Inā loaʻa i kou makuahine, kou makuakāne, a i ʻole kekahi mea kokoke iā ʻoe ka maʻi Alzheimer, ʻike wau i ka nui o ke kuleana a me ka mōhai aloha e mālama iā lākou. Ua like ia me ka hele ʻana i kahi kaula paʻa. Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, pale ʻoe i kāu mea aloha, hāʻawi iā lākou i nā pono e pono ai lākou, hāʻawi iā lākou i kā lākou lāʻau lapaʻau i ka manawa kūpono, lawe iā lākou e ʻike i ke kauka, a hāʻawi i ke aloha a me ke kākoʻo pau ʻole. Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, aia kou ola ... kāu hana, kou kuleana ʻohana, kou pilina pili kanaka. No laila, he pilikia nui ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana i kēia mau mea a pau.
Inā ʻoe e mālama ana i kahi mea aloha e like me kēia, he mea nui e ʻike a mākaukau e like me ka hiki e pili ana i kēia maʻi. A, i ka wā e pono ai ke kōkua, mai kānalua e noi aku.
E ʻike mua kākou i ka mea e manaʻo ai?
He mea kōkua ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻike maikaʻi i ke ʻano o ka hopena o ka maʻi Alzheimer iā ʻoe. Inā ʻike mua ʻoe i nā loli e hiki mai ana, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo pehea e loli ai kāu mau kuleana a me nā kuleana i ka hala ʻana o ka manawa.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole like ka hopena o ka maʻi Alzheimer i kēlā me kēia maʻi. He ʻokoʻa loa ia mai kēlā kanaka a kēia kanaka. Hiki ke loli nui ke kūlana o ka mea maʻi mai kēlā lā a kēia lā. E noʻonoʻo, i kekahi mau lā ua maʻamau loa kāu mea aloha, e hana ana i nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā ma o lākou iho. Akā i kekahi lā ʻē aʻe, hiki iā lākou ke hilinaʻi loa iā ʻoe. Hiki ke loli ke ʻano o kā lākou pane ʻana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau i hāʻawi ʻia iā lākou i kēlā me kēia manawa.
Me kēia mau hoʻololi, i kekahi manawa paha e manaʻo ʻoe he mea kūpono ʻole lākou a i ʻole e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻopunipuni iā ʻoe. Akā, ʻaʻole na lākou ka hewa. He ʻāpana maoli ia o ka maʻi. I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, i ka hala ʻana o nā makahiki, e ʻoi aku ka ʻino o nā hōʻailona. Hiki i ka lāʻau lapaʻau ke hoʻolohi wale i ka wikiwiki o ka ʻino ʻana o ke kūlana. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻōki loa ʻia.
ʻO ka mea nui loa, hiki i ke kaumaha ke lilo i ʻāpana o ka maʻi Alzheimer. Hiki i ke kaumaha ke hoʻonui i nā hōʻailona a hōʻemi i ka hiki ke hana i nā hana o kēlā me kēia lā. No laila, e makaʻala inā loaʻa iā lākou kekahi mau hōʻailona o ke kaumaha. Inā ʻike ʻoe i kekahi, e haʻi koke i kāu kauka.
| ʻAno o ka maʻi | Nā mea e pono ai ʻoe e ʻike |
|---|---|
| Ke loli nei mai kēlā lā a kēia lā | He maikaʻi kekahi mau lā (nā lā maikaʻi). He paʻakikī loa kekahi mau lā (nā lā ʻino). He mea maʻamau kēia. Mai hopohopo no ia mea. |
| Ke ʻino aʻe nei nā hōʻailona | I ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, e emi mālie ana nā mea e like me ka hoʻomanaʻo a me ke ʻano. ʻOiai hiki ke kāohi ʻia kēia helu me ka lāʻau lapaʻau, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻōki loa ʻia. |
| Kaumaha | E makaʻala i nā hōʻailona e like me ke kaumaha, ke kaumaha, a me ka nalowale o ka hoihoi i kekahi mea. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻopilikia hou aku i ka maʻi. E ʻimi koke i ke kōkua lapaʻau. |
A ʻo ia wale nō ... pono ʻoe e mālama iā ʻoe iho!
E kōkua kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo iā ʻoe e pale i kou ola a me kou olakino noʻonoʻo i ka wā e mālama ana i kāu mea aloha.
Pono ʻoe i kahi hoʻomaha iki.
ʻO kēia ka mea nui loa. E hoʻokaʻawale i kahi manawa nou iho. E kiʻi i kahi kaikaina, he hoaaloha, a i ʻole kekahi e kōkua iā ʻoe ma ke kālā, a i ʻole e hāʻawi i ke kuleana no kekahi mau hola, a hele i waho no kekahi manawa. E hana i kāu hana, e hoʻoikaika kino, a i ʻole e noho kaʻawale no kekahi manawa. Ma ko mākou ʻāina, aia i kēia manawa nā "papahana mālama keiki makua." Hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā i ia mau wahi. Mai manaʻo hewa no ka hoʻomaha ʻana.
Mai hana i nā mea a pau iā ʻoe iho.
ʻAʻole hiki i nā maʻi Alzheimer ke hana i nā mea a pau a lākou i hana ai ma mua. Akā, me ke kōkua iki, aia nō nā mea hiki iā lākou ke hana. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ia mea, hiki nō iā lākou ke pelu i kekahi mau lole, a i ʻole e ʻili i kahi mea kanu. E ʻae iā lākou e hana pēlā. E hāʻawi iā lākou i ka manawa. E kōkua wale iā lākou ma kahi a lākou e hakakā nei. E hāʻawi iā lākou i nā pahuhopu liʻiliʻi, a e hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou ke hana lākou i kēlā mau mea. ʻO ka ʻōlelo ʻana, "Auē... he mea maikaʻi loa kēlā," hiki ke hana nui no ko lākou manaʻo ponoʻī.
E kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā mea pili kānāwai a me nā mea pilikino
He kumuhana koʻikoʻi kēia, akā he mea nui loa ia. I ka wā hikiwawe loa o ka maʻi, e kūkākūkā i nā makemake hope loa o kāu mea aloha me lākou. No ka laʻana, ʻo ke kūkākūkā ʻana i nā mea e like me kā lākou hoʻolālā waiwai, kahi mana loio paʻa, kahi palapala kauoha ola, a me kahi kauoha do-not-resuscitate (DNR) hiki ke kōkua i ka hōʻemi ʻana i nā pilikia he nui i ka wā e hiki mai ana ma ke kūkākūkā ʻana a me ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kēia mau mea ma ke kānāwai. E kamaʻilio me kahi loio i kamaʻāina i kēia mau mea a loaʻa ka ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo.
Mai ho'ōki i kou ola.
He kūpaʻa nui kēia. Akā, mai hoʻopaneʻe i kou ola holoʻokoʻa no ia mea. E kamaʻilio me kou mau hoaaloha, e hālāwai me lākou. E hoʻomau i ka hana ʻana i nā mea āu e aloha ai (nā hana leʻaleʻa). E ho'āʻo e mālama i kāu hana maʻamau i ka hiki. A laila e hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻokō i kēia kuleana me ka noʻonoʻo a me ka emi ʻana o ka hoʻonāukiuki. E hoʻomanaʻo, inā wale nō ʻoe e hauʻoli a ikaika e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke mālama pono i kāu mea aloha.
E ʻimi i kahi kanaka e kamaʻilio pū ai e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo.
Pono ʻoe i kekahi e hoʻolohe i kāu mea aloha a kākoʻo iā lākou, a e hoʻokuʻu i kou kaumaha, ke kaumaha, a me ka huhū. Hiki i kēia ke lilo i hoaaloha pili a i ʻole lālā o ka ʻohana. E kamaʻilio ākea me lākou a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. Hiki nō hoʻi ke kōkua i ka hui pū ʻana me nā hui kākoʻo kahi e hiki ai i nā mea mālama ʻē aʻe o nā maʻi Alzheimer ke hui pū. E kōkua kēia iā ʻoe e ʻike ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi i kēia pilikia. Hiki ke lilo i mea hōʻoluʻolu nui ke ʻike ʻana ua like ka manaʻo o kekahi poʻe me ʻoe.
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- He maʻi holomua ka maʻi ʻo Alzheimer. He mea maʻamau ka loaʻa ʻana o nā lā maikaʻi a me nā lā ʻino. No laila e hoʻomanawanui.
- E like me kou mālama ʻana i kāu mea aloha, he mea nui like kou olakino kino a me kou noʻonoʻo. E hoʻomaha iki. Mai manaʻo hewa no ia mea.
- E kōkua iā lākou e mālama i ko lākou manaʻo ponoʻī ma ka ʻae ʻana iā lākou e hana i nā mea liʻiliʻi hiki iā lākou ke hana.
- ʻO ke kūkākūkā ʻana a me ka hoʻoholo ʻana e pili ana i nā mea kānāwai a me nā mea lapaʻau (e like me ka palapala kauoha hope loa a me ka DNR) i ka wā mua o ke kaʻina hana maʻi e hiki ke kōkua i ka pale ʻana i nā pilikia he nui i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
- ʻAʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi i kēia huakaʻi. E noi i ke kōkua mai ka ʻohana, nā hoaaloha, a i ʻole nā hui kākoʻo. E kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo.
- Inā ʻike ʻoe i kekahi mau loli i nā hōʻailona o kāu mea aloha a i ʻole ke kūlana noʻonoʻo (ʻoi aku ka kaumaha), e kamaʻilio koke me kā lākou kauka.
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