Do you know how your 1-3 month old baby "talks" to you (Baby Communication)?

As your little one gradually emerges from the newborn stage, a beautiful "conversation" begins between you and your baby. That is, you begin to communicate with each other through laughter and sounds. As your baby becomes a little more playful and curious, he begins to develop his own unique personality. Isn't this a very sweet time?

How do you talk to us, little ones?

Even though babies don't speak in words like we do, they still communicate a lot with us in their own way. Let's see how that works.

Crying - their main language!

Crying is the main way babies communicate in the early stages. They cry when they need something, when they are hungry, when they are sleepy, when they feel uncomfortable (maybe their diaper is wet, or they are hot). Sometimes they cry when everything in this world, the noise, the light, etc., seems a bit too much for them, that is, they are ``overwhelmed``. Think about how many new things are happening to a little one all at once! So crying like that is normal. As a mother, you will be able to recognize what is wrong with your baby after a while by the way he cries.

Their responses to your voice and smile

When you talk, your baby will turn his head to look at you, stare at you for a while and then fall silent, maybe smile, or just stand there with his arms and legs spread wide open in joy. When you smile, the baby is more likely to smile back at you. Isn't that a beautiful experience? When you see that little smile, you forget about the whole world, right?

The sound of 'Koo', the sound of 'Guru Guru'... their own words!

Babies are slowly discovering that they can make sounds. While you're watching, your house will be like a little machine making 'coo', 'guru guru', and all sorts of sounds! They will "talk" to you with all sorts of sounds. Some babies even start making vowel sounds like 'a-a', 'u-u', and 'o-o' at this time. These are their first steps in learning language.

So what should I do as a mother?

There are many things you can do to further develop your little one's communication skills. These are very simple, loving things.

• Talk to your baby often, play. Your baby loves your voice. So in these first few months, talk to your baby, read books (it doesn't matter if they are picture books, they love the rhythm of your reading, the changes in your voice), sing songs, and sing 'coo'. Respond to the sounds and laughter your baby makes with interest. Say things like, 'Look at my baby smiling', 'What are you saying to Mommy?' When you talk to your baby, sing songs, and read books, you are not just spending time. Every word, every sound, every laugh helps your baby's brain development. Even if they don't know the meaning of the words at the time, they learn to recognize the rhythm, sound patterns, and differences in voices of a language. This is the foundation for them to speak well later and understand what others are saying.

• Tell your baby what he/she is looking at, what he/she is doing, and what you are doing. Say the names of familiar objects as you touch them or give them to your baby. Say things like, 'Look at this red ball,' 'Mommy is going to make milk for the baby now,' 'Look, my son/daughter, there is a beautiful bird sitting on the window.' This helps them to make connections between words and objects.

• "Talk" to your baby. If your baby makes a sound, say it back and wait for a response. For example, if your baby makes a "woof," say "woof" and wait for a while. Maybe he'll make another sound. This way, you're teaching your baby valuable lessons about tone of voice, pacing, and taking turns. This teaches your baby that he's important enough to listen to. Don't interrupt or look away when your baby is "talking." Let him know that you're interested and that your little one can trust you.

• Get used to reading your baby's 'body language'. Sometimes they'll give you clues about what they want and how they're feeling through the way they move their arms, make faces, or look at you. Understanding these 'nonverbal cues' will also strengthen the bond between you and your baby.

• Understand that there are times when babies need to be quiet. Sometimes babies don't feel like talking or making noise. They are getting too much stimulation from the things around them, the sounds, and the lights, and they need a break. At such times, babies may look away, close their eyes, or just get upset and start crying. If that happens, let your little one rest for a while, and try to hold him or her if he wants to. Don't always try to encourage him or her to play.

Your facial expressions are also very important to the baby!

Babies love to look at your face as much as they love to hear your voice. They watch your facial expressions when you smile, when you are surprised, when you look at them with love. This is another way for them to understand emotions and learn what communication is. So when you talk to your baby, when you rock him, don't forget to look at him with love and give him a big smile. Your face is his first 'book'!

Is my baby crying too much? Let's learn about colic.

Most babies have a "fussy period" at about the same time every day, usually in the evening. This is normal. But sometimes this crying can be a little more intense.

Although it is normal for all newborns to cry and fuss, when a healthy baby cries for more than 3 hours a day, more than 3 days a week, and for at least 3 weeks in a row, we call this condition `(Colic)`. To be precise, this is also called the ``rule of threes``. A baby with `(Colic)` is very difficult to comfort. When they cry, they may have a red face and hold their legs up to their stomach.

This can be very distressing and tiring for both parents. But the good news is that for most babies, this condition will subside on its own by the time they are 3 or 4 months old. So, for the most part, it is temporary. However, if you are very suspicious about your baby's crying, or if you think there is something else wrong with him, it is best to see a doctor.

When should I see a doctor?

If you have any doubts or concerns about your baby's communication skills or hearing, definitely talk to your family doctor or pediatrician. That's the best thing to do. It's very important to dispel any doubts in a mother's mind.

Around this time, around 3 months, many babies start to do these things:

• Responds to loud noises (e.g., starts to cry, stops crying, looks in the direction of the sound).
• Makes other sounds (like cooing, gurgling, laughing) besides crying.
• When you talk to it, it looks at you and smiles.
• When you smile at them, they smile back at you.

But the most important thing to remember is that there is a wide range of what is considered 'normal'. This means that some babies do these things a little earlier, while others do them a little later. Every baby is different. Your baby may not be doing what your friend's baby is doing at the same age. So don't worry unnecessarily, and don't compare yourself to others. However, if you continue to have doubts, it's wise to talk to a doctor.

So, what are the things we need to remember from what we've talked about?

Every second you spend with your 1-3 month old is precious. Try to understand what they are trying to tell you through their crying, laughing, and cooing.

Your loving voice, your smile, your caress are the greatest thing in a baby's world. It's the biggest boost to their communication skills.

• Talk to your baby often, sing songs, and laugh. Your responses are very important to them. Let them know that they are not alone.
• Start a "conversation" by imitating the sounds your baby makes. This will help them learn a lot about language and communication.
• If your baby needs a break, let them. You don't have to play all the time. Understand their cues.
• If you suspect a condition like colic , or if you have any concerns about your baby's development, never delay seeking medical advice.
• Remember that every baby is unique. Don't compare yourself to other babies. Your baby will learn at his own pace.

When you are loving and attentive like this, you will be able to watch your little one slowly begin to communicate beautifully with the world! It is such a magical journey.

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