Ne míeƒo nu tso gbɔdɔdɔ ŋu la, nyati aɖewo li siwo ɖea fu na ame vie, eye nukpɔsusu totro siwo le ame geɖe si hã. "Àte ŋu afɔ fu tso Anal Sex to akɔta mea ?" kple gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe STDs Pregnancy anya le susu me na wò. Nuƒoƒo tso nu siawo ŋu gaglãa kple nyatakaka siwo sɔ xɔxɔ le vevie ŋutɔ na wò lãmesẽ kple dedienɔnɔ. Eyata, egbea míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu vɔvɔ̃manɔmee, ŋukpe manɔmee, le mɔ si gɔme nàte ŋu ase nu.
Gbã la, nukae nye Anal Sex to akɔta ?
Kpuie ko la, gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta nye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nuwɔna si me wotsɔa ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu dea nyɔnu alo ŋutsu ƒe akɔta (si me aɖuɖɔ dona le) me. Wozãnɛ abe mɔnu si dzi woato akpɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzidzeme le srɔ̃tɔ aɖewo dome ene.
Ðe nàte ŋu afɔ fu tso gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta mea?
Ŋuɖoɖo kpuiae nye esi: Mɔnukpɔkpɔ siwo li be woafɔ fu tso gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta ɖeɖeko me la le sue ŋutɔ, ŋutɔ, manya wɔ kloe o. Ke hã, nukpɔsusu sue aɖe li si gblɔ be menye 0% o, gake ele be nu tɔxɛ aɖe nadzɔ hafi wòate ŋu adzɔ.
Aleke wòle? Gbã la, se egɔme be hafi fu nafɔ la, ele be Sperm nage ɖe nyɔnu ƒe Vagina , azɔ tso afima ayi Uterus , eye wòawɔ ɖeka kple Ovum . Aɖuɖɔtoe nye nuɖuɖumeŋusẽ ƒe akpa mamlɛtɔ. Meku ɖe yiyi tso afima yi vidzidɔa me tẽe ŋu o.
Gake nusi mebɔ kura o si ŋu meƒo nu tsoe nye ne nane si le abe esia ene dzɔ: Ne Semen do le gbɔdɔdɔ me le akɔta vɔ la, tsinyenyea toa mɔ aɖe nu tso nuto si ƒo xlã aɖuɖɔtoea me yia vidzidɔa me eye emegbe wògena ɖe nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔa me . Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne tsinyenye si le sisim tso aɖuɖɔ me, va te ɖe nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔa ƒe ʋuƒo ŋu, eye wòge ɖe afima, alo ne wotsɔ asibidɛ siwo ŋu tsinyenye ƒo ɖii de vidzidɔa me enumake. Mɔnukpɔkpɔ si li be esia nadzɔ la le sue ŋutɔ, gake ele anyi abe nufiafia ene.
Gake ne tsinyenye le aɖuɖɔtoe me ko le gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta me la, mɔnukpɔkpɔ aɖeke kura meli be fu nadzɔ le afima o.
Afɔku gãtɔ kekeake si le gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta me: gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔlélewo ( STDs )!
Togbɔ be fufɔfɔ ƒe afɔkua le sue hã la, afɔku aɖewo li siwo do ƒome kple gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta.Afɔku gãtɔ kple esi me afɔku le wue nye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔlélewo ( STDs alo STIs ) ƒe afɔku si dzina ɖe edzi. Esia menye nusi woabu nu tsɛe o.
Nukatae afɔku si le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbegbegblẽnɔnɔ STDs xɔxɔ me lolo alea gbegbe le gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta me?
- Aɖuɖɔtoea ƒe nutsyɔnu le tsɛ ŋutɔ: Lãmetsi si tsyɔ
Rectumƒe gli ememetɔ dzi la le sue ŋutɔ, abe agbalẽ si wotsɔ lãgbalẽ wɔe ene. Ebɔbɔ wu nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔa ƒe akpa si wotsɔ blae eye ate ŋu agblẽ nu le eŋu bɔbɔe. - Aɖuɖɔtoe kple vuvu bɔbɔe: Le ʋuʋudedi si dzɔna le gbɔdɔdɔ le akɔta me ta la, lãkusi si le tsɛ sia te ŋu xɔa abi suesuesuewo, abi, kple aɖatsiwo bɔbɔe ŋutɔ (
micro-tears). Ðewohĩ womate ŋu akpɔ nusiawo kple ŋku dzro ko o alo woase veve. - Dɔlékuiwo kple dɔlékuiwo ƒe gege ɖe ʋu me bɔbɔe: To lãɖeɖe sue mawo kple aɖatsiwo me la, dɔlékuiwo (abe
HIV) kple dɔlékui siwo le tsinyenye,-, alo esiwo le ŋutigbalẽ dzi ate ŋu age ɖe ʋukawo me bɔbɔe. - Dzɔdzɔme ami ƒe anyimanɔmanɔ: To vovo na nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ la, dzɔdzɔme
lubricationmele aɖuɖɔtoea me o . Eyata masɔmasɔ geɖe nɔa anyi eye abixɔxɔ ƒe afɔkua lolo wu.
Woate ŋu axɔ STDs geɖe , siwo dometɔ aɖewoe nye HIV (dɔlékui si hea AIDS), Gonorrhea , Chlamydia , Syphilis , HPV (dɔlékui si hea vidzinuwo ƒe ʋuʋudedi kple kansa), kple Hepatitis B , bɔbɔe to gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta si womekpɔ ta na o me.
Nusi dzi ŋɔ wue nye be, zi geɖe la, STDs siawo meɖea gotagome dzesi aɖeke fiana o. Ema fia be ne ame aɖe menya be STD le ye ŋu o hã la, ate ŋu akakae na ame bubu kokoko.
Aleke mawɔ akpɔ ɖokuinye ta ne medɔ kple akɔta?
Ne wò kple wò zɔhɛ mietso nya me be yewoadɔ kple akɔta la, nu aɖewo siwo dzi wòle be miawɔ ɖo godoo be miakpɔ mia ɖokui ta tso STDs lae nye esi :
- Zã
Condomyeye ɣesiaɣi : Esiae nye nu vevitɔ kekeake. Zã kɔndɔm yeye ɣesiaɣi si nèdɔ kple akɔta, tso gɔmedzedze vaseɖe nuwuwu. Esia ate ŋu aɖe afɔku si le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbegbegblẽnɔnɔSTDsxɔxɔ me dzi akpɔtɔ ŋutɔ . - Ami nyui (
Zã Amisisi ƒe Gel: Esi wònye be dzɔdzɔme ami si wotsɔna ƒoa akɔta la mesɔ gbɔ o ta la, afɔku si li be kɔndɔm nagbã la lolo ŋutɔ. Azɔ hã, afɔku si li be woaxɔ abi le lãkusi si le ʋeʋẽm la ŋu lolo ŋutɔ. Be nàƒo asa na esia la, zãlubricantnyui aɖeWater-basedme tsi le aloSilicone-based. Woate ŋu axɔ esiawo le atikedzraƒewo, fiase gãwo, alo ƒomewo ƒe lãmesẽdɔwɔƒewo. Mègazã ami siwo me ami le (e.g. vidzĩ ƒe ami, Vaseline, koklozi ƒe ami) kple latex kɔndɔm gbeɖe o. Wogbɔdzɔa kɔndɔm la eye wònɔa bɔbɔe be wòagbã. - Yi blewu eye nàfa tu: Afɔku le eme be nàxɔ abi ne èdɔ gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta kabakaba eye nèwɔa nu madzemadzee. Ele vevie be míawɔ esia tufafatɔe, kple mia nɔewo ƒe lɔlɔ̃nu, dzeɖoɖo, kple bubudede ame nɔewo ŋu.
- Mègatrɔ kɔndɔm ɖeka o: Le gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta megbe la, mègazã kɔndɔm ɖeka ma ke na gbɔdɔdɔ to vidzidɔ me o. Esia wɔwɔ ate ŋu atso dɔlékuiwo tso aɖuɖɔ me ayi nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ me, si ahe dɔlékuiwo vɛ (e.g., aɖuɖɔtoe me dɔléle (
UTIs,Bacterial Vaginosis). Kpɔ egbɔ be yezã kɔndɔm yeye, alo klɔ ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu nyuie (gake kɔndɔm yeyee nyo wu).
Mina míakpɔ nudzɔdzɔ sue aɖe le susu mea?
Ravi kple Thilini ɖoe be yewoadɔ kple akɔta. Wozãa kɔndɔm, gake lubricant aɖewo koe wozãna . Kɔndɔm la gbã le gbɔdɔdɔ me. Wo dometɔ aɖeke mebu eŋu boo o. Ɣleti ʋɛ aɖewo megbe la, wo ame evea siaa va kpɔe be STD aɖe le yewo ŋu . Womenya be ami si sɔ zazã ate ŋu ana kɔndɔma nagbã o.
Mègaŋlɔ gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽmenɔnɔ ƒe nɔnɔme siwo bɔ be o!
Nu siawo le vevie eɖanye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nuwɔna ka ƒomevie nèɖawɔ o, ke menye gbɔdɔdɔ le akɔta ɖeɖeko o:
- Zã ametakpɔnu siwo wotsɔna tsyɔa
Dental DamsFinger Condomsne ehiã le gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe nuwɔna bubuwo me (e.g. gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me, asibidɛwo ƒoƒo). - Nunya le eme ŋutɔ be woado
STDkpɔ zi ɖeka ya teti le ƒea me, eye ne èle ƒomedodo gɔme dzem kple zɔhɛ yeye gɔ̃ hã. - Ðo dze kple wò zɔhɛ gaglãa kple anukwareɖiɖi tso gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ, gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe ƒomedodo siwo nɔ asiwò va yi, kple
STDnɔnɔme ŋu.
Ne èle gbɔdɔdɔ wɔm to vidzidɔ me la, bu fufɔfɔ hã ŋu kpɔ!
Togbɔ be afɔku si le fufɔfɔ me le gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta me le sue ŋutɔ hã la, ne mia kple wò zɔhɛa hã miedɔ kple vidzidɔ me la, ele be miabu mɔxexe ɖe fufɔfɔ nu ŋu. Esia lɔ vidzidzinutsitike si ŋu kakaɖedzi le (abe atikekui, IUD , alo nusi wotsɔ dea ame me ene) zazã ɖe eme. " Dual Protection protection" nye ne èzã kɔndɔm tsɔ kpɔa ame ta tso STDs me esime nèle mɔnu bubu hã zãm tsɔ xea mɔ na fufɔfɔ.
Mɔnu si ŋu kakaɖedzi le 100%: Abstinence
Abe alesi wònɔna ɖaa ene la, mele ŋku ɖom edzi na mi be mɔ ɖeka kolia si ŋu kakaɖedzi le si dzi nàto akpɔ ɖokuiwò ta 100% tso fufɔfɔ kple gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔlélewo me enye be Abstinence gbɔdɔdɔ. Esia hã nye tiatia si le asiwò.
Nyabiasewo le asiwòa? Bia kpekpeɖeŋu, xɔ nyatakaka siwo de pɛpɛpɛ!
Ne nyabiase alo dzimaɖitsitsi aɖewo le asiwò ku ɖe gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ, STDs , alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe mɔnu siwo le dedie ŋu la, .
- Ðo dze kple ɖɔkta si dzi nèka ɖo.
- Di aɖaŋuɖoɖo tso lãmesẽdɔwɔla aɖe gbɔ, abe dɔnɔdzikpɔla alo ƒomea ƒe lãmesẽnyawo
Family Health Midwifeene . - Àte ŋu axɔ nyatakaka kple dɔwɔna siwo de pɛpɛpɛ hã tso teƒewo abe dziɖuɖua ƒe
Sexual Health Clinicslãmesẽdɔwɔƒewo kple Ƒome ƒeFamily Planning AssociationHabɔbɔ ene.
Gbedasi Mamlɛtɔ si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme
Enyo, eyata nusiwo dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui tso nusiwo ŋu míeƒo nu tsoe egbea me lae nye esi:
- Mɔnukpɔkpɔ si li be woafɔ
PregnancytsoAnal Sexto akɔta ɖeɖeko me le sue ŋutɔ, gake fu ate ŋu adzɔ neSemenge ɖe nyɔnu ƒeVagina. - Afɔku vevitɔ kple gãtɔ kekeake si le gbɔdɔdɔ to akɔta me enye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔlélewo (
STDs/STIs) ƒe afɔku si dzina ɖe edzi , vevietɔ dɔlélewo abeHIVene . - Ne èle gbɔdɔdɔ wɔm le akɔta la, zã
Condomyeye kple ami si me tsi le ɣesiaɣi.Zã ami si wotsɔ tsi wɔe (lubricant gel) nyuie. - Do
STDdodokpɔ edziedzi eye nàƒo nu kple wò zɔhɛ gaglãa. - Mègakpe ŋu alo navɔ̃ be yeaƒo nu kple ɖɔkta tso wò gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ ŋu o. Sidzedze vavãtɔe nye wò takpɔkpɔ gãtɔ kekeake.
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