Ðe gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me ate ŋu ana woafɔ fua? Mina míakpɔe ɖa be nyateƒee wònye loo alo menyee o hã!

Ne míeƒo nu tso gbɔdɔdɔ ŋu, vevietɔ le sɔhɛwo gome la, nyabiase geɖe ate ŋu anɔ susu me na wò eye nukpɔsusu totrowo gɔ̃ hã anɔ susu me na wò. "Àte ŋu afɔ fu tso Oral Sex ?" nye nyabiase si le ame geɖe si, eye ɣeaɖewoɣi la, ekpea ŋu vie be woabia. Gake nyateƒe si le nu siawo tɔgbi ŋu nyanya le vevie ŋutɔ na wò lãmesẽ kpakple wò susu ƒe akɔdzeanyi hã. Eyata, egbea míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu le dzɔdzɔmeŋutinunya me, le Sinhalagbe me si gɔme nàte ŋu ase, eye le mɔ si aƒo nu tso akpa sia akpa ŋu nu.

Nukae nye Oral Sex ?

Kpuie ko la, enye ame ƒe nu, nuyi, alo aɖe zazã atsɔ aʋã ame bubu ƒe vidzinuwo (ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu, nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ, gotagome vidzinuwo) alo akɔta. Esia nye mɔnu si srɔ̃tɔ aɖewo zãna tsɔ kpɔa gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dzidzeme.

Nyabiase gãtɔ kekeake: Ðe nàte ŋu afɔ fu to gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me ɖeɖeko mea?

Ŋuɖoɖo si me kɔ na wòe nye esi: Ao! Mɔnukpɔkpɔ aɖeke kura meli be Pregnancy nadzɔ tso Oral Sex to nu me ɖeɖeko me o.

Na míakpɔ nusitae ɖa. Hafi fu nate ŋu adzɔ la, ele be nu vevi eve nava eme:

1. Ele be ŋutsu ƒe Sperm nage ɖe nyɔnu ƒe Vagina .
2. Ele be tsinyenye ma nato Uterus me eye wòawɔ ɖeka (adzi vi) kple Ovum aɖe si le Fallopian Tube me .

Azɔ bu eŋu kpɔ, nukae adzɔ ne tsinyenye do le gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me me? Tsinyenye gena ɖe nu me. Tso afima la, woyia nuɖuɖumeŋusẽ (nutome, dɔgbo, kple bubuawo) gbɔ. Nuɖuɖumeŋusẽ kple vidzidziŋusẽ (nuɖoanyi si me vidzidɔ kple azigolowo le) nye nu eve siwo to vovo kura, siwo medo ƒome kple wo nɔewo o. Tsinyenye siwo gena ɖe nu me mate ŋu azɔ mɔ ayi vidzidɔa me aɖadi azi o. Wotsrɔ̃na le nuɖuɖumeŋusẽ me.

Esia fia be ne tsinyenye ge ɖe nu me alo mimi gɔ̃ hã la, mahe fu o. Ele vevie ŋutɔ be míase nya sia gɔme nyuie.

Eyata ɖe nɔnɔme aɖeke meli si me gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me ate ŋu ado ƒome kple fufɔfɔ oa?

Ɛ̃. Gake menye gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me ɖeɖeko tae o. Se egɔme nyuie, le nɔnɔme siawo me la, nusi gbɔ fufɔfɔ tsoe nye be tsinyenye gena ɖe nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ me to nuwɔna bubu me.

• Ne srɔ̃tɔ aɖe dɔ kple vidzidɔ do ŋgɔ na gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me alo le eŋu vɔ megbe: Ne srɔ̃tɔ aɖe dɔ kple gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me eye emegbe (alo do ŋgɔ) wodɔ kple vidzidɔ me Vaginal Sex alo kɔndɔm aɖeke manɔmee la, tsinyenye ate ŋu age ɖe nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ me eye wòafɔ fu. Le go sia me la, gbɔdɔdɔ to vidzidɔ me gbɔe fufɔfɔ tsona, ke menye gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me o.
• Ne wotsɔ tsinyenye de asiwo me eye emegbe asiwo ka asi nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ ŋu: Le tsinyenye vɔ megbe la, ne wotsɔ tsinyenyea de asi alo asibidɛwo me eye wotsɔ asibidɛ mawo de nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔa me enumake la, mɔnukpɔkpɔ sue aɖe koe li be tsinyenyea nage ɖe eme eye fu ate ŋu adzɔ. Mɔnukpɔkpɔ si li be esia nadzɔ la le sue ŋutɔ, gake menye zero o.

Eyata ɖo ŋku edzi be hafi fu nate ŋu adzɔ la, ele be tsinyenye nato mɔ aɖe nu nage ɖe nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ me.

Afɔku ŋutɔŋutɔ si le gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me me: Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔlélewo ( STDs / STIs ) .

Togbɔ be gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me mehea fu o hã la, afɔku gãtɔ si dze ƒã wue nye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔléle siwo ate ŋu axɔ ame ( STDs - Sexually Transmitted Diseases / STIs - Sexually Transmitted Infections). Esia nye nusi mele be woabu nu tsɛe o.

Dɔléle siawo siwo woyɔna be STDs ate ŋu atso ame ɖeka gbɔ ayi ame bubu gbɔ bɔbɔe to gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me me. Aleke wòle?

• To asikaka nu alo vidzinuwo ŋu kple ŋutilã me tsiwo abe tsinyenye, ‍- Pre-cum , alo ame si ŋu dɔlélea le ƒe vidzidɔ me tsiwo.
• To amesi ŋu dɔlélea le ƒe vidzinuwo, nu, alo ŋɔti ŋu ƒe abi, ʋuʋudedi, alo ŋɔtiwo ƒe kadodo me.

STDs ƒomevi vevi siwo woate ŋu axɔ to gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me me dometɔ aɖewoe nye:

• Herpes (dɔléle si nana ʋuʋudedi dona le vidzinuwo kple nu me) .
• Gonorrhea
• Chlamydia
• Syphilis
• HPV ( Human Papillomavirus - dɔlékui si hea vidzinuwo ƒe ʋuʋudedi kple kansa vɛ) .
• HIV ( Human Immunodeficiency Virus- Dɔlékui si hea AIDS vɛ) - Togbɔ be esia ƒe mɔnukpɔkpɔ le sue hã la, womate ŋu agbee o, vevietɔ ne nu me abi le eme.

Nusi dzi ŋɔ enye be, zi geɖe la, STDs siawo meɖea gotagome dzesi aɖeke fiana o. Ema fia be ne wò alo wò zɔhɛ menya be STD le ye ŋu o hã la, àte ŋu atsɔe ana ame bubu kokoko. Afɔku le eme be nàsusu be, "Naneke megblẽ le ŋunye o" elabena dzesi aɖeke mele ŋuwò o.

Aleke nàwɔ akpɔ ɖokuiwò ta le gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me me?

Mɔ aɖewo li siwo dzi nàto akpɔ ɖokuiwò ta tso STDs eye nàna gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me nanɔ dedie:

• Condoms : Kɔndɔm dodo ɖe ŋutsu ƒe vidzinu dzi le gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me ate ŋu aɖe afɔku si le STDs xɔxɔ me dzi akpɔtɔ ŋutɔ . Kɔndɔm flavored gɔ̃ hã li siwo woate ŋu azã na esia.
• Dental Dams : Ðewohĩ mèse esia ŋkɔ kpɔ o. nye agbalẽ gbadza si le dzogoe ene me si wotsɔ latex alo polyurethane wɔ . Wotsɔa esia dana ɖe nyɔnu ƒe vidzidɔ alo aɖuɖɔtoe dzi, eye woate ŋu awɔ gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me to edzi. Esia xea mɔ na ŋutigbalẽ kple ŋutigbalẽ ƒe kadodo tẽ.
• Asibidɛwo ƒe Finger Condoms (alo Finger Cots ): Ne wozãa wò asibidɛwo tsɔ ʋãa wò le gbɔdɔdɔ me la, àte ŋu azã kɔndɔm sue siawo siwo wodona ɖe wò asibidɛwo ŋu.
• Dzeɖoɖo faa: Ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàƒo nu faa kple wò zɔhɛ tso gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ, gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe ƒomedodo siwo nɔ asiwò va yi, kple nenye be wodo wò kpɔ STD le ŋuwò hã .
• Do STD dodokpɔ edziedzi: Ne èle gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbegbegblẽnɔnɔ wɔm, vevietɔ kple zɔhɛ yeye la, nunya anɔ eme be nàdo STD dodokpɔ edziedzi.

Mina míakpɔ nudzɔdzɔ sue aɖe le susu mea?

Ðekakpui kple ɖetugbui, mina míagblɔ be Kavindu kple Senali. Wosusu be esi gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me mehea fu o ta la, mehiã be woakpɔ eta o. Womenya be gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me hã ate ŋu axɔ STDs o . Le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe la, Senali ƒe ŋɔti nɔ vevem eye wòyi ɖɔkta gbɔ. Esi wòva nya be Gonorrhea le yeƒe ŋɔti me ko hafi. Exɔe tso Kavindu gbɔ. Kpɔ nusi ate ŋu adzɔ ne sidzedze nyuitɔ mele asiwò oa?

Ne gbɔdɔdɔ to vidzidɔ me hã dzɔ la, ehiã be woakpɔ ame ta le akpa evea siaa!

Ne èle gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me kpakple gbɔdɔdɔ to vidzidɔ me hã la, ekema ele be nàbu nu eve ŋu:

1. Mɔxexe ɖe fufɔfɔ nu: Esia bia be nàzã mɔxexeɖefufɔfɔnu ƒomevi aɖe si ŋu kakaɖedzi le (abe atikekui, IUD , alo nusi wotsɔ dea ame me ene).
2. Takpɔkpɔ tso STDs : Esia bia be woazã kɔndɔm.

Esia fia be ne èno fufɔfɔtikewo hã la, anyo wu be nàzã kɔndɔm hã atsɔ akpɔ ɖokuiwò ta tso STDs . Woyɔa esia be " Dual Protection eve ."

Mɔnu si ŋu kakaɖedzi le 100%: Abstinence

Esi míegblɔ nya siawo katã vɔ la, ele vevie be nàɖo ŋku edzi be mɔ ɖeka kolia si ŋu kakaɖedzi le si dzi nàto akpɔ ɖokuiwò ta tso fufɔfɔ kple gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔlélewo me enye be nàtsri Abstinence . Esia hã nye tiatia si le asiwò.

Nyabiasewo le asiwòa? Bia kpekpeɖeŋu, xɔ nyatakaka siwo de pɛpɛpɛ!

Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ menye nusi woaɣla o. Ne nyabiase alo dzimaɖitsitsi aɖe le asiwò ku ɖe esia ŋu la, .

• Ðo dze kple ɖɔkta si dzi nèka ɖo.
• Di aɖaŋuɖoɖo tso lãmesẽdɔwɔla aɖe gbɔ, abe dɔnɔdzikpɔla alo ƒomea ƒe lãmesẽnyawo Family Health Midwife ene .
• Àte ŋu axɔ nyatakaka kple dɔwɔna siwo de pɛpɛpɛ hã tso teƒewo abe dziɖuɖua ƒe Sexual Health Clinics lãmesẽdɔwɔƒewo kple Family Planning Association Habɔbɔ ene. Ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàxɔ nyatakaka siwo ŋu atikewɔlawo ɖo kpee hafi axɔ nusianu si nàkpɔ le internet dzi alo nusianu si xɔ̃wòwo gblɔ na wò dzi ase.

Gbedasi Mamlɛtɔ si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme

Enyo, eyata nusiwo dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui tso nusiwo ŋu míeƒo nu tsoe egbea me lae nye esi:

• Menye Oral Sex to nu me ɖeɖeko me Pregnancy dzɔna o. Ne Sperm ge ɖe nyɔnu ƒe Vagina ko hafi fufɔfɔ dzɔna .
• Afɔku vevitɔ si le gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me me enye gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe dɔlélewo ( STDs / STIs ) ƒe kaka.
• Be nàkpɔ ɖokuiwò ta tso STDs , zã ametakpɔnu abe Condoms alo aɖuɖɔtoe Dental Dams le gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me me.
• Ne èle gbɔdɔdɔ wɔm to vidzidɔ me la, zã mɔxexeɖefufɔfɔnu si ŋu kakaɖedzi le nàtsɔ axe mɔ ɖe fufɔfɔ nu, eye nàzã kɔndɔm hã atsɔ akpɔ ɖokuiwò ta tso STDs me .
• Mègakpe ŋu alo navɔ̃ be yeaƒo nu kple ɖɔkta tso wò gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe lãmesẽ ŋu o. Sidzedze vavãtɔe nye wò takpɔkpɔ gãtɔ kekeake.

Wòe wɔa nyametsotso siwo ku ɖe wò ŋutilã kple wò lãmesẽ ŋu. Eyata nya nu tso nusianu ŋu nyuie eye nàwɔ nyametsotso siwo me nunya le, siwo ŋu agbanɔamedzi le. Anye kpekpeɖeŋu gã aɖe na wò be nànɔ agbe si me lãmesẽ le, si me dzidzɔ le!

Gbɔdɔdɔ to nu me, Fufɔfɔ, STDs, Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe Lãmesẽ, Kɔndɔm, Aɖu Dams, Nu me Gbɔdɔdɔ, Fufɔfɔ, STD Mɔxexe, Gbɔdɔdɔ si Le Dedie

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