Èle ɣeyiɣi dodzidzɔname ma si me nèle tsitsim le la me, eye wò ŋutilã le tɔtrɔ geɖe me tom. Ède dzesii be wò gbe te tɔtrɔa? Ðewohĩ egbãna alo gbãna ne èle nu ƒoma? Mega tsi dzi o; esia nye nusi sɔ kura. Le nyati sia me la, míaƒo nu tso nusitae nusia dzɔna, nusi gbɔ wòtsona, kple ɣeyiɣi si nàte ŋu akpɔ mɔ be wòadze anyi ŋu.
Nukatae míaƒe gbe trɔna kpata?
Kpuie ko la, gbe ƒe tɔtrɔ nye sɔhɛmenɔɣi me toto ƒe akpa aɖe le dzɔdzɔme nu. Le ŋutsuviwo gome la, ŋutilãa dzea lãmetsiŋusẽ (Testosterone) geɖe wɔwɔ gɔme le ɣeyiɣi sia me. Lãmetsi sia gbɔe wò ŋutilã toa tɔtrɔ geɖe me, eye wò gbe hã le eme.
Bu eŋu ale: le wò yaƒoƒomɔ̃ (Trachea) tame la, xɔ sue aɖe si woyɔna be lãkusi (Larynx) . Ame aɖewo yɔa esia be wò "gbeɖiɖiɖaka." Aɖuɖɔtoeae nye teƒe vevitɔ si wò gbe dona le.
Le wò lãkusi me la, lãmeka eve siwo keke ɖe eŋu, abe rababa ene. Woyɔa esiawo be gbeɖiɖikawo (Vocal Cords) .
- Ne èle gbɔgbɔm ko la, gbeɖiɖika siawo ɖea dzi ɖi, wotsia akɔta ƒe gliwo ŋu ale be ya nate ŋu age ɖe wò lãkusi me mɔxenu aɖeke manɔmee.
- Gake ne èle nu ƒom la, gbeɖiɖikawo tena ɖe wo nɔewo ŋu eye wokekena ɖe lãkusia dzi . Ne ya si tso wò lãkusiwo me le tutum to wo me la, kaawo ʋuʋuna . Ʋuʋudedi mae nana wò gbe ƒe ɖiɖi .
Ne èƒo nu kple gbe si bɔbɔ ɖe anyi wu la, wò gbeɖiɖikawo ɖea dzi ɖi eye womeɖea asi le wo ŋu o. Ne èƒo nu kple gbe si kɔ wu la, wokekea wo sesĩe wu. Àte ŋu ate esia kpɔ le ɖokuiwò si; àte ŋu ase masɔmasɔ si le wò ŋɔti me gɔ̃ hã ne èle wò gbeɖiɖi trɔm.
Ne èle tsitsim la, (Testosterone) ƒe ŋusẽkpɔɖeamedzi nana wò lãkusiwo lolona. Esia wɔe be wò gbeɖiɖikawo (Vocal Cords) didina eye wole kpekpem ɖe edzi. Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, wò mo ƒe ƒuwo hã tsina—siwo dometɔ aɖewoe nye wò ŋɔti me mɔwo kple sinus cavities (Sinus cavities) . Esia naa teƒe geɖe wò gbe be (Resonate) , si tae wò gbe goglo wu ɖo.
Bu gita ŋu kpɔ. Ka tsɛ aɖe ɖeɖe nana gbeɖiɖi sesẽ aɖe dona, alo? Gake nukae dzɔna ne èɖe ka ɣi aɖe? Enaa gbeɖiɖi deto si me kesinɔnuwo le la dona. Nenema kee wòle le míaƒe gbewo hã gome. Esime nènye ɖevi la, wò ŋɔti nɔa sue eye wò gbeɖiɖikawo nɔa sue, si wɔnɛ be gbe si le abe ɖevi ene la kɔna ɖe edzi. Ne akpa siawo le tsitsim kpe ɖe wò ŋutilã ƒe akpa mamlɛa ŋu la, wò gbe dea to va zua ame tsitsi tɔ.
Ne èwɔ tɔtrɔ siawo katã la, àte ŋu ade dzesii be wò ŋɔti ƒe dzedzeme to vovo vie. Ne lãkusia le tsitsim le ŋutsuviwo me la, etrɔna yia ŋgɔ eye wòwɔa ʋuʋudedi si woyɔna be "Adam ƒe Akɔɖu." Nyɔnuviwo ƒe lãkusiwo hã tsina, gake menye nenema gbegbe o, si tae Adam ƒe Akɔɖu medzena le nyɔnuwo me boo o ɖo.
Ðe wò gbe dzi ɖuɖu sesẽna? Ðe nèsea gbe ƒe gbagbã?
Vaseɖe esime wò ŋutilã natrɔ ɖe lãkusi si lolo wu kple gbeɖiɖika yeye siwo le dodom ŋu la, ate ŋu asesẽ be nàɖu wò gbe dzi. Àte ŋu asee be "wòagbã" alo "wòagbã" kasia esime nèle nu ƒom, abe ɖe wòle titim le gbeɖiɖi vovovo eve dome ene.
Taflatse, esia megavɔ̃ o. "Gragbã" sia nye ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe ko tɔ . Zi geɖe la, akpa sia mexɔa wu ɣleti ʋɛ aɖewo o, eye wò gbe magbã ɣesiaɣi si nèƒo nu o.
Le ŋutsuvi aɖewo gome la, gbea dea to vivivi, evɔ le ame bubuwo gome la, tɔtrɔa ate ŋu adze abe ɖe wòdzɔ kpata ene. Ðewohĩ ŋu akpe wò alo atsi dzimaɖi vie gɔ̃ hã, gake esia sɔ bliboe. Ðo ŋku edzi be esia dzɔna ɖe amesiame dzi.Anɔ eme be xɔ̃wòwo, nɔviwò tsitsiwo, kple hatiwòwo to nusia me alo woato eme kpuie. Le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe la, wò ŋutilã atrɔ ɖe wò lãkusi yeye si lolo wu kple wò gbe si de to wu ŋu bliboe.
Ɣekaɣie nye gbe adze tɔtrɔ gɔme?
Àte ŋu ade dzesii be xɔlɔ̃ aɖewo ƒe gbe le ʋuʋum xoxo, evɔ bubuwo ya ɖina goglo, eye wo dometɔ aɖewo gakpɔtɔ ɖina abe ɖe woɖi esime wonɔ sue ŋutɔ ene.
Akpa vevitɔ kekeakee nye esi: Amesiame ƒe ɣeyiɣiɖoɖo to vovo. Ame aɖewo ƒe gbe trɔna do ŋgɔ, gake bubuwo ya trɔna emegbe. Eto vovo tso ame ɖeka gbɔ yi bubu gbɔ.
Zi geɖe la, ŋutsuvi ƒe gbe dzea tɔtrɔ gɔme ne exɔ ƒe 11 va ɖo ƒe 15 . Gake ate ŋu adzɔ kaba alo emegbe na ame bubuwo, eye esia menyo kura o. Nusianu nɔ te ɖe ɣeyiɣi si nèɖo sɔhɛmenɔɣi dzi. Esi ŋutsuvi aɖewo gena ɖe sɔhɛmenɔɣi kaba wu bubuwo ta la, mehiã be nàtsi dzi ne xɔ̃wòa ƒe gbe trɔ do ŋgɔ na tɔwò o—adzɔ ne wò ɣeyiɣia de.
Aleke nye gbe yeyea aɖi?
Nya sia nye nya si ame geɖe biana: Aleke gbegbe nye gbe ade toe? Ðe wòanye raspy ŋutɔa?
Wò gbe ƒe goglome nɔa te ɖe wò lãkusi ƒe lolome, wò gbeɖiɖikawo ƒe titrime, kple teƒe si ɖina le wò mo kple ŋɔti me dzi. Ewɔa dɔ abe gita ƒe ka ƒe kpɔɖeŋu ma ene.
Ne wò lãkusi wu eƒe tsitsi ƒe akpa gãtɔ nu ko la, wò gbe ali ke eye wòanɔ bɔbɔe be nàɖu edzi , eye gbagbãƒewo kple gbagbãƒewo nu ayi.
Ke hã, wò gbe mewu ŋgɔyiyi nu haɖe o! Ne ƒewuiviawo trɔ gɔ̃ hã la, wò gbe yia edzi nɔa tɔtrɔm. Togbɔ be gbewo ƒe gbagbã ƒe akpaa menɔa anyi didi o hã la, le ŋutsuvi akpa gãtɔ gome la, ne woƒe ƒe blaeveawo ƒe gɔmedzedze koe gbea ɖoa eƒe liƒo blibo si tsi nyuie gbɔ. Eyata, dzigbɔɖi vi aɖe kpena ɖe ame ŋu ŋutɔ.
Eyata nu vevi kawo dzie wòle be míaɖo ŋkui le míaƒe numedzodzroa me?
Mele mɔ kpɔm be èse gbe ƒe tɔtrɔ gɔme nyuie wu fifia. Mina nya siawo nanɔ susu me na mí:
- Gbe ƒe tɔtrɔ nye tsitsi ƒe akpa si sɔ bliboe eye wòle dzɔdzɔme nu , vevietɔ le
(Puberty). - Le ŋutsuviwo gome la, nusi koŋ gbɔ wòtsonae nye lãmetsiŋusẽ
( Testosterone ), si nana lãkusi(Larynx)tsina eye wòtrɔna zua gbeɖiɖikawo(Vocal Cords). - Gbe ƒe gbagbã nyea ɣeyiɣi kpui aɖe ko . Ne wò ŋutilã le tɔtrɔm ɖe tɔtrɔ yeye siawo ŋu koe wònɔa anyi, eyata mègatsi dzi ɖe eŋu o.
- Amesiame ƒe gbe trɔna le eya ŋutɔ ƒe ɖoɖowɔɖi nu . Ate ŋu adzɔ do ŋgɔ alo emegbe wu xɔ̃wòwo; ema sɔ bliboe.
- Wò ŋutilã ƒe tsitsi ɖekaɖekae afia wò gbe ƒe goglome eye wòali ke le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe.
- Susu aɖeke meli si tae ŋu nakpe wò, vɔvɔ̃ ɖo wò, alo nàbu ɖokuiwò ŋu boo o. Esia nye nuteƒekpɔkpɔ si me amesiame tona.
Nu vevitɔ kekeakee nye be menye wò ɖeka koe le nusia me tom o! Xɔ̃wòwo, nufialawo , kple dzilawo se akpa sia gɔme eye woado alɔ wò. Ne nane si ŋu nètsi dzi ɖo la, ƒo nu kple ame tsitsi aɖe si dzi nèka ɖo.
Eyata le tɔtrɔɣi sia me la, xɔe abe wò agbe ƒe ta yeye ene. Ðeko wònye dzesi be èle tsitsim le lãmesẽ me!
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