Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i kekahi manawa ʻaʻole like kāu keiki me ia ma mua? Huhū anei ʻo ia i nā mea liʻiliʻi, huhū mau, a me he mea lā ua luhi i nā mea āna i hauʻoli ai? ʻAʻole paha kēia he mau ʻano maʻamau o ke keiki. E like me nā mākua, hiki i nā keiki ʻōpio ke loaʻa i ke kaumaha, ʻo ia hoʻi ke kaumaha noʻonoʻo. ʻO ka mālama pono ʻana iā ia he mea nui loa ia no ke ola holoʻokoʻa o ke keiki.
Ua ʻike kākou a pau ʻaʻole he manawa hauʻoli mau ka wā kamaliʻi. Ua like ke ʻano o nā keiki me nā kai ʻino. Hiki i ke kai mālie ke lilo koke i ʻino, a laila hoʻi i ka maʻamau e like me ka puka ʻana o ka lā a me ka pā ʻana o ka makani. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole wale ke kaumaha he loli maʻamau o ka naʻau. He maʻi maoli ia e hiki ke hoʻopilikia nui i nā keiki ʻōpio.
He kaumaha wale nō anei kēia? A i ʻole he mea hou aku paha?
"Ua ʻike wale mākou i kēia manawa hiki i nā keiki ke loaʻa i ke kaumaha," wahi a David Fassler, he kauka noʻonoʻo no nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio ma ke Kulanui o Vermont. "I koʻu wā ma ke kula lapaʻau, ma kahi o 20 mau makahiki i hala aku nei, ua aʻo ʻia mākou ʻaʻole loaʻa i nā keiki ʻōpio ke kaumaha."
Akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, loaʻa i nā keiki ke kaumaha. Wahi a ka American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 2% o nā keiki a me 4% a 8% o nā ʻōpio e ʻeha nei i ke kaumaha.
ʻOiai he mea maʻamau kēia ʻano i waena o nā kamaliʻi ʻōpio, he mea maʻamau loa ia i waena o nā ʻōpio. Wahi a nā kānaka noiʻi, hoʻokahi o nā keiki he ʻumi e loaʻa paha i kahi maʻi noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ke kaumaha i ka piha ʻana o 16 makahiki.
Pehea ka hopena o ke kaumaha o ke kamaliʻi i kou ola holoʻokoʻa
Hiki i ke kaumaha ke loaʻa nā hopena koʻikoʻi a lōʻihi hoʻi i ke ola o kahi keiki. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻopilikia i ke ola pilikanaka o kahi keiki, ka ulu ʻana o ka naʻau, a me nā hana kula. Hiki iā ia ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻohana ʻino ʻana i nā mea ʻona.
"Inā ʻaʻole i mālama ʻia, ʻo ke kaumaha o ke keiki e mau ana ma kahi o ʻeiwa mahina, ʻo ia hoʻi ka lōʻihi o ke kau kula," wahi a Fassler. "He mea paʻakikī loa ke hoʻopaʻa i kēlā mau haʻawina i hala."
ʻO ka mea e ʻoi aku ka ʻino o ka pilikia, ʻo ka poʻe i loaʻa i ke kaumaha i ka wā kamaliʻi ua hoʻopilikia ʻia hoʻi e ia i ko lākou wā makua. Ua ʻike ʻia kekahi noiʻi he ʻoi aku ka nui o ka nānā ʻana o nā mākua i loaʻa i ke kaumaha i ka wā ʻōpio i ke ola ma mua o ka poʻe i loaʻa ʻole. No laila:
- Haʻahaʻa kā lākou loaʻa kālā awelika.
- He haʻahaʻa ka nui o nā haumāna puka kulanui.
- Kiʻekiʻe ka manawa kūpono e lilo ai i mea hana ʻole.
- Ua nui aku ka poʻe e hōʻike ana i nā pilikia ma ka hana, ma ke kaiāulu, a ma ke ola ʻohana.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ke kanaka i loaʻa i ke kaumaha i kona wā ʻōpio, ʻelua ka nui o ka hiki ke loaʻa hou i ke kaumaha i ka wā makua ma mua o ka mea i loaʻa ʻole i ka maʻi noʻonoʻo.
Akā, ʻo ka mea i ʻike nui ʻia ma kēia noiʻi, ʻo ia ka nui o ka pepehi kanaka a me ka make. ʻOiai ʻaʻohe make i hōʻike ʻia ma muli o ka pepehi kanaka i waena o ka poʻe i loaʻa ʻole i ke kaumaha i ka wā ʻōpio, 7% o nā keiki me ke kaumaha i pepehi iā lākou iho, a ua hoʻāʻo kekahi 34% i pepehi iā lākou iho.
ʻAʻole kēia he mea e lawe māmā ʻia. Ua maopopo loa he kiʻekiʻe aʻe ka pilikia o nā keiki e ʻeha nei i ke kaumaha i ka pepehi kanaka iā lākou iho.
Pehea ʻoe e ʻike ai i ke kaumaha i loko o kahi keiki?
Hiki i nā mākua ke ʻike i kēia mau hōʻailona ma ka nānā ʻana i kā lākou keiki. Inā loaʻa kekahi a ʻoi aku paha o kēia mau hōʻailona i ke keiki no ka manawa lōʻihi, pono ʻoe e ʻike i ke kauka (kauka) no ka ʻōlelo aʻo.
| Hōʻailona | I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi... |
|---|---|
| Ke huhū a hoʻonāukiuki paha | Huhū au a hakakā pinepine aʻe ma mua. |
| Ke kaumaha mau a me ka manaʻolana ʻole | Kaumaha mau, me ka helehelena ʻinoʻino. Ke kamaʻilio nei me he mea lā ʻaʻohe manaʻolana no kekahi mea. |
| Kaʻawale ʻana o ka nohona | Hōʻalo i nā hoaaloha a makemake e noho mehameha i loko o kona lumi. |
| ʻO ka hypersensitivity i ka hōʻole ʻia | ʻOiai inā ʻōlelo kekahi i kahi mea liʻiliʻi, he mea nui ia i ka naʻau a he ʻeha hoʻi. |
| Nā loli i ka makemake | ʻAi iki aʻe paha, a ʻai nui aku paha. |
| Nā loli hiamoe | ʻAʻole hiki ke hiamoe, a hiamoe nui paha. |
| Ka uē nui a i ʻole ka uē ʻana | E uē koke ana me ke kumu ʻole. |
| Paʻakikī i ka noʻonoʻo ʻana | He paʻakikī ke hoʻolohe i kāu mau haʻawina a me kāu mea e ʻōlelo nei. |
| Luhi a me ka ikehu haʻahaʻa | Luhi mau wau a ʻaʻole makemake e hana i kekahi mea. |
| Nā manaʻo o ka waiwai ʻole a i ʻole ka hewa | ʻŌlelo lākou i nā mea e like me "ʻAʻole oʻu manaʻo", "ʻO koʻu hewa nā mea a pau". |
| Nā manaʻo e pili ana i ka make a i ʻole ka pepehi kanaka | ʻO ka ʻōlelo ʻana a i ʻole ke kākau ʻana i nā mea e like me "Makemake au e make." He hōʻailona koʻikoʻi loa kēia. |
ʻO ke koʻikoʻi o kēia mau hōʻailona e hoʻolilo i ka lāʻau lapaʻau i mea nui. Hiki i ka lāʻau lapaʻau ke komo pū me ka psychotherapy a/a i ʻole nā mea hoʻomaha.
"Ma koʻu ʻike, kokoke i nā keiki āpau me ke kaumaha e pōmaikaʻi ana mai ka lāʻau lapaʻau pilikino," wahi a Fassler. "I ka manawa e loaʻa ai ke kōkua i nā keiki, ua hoʻomaka mua nā hopena lua o ke kaumaha, e like me ka haʻahaʻa o ka manaʻo ponoʻī a me nā pilina maikaʻi ʻole me ka ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha. Pono nā keiki i ke kōkua e hana ma o kēlā mau mea. ʻAʻole hoʻoponopono ka lāʻau lapaʻau i kēlā mau pilikia."
He ʻoiaʻiʻo anei ka makaʻu e pili ana i ka lāʻau lapaʻau? (Hoʻopaʻapaʻa Antidepressant)
ʻOiai ua loaʻa kekahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa e pili ana i nā antidepressants no nā keiki, i ka makahiki 2004, ua hoʻohui ka U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) i kahi ʻōlelo aʻo ikaika i kēia mau lepili lāʻau. Ua kapa ʻia kēia he "ʻōlelo aʻo pahu ʻeleʻele." Ua ʻōlelo ʻia e hoʻohana pono ʻia kēia mau lāʻau lapaʻau me ke akahele no ka mea ua hōʻike ʻia e hoʻonui i nā manaʻo a me nā ʻano pepehi kanaka i nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio.
ʻO ka pahuhopu o ka FDA ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā kauka e makaʻala i nā ʻano pepehi kanaka i nā mahina mua o ka mālama ʻana, akā ua ʻoi aku ka nui o ka hana a ka ʻōlelo aʻo ma mua o kēlā.
ʻOiai ua piʻi mau ka hāʻawi ʻana i kēia mau lāʻau lapaʻau i nā keiki ma mua o kēia ʻōlelo aʻo, i ka makahiki 2005, ua emi ka hāʻawi ʻana i kēia mau lāʻau lapaʻau i nā keiki ma lalo o 18 makahiki ma 20%.
I kēia manawa, makaʻu kekahi poʻe loea olakino noʻonoʻo he hopena weliweli paha kēia: hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hoʻonui ʻia ʻana o ka pepehi kanaka ʻana iā lākou iho i ka wā e pale aku ai nā mākua a me nā kauka makaʻu i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kā lākou mau keiki i ka lāʻau lapaʻau e pono ai.
"ʻOi aku ka pilikia o ka waiho ʻana i ke kaumaha me ka mālama ʻole ʻia ma mua o ka lawe ʻana i kahi antidepressant," wahi a Jefferson Prince, MD, he psychiatrist ma ka Massachusetts General Hospital.
Ua hoʻokumu ʻia ka ʻōlelo aʻo a ka FDA ma kahi loiloi o 24 mau haʻawina i hōʻike ʻia i loko o nā mahina ʻehā mua o ka mālama ʻana, ʻo nā keiki i lawe i ka lāʻau lapaʻau ua pālua ka nui o ka noʻonoʻo ʻana a i ʻole ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e pepehi iā lākou iho ma mua o nā keiki i lawe ʻole i ka lāʻau lapaʻau (placebo). Eia naʻe, ʻaʻohe make mai ka pepehi kanaka ʻana i loko o kēlā mau haʻawina.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ua hōʻike ʻia kekahi mau noiʻi he 2% wale nō o nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio i pepehi iā lākou iho e lawe ana i ka antidepressant i ka manawa o ko lākou make ʻana.
No laila, manaʻo ʻo Mr. Prince he mea maikaʻi paha kēia ʻōlelo aʻo. Ua hoʻāla ia i ka ʻike e pili ana i ka pilikia o ka pepehi kanaka ʻana i nā keiki me ke kaumaha. He mea maikaʻi nō hoʻi ke kamaʻilio ākea me nā ʻohana e pili ana i kēia.
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- ʻAʻole wale ke kaumaha o ka wā kamaliʻi he loli wale nō ia o ka naʻau. He maʻi olakino maoli ia e pono ai ka mālama ʻia.
- Inā ʻike ʻoe i kahi loli lōʻihi i ke ʻano o kāu keiki, ka hiamoe, nā ʻano ʻai, a i ʻole nā pilina kaiapili, mai hoʻowahāwahā iā ia.
- Inā ʻike ʻoe i nā hōʻailona, e nīnau koke aku i ke kauka kūpono (kauka) no ka ʻōlelo aʻo.
- Hiki i ka lāʻau lapaʻau ke komo pū me ke aʻo ʻana a, inā pono, ka lāʻau lapaʻau. Mai makaʻu pono ʻole i ka lāʻau lapaʻau. ʻOi aku ka weliweli o ka loaʻa ʻole o ka lāʻau lapaʻau.
- E hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ke aloha, ke kākoʻo, a me ka hoʻomaopopo. E hōʻike iā lākou ʻaʻole lākou mehameha.
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