Pehea ka paʻakikī o ka lohe ʻana mai ke kauka ua loaʻa i kou makuahine, kou makuakāne, a i ʻole kekahi āu e aloha ai ka dementia? He nūhou kaumaha kēia. He manawa paʻakikī kēia ʻaʻole wale no ka mea maʻi, akā no ʻoe a me ke koena o ka ʻohana e mālama nei iā lākou. ʻAʻole i nalowale ke kanaka āu e aloha ai, akā he paʻakikī ke hoʻomanawanui i ka manaʻo e loli mālie ana ke kanaka āu i ʻike ai. He ʻano kaumaha kēlā.
No laila, inā ʻo ʻoe a i ʻole kekahi o kou ʻohana e loaʻa ana iā Alzheimer's a i ʻole kekahi ʻano dementia ʻē aʻe, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kekahi mau mea e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomanawanui i kēia manawa a me ka wā e hiki mai ana.
He aha kāu e hana ai ma hope o ka hōʻoia ʻana?
ʻO kēia ʻāpana no ke kanaka i hōʻoia ʻia ua loaʻa iā ia ka maʻi. ʻOiai ke hana maikaʻi nei kou noʻonoʻo, aia kekahi mau mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana.
E hana i kāu mea hiki, i ka wā e hiki ai iā ʻoe.
ʻŌlelo pinepine nā kauka i nā maʻi i loaʻa hou ka maʻi, "ʻOiai hiki iā ʻoe ke noʻonoʻo pono, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kāu mea hiki ke hana. A laila hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo nou iho pehea ʻoe e makemake ai e hoʻolilo i nā makahiki e hiki mai ana." Ma kēia ʻano, ʻo ka hoʻoholo ʻana iā ʻoe iho a i ʻole me ke kōkua o kou ʻohana hiki ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i ka ikaika noʻonoʻo.
Eia kekahi laʻana, he mea nui e hoʻonohonoho mua i nā mea e like me nā palapala ʻāina, nā palapala waiwai, a me nā mea kānāwai . He mea naʻauao hoʻi e hoʻomākaukau i kahi mea e like me ka 'advance directive', kahi palapala i kākau ʻia e wehewehe ana i ke ʻano āu e makemake ai e hana ʻia kāu lāʻau lapaʻau i ka wā e hiki mai ana. E kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i kēia.
Aia kekahi huakaʻi āu i makemake mau ai e hana? ʻO kēia ka manawa kūpono e noʻonoʻo ai a hoʻolālā no ia mea.
E noho pū me nā kānaka a pau.
He mea maʻamau loa ke kaumaha, a i kekahi manawa kaumaha hoʻi, ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi maʻi dementia. Akā, mai hoʻāʻo e hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe iho a noho paha i loko o kou lumi. Akā, e hoʻolilo i ka manawa me ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha . E hele i nā hana hoʻomana, e hele wāwae, a e kūʻai paha. E hōʻoluʻolu kēia mau mea iā ʻoe.
Inā ʻoe e kaumaha nei i ke ola a ʻaʻole hiki ke hana i kekahi mea, e ʻike pono i ke kauka . Hiki iā ia ke kuhikuhi i nā lāʻau lapaʻau (antidepressants), ke aʻo ʻana, a i ʻole nā mea ʻelua.
E hoʻomaopopo pono i kēia.
ʻO ka nui o ka ʻike āu e pili ana i kēia maʻi a me ke kākoʻo āu e loaʻa ai, ʻo ka maʻalahi ka noho olakino a palekana. He mea nui i nā mea maʻi a me ko lākou mau ʻohana e noho mau i ka launa pū ʻana me kā lākou mau kauka, a me nā poʻe loea e like me nā limahana hana kaiaulu a me nā kākāʻōlelo.
Nā mea nui iā ʻoe e mālama ai i ka mea maʻi
Inā he mea mālama ʻoe no kekahi me ka dementia, e lilo kēia mau ʻike i mea pono loa iā ʻoe.
E hoʻomanawanui a e lokomaikaʻi.
I ka holomua ʻana o ka dementia, hiki ke lilo i mea maʻamau ka huhū koke a me nā loli o ke ʻano. E noʻonoʻo i kou makuahine e hoʻōho koke ana a hoʻohewa ana iā ʻoe. E hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole i kuhikuhi ʻia kēia ʻano iā ʻoe iho a i ʻole me ka manaʻo . ʻAʻole ʻo ia, ʻo kona maʻi ke kamaʻilio nei.
ʻAʻole paha e maopopo i kekahi kanaka me ka dementia nā mea no ka mea ua ʻōlelo nui ʻoe a hoʻāʻo paha e koi i kekahi mea. No laila, inā manaʻo ʻoe e nalowale ana kou ahonui, e noi i kekahi e mālama iā lākou no kekahi manawa a hoʻomaha.
ʻO kekahi mea nui ʻē aʻe, "Mai kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia me he mea lā ʻaʻole ʻo ia ma laila." ʻOiai i nā pae hope o ka dementia, manaʻo paha ka mea maʻi e kamaʻilio ana kekahi e pili ana iā ia. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻonāukiuki iā ia, hoʻonāukiuki, a malia paha he paranoia e hōʻeha ana kekahi iā ia.
ʻO ka mea mālama e pono e mālama mua iā ia iho.
ʻO kēia ka mea nui loa. Ke mālama nei ʻoe i kāu mea aloha, ua nui loa kāu hana a hiki iā ʻoe ke nele i kāu hiamoe, nā meaʻai, a me ka hoʻoikaika kino. Akā, pono ʻoe e ʻai pono, hiamoe maikaʻi, a mālama iā ʻoe iho.
He mea maʻamau ka manaʻo hewa, e like me, "Auē, he aha ka mea e hiki mai ana iā Māmā me ka ʻole oʻu?" a i ʻole "ʻO wau wale nō ka mea i ʻike iā Pāpā, pehea lā wau e hele ai i waho?" Akā e noi i ke kōkua mai nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe, nā hoahānau, a me nā hoalauna . Ma kahi o ka manaʻo hewa no ka hele wāwae ʻana, e hoʻomanaʻo hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama pono i kāu mea aloha inā ʻoe olakino a hauʻoli.
| Ma hea e loaʻa ai ke kōkua | Nā lawelawe i loaʻa |
|---|---|
| Nā Halemai Kaiāulu / Nā Halemai Kumu | ʻŌlelo aʻoaʻo lapaʻau, nā keʻena lapaʻau no nā mākua, a me nā lawelawe aʻoaʻo. |
| Nā wahi hoʻomana (luakini, hale pule, kovil) | ʻO ka hōʻoluʻolu noʻonoʻo, ke kākoʻo kaiāulu, a me nā hui kākoʻo. |
| Nā hui pākeke pae kaiāulu | Nā papahana pili kaiaulu, a me nā papahana e hāʻawi ana i ka hoʻomaha no nā mea mālama. |
| Keʻena o nā lawelawe kaiāulu | Nā ʻike e pili ana i ke kōkua aupuni a me ke alakaʻi. |
Mai poina i nā hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi.
E lawe i waho i kahi album kiʻi kahiko. E hoʻokomo i kahi mele kahiko a lākou i aloha ai a hoʻolohe iā ia. ʻO ka hoʻomanaʻo ʻana i nā mea kahiko e like me kēia hiki ke lilo i mea hōʻoluʻolu a hoʻopaʻa i ka ʻike no ka mea me ka dementia a no ʻoe ma ke ʻano he mea mālama iā lākou. E kahaha ʻoe i ka nui o nā hoʻomanaʻo a kāu mea aloha, ʻoiai i nā pae hope loa o ka dementia.
E like me nā maʻi āpau, aia nā lā maikaʻi a me nā lā maikaʻi ʻole. Ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi lā maikaʻi ʻole, e noʻonoʻo, "E ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka lā ʻapōpō." Ke lohe ʻoe i ka huaʻōlelo dementia, manaʻo nā mea a pau i kahi mea i hoʻopaʻa ʻia ma ko lākou wahi moe. Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he nui nā mea e ola ai ma hope o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi maʻi.
Leka Lawe-Home
- He maʻi holomua ka Dementia, no laila e mākaukau no nā loli e hiki mai ana.
- E kōkua i ka mea maʻi e hana i nā hoʻoholo koʻikoʻi e pili ana i ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana, i ka hoʻomaka mua o ke kaʻina hana hōʻoia.
- He mea nui loa i ke olakino noʻonoʻo no ka mea maʻi a me ka mea mālama e launa pū a pili me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
- Ma ke ʻano he mea mālama, e hoʻoikaika i kou olakino ponoʻī . Hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka mālama maikaʻi inā olakino ʻoe.
- Mai lawe pilikino i nā loli o ke ʻano o ka mea maʻi. E hoʻomanawanui a e lokomaikaʻi. E hoʻomaopopo he ʻāpana ia o ka maʻi ponoʻī.
- I nā manawa a pau, inā loaʻa kekahi pilikia, e ʻimi i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a kāu kauka .
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