò ɖa ƒe amadede, wò ŋutigbalẽ ƒe amadede ene. Enye nɔnɔme si le etɔxɛ na ame ɖesiaɖe, ke menye nane si woate ŋu adzidze be enye nyui alo vɔ̃ o. Mí katã míeto vovo tso mía nɔewo gbɔ, eye aleae wòle.

Nukatae míele hehem ɖe megbe le nya "si sɔ" zazã ŋu?

Fifia àte ŋu anɔ eŋu bum be, "Ekema nukata màyɔ ame aɖe ko be 'neurotypical' tsɔ wu be 'normal' o?" Susu si tae nye esi. Ahɔhɔ̃ eve aɖeke mesɔna gbeɖe o. Bu eŋu kpɔ ko, ahɔhɔ̃meka siwo ade biliɔn 86 ye le amegbetɔ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ me, lãmenugbagbevi siwo ɖoa dze kple wo nɔewo to elektrikŋusẽ kple atike ƒe dzesiwo dzi! Woyɔa kadodo siwo le ahɔhɔ̃meka siawo dome be synapses . Synapse siawo triliɔn geɖe le wò ahɔhɔ̃ me. Synapses ƒe network siae na nènye amesi nènye, eye wònye etɔxɛ na wò 100%.

Eyata ne ahɔhɔ̃ ɖesiaɖe le etɔxɛ alea la, asesẽ be woaɖe "ahɔhɔ̃ si sɔ" gɔme, alo? Esia tae míeléa ŋku ɖe alesi ahɔhɔ̃a wɔa dɔe ŋu eye míeyɔnɛ be ‘neurotypical’, si nye alesi ame akpa gãtɔ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ wɔa dɔe. Ema mefia be ema koe nye mɔ "nyuitɔ" o.

Aleke agbenɔnɔ ƒe akpa aɖewo le abe ame si ƒe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le’ ene?

Abe amesi ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le’ ene la, àte ŋu akpɔe be kuxi siwo ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototodedeamemetɔwo’ doa goe ɣeaɖewoɣi la dometɔ aɖewo mebɔ o. Esia le alea elabena wotrɔ asi le nu geɖe siwo le míaƒe hadomegbenɔnɔ, sukuwo, kple dɔwɔƒewo ŋu be woasɔ na ame akpa gãtɔ, si fia be ‘ame siwo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le vovovo’. Na míalé ŋku ɖe eƒe kpɔɖeŋu ʋɛ aɖewo ŋu:

Hadomegbenɔnɔ ƒe tɔtrɔ kple tɔtrɔ ɖe nɔnɔmewo ŋu

Abe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe ame’ ene la, zi geɖe la, àte ŋu asɔ kple ame bubu siwo le hadomegbenɔnɔ me sesẽ boo aɖeke manɔmee. Didi sesẽ aɖeke mele mewò be yeawɔ abe ame bubuwo ene o (woyɔa esia be ``masking''). Hadomegbenɔnɔ xɔa wò le amesi nènye ta zi geɖe. Eyata zi geɖe la, vɔvɔ̃wo abe, "Ðe amewo aɖem ɖaa?" "Ðe woabu tame le mɔ gbegblẽ nua?"

Sukudɔwo kple sukudede

Zi geɖe la, wotrɔa asi le alesi sukuwo fiaa nui kple nuwɔna siwo wowɔna le sukuxɔwo me ŋu le mɔ si gɔme sese le bɔbɔe na ɖevi siwo ƒe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le’ nu. Eya ta nuwo abe susu tsɔtsɔ ɖe nusɔsrɔ̃ aɖe ŋu kple mɔfiamewo dzi wɔwɔ ate ŋu manye kuxi gã aɖeke na wò o.

Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne nufiala le nusɔsrɔ̃ aɖe fiam le suku la, ate ŋu anɔ bɔbɔe vie na ɖevi si ƒe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le’ be wòanɔ to ɖom atraɖii, ase egɔme, eye wòaɖo nyabiasewo ŋu ne wobiae.

Sidzenuwo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ

Míele nyatakakawo xɔm tso míaƒe sidzenu atɔ̃awo (ŋku, to, ŋɔti, aɖe, ŋutigbalẽ) gbɔ ɣesiaɣi. Zi geɖe la, kuxi gã aɖeke menɔa ame si ƒe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le ŋu le alesi ahɔhɔ̃a wɔa dɔ tso nyatakaka siawo ŋui ŋu o. Esia fia be wote ŋu ŋlɔa ʋeʋẽ, gbeɖiɖi, kple asikaka ame ŋu madzeameŋu aɖewo be, alo ɖea woƒe ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi dzi kpɔtɔna. Anɔ eme be wote ŋu nɔa anyi kpoo eye womedoa dziku bɔbɔe o (`(wogbɔdzɔ)` alo `((wogbɔdzɔ akpa)`) le teƒe siwo amewo sɔ gbɔ ɖo eye toɣliɖeɖe le gɔ̃ hã.

• Bu eŋu kpɔ, ne èle bɔs me la, èsea toɣliɖeɖe geɖe eye wòle be nàto amehawo dome. Ame si nye ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔléle’ ate ŋu akpɔ nusiawo gbɔ eye wòaɖo afisi yim wòle sesẽm boo aɖeke manɔmee.

Hadome kadodowo kple dzeɖoɖo

Ne míele nu ƒom na amewo, ne míele asitsadɔ wɔm kpli wo la, se kple mɔkpɔkpɔ siwo womegblɔ o geɖe li. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, nuwo abe ŋkuléle ɖe ame aɖe ƒe mo ŋu ne ele nu ƒom, kple ŋuɖoɖo si sɔ ɖe eƒe dzeɖoɖoa ŋu ene. Zi geɖe la, enɔa bɔbɔe na ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme’ tɔwo be woase hadomese siawo siwo womegblɔ o gɔme ahawɔ nu ɖe ​​wo nu. Esia wɔe be hadomenuwɔnawo ate ŋu anɔ bɔbɔe na wo vie.

Ðe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme’ nyenye nye nusi nɔa anyi le eƒe agbemeŋkekewo katã mea? Menye nenema kura o!

Ao, menye nyateƒee o. Ame si wodzi ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme’ ate ŋu ana woƒe ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ natrɔ emegbe, eye wòaɖe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototodedeameme’ ƒe nɔnɔmewo afia. Míeyɔa esia be "ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototo si woxɔ."

Kpuie ko la, alesi ahɔhɔ̃a wɔa dɔe trɔna le ŋusẽ aɖe si wòkpɔna ɖe edzi le agbe ƒe ɣeyiɣi aɖe me ta. Mehiã be esia nanye nu gbegblẽ o. Tɔtrɔ aɖe koe wònye.

Aleke "ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototo si woxɔ" sia dzɔna?

Susu geɖe ate ŋu anɔ esia ta:

• Ahɔhɔ̃medɔléle siwo do ƒome kple tsitsi: Le kpɔɖeŋu me, dɔlélewo abe Alzheimer ƒe dɔléle ene trɔa ahɔhɔ̃a ƒe dɔwɔwɔ tegbee.
• Ta ƒe abixɔxɔ kple ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe abixɔxɔ: Bu ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe ʋuʋu , alo ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe abi vevie (TBIs) , siwo ate ŋu ana ŋkuɖoɖonudzi nabu hena ɣeyiɣi aɖe alo tegbee, susu nanɔ ame ŋu wòasesẽ, eye wòatrɔ eƒe nuwɔna ŋu kpɔ.
• Susu ƒe lãmesẽkuxiwo alo nudzɔdzɔ dziŋɔwo: Le kpɔɖeŋu me, susumedɔléle aɖewoNuwo abe `(Depression)` kple `(Anxiety)` ateŋu atrɔ atikewo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ kple ahɔhɔ̃ ƒe dɔwɔwɔ. Azɔ hã, nɔnɔmewo abe `(Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder - PTSD)`, si nye ahɔhɔ̃a ƒe ametakpɔkpɔ ƒe ŋuɖoɖo ne edze ŋgɔ nudzɔdzɔ dziŋɔ sesẽwo, ateŋu atrɔ alesi ahɔhɔ̃a wɔa dɔe.

Gake numekuku aɖewo ɖee fia be, susu siawo manɔmee la, ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ƒã ŋutɔ, eye le susu aɖeke si medze o ta la, amesi ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo to vovo’ ate ŋu adze nɔnɔme siwo ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototodedeameme’ ɖeɖefia gɔme. Gake ema mebɔ kura o.

Ðe dzila siwo ƒe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le vovovo’ ate ŋu adzi vi siwo ƒe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo to vovo’a?

Ẽ, anya wɔ godoo! Azɔ hã, dzila siwo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo to vovo ate ŋu adzi vi siwo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le vovovo. Esia menye akpa ɖeka ƒe nya o.

Domenyiŋusẽfianu ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe alesi wòate ŋu adzɔe be ame nazu ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototodedeameme. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, nɔnɔmewo abe Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) kple Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) ene ate ŋu adzɔ le ƒomewo me. Gake eŋutinunyalawo mese alesi dɔléle siawo dzea ame aɖewo dzi alo nusitae la gɔme bliboe haɖe o. Eye, nu geɖewo li siwo ate ŋu awɔ akpa aɖe, ke menye domenyiŋusẽfianuwo ɖeɖeko o. Eyata esi wo le dzila aɖe si ta la, mefia be wo vi anyi wo dome o.

Nu vevitɔ kekeake: esia menye nyabiase "nyui-vɔ̃" o, vovototo koe!

Ne míele nu ƒom tso 'neurotypical' kple 'neurodivergent' ŋu la, ele vevie be míaɖo ŋku edzi be esia menye "nusi sɔ" kple "nusi mesɔ o," alo "nyui" kple "vɔ̃ɖi" ƒe nya o. Vovototo aɖe koe wònye. Mɔ ɖeka nyenye nye amesi ame nye ƒe akpa aɖe ko, eye mefia asixɔxɔ blibo si le eŋu o.

Bu eŋu kpɔ, ame aɖewo tsɔa woƒe nuɖusi ŋlɔa nu, eye ame aɖewo tsɔa woƒe miasi ŋlɔa nu. Vovototo koe wònye, eye màte ŋu agblɔ be ɖeka nyo wu alo vɔ̃ɖi wu evelia o. Nenema kee wòle le esia hã gome.

Ne ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ ƒe nɔnɔme’ nènye la, wò ahɔhɔ̃ ate ŋu awɔ dɔ le mɔ bubu nu wu amesi nye ‘ahɔhɔ̃meka vovovowo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ.’ Gake nu geɖe le mi ame evea siaa si sɔ kple wo nɔewo. Mi ame evea siaa mienye amegbetɔwo, eye mi ame evea siaa miedi be yewoanɔ agbe si me dzidzɔ le, si me lãmesẽ le.

Kpekpeɖeŋu nana ‘ahɔhɔ̃meka vovovowo’ kple nɔnɔme si sɔ na wo wɔwɔ ɖea vi na amesiame vavã. Ele be mí katã míadze agbagba akpɔ hadomegbenɔnɔ si me ‘ahɔhɔ̃meka vovovowo’ kple ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo’ ate ŋu akpɔ dzidzɔ sɔsɔe.

Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme

Enyo, eyata nu aɖewo siwo dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui tso nusiwo ŋu míeƒo nu tsoe me lae nye esi:

• ‘Ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme’ fia alesi ame akpa gãtɔ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ tsina hewɔa dɔe le goawo katã me. Menye atikewɔwɔ me dɔléle si wokpɔnae wònye o.
• Nu siaMenye "nusi sɔ" kple "nusi mesɔ o" alo "nyui" kple "vɔ̃" ƒe nyae o. Enye nu vovovo (ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe vovototo) si le amegbetɔ ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ me ƒe akpa ɖeka ko.
• Ðewohĩ ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme’ nyenye manye nɔnɔme si anɔ ame ƒe agbemeŋkekewo katã me o. "Acquired neurodivergence" ateŋu ahe tɔtrɔ vɛ le alesi ame ƒe ahɔhɔ̃ wɔa dɔe me.
• Dzila siwo ƒe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ le vovovo’ ate ŋu adzi vi ‘siwo ƒe ahɔhɔ̃mekawo to vovo’, eye dzila siwo ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe dɔwɔwɔ to vovo’ ate ŋu adzi vi siwo ƒe ‘ahɔhɔ̃mekawo ƒe nɔnɔme to vovo’.
• Nu vevitɔe nye be míase mía nɔewo ƒe vovototowo gɔme, alɔ̃ ɖe wo dzi, ahade bubu wo ŋu. Ele be mí katã míakpɔ mɔ na habɔbɔ si aɖe mɔ ɖe nu vovovowo ŋu eye wòawɔ nu ɖe ​​amesiame ŋu sɔsɔe.

Eyata, mesusu be fifia èse nya ‘neurotypical’ gɔme nyuie wu. Ne míenya nu siawo tɔgbi la, ekpena ɖe mía ŋu míesea mía nɔewo gɔme nyuie wu.

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